#자전거타는남자

[mmdokkebi]

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[hi9uru]

#강릉중앙시장 #야간라이딩 🚴 #노암터널 멋진 조명과 분위기 그리고, 이마트24와 붕어빵이 거들뿐 ♥ #강릉산책 추천코스. 인친님들♥ 새해에도 건강하고 멋진 하루하루가 가득하시길. 올한해도 #자전거타는남자 3명은 열심히 페달을 굴립니다. . . . #라이딩그램🚲 #자전거동호회 #자전거여행 #자전거타기 #라이딩스타그램 #라이딩사진 #자전거데이트 #자전거라이딩 #라이딩기록 #자전거타기 #라이딩그램 #라이딩 #자전거그램 #자전거 #라이딩🚲 #자전거투어(Gangneung에서) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cnr-jO4BnTE/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[hyunsoohong7]

장마지만 못참고 라이딩으로 하루를시작하니 한주에 스트레스가 모두풀린다. 자전거는 나어게 힐링이다. #trek #marlin #mtbbike #주말라이딩 #자전거사랑🚲 #자전거타는남자 #일요일 #일상 #라이딩🚲 #라이딩그램 #라이딩코스 #라이딩중독 #주말 #자전거라이딩 #자전거타기 #같이타실분 #같이라이딩해요 https://www.instagram.com/p/CRL6oy2Nq75/?utm_medium=tumblr

[kim-seongjoong]

야간라이딩 🚲🚲 겨울에는 패딩을 입고 타야되나 벌써 고민.. 우리집 👉🏻 금강둔치 👉🏻 석장리 박물관 👉🏻 다시 우리집 (𝟙𝟝.𝟛𝕜𝕞) 조금은 자전거가 늘었나?? 마스크 쓰고도 많이 힘들진 않아 빨리 택배 뜯어야지 기대되네 가민 엣지 𝟠𝟛𝟘 #퇴근후라이딩🚴🏻‍♀️ #야간라이딩🚴🌙 #자전거타는남자🚴 #미니밸로 #크리우스마스터d9 #에프터샥골전도이어폰 https://www.instagram.com/p/CUNCk9XvQMU/?utm_medium=tumblr

[pgk1130]

자전거를 타고 달리는 네덜란드 소년들 #netherlands #amsterdam #자전거#자전거타는남자 #공원(Amsterdam, Netherlands에서) https://www.instagram.com/p/BqiqsqUFf1V/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1xgn22coiplc5

[lovemooooooya-blog]

라이딩을 하다가.. 몇장 찍어 보았다.. #순천 #고흥 #고흥금산 #고흥금산라이딩 #라이딩 #자전거타는남자 #운동

[yokboiso79-blog]

Happy Saturday night..with riding.. #자전거타는남자 #라이딩 #swimbikerun #디아크 #강정보 #자전거스타그램

[getbeautytripinfo-blog]

라이더의 갈증을 해소시켜줄 프로팀 물통~! 탁스(tack)물통~! 자전거타는남자/자타남/자전거용품/자전거의류/대구 엘파마/칠곡 알톤 삼천리/대구 도디치/대구 슈퍼피쳐링/대구 산티니/대구 빕숏/칠곡 기왓집옆

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라이더의 갈증을 해소시켜줄 프로팀 물통~! 탁스(tack)물통~! 자전거타는남자/자타남/자전거용품/자전거의류/대구 엘파마/칠곡 알톤 삼천리/대구 도디치/대구 슈퍼피쳐링/대구 산티니/대구 빕숏/칠곡 기왓집옆

                  안녕하세요~ 자전거타는남자 자타남입니다^^

    오늘은 곧 입고될 탁스 물통에 대해 알려드릴려구요~!

  탁스 물통은 유럽팀 디자인을 그데로 살린 물통으로

  라이더분들의 갈증을 시원하게 해소시켜주면서

  멋진 디자인으로 라이더의 필수품으로 자리잡은 모델입니다.

  이제 칠곡 자전거타는남자에서 탁스의 여러가지 물통 디자인을

  만납세요^^

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[hi9uru]

#퇴원 #입원일당 보다 소중한 시간을 위해! 순간 입원일당 100만원의 유혹에 빠질뻔..♥ #한가온한방병원 치료 잘받고, #한약 까지 잘 받고 퇴원했습니다. ♥ 100만원보다 소중한 아이들과 사람들과의 추억을 더 부지런히 쌓아나가겠습니다. 이번에도 참! 느끼는 바 많은 즐거운 #병원놀이 는 이것으로 끝! 처음 쓰러져서 걱정 많이 했는데 다행히 이상무! 디스크도 없는 초건강하다는 말씀에 건강한 몸에 걸맞는 건강한 마음으로 탈출성공♥ . . . #라이딩그램🚲 #자전거동호회 #자전거여행 #자전거타기 #라이딩스타그램 #라이딩사진 #자전거타는남자 #자전거데이트 #자전거라이딩 #라이딩기록 #자전거타기 #라이딩그램 #라이딩 #자전거그램 #자전거 #라이딩🚲 #자전거투어(Gangneung에서) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cl3IUGTJLug/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[hyunsoohong7]

화끈한 " 해장 짬뽕" 한그릇으로 한주 반환점(수요일) 통과! 주말이브로 직행하고 하고픈 꿀꿀한 날씨지만, 힘냅시다! . . 찬란하고 멋진 하루하루를 살아가기 위해 내가 주인공인 삶을 배경으로 얼마나 멋지고 소중한 존재인지 되뇌이며 살아갑시다. (feat. @hyehwa_elin ) . . #해장짬뽕 #해장의교훈 #하루시작🌱 #마음의소리 #자존감 #행복 #멘탈 #일상 #목요일 #먹스타그램 #생각 #자전거타는남자 #데일리 #와인러버 https://www.instagram.com/p/CRC8RbANL2Z/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Words Matter: Why Your Tongue Needs God's Control

Have you ever walked away from a conversation replaying your words, wishing you had said less—or said it differently? If I were to answer that question, yes, I have. We've all experienced that slap-in-the-face moment where we feel like we should have said something differently or even used a different tone of voice.

You see, our words carry weight. They can breathe life or inflict deep wounds, strengthen relationships or sow division. As believers, we are called to reflect Christ not only in our actions but also in our speech. Yet, too often, our words are careless, reactive, or driven by emotion rather than the Spirit. We might excuse it by saying, “That’s just how I talk,” or “I didn’t mean anything by it,” but the truth is—our words reveal the condition of our hearts.

Are you experiencing this area in your walk with God right now? Do you feel convicted about the sin of lacking self-control in your speech? Then this post is for you. Let's explore why our tongues need God’s control, what Scripture says about the power of speech, and how we can surrender our words daily to bring glory to Him.

"Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof" - Proverbs 18:21 (KJV)

Why We Struggle to Control Our Tongue

Controlling our tongue is one of the hardest disciplines in the Christian walk—and God's word doesn’t shy away from saying so. Trust me it has been a tough area in my walk with God and it still is. So Why is it so difficult to control our tongues?

1.Anger In Response

Anger is one of the leading reasons we struggle to control our tongue. When emotions run high, we’re more likely to speak impulsively, letting frustration or hurt drive our words instead of wisdom. This impulsivity can lead to regrettable comments or harsh criticisms that can damage relationships and escalate conflicts. In moments of anger, the desire to express one’s feelings often overshadows the need for thoughtful communication.

As a result, we may lash out, saying things we don't truly mean and failing to listen to the perspectives of others, which only exacerbates the situation and makes it harder to find resolution.

"He that is soon angry dealteth foolishly: and a man of wicked devices is hated" - Proverbs 14:17 (KJV)

Anger can often bypasses self-control and leads to regretful speech. Without inviting God into our emotions, anger can quickly turn our tongue into a weapon instead of a tool for peace.

2. We Speak Before We Think

This is a common thing we all tend to do. In our fast-paced, reaction-driven world, it's easy to speak impulsively, often acting on emotion instead of thoughtful consideration. Whether we're venting in frustration, responding to criticism, or trying to make a point during a heated discussion, we frequently let words fly before pausing to pray or reflect. This tendency can result in misunderstandings or hurt feelings, as we may not fully convey our thoughts or intentions.

"Seest thou a man that is hasty in his words? there is more hope of a fool than of him" - Proverbs 29:20 (KJV)

The pressure to respond quickly, combined with the overwhelming flow of information in our daily lives, makes it crucial to develop the practice of taking a moment to breathe and think before we communicate.

3. Cultural Norms Encourage Loose Speech

From gossip-filled entertainment to sarcastic humor, and online rants, our culture normalizes careless, hurtful, and critical speech. We're surrounded by examples of people speaking their minds without accountability. Over time, we can become desensitized and begin justifying our own harsh or unloving words.

Before I got saved, I was always engaging in gossip with this group of "friends" that I used to have in high school. However, in a turn of events, I ended up being the one who was being gossiped about. Gossiping was one of the few sins that made me realize that I was a sinner in need of a Savior.

When we are surrounded by a group of people who not only gossip but also have arrogant speech, it can affect our walk with Christ. Whether it is a certain person, Tv show, or even an influencer, It is important that we abstain from the things that engages and encourages loose or careless speech.

4. Pride and Self-Justification

Sometimes, we speak harshly because we want to prove a point, defend ourselves, or be heard in the cacophony of conflicting voices around us. In moments of frustration or anger, pride convinces us that our opinion matters more than how we deliver it, leading us to prioritize our emotions over respect for others. This harshness often clouds our ability to communicate effectively, reducing the likelihood of understanding and fostering genuine connections.

"Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones" - Proverbs 16:24 (KJV)

We forget that the impact of our words can linger far beyond the moment, affecting relationships and altering perceptions in ways we might not immediately recognize or appreciate. These words can sow seeds of doubt, resentment, or misunderstanding, ultimately creating barriers where there once was connection. This leaves us to wonder if winning an argument is worth the cost of lost empathy and respect. In such moments, we find ourselves in a precarious balancing act, where the need to express our opinions and assert our viewpoints can sometimes overshadow the need for kindness and understanding.

The Heart-Tongue Connection

It’s easy to think of our words as isolated slips of the tongue, but in reality, they are windows into our hearts. Our speech isn’t just a communication tool—it’s a reflection of our inner life. What we consistently say reveals our true beliefs, feelings, and priorities.

"O Generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil, speak good things? for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh" - Matthew 12:34 (KJV)

Controlling our tongues isn’t just about biting back harsh words or avoiding gossip; it’s about allowing God to transform our hearts. If our hearts are filled with anger, pride, bitterness, or fear, those things will eventually spill out in our speech. But when our hearts are surrendered to the Holy Spirit, our words will begin to reflect love, patience, humility, and grace.

A heart that is submitted to God will not produce words that destroy. If we want to speak life, we need to first invite the Lord to purify our hearts. Real change in our words begins with real change within.

"Set a watch, O LORD, before my mouth; keep the door of my lips" - Psalm 141:3 (KJV)

Why We Should Invite God Into Our Speech

As you can see,our words matter because they have the power to build up or tear down, to reflect Christ or to reflect our flesh. Our speech can be a tool for healing or a weapon that wounds. Because of this incredible weight, we can’t afford to speak carelessly or out of our own emotions. We need God’s help.

Inviting God into our speech is not about being perfect—it’s about being surrendered. On our own, we’re prone to speak from pride, impatience, frustration, or fear. But when we yield our words to the Holy Spirit, He empowers us to speak with wisdom, grace, and truth. Our speech becomes more than just communication—it becomes ministry.

"But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. For by thy words thous shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned" - Matthew 12:36-37 (KJV)

As believers, our words are a witness. What we say and how we say it tells the world something about who Jesus is to us. When we invite God into our speech, we allow Him to use our words to encourage the weary, speak peace into conflict, share the gospel, and reflect His character.

In short, we invite God into our speech because we want our mouths to glorify Him. Our conversations should be filled with love, seasoned with grace, and rooted in truth that Christ truly lives in us.

Practical Steps of Letting God Control Your Tongue

Letting God control your tongue doesn’t happen by accident—it’s a daily choice to walk in step with the Holy Spirit and allow Him to shape both your heart and your speech. Here are some practical steps to help you align your words with God’s will:

1.Start Your Day Off With Prayer

Begin each morning by asking God to guard your mouth and guide your words, allowing you to express kindness and wisdom throughout the day. Taking a moment for a simple, sincere prayer can help center your thoughts and emotions, setting the tone for a more Spirit-led day where you are mindful of your interactions and the impact your words have on others. If you want to learn more about how prayer changes everything, you can learn more by checking out my blog post here.

By inviting divine guidance into your daily communication, you pave the way for more meaningful connections and a tranquil spirit.

"Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer" - Psalm 19:14 (KJV)

2. Pause Before You Speak

Train yourself to pause and ask: “Is this kind? Is it true? Is it necessary?” Taking that brief yet powerful moment of reflection can significantly alter the impact of your words. By considering kindness, truth, and necessity, you cultivate a habit of mindfulness that not only helps prevent hurtful or careless words from slipping out but also fosters deeper, more meaningful connections with those around you.

"He that hath knowledge spareth his words: and a man of understanding is of an excellent spirit" - Proverbs 17:27 (KJV)

This practice encourages you to think about the feelings and perspectives of others before responding, ultimately promoting a more compassionate dialogue when interacting with friends, family, and colleagues. In a world often filled with haste, ensuring that your communication aligns with these three fundamental questions can enhance understanding and emotional safety in your relationships.

3. Fill Your Heart With God's Word

Since your words reflect your heart, regularly filling your heart with Scripture will naturally begin to transform your speech in profound ways. By immersing yourself in the rich truths of the Bible, you cultivate a mindset that values wisdom, kindness, and grace. Memorize verses that speak of these virtues, allowing them to resonate deeply within you.

"Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee" - Psalm 119:11 (KJV)

As you meditate on such Scripture, you'll find that not only do your thoughts begin to shift, but your interactions with others become more positive and uplifting. Let the Word renew your mind and purify your speech, shaping your conversations and guiding your responses in both challenging and joyful situations. This ongoing process will lead to a more authentic expression of love and understanding in all your relationships.

4. Confess And Repent When You Fall Short

No matter how much we love God or desire to speak with grace, we all fall short in our words. We speak too quickly, react out of anger, gossip without thinking, or say things we later regret. However, the beauty of the gospel is that failure isn’t the end—forgiveness and restoration are always available when we come humbly before God.

"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" - 1 John 1:9 (KJV)

Confession is not about shame—it’s about agreeing with God that our words were wrong and inviting Him to cleanse and transform us. It’s an act of surrender and a step toward healing.

When we repent, it means to turn away from destructive speech and to choose to walk in the Spirit. It’s asking God not just for forgiveness, but for transformation—so our future words reflect His character more and more.

When you fall short, don’t hide it or excuse it. Bring it into the light. Pray honestly. Ask for God’s mercy and, if necessary, apologize to those you may have hurt. In doing so, you reflect humility, grow in grace, and give the Holy Spirit room to reshape your heart and tongue.

5. Surround Yourself with Godly Influences

What you listen to, read, and who you spend time with will shape how you speak, influencing not only your vocabulary but also the tone and mannerisms you adopt. Choose friends, mentors, and content that encourage wholesome, Christlike speech, as these influences can nurture a more uplifting and positive way of communicating with others. The more you walk with those who demonstrate self-control, the more self-control you will have over your words.

"He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed" - Proverbs 13:20 (KJV)

By deliberately curating the sources of inspiration in your life, you can develop a speech pattern that reflects your moral convictions and serves as a beacon of light in the conversations you partake in, thereby creating an environment that fosters mutual support and uplifting dialogue among your peers.

6. Practice Speaking Life Daily

Make it a habit to intentionally speak encouragement, blessing, and truth over others. Whether it’s a kind word to a friend or a prayer for a stranger—let your speech reflect God’s love. This also presents a great opportunity to practice speaking with grace, especially when engaging with someone who disagrees with you on a certain topic or someone who doesn't yet exhibit the Fruit of the Spirit of self-control over their tongue. Every day offers a new chance to uplift those around you; small gestures of kindness can make a significant difference in someone’s life.

Consider how a simple compliment or heartfelt message can inspire hope and joy, creating ripples of positivity. Strive to foster an atmosphere of support and compassion, where your words serve as a balm to the weary and as a guide to the lost. By consciously choosing to speak life into every situation, you not only enrich the lives of others but also cultivate a deeper sense of purpose and fulfillment within your own heart.

Conclusion

Our words are not just noise—they are powerful tools that can either bring life or cause harm. As followers of Christ, we are called to a higher standard in the way we speak. Not because we’re perfect, but because we serve a God who transforms hearts, and from that transformation, our speech begins to change.

So my fellow reader, I encourage you to take a moment each day to invite God into your speech. Before you speak, text, or post—pause and ask, “Will these words reflect the heart of Christ?”

Read and reflect on God's Word. Ask the Lord to reveal to you what your speech has been like lately. Allow His Word to shape your heart and transform your tongue. And if you fall short, don’t hide—run to God, confess, and permit Him to continue His work in you

Your words matter. Let them glorify the One who speaks life into you.

Source: Words Matter: Why Your Tongue Needs God's Control

[hyunsoohong7]

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[hyunsoohong7]

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Words Matter: Why Your Tongue Needs God's Control

Have you ever walked away from a conversation replaying your words, wishing you had said less—or said it differently? If I were to answer that question, yes, I have. We've all experienced that slap-in-the-face moment where we feel like we should have said something differently or even used a different tone of voice.

You see, our words carry weight. They can breathe life or inflict deep wounds, strengthen relationships or sow division. As believers, we are called to reflect Christ not only in our actions but also in our speech. Yet, too often, our words are careless, reactive, or driven by emotion rather than the Spirit. We might excuse it by saying, “That’s just how I talk,” or “I didn’t mean anything by it,” but the truth is—our words reveal the condition of our hearts.

Are you experiencing this area in your walk with God right now? Do you feel convicted about the sin of lacking self-control in your speech? Then this post is for you. Let's explore why our tongues need God’s control, what Scripture says about the power of speech, and how we can surrender our words daily to bring glory to Him.

"Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof" - Proverbs 18:21 (KJV)

Why We Struggle to Control Our Tongue

Controlling our tongue is one of the hardest disciplines in the Christian walk—and God's word doesn’t shy away from saying so. Trust me it has been a tough area in my walk with God and it still is. So Why is it so difficult to control our tongues?

1.Anger In Response

Anger is one of the leading reasons we struggle to control our tongue. When emotions run high, we’re more likely to speak impulsively, letting frustration or hurt drive our words instead of wisdom. This impulsivity can lead to regrettable comments or harsh criticisms that can damage relationships and escalate conflicts. In moments of anger, the desire to express one’s feelings often overshadows the need for thoughtful communication.

As a result, we may lash out, saying things we don't truly mean and failing to listen to the perspectives of others, which only exacerbates the situation and makes it harder to find resolution.

"He that is soon angry dealteth foolishly: and a man of wicked devices is hated" - Proverbs 14:17 (KJV)

Anger can often bypasses self-control and leads to regretful speech. Without inviting God into our emotions, anger can quickly turn our tongue into a weapon instead of a tool for peace.

2. We Speak Before We Think

This is a common thing we all tend to do. In our fast-paced, reaction-driven world, it's easy to speak impulsively, often acting on emotion instead of thoughtful consideration. Whether we're venting in frustration, responding to criticism, or trying to make a point during a heated discussion, we frequently let words fly before pausing to pray or reflect. This tendency can result in misunderstandings or hurt feelings, as we may not fully convey our thoughts or intentions.

"Seest thou a man that is hasty in his words? there is more hope of a fool than of him" - Proverbs 29:20 (KJV)

The pressure to respond quickly, combined with the overwhelming flow of information in our daily lives, makes it crucial to develop the practice of taking a moment to breathe and think before we communicate.

3. Cultural Norms Encourage Loose Speech

From gossip-filled entertainment to sarcastic humor, and online rants, our culture normalizes careless, hurtful, and critical speech. We're surrounded by examples of people speaking their minds without accountability. Over time, we can become desensitized and begin justifying our own harsh or unloving words.

Before I got saved, I was always engaging in gossip with this group of "friends" that I used to have in high school. However, in a turn of events, I ended up being the one who was being gossiped about. Gossiping was one of the few sins that made me realize that I was a sinner in need of a Savior.

When we are surrounded by a group of people who not only gossip but also have arrogant speech, it can affect our walk with Christ. Whether it is a certain person, Tv show, or even an influencer, It is important that we abstain from the things that engages and encourages loose or careless speech.

4. Pride and Self-Justification

Sometimes, we speak harshly because we want to prove a point, defend ourselves, or be heard in the cacophony of conflicting voices around us. In moments of frustration or anger, pride convinces us that our opinion matters more than how we deliver it, leading us to prioritize our emotions over respect for others. This harshness often clouds our ability to communicate effectively, reducing the likelihood of understanding and fostering genuine connections.

"Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones" - Proverbs 16:24 (KJV)

We forget that the impact of our words can linger far beyond the moment, affecting relationships and altering perceptions in ways we might not immediately recognize or appreciate. These words can sow seeds of doubt, resentment, or misunderstanding, ultimately creating barriers where there once was connection. This leaves us to wonder if winning an argument is worth the cost of lost empathy and respect. In such moments, we find ourselves in a precarious balancing act, where the need to express our opinions and assert our viewpoints can sometimes overshadow the need for kindness and understanding.

The Heart-Tongue Connection

It’s easy to think of our words as isolated slips of the tongue, but in reality, they are windows into our hearts. Our speech isn’t just a communication tool—it’s a reflection of our inner life. What we consistently say reveals our true beliefs, feelings, and priorities.

"O Generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil, speak good things? for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh" - Matthew 12:34 (KJV)

Controlling our tongues isn’t just about biting back harsh words or avoiding gossip; it’s about allowing God to transform our hearts. If our hearts are filled with anger, pride, bitterness, or fear, those things will eventually spill out in our speech. But when our hearts are surrendered to the Holy Spirit, our words will begin to reflect love, patience, humility, and grace.

A heart that is submitted to God will not produce words that destroy. If we want to speak life, we need to first invite the Lord to purify our hearts. Real change in our words begins with real change within.

"Set a watch, O LORD, before my mouth; keep the door of my lips" - Psalm 141:3 (KJV)

Why We Should Invite God Into Our Speech

As you can see,our words matter because they have the power to build up or tear down, to reflect Christ or to reflect our flesh. Our speech can be a tool for healing or a weapon that wounds. Because of this incredible weight, we can’t afford to speak carelessly or out of our own emotions. We need God’s help.

Inviting God into our speech is not about being perfect—it’s about being surrendered. On our own, we’re prone to speak from pride, impatience, frustration, or fear. But when we yield our words to the Holy Spirit, He empowers us to speak with wisdom, grace, and truth. Our speech becomes more than just communication—it becomes ministry.

"But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. For by thy words thous shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned" - Matthew 12:36-37 (KJV)

As believers, our words are a witness. What we say and how we say it tells the world something about who Jesus is to us. When we invite God into our speech, we allow Him to use our words to encourage the weary, speak peace into conflict, share the gospel, and reflect His character.

In short, we invite God into our speech because we want our mouths to glorify Him. Our conversations should be filled with love, seasoned with grace, and rooted in truth that Christ truly lives in us.

Practical Steps of Letting God Control Your Tongue

Letting God control your tongue doesn’t happen by accident—it’s a daily choice to walk in step with the Holy Spirit and allow Him to shape both your heart and your speech. Here are some practical steps to help you align your words with God’s will:

1.Start Your Day Off With Prayer

Begin each morning by asking God to guard your mouth and guide your words, allowing you to express kindness and wisdom throughout the day. Taking a moment for a simple, sincere prayer can help center your thoughts and emotions, setting the tone for a more Spirit-led day where you are mindful of your interactions and the impact your words have on others. If you want to learn more about how prayer changes everything, you can learn more by checking out my blog post here.

By inviting divine guidance into your daily communication, you pave the way for more meaningful connections and a tranquil spirit.

"Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer" - Psalm 19:14 (KJV)

2. Pause Before You Speak

Train yourself to pause and ask: “Is this kind? Is it true? Is it necessary?” Taking that brief yet powerful moment of reflection can significantly alter the impact of your words. By considering kindness, truth, and necessity, you cultivate a habit of mindfulness that not only helps prevent hurtful or careless words from slipping out but also fosters deeper, more meaningful connections with those around you.

"He that hath knowledge spareth his words: and a man of understanding is of an excellent spirit" - Proverbs 17:27 (KJV)

This practice encourages you to think about the feelings and perspectives of others before responding, ultimately promoting a more compassionate dialogue when interacting with friends, family, and colleagues. In a world often filled with haste, ensuring that your communication aligns with these three fundamental questions can enhance understanding and emotional safety in your relationships.

3. Fill Your Heart With God's Word

Since your words reflect your heart, regularly filling your heart with Scripture will naturally begin to transform your speech in profound ways. By immersing yourself in the rich truths of the Bible, you cultivate a mindset that values wisdom, kindness, and grace. Memorize verses that speak of these virtues, allowing them to resonate deeply within you.

"Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee" - Psalm 119:11 (KJV)

As you meditate on such Scripture, you'll find that not only do your thoughts begin to shift, but your interactions with others become more positive and uplifting. Let the Word renew your mind and purify your speech, shaping your conversations and guiding your responses in both challenging and joyful situations. This ongoing process will lead to a more authentic expression of love and understanding in all your relationships.

4. Confess And Repent When You Fall Short

No matter how much we love God or desire to speak with grace, we all fall short in our words. We speak too quickly, react out of anger, gossip without thinking, or say things we later regret. However, the beauty of the gospel is that failure isn’t the end—forgiveness and restoration are always available when we come humbly before God.

"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" - 1 John 1:9 (KJV)

Confession is not about shame—it’s about agreeing with God that our words were wrong and inviting Him to cleanse and transform us. It’s an act of surrender and a step toward healing.

When we repent, it means to turn away from destructive speech and to choose to walk in the Spirit. It’s asking God not just for forgiveness, but for transformation—so our future words reflect His character more and more.

When you fall short, don’t hide it or excuse it. Bring it into the light. Pray honestly. Ask for God’s mercy and, if necessary, apologize to those you may have hurt. In doing so, you reflect humility, grow in grace, and give the Holy Spirit room to reshape your heart and tongue.

5. Surround Yourself with Godly Influences

What you listen to, read, and who you spend time with will shape how you speak, influencing not only your vocabulary but also the tone and mannerisms you adopt. Choose friends, mentors, and content that encourage wholesome, Christlike speech, as these influences can nurture a more uplifting and positive way of communicating with others. The more you walk with those who demonstrate self-control, the more self-control you will have over your words.

"He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed" - Proverbs 13:20 (KJV)

By deliberately curating the sources of inspiration in your life, you can develop a speech pattern that reflects your moral convictions and serves as a beacon of light in the conversations you partake in, thereby creating an environment that fosters mutual support and uplifting dialogue among your peers.

6. Practice Speaking Life Daily

Make it a habit to intentionally speak encouragement, blessing, and truth over others. Whether it’s a kind word to a friend or a prayer for a stranger—let your speech reflect God’s love. This also presents a great opportunity to practice speaking with grace, especially when engaging with someone who disagrees with you on a certain topic or someone who doesn't yet exhibit the Fruit of the Spirit of self-control over their tongue. Every day offers a new chance to uplift those around you; small gestures of kindness can make a significant difference in someone’s life.

Consider how a simple compliment or heartfelt message can inspire hope and joy, creating ripples of positivity. Strive to foster an atmosphere of support and compassion, where your words serve as a balm to the weary and as a guide to the lost. By consciously choosing to speak life into every situation, you not only enrich the lives of others but also cultivate a deeper sense of purpose and fulfillment within your own heart.

Conclusion

Our words are not just noise—they are powerful tools that can either bring life or cause harm. As followers of Christ, we are called to a higher standard in the way we speak. Not because we’re perfect, but because we serve a God who transforms hearts, and from that transformation, our speech begins to change.

So my fellow reader, I encourage you to take a moment each day to invite God into your speech. Before you speak, text, or post—pause and ask, “Will these words reflect the heart of Christ?”

Read and reflect on God's Word. Ask the Lord to reveal to you what your speech has been like lately. Allow His Word to shape your heart and transform your tongue. And if you fall short, don’t hide—run to God, confess, and permit Him to continue His work in you

Your words matter. Let them glorify the One who speaks life into you.

Source: Words Matter: Why Your Tongue Needs God's Control

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