#I HATTTTTEEEE THEM

[a-star-is-here]

melvik pre-canon kisses

[mixyyyx3]

lightblub brushes paintbrushes hair becuase im homopobic /silly

[fredheads]

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my dark side is just that im a dick sometimes in private. also that tumblr wont stop putting fetish content on my "for you" because of what i sent briana lmao help!!!

tagging @nadjaofstatenisland @gardenerian @fuckronanlynch @paranoidbean

[silly-litttle-writer]

I have feelings about Aegon and since we’re all waiting for season two I’m gonna rant for a bit.

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I’d like to talk about Alicent in the Green trailer saying something along the lines of “do you understand how much has been sacrificed to get you on the throne?” to Aegon and how low key manipulative that line is.

She knows Aegon doesn’t care about the throne but he does care about being burdensome to his family and that’s why the line most likely weighs heavily on him, we don’t quite know how he reacts from it but from the little bit in the trailer the line does affect him.

This is Aegon having to literally be dragged to his own coronation! This is Aegon trying to flee to Essos to avoid a war over the throne he doesn’t want or feel he is worthy of and ALICENT HAS THE AUDACITY TO SAY THAT TO HIM?! HE DIDNT WANT THIS! HE ACTIVELY TRIED TO AVOID ALL OF IT BECAUSE HE HATED THE IDEA OF TAKING THE THRONE SO MUCH HE WAS WILLING TO GIVE UP BEING A PRINCE! HE DIDNT ASK FOR ANY OF IT AND YOU’RE GOING TO USE THAT TO EMOTIONALLY HURT HIM?! Like I’m grateful the show is showing that side of her cause that is book accurate Alicent but I hattttteeee how Aegon is treated in the show and by the fandom.

I hatttteee that certain characters are deemed sympathetic and oh no poor them (Viserys) while others are not graced with an ounce of sympathy or most importantly empathy (Aegon). Is Viserys entirely bad? No, I hate him but I do not believe he has no redeeming qualities. He loved Aemma and he unfortunately realized his greed for a son was less important far too late, after he killed his wife for a son, does he love Rhaenyra and (sometimes, it’s rare cause Viserys is a coward by nature) stand up for her? Yes, but he is far less sympathetic than CHILD (say whatever you want about adult Aegon but child Aegon deserves none of what he is given) Aegon in my mind I will take no criticism on that. Viserys actively created the toxic environment he is surrounded by, if he’s suffering it’s of his own making. Aegon was a child for a bit of this nonsense and had absolutely no control over what happened around him.

Aegon is the son VISERYS FORCED TO EXIST. He manipulated (softly which is why people like Viserys more than like Larys Strong for example) but he still MANIPULATED (show Alicent not book Alicent cause book Alicent is the one who seduces him and manipulates him) Alicent into marrying him at 15, forcing her to have his children as she can’t deny her husband AND THE LITERAL KING. He wanted a son so badly he carved his first wife up to try to save the son that was killing her, this failed and so he forced Alicent to give him that son and then ONCE AEGON IS NO LONGER CUTE OR EASY TO LOVE HE TOSSES HIM ASIDE. He becomes completely and utterly absent in Aegon’s life and that’s not even talking about how little he cares about Helaena, Aemond, or Daeron, Daeron who was literally shipped off to another part of the continent. He does not care for Aegon, he doesn’t guide him, does not instruct him and teach him the ways of the world. Instead Aegon is stuck with having to rely on Criston “I bash in people’s skulls cause I can’t control my anger and I can’t get over the girl I fucked ten years ago” Cole and Otto “I view women as literal incubators for sons” Hightower, alongside Alicent “I’m a hypocritical coward who will damn and literally terrorize any woman who tries to find a way to cheat the patriarchal society instead of using my power as Queen to make my children’s lives better than my own” Hightower. These same people teach and raise him. One, they teach him to not regulate or handle his emotions. Two, they frequently and repeatedly beat and verbally insult him for just saying I don’t want to challenge my sister for a throne that isn’t mine. Three, teaches him and enables the toxic and sexist mentality perpetrated by the society that they live in that women are things to use and abuse by men and that consent does not matter to him because he is not only a man but a prince and she has no real right to deny him.

Why do you think Aegon grows to be an abuser? Because he was never taught anything else. His bad behavior was enabled or even encouraged, with only slight punishment from the same woman who literally paid his victim hush money to not tell people that her son forced himself on her. She stands there telling the girl her son forced himself on that “I understand” and “It’s not your fault” and then LITERALLY PAYS HER HUSH MONEY TO SHUT UP ABOUT IT AND GIVES HER WESTEROSI BIRTH CONTROL! THEREFORE ENABLING AND ALLOWING THAT BEHAVIOR AND SHE ACTS LIKE SHE HAD NO PART TO PLAY IN WHY HER SON BECAME AN ABUSER!

He is exactly your son. He is the son you chose to raise. Aegon wasn’t born like this, YOU MADE HIM LIKE THIS AND THEN DESPISE AND CURSE HIM FOR IT. He never had a chance to be anything else, he was doomed from the start and that is why I empathize more with Aegon than Viserys. Do I feel bad that Aegon was slapped and called out for forcing himself on a girl? No, he should have been properly punished. He should have been punished for that kind of behavior a LONG time ago. But that’s exactly the problem, Alicent doesn’t punish him for this behavior and then gets upset when he continues doing it. You created the “monster” in front of you and then are shocked when he does monstrous things. You made your own bed and now you refuse to lie in it and instead choose to frequently and repeatedly abuse, terrorize, and antagonize those who refuse to participate (Rhaenyra) in the system that turned you into a victim and your son into an abuser.

[cicaedahums]

I hateeee the discussion about The Male Lonliness Epidemic in part because it just isn't even a unique feature to them, NONE of that is a unique feature to men like EVERY SINGLE talking point is something that is expected over everyone else too (even as said everyone else is derided for it as well btw. "Being (over)emotional" comes to mind).

The fact that men don't have close friends? Something that's been a Known Thing for everyone else in part bc of expectations thrust upon them once they enter partnerships w men.

There's more, there IS more and it IS documented but gdi im not even kind of an expert and im fighting a headache behind one of my eyes but i just HATTTTTEEEE this conversation so much. It's only an epidemic now bc it's something that's finally REALLY caught UP to men, not bc it uniquely affects them and I'm fukkin tired of even having to entertain this as a Unique Phenomenon Worth Tackling Unto Itself

[mail-me-a-snail]

hii, 5, 6 and 10 for the art ask game? i absolutely loove your art!!

5. least favorite thing to draw

i answered this already here but ill add that i HATTTEEEE drawing legs. like i like drawing shoes and pants and all that but i HATTTTTEEEE drawing legs i cant think of how to make them look pretty like i do arms ;n;

6. warm colors or cold colors

WARM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

10. how many different sketches do you usually have until your piece is finished

depends rlly on the complexity of the piece ? if i really need something to be Exact, ill sketch it over and over until i land on a composition i like. ill reblog this ask with a proper picture of it, but i did a lot of thumbnails and initial sketches of my saint scaletta piece

[triplegoddess3]

Hattttteeee fucking dumb ass customers.

I'm a dog trainer at a main chain pet store. So i know my way around different breeds.

One guest who ive been helping has a shepard lab mix puppy (8m) and he kinda looks like a pit. From some angles, but his DNA test said no pit.

This dog is so sweet, just high anxiety. (From shepard side) and this young couple after they left was cussing about the guest bringing in a pit bull. How shes a stupid bitch. And ppl with pit bulls are fucking idiots.[[ I'm at the cash register covering something. So i cant really say shit. ]]

The older couple im helping start talking to them, how pits arnt like that. It's the people who are shit.

The couple said """"statistically""""" that pit bulls attack more than other dogs.

(From dog training. I had a husky(out of class) attack a pit who was in my class, The pit did nothing but scream.

Now im not trying to hate on huskys. But I've been more attacks from huskys then i have from pits.

Statistics my ass

So O.C tells Y.C that theyre full of shit. And shouldn't say those things. O.C was being nice. And y.c was being nasty. Throwing cuss words around.

My blood is boiling because i cant put in my two cents. Because last time I did that, someone called corporate on me for telling them that i dont feel comfortable selling them chiclids(3 blood parrots probably 4-5 inches in length) because they were gonna put them all in a 10 gal with a placo (these guys get 14in+ so a 10g isnt good for them) it wasn't even a bristle nose! Which get up to 4 in. Anyways they called corporate because i educated them. (Bdbslsuevhduhbnd)

So im not down for another corp call telling an angry customer my point of view and that the dog wasn't a pit.

So the o.c left. Nd the girl in the y.c say that those fucktards probably have a pit at home of they are willing to attack a pregnat lady.

?????????? Since fucking when has being polite and saying dont say that stuff about a breed when it's the humans fault in the first place. Nd say that hes attacking you?

Fucking people I sware. 🙂

Oh and what does the y.c have? A Doberman. Which are statistically more aggressive than pits.🙂

I wish i wasn't a pussy and talked to them,but I can't talk when im angry. And i hate getting yelled at and getting written up.