#DIVORCEE

[katsettee]

This is something really old that I drew before the S4 special, I was really hoping for some flashbacks w/ these two and it tbh I wasn’t far off. Just not as sorrowful ofc

Fun fact the reason I didn’t post this literally months ago was because I had dialogue planned but then I never wrote it down… 💀

I remembered just now almost half a year later 👍

[olivesribbons]

No one called you bitch. Are you dumb?? If you expect anything from me you better stop acting up and be the type of wife I want.

Damn what a lame husband to have. One who I can not expect anything from!! Y’all I fear this marriage won’t even last 48h?? Hubby hit my DMs, we cannot argue like this in publicccc

[theaenetworks]

The emerging marital trend ‘silent divorce’ is experienced by married couples due to emotional disconnection but still stay together for financial reasons or for the purpose of co-parenting. Many marriages kick off on good note, as they tend to carry along the aura from relationship to marriage, but when they began to go through rough patches, it tastes the veracity of their emotional connection and how they navigate through. Married couples implore different strategies to help themselves, but when it is not clicking, it further depends emotional disconnection, and there could be no way back to the track. It could spark from grudges held for so long, which is far away from dialogue.

Silent divorce slowly creeps in when communication becomes difficult, especially after arguments, leaving situations unresolved. Talks become minimal and emotion becomes less, the connection and security of love loosen its grip. It reaches its climax when couples began to sleep in a separate rooms, and over time they began to get comfortable with staying apart, and only come together for financial expenses or for kid’s wellbeing. What comes next is the step to start and finalise divorce proceedings which often comes later as the straw that breaks the camel’s back, and they only become strangers living together.

Silent divorce occurs when you’re not legally separated from your spouse, but you’re emotionally, mentally and physically disconnected from your spouse. People neglect the tiniest details of their marriages, which opens up to bigger issues, and at that point it is difficult to link the problems and address it. When all these gaps open up and it is not addressed, it leads to silent divorce. All the couple goals and shared vision and desired destination will be put to stop, inside marriage, goals and vision will be individualised and personalised, and it further widen the cracks.

It can come from lack of sexual relationship, when couples struggle to have intimacy, which may spark from lack of availability of one spouse or making excuses to evade it, it leads to emotional detachment. They see each other more like co-parent not necessarily husband and wife, and it just hit the rock bottom with this situation. It is understood that marriages cannot be lovey-dovey all the time, sometimes emotional tiredness can creep in, arguments can open doors for learning each other, if they sit down to talk about it. It can be chaotic atmosphere for children that are involved, as they will struggle to process the whole thing or may even lead them into taking sides.

https://anthonyemmanuel.com/the-rise-in-silent-divorce-creating-emotional-disconnection/

#divorcing #divorce #divorcee #emotionalscars #emotionalhealing #EmotionalJourney #emotional #EmotionalIntelligence

[vertigoartgore]

Movie still from Donna Deitch's Desert Hearts (1985).

[movieassholes]

I see him constantly. He walks into the house without even knocking.

Will Stubbs - My Blue Heaven (1990)

[pastelpinksoda]

[theaenetworks]

When you go through that moment of divorce, there are a lot that comes from that situation, the feeling of dejectedness will preoccupy your mind, then it will constantly be a worry and burden to carry, and remind you, how you have let yourself down. It is moment of going through your mental list, and the question that often posed is that a broken glass can never be put together again or maintain its original state, a smallest attempt to do that will leave your hands flowing with blood. You cannot count yourself out in such situation, the room is wide to reinvent yourself and to be a better person by returning to the basis and fix it from the very scratch.

Your sanity is very indispensable, you cannot let the situation to run you over, standing on that point of view and to fight a worthy cause. You have to know your person, but when these little details are neglected it will leave a broken marriage, but it is not fatal, the world does not stop from there, you can’t write yourself off. You have to start that self-assessing talk, going into your subconscious mind to evaluate what has transpired, you have to show courage and resolute to go all out, and don’t let your vulnerability at that time to overwhelm you, stepping outside of your own self will trigger moment of clarity.

You have to first, accept your vulnerability before you can go forward; finding the requisite tool to reinvent yourself. Going through divorce can not only have psychology effect, lack of family support and the thought of raising kids alone, will definitely be the predominant topics. It is about character and the willingness to step outside that zone, it can be choking at that time, you need the breathe to free yourself, what you cannot doubt is the power you have to pull through during those moments, once it is a worthy cause don’t get daunted, it is about where your life is going to be after the divorce.

The struggle of single parenting creates that unstable atmosphere where kids used to see both parents listening to them and taking care of them, all of sudden one is no longer there, as feeble as their minds and reasoning are, they will feel that one who is always around adore them more, and the other care less about them. Children can be used a machinery to frustrate the process, especially for a partner who is leaning towards that lane to make it difficult. There have to be terms put together, where the kids will be prioritized.

You need to start listening to yourself again, it is hard when you have detached from your own self, and just be a person that has nothing to do with your existence. You cannot let yourself to go into extinction, to reconnect and move forward, you need a proper conversation with your younger self full of hope and dreams, that’s where the energy is going to come from, returning to the basis and start creating that beautiful goals and more eager to attain it now. There are memories that you are going to take along with you, but you have to learn how to wither away the storm.

https://anthonyemmanuel.com/why-there-are-high-chances-for-divorcees-to-reinvent-themselves/

#relationshipadvice #relationshipgoals #divorce #divorcee

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[alabs1]

Marry Me Off To My Old Lover, Divorcee Begs Court

A divorcee, Aisha Zubairu, on Tuesday prayed a Shari’a Court sitting at Magajin Gari, Kaduna State, to marry her off to her old lover, Aminu Saminu. The complainant had dragged her father, Zubairu Surajo, to court over his refusal to allow her to marry the man of her choice because of an old grudge. “I am a divorcee and I want the court to confirm my right to choose a spouse. Saminu and I had…

[theaenetworks]

The emerging marital trend ‘silent divorce’ is experienced by married couples due to emotional disconnection but still stay together for financial reasons or for the purpose of co-parenting. Many marriages kick off on good note, as they tend to carry along the aura from relationship to marriage, but when they began to go through rough patches, it tastes the veracity of their emotional connection and how they navigate through. Married couples implore different strategies to help themselves, but when it is not clicking, it further depends emotional disconnection, and there could be no way back to the track. It could spark from grudges held for so long, which is far away from dialogue.

Silent divorce slowly creeps in when communication becomes difficult, especially after arguments, leaving situations unresolved. Talks become minimal and emotion becomes less, the connection and security of love loosen its grip. It reaches its climax when couples began to sleep in a separate rooms, and over time they began to get comfortable with staying apart, and only come together for financial expenses or for kid’s wellbeing. What comes next is the step to start and finalise divorce proceedings which often comes later as the straw that breaks the camel’s back, and they only become strangers living together.

Silent divorce occurs when you’re not legally separated from your spouse, but you’re emotionally, mentally and physically disconnected from your spouse. People neglect the tiniest details of their marriages, which opens up to bigger issues, and at that point it is difficult to link the problems and address it. When all these gaps open up and it is not addressed, it leads to silent divorce. All the couple goals and shared vision and desired destination will be put to stop, inside marriage, goals and vision will be individualised and personalised, and it further widen the cracks.

It can come from lack of sexual relationship, when couples struggle to have intimacy, which may spark from lack of availability of one spouse or making excuses to evade it, it leads to emotional detachment. They see each other more like co-parent not necessarily husband and wife, and it just hit the rock bottom with this situation. It is understood that marriages cannot be lovey-dovey all the time, sometimes emotional tiredness can creep in, arguments can open doors for learning each other, if they sit down to talk about it. It can be chaotic atmosphere for children that are involved, as they will struggle to process the whole thing or may even lead them into taking sides.

https://anthonyemmanuel.com/the-rise-in-silent-divorce-creating-emotional-disconnection/

#divorce #divorcing #divorcee #relationshipgoals #relationships #emotionalintelligence #emotional

[nimwenthevampire]

GRANDMOTHER just told me to stop renovating the attic for my dark purposes but do I not pay my fucking rent every month? How much more does she want from me, exactly? I pay my rent, I basically own the house and I can make all the renovations I want. Grandmother is just jealous because I am IMMORTAL and she is DIVORCED

[cain-sawyer-son-of-the-saw]

As someone whose parents are divorced, one of which handled the divorce in the worst way possible…

- Made me be therapist

- Made me be a messenger between parents

- Tried to turn me toward hating the other parent who had been my best friend all my life

… I can’t stress this enough. It hit me hard and I was a grown adult when it happened. The biological children of the divorcees, no matter their age, need understanding, patience and support because while the parents are grieving a heartbreak, their kids are grieving the loss of their sense of “home” and “family”. As an after effect of the things that parent did, I’m only fairly recently really getting the space and time to process what happened and I am having to juggle that processing with getting acclimated to feeling like I have two families, not completely belonging to one or the other. It’s hard. I’m home but I can’t feel it. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. Not other adults and especially not kids.

[johndichbolov]

THE DISTANCE BETWEEN ME AND IVANAS HEART STAYS THE SAME. I SHOULD BE WITH HER!

[seemabhatnagar]

"Victory for Justice: High Court Orders Issuance of Widow Identity Card to Parvathamma"

Smt Parvathamma v. The Joint Director, The Sainik Welfare & Resettlement Department

Writ Petition 416/2024

Before the High Court of Karnataka

Heard by Hon’ble Mr. Justice M Nagaprasanna J

Order: The writ was allowed on 22.03.2024 & direction was given to the Respondent Department to issue a Widow Identity Card within two weeks from the date of receipt of the order copy, it was also declared by the Court that the petitioner is entitled to all the benefits that will flow from the Widow identity card.

Facts

Smt Parvathamma-the petitioner was the wife of L Ramakrishna was Ex-Serviceman from the Army. The marriage was solemnized in the year 1987. The couple had a daughter from their marriage who is now 28 years old. Most of the time the husband of the petitioner remained on duty and used to come home for two months in a year. Husband took VRS in the year 2006. Since the husband of the petitioner started living at home he began to quarrel with the petitioner on every small thing. When it became difficult for the petitioner to tolerate, she filed a complaint with the police, and in retaliation the husband filed a petition for the dissolution of a 30-year-old marriage against the petitioner.

Family Court issued notice to the wife since the wife didn’t appear, Family Court proceeded Ex parte and passed Exparte Divorce Decree. When the petitioner came to know about the Ex Parte Divorce Decree she filed an application for setting aside the Ex-parte order. The application was pending for hearing before the Family Court.

Before the Ex-parte order could be recalled, the husband of the petitioner died. As such another application was filed in the Divorce Petition for dismissing the petition as abated. Thus, there is no decree of divorce.

Since there is no decree of divorce existing as such the petitioner filed a representation with the Sainik Welfare and Resettlement Department for the issuance of an Identity Card to the petitioner as Widow of Ex-Serviceman.

The card was denied to the Petitioner by the Department as she is no longer the wife of the Ex-Serviceman since she is Divorced during the lifetime of the Ex-Serviceman.

Submission of the Counsel of the Petitioner

1.      The husband of the petitioner filed a Divorce petition as his brothers pressured so that the share of the petitioner was siphoned off. Ex-parte decree of divorce is no decree in the eye of the law as when the petitioner came to know about the Ex-parte order, she immediately filed petition for recall of the order of divorce.

2.      The divorce petition was dismissed as abated.

3. Wherefore, the petitioner is entitled to an identity card for being the widow of an ex-serviceman.

Submission of the Counsel of the State

1.      The Deputy Solicitor General of India, Sri. H. Shanthi Bhushan in all fairness submitted that the ex-parte decree of divorce, cannot be acted upon and the petitioner being a widow is entitled to the identity card for all the benefits of the Ex-serviceman.

2.      As the proceedings in the Divorce Petition are dismissed as abated.

3.      It is the discretion of the Court to grant relief to the petitioner or otherwise.

Observation of the Court

1.      Any widow of an Ex-serviceman who dies, becomes entitled to a widow identity card, and several benefits would flow from the card being granted to a widow.

2.      The decree of divorce does not even exist as the petition is itself dismissed as having abated.

3.      At the outset, the decree was an ex-parte decree, which, save in exceptional circumstances, is no decree in the eye of the law.

4. Viewed from any angle, the stigma of divorce cannot be permitted to be hanging on the head of the petitioner for her to be denied of any benefit, of being a spouse of ex-serviceman.

5.      What the respondent ought to have had is, lots of empathy and little sympathy towards the petitioner, as on the death of the husband, the sole breadwinner of the family, the wife and family are driven to the grave, impecuniosity and would be condemned by penury.

6. The plight and plea of the widow are blissfully ignored by the respondent; the respondent ought to have, without driving the petitioner to this Court, issued a widow identity card, as was sought.

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The Idea of Being Solène

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