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"The nonbinary afab who goes by she/her, dresses femininely, and uses a push-up bra when I—" when you what? What's wrong with her?

Is she not nonbinary enough for you? Is the way she experiences her queerness and how she presents not perfect enough for you? Nonbinary people don't owe you androgyny, right? So why is she the exception? Why does she have to hate herself to appeal to your standards? Why is she any less trans—any less worthy of respect—cause it's "not visible"? Queer solidarity my ass. Don't spout this bullshit on Pride, man.

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look it's me,,,the black tboy

(HE/HIM) 🏳️‍⚧️👍🏾

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Also also, what the hell guys?! Why!!!!???? Why does it have to be about you all the time? Or like, whatever random person you decided is more important in the moment.

God dammit, people having access to porn is important. Sex workers having access to safe infrastructure to work is important.

Zip it!!!! If you don’t mention the people directly affected first I will nibble you!!!!! I’m tired of mother duckers doing this.

If someone is directly in line of a wild fire you mention them first. Basic BASIC. I’ll wrap you in a blanket and hit you with a newspaper like Edna mode till it gets into your skull, into your heart, I’ll slap it into your cells.

Do you want your cells all jacked? Nibbled? Rolled into a burrito and hit with a newspaper?

Not talking to you freaks who liked dommed, you get nothing 🫵. If you don’t care about the people making horny content then you get no satisfaction.

I am constantly hurt by the callousness with which people dismiss the harm of restricting adult content and porn, only concerned about the knock-on effects for queer people and radical political groups. Sex workers ourselves matter just as much as non sex working queer people and leftists.

We are not canaries in the coal mine whose deaths you can dismiss while you frame groups you actually care about as the sole human casualties of these policies. I need you to care that laws like the Online Safety Act lead sex workers to have to return to abusive third parties to find clients or to work in brothels we hate or to such poverty that we starve. I need you to care about payment processors refusing to pay out for adult content because it means sex workers cannot rely on online work when selling sex in-person becomes too much for our bodies or too risky.

Please care about sex workers' suffering, rather than only the fact your favourite queer game was de-listed from itch.io and that you have to use a VPN to access adult subreddits without giving your ID now.

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I really wish that We Bare Bears was more like the comic series it was based on. The comics and tv show are the definition of night and day.

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Because they know I love them

why do all pitbulls have that look in their eyes

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hey whats a gender-neutral word for boyfriend/girlfriend?

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The American Midwest is becoming increasingly dangerous for queer and trans people

A newly released LGBTQ+ equality map by Equaldex ranks U.S. states based on legal protections, revealing stark regional differences.

Eastern and Western states like Washington DC, Massachusetts, and California top the list with scores above 90, while Southern and Midwestern states, including Texas and Tennessee, score significantly lower—at 58, the lowest.

The map uses a scale from 0 to 100, with higher scores indicating stronger legal rights for LGBTQ+ people.

Over the past few years, lawmakers in various states have proposed a surge of anti-LGBTQ+ bills - 598 in 2025 alone - targeting issues like gender-affirming care and LGBTQ+ representation. As a result, more than 40% of U.S. trans youth aged 13–17 now live in states that ban such care.

It is the time for the good people of America to take a stand against this evil.

Source: Pink News. See also: United States LGBT Equality Index

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Gay son? Thought dayter? Or perhaps, nonbinary ass?

my dad agonizing over “gay son or thot daughter”

my genderfluid ass:

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breathe if you agree

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warmups i had a bit too much fun with maybe....

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Revisiting this because I was scrolling my blog. Is this the freak who is racist? They like to post black women and white women fighting so they can see hot, sexy, lustful, fan art of them kissing? Or am I mixing them up …

There are so many horny, chan adjacent, worst kinks on earth that aren’t technically harmful, horrendous person, is some sort of queer, type artist it’s hard to keep up ngl.

Idk if that is this person but thin, sad, disheveled, queer, horny, morally questionable, and androgynous semi self insert characters give off that genre

Sorry if this person is actually nice and not scary at all

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Cars are also just generally good for emergency services, resource distribution, and general freedom in movement around the US. But they really should be used in tandem with trains, trolleys, efficient plane networks, efficient ferries

better traffic measures, better traffic measures/design specifically for emergency vehicles,roads that are made for safety of pedestrians and small vehicles like bikes, better sidewalk infrastructure

better driving education focusing on efficient driving and safety, better design in general to make it easy to get groceries and other shopping, better transportation to and from school

Fuck while we are at it: design things for efficient distribution for cars and trucks

Thing is: all of those things are expensive as hell and just can’t be done very well with the current contractor system. Monopolies used to do stuff like that but they are unstable and can tank economies at any misstep, plus they are money guzzling oppression machines.

Like ig we could beg the state to make some industries government run [like they will listen], but do we really trust American bureaucracy? 😂 Do we truly want state monopolies. Frankly it’s amazing Monopolies in the US were interested in creating infrastructure and doing research, fkn aberration.

The US government ain’t doing that shit at the same level, not better, it would be straight doo doo ass

Btw I don’t mind that work, distribution, and production is so decentralized. It would be amazing if we didn’t having capitalist and monetary incentives running the whole thing. Government also gets hate from me: having distribution networks change and tweaked based on laws from people who have nothing to do with the process is bad actually: not just capitalism, any system that moves the process of human management to tokens is ass, it sucks, it incentivizes bad behavior, competition, and bootyholeatry.

Yeah I’ll say it, fuck gift economies too. Not the social aspect, that’s fine. But I don’t want resources distributed based on kinship and relationships. Little Timmy in Africa deserves to have access to North American products no matter how much you like their village.

and having to go to the weekly tribune hall or to create a fkn meeting (yeah anyone who has to deal with management for projects know what I’m talking about, fuck jira tickets too) is also ass cheeks bad. I will shit on the podium if the people’s protection org [with guns tm] makes me tribune a council to make my sick heritage tomato garden in the empty lot no one is useing.

Distribution and self organization should be based on deliberate decisions from people. Especially those doing the actual work. We should encourage workers, designers, communicators, journalists, researchers, people doing cleanup/maintenance, and orgs to listen to their communities and not become isolated weirdos. Thats a lot easier to do tho without useless systems like government, currency, and rulers.

That rules out a AI running things, a democracy app to make decisions, or like any other weird convoluted solution. That’s right, this evil anarchist wants you to think. Ima gonna get ya 🤪😈

Protecting organizations from dissolution and trying to encourage cohesion is also not aloud. Account for it or suffer. I’ll call god and tell you, she won’t be happy

Gonna have to do actual book keeping, gonna have to talk to people when you want something. You have to actually make good communication and distribution networks intentionally instead of being driven by the shiny. Gonna have to think of everyone else’s survival so you can have things. Sorry man, I don’t make the rules

When you want to make a decision involving other people, you have to talk to them. With language. Bet your shaking in your boots realizing how cool this is or how terrifying

You gotta trust people won’t screw you over, better be nice ig.

Every issue in the community? Your problem now, there are no allocated duties. If there is road kill and there isn’t a road kill lovers group you gotta feel bad every time you pass it. And it smells reaaaaal bad

When someone stabs someone, now it’s everyone’s problem. less you want disastrous blood fueds making everything blow ass. Do you want the blood of horny teenagers on your hands? You want another Romeo and Juliet???

You also don’t get to write the rules for putting stabby lovers in a cell, or banishment. Everytime you kill someone or take away their autonomy you gotta look into their eyes and feel bad, gotta personally go to their jail cell to give them lunch and see them look real sad. Because I said so, stop being a little butthole

Ooop, got a little intense there, the angry anarchist in me started talking. Enjoy this meme I made for your troubles

I genuinely think the mass adoption of the car was probably one of the biggest technological steps backwards in human history

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Fuuuuuuuuuuck, this fucking blows asss!!!!! I knew it was going to breach containment after I saw it on Reddit. I’ve been meaning to do a response and analysis since I follow a wide range of queer people with different opinions on the topic. I got together a discussion group about with trans people from different backgrounds so we could do further analysis and stuff. It’s just a lot to get together the resources and good opinions as well as bad ones. It’s also hell figuring out the timeline of these fights 😅.

I don’t know if I’ve said this in my blog but I want people to know I like the term transandrophobia. There is a good chance that even if you are familiar with it you don’t actually know what it means. I highly just recommend reading the work of the person who coined the term. I don’t like how both transmisogyny and transandrophobia have been segregated into transfem and trans masc experience respectively (and not even by either person who coined the term). But I like both terms. Btw they aren’t mirrors of each other, they have super different meanings.

I will get working on a nuanced response since what I have said hasn’t been very good and doesn’t really touch on the nuance of the situation.

I really hope the trans community, queer community in general really, can break out of the need for control over identity and sexuality. I really think that as a community we need to revisit the work of important influential people who were left behind. And also listen to the parts of the community perceived as strange

the transandrophobia discourse has entered tiktok now. there's a cis man saying "trans man" in quotations to refer to a trans guy that made the most basic take about his own experiences with transphobia, while erasing his transness to mansplain the patriarchy. they really are just mirroring the shit we do here huh

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I’m a nigga so I was gonna reblog anyways 😂. I’m not trans masc but as a nby ppl don’t expect me to have knockers either. Thank you for relatable content

because I like it

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I asked your boyfriend what her pronouns are and she looked away nervously and shrugged and said "i don't really care. anything is fine" so I called her "she" and she blushed a bit and said "thank you" and now she looks distressed and helpless whenever you call her "he" so I'm taking her home with me :)