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Number 8: to see soft snowfall

Reasons to live

Number 1: to eat your favourite food.

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Number 7: to experience a different culture

Reasons to live

Number 1: to eat your favourite food.

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Number 6: to see someone or something grow

Reasons to live

Number 1: to eat your favourite food.

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too many stories about turning yourself into a monster as a metaphor for pretending to be something you aren't and losing yourself in the process. not enough stories about turning yourself into a monster as a metaphor for choosing to openly embrace yourself even if it's strange to other people

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too many stories about turning yourself into a monster as a metaphor for pretending to be something you aren't and losing yourself in the process. not enough stories about turning yourself into a monster as a metaphor for choosing to openly embrace yourself even if it's strange to other people

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𝐼𝑡𝐺𝑖𝑟𝑙 𝑡𝑖𝑝 #𝟾 🎀

· never apologize for being yourself

· never agree to something you’re not comfortable with

· never pretend to like something or hide what you actually like just to fit in

· never neglect you’re wants and needs because you’re too busy catering to someone else’s wants and needs

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: ¨·.·¨ : ‌ ` ·. 🎀

: ¨·.·¨ : ‌ ` ·. if you’re reading this i hope November is good to you. i hope your days get better, brighter, happier and calmer. be kind to yourself & to others and watch how amazing things get. sending love, please accept

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PERSISTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

PERSIST WHEN YOURE BORED AND SCROLLING THROUGH TUMBLR

PERSIST WHEN YOURE TAKING A DOOKIE

PERSIST WHEN YOURE DRINKING WATER

PERSIST WHEN YOURE ANGRY AND DOUBTING

PERSIST WHEN YOU WANT TO COMPLAIN

PERSIST WHEN YOURE EATING

PERSIST WHEN YOURE WATCHING YOUR COMFORT CHARACTERS

PERSIST PERSIST PERSIST PERSIST

affirming, visualization, feeling, states, none of it fucking matters unless you PERSIST

YOU CAN DO THISSSSSSSS

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affirmation #86

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You will not stay stuck in the same patterns forever. You are capable of change. It might be small and you may not be able to see the change day to day, but over time things will get better.

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It's okay if you don't feel hopeful about the future right now. If hope is out of reach, try curiosity instead.

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Idk what trans man needs to hear this but you're NOT evil or disgusting for being a man. You do NOT have to suffer for the sins of the patriarchy committed by cis dudes. Being a man doesn't invalidate the misogyny you experienced growing up or experience now. Being a man doesn't mean you deserve to be isolated. Being a man doesn't mean you're inherently predatory or scary. You didn't "choose" this, and finding your true self is NOT "betraying the community" because you happen to be a man and/or masculine rather than a woman and/or feminine. You ARE allowed to be upset when people "affirm" your gender by malgendering you.

You DO deserve a community that uplifts you. You DO deserve to experience trans joy. You DO deserve to have your voices heard and your struggles recognized. Wanting the bare minimum of solidarity is NOT "making everything about trans men".

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Queer kids deserve to become queer adults. To grow up supported. To go through adolescence finding themselves, instead of going through their 20s grieving the years they weren’t safe and had to pretend to be someone else. To be safely queer before financial independence. Wanting queer youngsters to not have a lifetime of conditioning and trauma to unpack isn’t child abuse, it is literally the opposite. Queer kids deserve to be safe.

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It-Girling 101 :

you are a goddess, act like it

you have to be confident

you are beautiful, smart, talented and so much more. there’s nothing wrong with acknowledging that and being proud of that. if you don’t hype yourself up, who will? take those selfies, say your self love affirmations in the mirror, wear your cutest clothes that make you feel prettiest! you are the sh!t , don’t let anyone make you feel less than, ever

be proud of everything you do, even the “small things” because everything you achieve is an accomplishment, nothing goes unnoticed

speak up for yourself! if you don’t like something or how something is going then let it be known! don’t let anyone take your voice from you

stand strong on your beliefs and don’t let anyone sway you

you have to respect yourself

learn how to say ‘no’ to things that don’t feel right to you, even if it may hurt someone else’s feelings

prioritize your needs and wants! you deserve to be happy, comfortable and have the things you desire

set healthy boundaries and stick to them! have a mindset of, people will respect me and my limits or they won’t be in my life at all, period!

don’t just date or be friends with anyone. surround yourself with people who treat you right, who don’t call you out of your name, who are kind to you, who are gentle with you, who care about your hopes and dreams, who won’t put their hands on you, ever! people who don’t make you feel bad about yourself, people who love you unconditionally, someone who will never treat you like garbage, someone who won’t belittle you

treat your body like a temple and only be with someone romantically because you really want to and have feelings for them and not because you feel pressured to or you think you deserve less than

you have to treat yourself like a prize because you are a prize! don’t forget, the way you treat yourself is how other people will treat you. so walk with pride and make sure your standards are high always 💓

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Number 5: to rewatch your favourite show

Reasons to live

Number 1: to eat your favourite food.