#00red.talks

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its kinda cute how we're all just in one big echo chamber telling each other "ohh honey i'm so sorry :( you should stalk someone nicer" we're way more supportive than a lot of other communities lol

^^^ We understand each other and the need for what we do! Despite being sometimes ‘dangerous’, we can be some of the sweetest.

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made a yandere anon tips blog – it's @mylovehasteeth , and isnt finished yet but i'll get to it hopefully during the weekends, anons are welcome (no dni list, be you)

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Awesome!! I hope everyone sees and follows this one!

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A Yandere tips blog would be amazing. It’s a shame how we suddenly stopped giving out tips to our fellow yans. Honestly, there are so many little yans who are sloppy with their work, It’s embarrassing. I don’t get how you mess up pretending to be an anon.

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I'm not going to lie... I have no idea how you mess that up either LOL. Maybe they type the exact same, liked the darling's blog and the darling put the pieces together? But really, changing typing is the number one thing! Or, just make a whole new account, who knows! A tips blog would be amazing, I need some tips myself too. We can all be better with our craft.

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Red, how would you go about getting rid someone (who's on social media) trying to grab the attention of your darling?

I might need some... ideas

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Make sure you use a VPN, and make it known you take no shit. Multiple accounts, don’t get caught, of course. One can be used to lure them into safety, then send something a little bloody, if you catch my drift. Even better if you know what really bothers them, to send it, say they should really leave your love alone.

Now, I’m a tad excessive—if that much wasn’t obvious! Plugging in their @, hunting for other socials, even better: if they post selfies. Find some nice details, let them know bit by bit that the closer they get to your love, the closer you get to them.

Or just cuss them out. Your pick, your ideas!

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BLOG HIATUS. Asks will be turned back on when I return. Your safe space will be back soon.

IRL YANDERE ANON SUBS

Be your most sick self.

Yandere anonymous submission posting blog, run by a heavy extreme yandere. Anything goes, nothing censored, no profile. Be yourself and know you are always accepted here; we're all free to speak our minds.

No DNI. No arguments.

Want to ask me something directly? Send an ask. I’ll love it. Be obsessed. Be yourself.

Love me, love me, love me.

RED.

#00red.confess - confession tag.

#00red.talks - my statements or replies.

#00red.poll - polls tag.

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I keep accidentally calling him my wife???

What does this mean???

Means he’s your wife.

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🐣: this is not related to yandere tendencies at all but more so identity—but made fun ! I didnt necessarily know who to ask so aa.. forgive me for all these silly questions like this.

hey red and other anons ! If i were to be assigned as a children’s media what do you think i would be? I wear a lot of desaturated colours and twee clothes. I linked what I wore today ! Though i also wear white coquette shirts with flowers and lace. i dont really like pink too much. Its nice but my favourite colour is yellow-green !

Sesame Street, bluey, classic ppg, ppgz, invader zim, my little pony gen4, kret, nu pogodi, carebears, or absolutely anything ! i just need to base myself around.. something.. a character of some kind. A theme. But yeah ! ^^ thank you so much trhtnand i am so so sorry..

also red i think i was wrong and maybe i am a bit sadistic? I think people dying is fun? I do not know if this is a cringe example but if i were in squidgame i would be so happy its so perfect. Childish games mixed with death. I would love to be a guard. Although people yelling isnt fun. I dont like the noise and i get offended when they arent happy. I dont know how to explain it.. but i wouldnt want my beloved to be hurt. I dont enjoy that. I get offended. Its like. ‘Why are you hurting? Why aren’t you happy?’ I dont know aak..

but yeah.. or like i was really happy when i killed the mouse because the squeaks were cute but then got so sad when it actually died.. but at the same time i save beetles from water and give berries to bunnies and have fed squirrels and got to pet them and dogs love me. Is so confusing..

I mean, I suppose homicidality and sadism could go hand in hand, but it really might just depend where your enjoyment of people dying comes from. Is it a sense of power? Is it something to do with empathy? Is it some kind of subconscious revenge fantasy? Questions like that and finding out where it comes from could help you place it all out.

Because sadism and wanting people to die is absolutely not the same thing and sadists shouldn't have an expectation of also enjoying gore and death put onto them. It's always interesting to find out your mind, sometimes!

As for the show you might be like, your outfit makes me think of Max and Ruby, actually... don't know why! Maybe something about the cute little rabbits and how slow paced and comfortable it was. It's just so cute, and in my memory, its painted much more desaturated, like watercolor.

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i can't remember if someone sent an ask like this before, they might have, so im sorry red if this is repetitive!! but do you have any tips for online stalking? im very new to letting myself fully experience my obsession, and i really want to know more about my beloved w/o having them tell me (⁠´⁠ ⁠.⁠ ⁠.̫⁠ ⁠.⁠ ⁠`⁠)

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Hello! Don't worry about asking, I'll help out where I can. First off, some of the anons here made a tip blog, @mylovehasteeth, where yans can submit tips and everything, so make sure to also check that out for extra tips as they keep updating.

As for what I know, it depends on the platform sometimes, but learn your platform well. If it gives notifs for profile views especially. Otherwise, try to look at everything about the account if you can. If you're following them, look at all posts including their old ones (this can be tedious, but you never know what info they revealed about themself in the past). Check archives if you can, and even check Wayback machine in the very slight chance that an older version of their site has been archived there too. (We can be hopeful.)

Of course, check followers and following, if you're able to see either. Any accounts they follow, peek through those to gauge friendship level if any, and see if there are folks you might want to keep tabs on. Along with this, if you can see their posts, see who liked them, and mark down any repeat people, this will give you an insight into who their friends might be, or who you might have to be wary of trying to be nearby them too.

Of course, if you're being anon, then don't like anything. Screenshot or screenrecord it all instead. If you're not on anon or anything, feel free to like as you please! Just avoid the old old posts, because then they'll get a clue you're really stalking through their page. (And you don't want to alert them into deleting old stuff.)

Finally, see if you can cross reference their username/display name anywhere else online too, especially in communities they frequent. Trying to find other accounts can be tough, since some are crafty and use different @'s but it never hurts to check.

Wow, that's long! I hope any of that can be of use to you, and keep it going! Stalking can be tedious, but the thrill of uncovering new things is beyond intoxicating. Good luck, Cherry Blossom!

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“ Y'all treat darlings like shit “ maybe because there’s no such thing as an irl darling? a darling is someone who a yandere loves, you can’t just claim that you are one. anyone who calls themself a darling is just a fetishizer that wants a mentally ill person to obsess over them because they get off on it. i’m so so sick of darlings. A yandere themself is the one who decides who their darling is, it’s not just something you choose to be.

You can be a darling and call yourself one if a yandere is in love with you, and you receive and handle and even enjoy the obsession in a way that isn’t fucked up and just being a fetishizer about it. That’s just what I know.

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My biggest fantasy is keeping my future partner in one room by chaining their ankle to the wall. They’ll never have to do anything other than wait for me and think about me. I’d do anything I wanted to them, and let them do whatever they want to me in return. Maybe they’d be so angry at me for kidnapping them that they’d hurt me. While I’d want them to be happy, I also really really want that. I don’t care if they love me or hate me more than anything else, as long as they feel something for me.

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Red seal of approval. Love this one, me too.

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For the anon who said cheating is filthy/disgusting...I know. I'm not actually cheating. It's complicated, so complicated. I'm aromantic, anyway, the partner I was referring to is my qpr. Besides, even if I was, it's not exactly like we can choose our darlings, can we?

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You can't choose your darlings, but there is something different about just going around not communicating with your QPR when you have a "sub" and a darling. The important thing is that they know about each other, or that your QPR, which is an established pairing, is okay with you having other people in some type of way. Poly, open, whatever. You can be aromantic, but it doesn't absolve you from commitment or being unable to cheat or anything, you know?

Which is why I said you'd need to give way more context before just dropping some kind of non monogamous relationship pattern. Even I assumed cheating at first.

Then, "even if I was" is fucking disgusting. Cheating is filthy, and I'd feel horrible for your QPR if you're defying the commitment you have with them to cheat with someone else. There is something different about having an FP or being obsessed/attached to someone vs also being in love with them even if they are your FP. "Darling" has pretty romantic undertones here, so makes sense we're assuming it's romantic feelings. If you're cheating, rot. If you're not, then you need to figure out what is important to you, don't keep folks you don't care for, and get a hold of yourself.

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Trying something new, an Anon suggested polls! This one will be yandere related.

Giving this a shot and seeing how it fairs. You guys can always leave suggestions of questions and topics to be polled or asked!

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Hello, I hope its okay to ask for help on here ? If not please ignore my ask.

But I have a blog where I post classic yandere shenanigans - and I never had any problems with anyone that came across my blog, and decided to talk with me, always had good experiences, until now.

Someone started talking to me after finding my blog and they have been hinting / making it obvious that they like me / are 'obsessed' with me (we only spoke a few times and i just don't feel attracted to them - as much as I talk about how much I want a relationship) and I do not know how to reject them kindly.

They also describe themselves as a yandere from what I have understood and I know how it hurt to be rejected (in particular from someone you like when you are a yandere). I wouldn't mind staying maybe friends with them - but I know it will never go beyond that on my end. I won't lie and say I don't like their attention but I don't want to lead them on (because that's not something good and I know I'd hate to be on the other end).

I'd like any help I can get on how to deal with that situation. It is the first time I have to reject someone - a few of my past relationships have happened because I couldn't reject my ex's when they confessed and I do not want to be in another relationship I don't want to be in (and in the process hurt both myself and them).

Explain that you understand they are obsessed with you, but that you simply don't feel the same way. You can add what you said yourself: that you could be friends with them, but that it won't get any further from that. That you can appreciate them and their attention in a platonic way, but it won't end up romantic for you, and that you aren't intending to hurt or lead them on in any way.

You can sympathize by saying you understand rejection is difficult, and you're sorry for any pain caused, but you want to be honest to them and avoid any more hurt that could come from the future.

You don't have to talk about your past with rejection and such, but you can if they ask or if you think it'll help them understand why you're not seeking a relationship and such. I hope that helps! Good luck, Anon.

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do u have any tips 4 cyb-stalking? i have his face, first name, birthday & state he lives in but nuthin else :((

Hmmm... not easy, but some sites are bound to run off birthdays and names. You've got his birthday, so you have age, and thus a narrowed search. Go for his state, try to see if you can search up "Name"s in "State". Or, "Name"s born in "State" on "Birthdate". Do you see what I mean?

Of course sites made to narrow these for you would help, a previous Anon suggested: FaceSeek, PimEyes, and Social Catfish! I hope those three can give you something for sure.

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Hi Red, is it normal to be afraid of what I need and want? Obsessive love is intense. I live for it and need it like oxygen but it can be a little scary. I accept the fear though, it is part of this pure love ❤️‍🩹

Yes! In a way. Usually, that fear comes from trauma and such, but it is really common! Love itself really can leave you vulnerable, and obsessive love is even that much more intense, which makes it a little scary to think that every part of you can be found, hunted down, and seen. Even parts you're ashamed of, which is what can really set some people off and scare them. It's normal. It can happen. Just always know that the one who loves you most will never leave you for every part of you displayed at their feet. They'll pick it all up, and sew you together with kisses.

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does anyone have any advice on how to be more comfortable with your obsession? or to stop worrying about others possible perception of it? every time i start to obsess and fantasize about things, i berate myself in my mind, saying that i am a bad person or that i’m too much to be loved

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Try to remember that your thoughts are your thoughts, they are private and all yours. Your actions would dictate more who you are as a person, and on top of that, obsession is not something you chose. If you excuse others for dealing with and struggling with obsession, try to remember that excluding yourself from that comfort doesn't make any sense. You deal with the same issues as them, why pick yourself out like you're suddenly different? You deserve just as much comfort and care to know that your obsession is natural, that it's okay, that you're okay, and that you deserve to love however you love. It can always be worked with and managed, but never deserving of shame.

Consistent self reassurance, reframing how you think and talk about yourself, and making sure you aren't excluding yourself from support and comfort for no other reason that to just have a 'good excuse' to berate yourself. You got this, Arrow.