#𐔌 mya .. rants .ᐟ ֹ ꒱

[myasdrss]

recognizing ur dr as its own reality.

i feel like something that a lot of shifters struggle with (including myself) is recognizing their dr as a real reality of its own. before you say “obviously it’s real, why are you telling me stuff i already know?”, just hear me out. in this reality, people all over the world are doing their own thing and that’s the way it’s always been. people are giving birth, getting into college, fighting with parents, etc. in your dr, it’s the exact same thing. i think so many shifters think of their dr as a place that becomes real once they shift, but that is not the case at all. in this exact moment, your dr is going on as it normally is. people who you don’t even know in ur dr, are going to sleep, falling in love, falling out of love, just like in this reality. i hope what i’m saying makes sense but basically what i’m saying is that your dr doesn’t become an actual reality once you get there, you just become aware of it. and just like this reality, the world doesn’t actually only revolve around you & you’re friends in that reality and everyone around the world will have their own shit going on. people have their own thoughts and their own minds, and even the world is going to have some stuff going on that you didn’t script in just because that’s the way reality is all the time in every universe. that reality existed before you were even born and it will keep existing even after you leave it. the world will always continue to spin even when ur not aware of said reality because the world does not spin around you, of course it seems like that because you’re only aware of yourself, but it truly truly doesn’t.

[myasdrss]

TRUST YOURSELF — learn to shift your own way instead of someone else's !

like everything else in life, shifting is something you “learn” to do on your own. i put learn in quotes because shifting is something everyone knows how to do, it’s just something everyone has to know how to do for themselves. for example, if you’re trying to float in water & you have no idea how, you can’t rely on others for the success of you floating. of course people can help you understand the basics, but whether you float or not is up to you and you alone. and it’s the same way with shifting. other shifters can help you understand shifting aspects and the basics of what it actually is, but the person who’s actually going to be doing the shift, is you. sometimes you’ll try and try and just not get it and it will be frustrating. but when you keep trying and learn what’s right for you and your shifting journey, the attempting will turn into doing. it’s really all about you and what you discover is best for yourself instead of what you see other people doing. everyone has their own journey and every journey is different. learn what’s best for you and not what’s best for someone else.