#BLAHHHH

[felicitea-art]

peridot vs hyperrealistic typewriter

[bigfatboogiewoogie]

Bros trying to read 💔💔

[tammytonya]

Some stupid sketch i made , nana and kitty on date or something like that :p

[kalied0skull]

SIR ARE YOU DOIN ART FIGHT THIS YEAR

EVERYONE KEEPS ASKING ME AND I FEEL SO BAD WHEN I TELL THEM NO 😭

i have indeed unfortunately already answered this question though,, i truly do wish i would be ... but unfortunately ... sighs ... my adhd refuses to let me do ANYTHING fun ☹️

[anarchohannibalism]

trying so hard to be one of those hopeful people with endless capacity for optimism, but i am so inclined to cynicism, skepticism, and generally being a miserable bastard all the time. is there like a pill i can take for this or something

[luminarytex]

birthday drawing for my prince (i’m late i know i was lazy and it shows)

[vixendoesstuffz]

Guess who’s finally got Tumblr Back!!!!!!!!!!!!

fuck yeah, more tf2 and mcsm for meeee

[givemedamage]

cursed quadruped jj

[sewicidalskinnygrl]

i’ve never drank before is it fun

[boogermuscles]

i just need to have NASTY lesbian interactions and then maybe things will be ok

[kalied0skull]

It actually went well ^^ I might need to get braces tho

inboxing

MMMAAJOR LATE REPLY, BUT HOORAY TO THAT ?!! glad ur appointment went well !! :D

i mean braces suck but HEY !!! whatever helps honestly !!! 🙂‍↕️

[looker-bureau]

Can everyone pray for me to get this cat that's available for adoption tomorrow like im dying I need him

[vainvex]

having trauma related to someone being absolutely horrible when i tried to have boundaries or say no makes it a liiiittle hard to see the posts about how "if you didnt communicate you were uncomfortable it's your fault" because man. every time i tried to do that w this one guy was like diffusing a bomb. it wore me down and convinced me that if i said no he'd hurt himself like he kept saying he would. some people are simply not safe to say no to or communicate your discomfort to because they'll weaponise it against you. and to be frank i don't think it was my fault anymore for not communicating well enough to somebody set on not listening because they just wanted their way. like if somebody coerces you into sex bc theyre acting like they otherwise might do something dangerous it is not your faultttt that you were treated like shit. sometimes people will wear your boundaries down until they can get their way no matter what, and even trying to communicate doesn't work and only leaves you feeling worse or even wrong for being upset in the first place because of how they respond.

i know these are extenuating circumstances and not what those posts are about exactly but it also makes me think about how it IS exactly the excuse he was using. i was even overapologising and blaming myself for it after everything and saying i didnt uphold my boundaries well enough but man some people ERODE them and act like it's your fault. and no, they're not good people to stay around or be with, but relationships are complicated and nobody enters one intending for this to be the result lol sometimes youre trapped with someone whose behaviour has changed or worsened over time! and sometimes things arent so cut and dry as "if you dont tell them youre uncomfortable it's your fault" because over time it gets to a point where the other person has taught you that doing so means danger. and you "let more slide" (< i.e, feel you must tolerate it) because the alternative IS worse. it isn't good or healthy, but it's the reality of the situation.

i'm not saying those posts are bad. i have had to intentionally re-teach myself the communication skills that they're talking about, and constantly need to remind myself that most people AREN'T like that. but if anyone else has been in a similar awful situation before i guess i just wanted to say it isnt automatically your fault, actually.

[spookycatzzz]

new oc

[teethands]

one of thos nights. where i miss my love

[aewfanclub]

Hell nah -.-