#and take control

[bekkachaos]

Lord help Colin Bridgerton when Penelope gets confident enough to take control during sex, he won't survive it

[some-pers0n]

How it feels getting obsessed with something new and then realizing you're going to spend anywhere from a week to the rest of your life thinking about it

[kiwi]

as a former escape room host i highly recommend doing an escape room as a first date. its a great way to learn how ppl react under pressure and how well they collaborate with you right off the bat. also more than once ive seen people enter an escape room as a couple and exit broken up LOL its a fantastic litmus test

[great-and-small]

Apparently the local university’s undergraduate entomology course sends students to catch insect specimens at the same place I like to go birdwatching, which explains why I saw three enormous frat looking dudes with tiny bug nets and overheard one emphatically say “bro BRO I told you we already have enough lepidopterans”

[thief-of-eggs]

“who’s the top??” “who’s the bottom?” “blank is such a bottom-“ “so and so is taller so they’re the top-“ listen guys. it’s whichever one has a harder time being vulnerable. that’s the bottom

[mochasucculent]

Was looking at refs and since Viktor has two different leg braces I was wondering, do we think he wears them simultaneously?? The refs don't perfectly line up perspective-wise so it's hard to tell but parts of the one he wears during the Hexcore scenes look like they could maybe line up with the brace that he wears over his clothes, but also some parts really don't and look like they'd be super uncomfy. Also HOW does he take these on and off. Experts weigh in

[draculings]

an incredibly sensitive instrument.

[lilacpaperbird]

*white knuckling the bathroom sink* do NOT infodump ppl about the fact that the first spn fic was a wincest one and that it was posted mere hours after the pilot and that the founder of ao3 was a wincestie and that the first fic on ao3 was wincest too and that the omegaverse as we know it was created by wincest shippers for jared/jensen fics *pointing at myself in the mirror with a shaky hand* ppl will think you're weird and off-putting you need to control yourself–

[blingblandart]

This one yearns for connections he feels he doesn't deserve. Even when shown compassion, they hid themself away. He will make for a cautious heart. Do not mourn them. They aren't alone anymore.

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[culticterror]

Hey! You wanna get fucked up for me? I mean like really fucked up. I want to completely obliterate your brain, and it would be so fucking fun! Right? Soooo, what you say? Want to corrupt yourself into oblivion for me?

I think it would be a really good look on you! Drooling, pathetic, needy, desperate, broken; just another dirty addicted whore for me to use. You would do that for me? Wouldn't you? Please?

[technically-human]

It's already requited, they're just stupid

[makingsenseofwhathappened]

What Are My Options?

You’re being harassed at work. You know something’s not right. But you’re not sure what you’re allowed to do.

Here’s The Truth

You don’t have to:

Report it to your boss.

Start with HR.

Follow “the policy” if the policy is part of the problem.

You can:

Talk to a lawyer first, or a legal clinic or support org.

Start with a friend, a hotline, a notes app file.

Document it without reporting it.

Protect yourself before asking for help.

And no matter what they say, staying quiet isn’t the same as doing nothing. Sometimes it’s the smartest move you can make while you figure out what’s safe.

The system definitely isn’t built to protect you in many cases, but there are ways to protect yourself.

You have more options than they want you to think.

NOTE: This isn’t legal advice. It’s “you deserve to know your options” advice.

[marciaillust]

trapped in amber

[radioactive-yuri]

john bakes the team an apple pie one (1) time and it's so good that nobody knows what to do with themselves about it, because they were all prepared to bully him. so instead they just start calling him a tradwife

[xxplastic-cubexx]

waiting for him to come home i cant stand this game chat