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daz4i · 1 year ago

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i will say tho i'm p proud of myself for managing to be relatively non judgemental and mostly keeping my tendency to assume things abt strangers at a minimum. ik we all do that but i also know it's not the healthiest thing especially when it just makes me feel worse too, but i've been practicing it for years and i think i'm doing well at it. like even well enough that it's noticeable to other people and they point out how nice it is. i dunno i think it's cool i think it's a good thing abt me

#i work really really hard on being nice and seeing people in a... not negative light when i can ajdkfllhj #i try to go the extra mile to see where ppl may be coming from even if i disagree with them #(not so i can agree. but to humanize them. i think it's important)#and ofc while there are certainly people i still hate or hold a grudge against. the number is lower than it used to #and it does feel better this way i think #and it also feels nice when ppl say i make them feel safe bc i don't judge them #ig i do gotta give props to dbt for helping me with that 😔#but. i did most of the work myself. still doing it. it doesn't end but it gets easier with time #i do recommend trying it. at least with little things. especially if you think of yourself as bitter but want to change it #(feel free to hmu for tips and pointers btw. it might be mostly examples for things to do but it helps get the general vibe)

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