#Redefining Success

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The Courage to Continue: Unlocking Your Path to Success

Written by Delvin In our pursuit of success, we often face triumphs and tribulations. Winston Churchill once wisely said, “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.” These words hold a profound truth that can inspire and motivate us on this Monday morning. In this blog post, we will delve into the significance of embracing this philosophy and discover…

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What Does “Having It All” Mean? | Is It Truly Attainable?

Explore the true meaning of “having it all” and whether it’s genuinely attainable. Discover how personal values, societal pressure, and life balance shape this ideal. What does “having it all” mean to you? Is it attainable? What Does “Having It All” Mean to You? Is It Attainable? In a world driven by ambition, social comparison, and the pursuit of happiness, the phrase “having it all” echoes…

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The Quiet Struggle of Feeling Behind in Life

There’s a silent weight a lot of people carry, and it sounds like this: “I should be further by now.” It’s that gnawing feeling that somehow, somewhere, you messed up. That you took the wrong path, made the wrong choices, or missed your moment. It’s not something you always say out loud. Sometimes, you don’t even realize how loud it’s been playing in the back of your mind until someone asks how…

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🌿 Have you ever looked back at your life and realized it turned out nothing like you once imagined? ✨ For years, I thought I knew the path I was on—the career, the achievements, the steady, predictable life. But life has a way of surprising us. Sometimes, the dreams we hold onto the tightest are the very ones we need to release. 💭 This week on the blog, I’m sharing a deeply personal reflection on letting go of the life I thought I’d have—and finding peace in the life that unfolded instead. It hasn’t been easy, but in the surrender, I’ve found something even more beautiful. 🌿 If you’re navigating change, feeling stuck between what was and what is, or just in need of reassurance that you’re not alone—you might find something here for you. 💛 Link to full post in Bio and Stories I’d love to hear—has life ever taken you in a completely unexpected direction? How did you find peace with it? Let’s chat in the comments. ✨ #lettinggo #midlifetransformation #intentionaljourney #selfgrowth #findingpeace #midlifechange #lifelessons #newbeginnings #slowintentionalhome #embracingchange #simpleliving #intentionalhomemaking #midlifereflections #personalgrowthjourney #authenticliving

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It's a Wonderful Life - Leadership Found in Good ole George Bailey...

Well, it’s that time of year again… when we watch the same movies we have seen dozens of times over and over. I have my favorites (Charlie Brown, Christmas Vacation, and The Christmas Story) some that are so-so ok, and then there are those that are no way. For me, It’s a Wonderful Life falls into a different category. I really like it, but do not watch it often (really cannot tell you why or why…

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Living My Own Life, Finally

Are you more of a night or morning person? Life is a journey, and for many of us, that journey often feels dictated by others. Growing up, I lived the life my parents envisioned for me. When I got married, I adapted to the life my husband wanted. It wasn’t until much later—after years of moving from one role to another, following paths laid out by others—that I realized I had never truly lived…

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Martha Stewart Documentary Review: Challenging Gender Norms and Success

From building an empire to challenging gender norms, Martha Stewart faced scrutiny for being a strong woman in a man’s world. Let’s celebrate those who push boundaries and inspire future generations. 🌟 #haveacupofjohanny #marthastewartdocumentary

Introduction The new documentary on Martha Stewart offers more than just a peek into the life of America’s first lifestyle mogul—it presents a narrative that challenges preconceived notions about gender, leadership, and success. For years, Stewart was a figure of controversy, scrutinized not only for her business practices but also for defying stereotypes. In a world that often boxes women into…

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When You’re Busy, You’re Dumb: Redefining Success in a Hectic World

Ever noticed how being busy has become a badge of honor? It’s almost as if we equate jam-packed schedules with success and self-worth. “How have you been?” “Oh, you know, super busy!” We wear our busyness like a medal, but what if this constant hustle is making us…stupid?

Yes, you read that right. Being perpetually busy might just be the biggest mistake we’re all making. It’s time to debunk the myth that busyness equals productivity. In this post, we’ll explore why being busy isn’t something to be proud of, how outsourcing can free up your time, the art of thinking better, and why a less hectic schedule can make you smarter.

Ready to trade your busy badge for a smarter, more fulfilling life?  

Being Busy is Not a Badge of Honor

Cultural Perception

In today’s fast-paced world, busyness has become a symbol of status and success. We’ve all heard the phrase “I’m so busy” used as a default response to “How are you?” It’s as if being constantly occupied is a sign that we are important, hardworking, and indispensable. Social media often exacerbates this perception, showcasing meticulously curated snapshots of packed schedules and endless to-do lists. The underlying message is clear: if you’re not busy, you’re not trying hard enough.

Reality Check

However, equating busyness with productivity is a fundamental misunderstanding. Being busy often means juggling numerous tasks without necessarily making meaningful progress on any of them. True productivity is about working smarter, not harder. It involves prioritizing tasks that genuinely move the needle, rather than just keeping ourselves occupied. In contrast to busyness, productivity is strategic and focused, leading to tangible results and a greater sense of accomplishment.

Examples of Common Busywork

Consider the average workday filled with constant email checking, attending endless meetings, and managing minor administrative tasks. These activities often feel urgent but add little value to our core goals. For instance, spending hours crafting the perfect email or sitting in unproductive meetings might keep us occupied, but they rarely contribute significantly to our long-term objectives.

Debunking the Myth of Busyness

Numerous studies and expert opinions have challenged the notion that busyness is synonymous with productivity. Research from Harvard Business Review highlights that constantly being busy can lead to burnout, reduced creativity, and lower overall performance. Additionally, a study by McKinsey & Company found that executives who set aside time for strategic thinking and deep work are significantly more effective than those who fill their days with back-to-back activities.

Experts like Cal Newport, author of “Deep Work,” advocate for the importance of focused, undistracted work. Newport argues that deep work—professional activities performed in a state of distraction-free concentration that pushes cognitive capabilities to their limit—creates new value, improves skills, and is hard to replicate. This is in stark contrast to shallow work, which is often non-cognitively demanding and easily replicated, yet consumes a large portion of our time.

Outsource (Almost) Everything

Importance of Delegation

Outsourcing is a powerful tool that can drastically improve your productivity and overall quality of life. By delegating tasks, you free up valuable time that can be spent on high-value activities that truly matter.

Time-saving: Outsourcing routine and time-consuming tasks allow you to focus on what you do best, leaving the rest to specialists.

Improved focus on high-value activities: When you delegate, you can channel your energy into strategic and creative tasks that drive significant results.

What to Outsource

Outsourcing isn’t just for businesses; it’s for personal tasks too. Here’s a list of tasks you can delegate:

PERSONAL:

Cleaning: Hire a cleaning service to maintain your home.

Grocery shopping: Use delivery services to save time.

Administrative tasks: Personal assistants can handle scheduling, emails, and more.

PROFESSIONAL:

Bookkeeping: Let accountants manage your finances.

Marketing: Hire social media, content creation, and advertising experts.

Routine reports: Delegate data analysis and reporting to specialized services.

How to Outsource Effectively

To make the most of outsourcing, follow these tips for finding reliable help and managing outsourced tasks:

Research & Vetting: Choose providers with strong reviews and recommendations. Interview them to ensure they meet your standards.

Clear Communication: Define your expectations and provide detailed instructions to avoid misunderstandings.

Use Technology: Leverage project management tools to keep track of outsourced tasks and ensure timely completion.

Monitor Performance: Regularly review the quality of work and provide feedback to maintain high standards.

By outsourcing (almost) everything, you can reduce your workload, increase your efficiency, and focus on what truly matters, leading to a more balanced and productive life.

The Art of Thinking Better

Quality Over Quantity

The art of deep, focused thinking often gets overlooked in a world that celebrates multitasking and constant busyness. Yet, it’s this quality of thought truly drives innovation, problem-solving, and personal growth.

Importance of Deep Thinking: Deep, focused thinking allows you to delve into complex problems, generate creative solutions, and make informed decisions.

Contrast with Multitasking: Multitasking, on the other hand, divides your attention and can lead to shallow information processing, reducing overall effectiveness.

Techniques for Better Thinking

To enhance your cognitive abilities and foster deep thinking, consider incorporating these techniques into your daily routine:

Time-blocking: Allocate specific periods during your day exclusively for deep work. Minimize distractions and immerse yourself fully in the task at hand.

Mindfulness & Meditation: Practices that promote mindfulness help reduce stress, improve concentration, and enhance cognitive clarity.

Continuous Learning: Engage in lifelong learning by exploring new subjects, acquiring new skills, and challenging your mind with diverse perspectives and information.

When You’re Less Busy, You Are Less Stupid

Cognitive Benefits

A less hectic schedule isn’t just about having more free time—it significantly enhances mental clarity and decision-making. When you’re not constantly rushing from one task to another, your mind can focus better, leading to sharper insights and more effective problem-solving.

Creativity & Innovation

Downtime and relaxation are catalysts for creativity and innovation. When your schedule allows for moments of reflection and unplugging, you allow your brain to connect ideas, think outside the box, and come up with novel solutions.

Health & Well-being

Maintaining a balanced schedule has profound effects on both physical and mental health:

Reduced stress: A less busy lifestyle reduces stress levels, allowing you to approach challenges with a clear mind and greater resilience.

Better sleep: Improved sleep quality results from reduced mental clutter and stress, leading to enhanced cognitive function and overall well-being.

Enhanced mood & relationships: With more time for self-care and meaningful connections, you cultivate healthier relationships and a more positive outlook on life.

In a world where busyness often masquerades as productivity and success, it’s crucial to rethink our approach. The notion that being constantly busy equates to achievement is a misconception that overlooks the true essence of productivity and personal fulfillment.

Busyness isn’t Productivity: Simply filling our schedules with tasks doesn’t necessarily translate to meaningful progress or success. True productivity involves prioritizing tasks that align with our goals and values.

The Power of Delegation: Outsourcing tasks can free up time for activities that truly matter, allowing us to focus on high-impact endeavors and nurturing creativity.

The Art of Thinking Better: Deep, focused thinking trumps multitasking in fostering innovation and effective decision-making. Techniques like time-blocking and mindfulness can significantly enhance cognitive clarity.

Health and Well-being: A less hectic schedule not only reduces stress but also improves sleep quality, enhances mood, and fosters better relationships—key ingredients for a balanced and fulfilling life.

As we conclude, it’s clear that being less busy doesn’t equate to being less productive or less successful. Instead, it enables us to cultivate a lifestyle that prioritizes quality over quantity, creativity over busyness, and well-being over stress.

Let’s redefine our definition of success. Let’s shift from glorifying busyness to valuing purposeful action and mindful living. By embracing a balanced approach, we can achieve not only professional success but also personal happiness and fulfillment.

So, let’s dare to be less busy and strive to be smarter, healthier, and happier individuals. It’s time to reclaim our time and our lives. Remember, busy should never be the new measure of intelligence—it’s about working smarter, not harder.

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The Journey of Self-Exploration: Embracing Lostness and Redefining Success

For almost a year now, I’ve felt a bit lost. I used to be the person with a clear vision of where I was headed. But right now, I’m not so sure about my path anymore. There are nights when I wish for a shooting star that could make all my wishes come true at once. But then, I ask myself, “What are my wishes, really?” It’s exhausting. There was a time when everything seemed so certain, and I knew…

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NBA Women Forum explores new frontiers of success for female lawyers.

The Nigerian Bar Association Women Forum (NBAWF) gathered esteemed members of Nigeria’s legal community at the Oriental Hotel in Lagos for its highly anticipated 2024 Annual General Conference. Under the theme ‘Beyond the Balance Sheet: Redefining Success for Women in Law,’ the event commemorated International Women’s Day and Month and delved into pivotal discussions surrounding the redefinition…

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The Habitual Road to Success: Small Steps, Big Results

Powerful Habit Quotes 1. “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit.” 2. “The chains of habit are too weak to be felt until they are too strong to be broken.” – Samuel Johnson 3. “Your net worth to the world is usually determined by what remains after your bad habits are subtracted from your good ones.” – Benjamin Franklin 4. “Successful people are simply those…

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How to Use Assassin Fantasy as Self-Help Books: A Morbid Guide to Personal Development

Who needs self-help gurus peddling the power of positive thinking when you’ve got cloaked figures traipsing through the night, dispatching enemies with a flick of the wrist? Ah, yes—assassin fantasy novels, those gripping tomes of life-and-death scenarios and moral ambiguity, offer more than just a good read. Believe it or not, they’re also stellar self-help manuals. Allow me to guide you…

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When Success Steals Your Evenings: Redefining Ambition Without Losing Yourself

You work hard. You care. You want to grow, do more, be more. There’s pride in that—wanting to succeed. But sometimes, the line between ambition and self-abandonment starts to fade. You tell yourself it’s just a season, just this project, just one more quarter. Before you know it, you’re always tired, always behind, always somewhere else in your mind—even when you’re finally off the clock. That’s…

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The True Measure of Success: Making a Difference in People's Lives

Written by Delvin In a world often driven by material wealth and external markers of success, it is crucial to remember that true success goes beyond monetary gains. Former First Lady Michelle Obama once wisely stated, “Success is not about how much money you make; it’s about the difference you make in people’s lives.” These words hold immense power, urging us to shift our perspective and…

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Redefining Success | The Journey of Helping Others and Finding True Happiness | Darryl Omar

This empowering video invites individuals to liberate themselves from the limitations of conventional success and embark on a transformative journey towards a life filled with purpose, meaning, and profound fulfillment.

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The boy who dreamed of saving the world.

He may not have been able to save everyone. He may not have been able to save anyone—not in the way he wanted. His kingdom died, his parents died, even Hua Cheng died.

But Hong-er’s world, Banyue’s world, every individual he’s ever given hope to, with a sword or with a kind smile…

"There are countless people who have seen more success than you, but none of them saved me the way you did, and none of them could possibly accomplish all that you have. You have no idea how much courage you've given me, or how you allowed me to become who I am today. In my heart, you are the only god."

He wanted to save the common people. How could he possibly have failed when one of the biggest themes is “just one person is enough”.

As far as I’m concerned…he achieved that dream centuries ago.