#beassertive

[theluckygirlblog]

[lokeshtalks]

When we call out people’s toxic behavior, the usual reaction from them is to blame us rather than taking responsibility for their mistakes.

In some cases, they even point out some irrelevant life and imagined hurt and play a victim card while showing themselves on moral high ground.

Never fall in their trap. Stand firm in your ground by being assertive and repeating the truth without feeling any guilt.

[comixbookgurl]

Everyone in the back. Not just to ladies but to ALL. #beassertive #beyou https://www.instagram.com/p/CHlI5ySBttI/?igshid=1qfgb2gyc9qla

[circleoflifesstuff]

[verbaldiaryofcoachjt]

Today marks the start of gameplay for the 2022 #bcsummergames For the past four months these incredible young women have taught me so much and I'm so grateful for this opportunity. It has been a long time since I can remember having this much fun coaching. Whatever happens today @finn.erin.77 and I are so happy with all of your efforts and for commitment to our cour behaviours #communicate #cooperate #support and #beassertive You can support these high level athletes online by tuning into #bcgamestv on https://www.bcgames.org/News/BC-Games-TV and YouTube at https://youtube.com/user/BCGamesSociety We play the host at 11:30am today and the gym will be rocking. Thank you #princegeorge for the incredible hospitality and @bcgames1 and @basketballbc for putting together this event together. #zone6 #teamstouch (at Prince George, British Columbia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CgUnkuxlmAP/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[gurukolofficial]

The Build Confidence Learn Technique to be Assertive course will give students an understanding of assertiveness and self-confidence. | Gurukol

[drwallaert]

Not Conformed, But Transformed

Not Conformed, But Transformed

It’s easy to look at what’s happening around the country, or even the world, and jump on a bandwagon. It’s easy to conform to the ideologies of the masses for fear of being different, causing rifts, or simply not wanting to feel alone. The problem with conforming so easily is that we forfeit our courage and integrity. We lose sight of what is right and true for the sake of comfort and acceptance.…

[themerakigal]

Six Reasons Why YOU Should Travel Solo!

Six Reasons Why YOU Should Travel Solo!

Are you like me, introverted, shy, a homebody and over thinker? I traveled solo. And loved it. I think you might too, that’s why I wrote this post of six reasons why you should travel solo. You may hear a lot of reasons why you shouldn’t travel solo. But don’t let them put you off of the idea. If your reading this I like to think there is that same spark in you as there is in me for adventure…

[lagitananegra]

Recommit to your goals in the biggest way. Welcome May by stepping into your power. Focus your energy in this new month by working on << your self-confidence << Your self-esteem << Redifining what loyalty truly means to you << How you can better mother (nuture) your priorities to reach your goals << And getting back on the wagon where you've fell off of During the whole month of May, I'll be your virtual coach guiding you along the way with: << Quotes << Card Readings (focusing of self-improvement) << Helpful tips to recommit to yourself & your goals << Free cheetsheets & guides << And so much more So, how do you plan to kick-off your May? I would love to hear your thoughts in the comments section. . . . . . . . . . . #may #monthmay2020 #beassertive #monthlygoalsetting #monthlygoals #womanwithaplan #womensupportingwomen #womeninspiringwomen #blackgirlbloggers #lifestyleblog #browngirlswhoblog #mindsetiseverything #embracethejourney #embracechange #weekendvibes #weekendmotivation #saturdayvibes #saturdaymorning #saturdaymotivation #gogetter #fortuneteller #lenormandcardreader #spiritualcoach #liveauthentically #theeverydaygirl #workonyourself #knowyourworth #achieveyourgoals https://www.instagram.com/p/B_sIkL_j8Iz/?igshid=xz0jzjuvqniz

[tahitianstarseed]

😇 From Spiritual & Angelic Euphoria😇 @spiritualandangeliceuphoria #angelsaresaying #angelssay #angelstalk #spiritualangeliceuphoria #angelicguidance #angelicmessage #angels #angelicsupport #angel #angelmessages #angeldaily #angelsdaily #dailyangelmessage #angelsguidance #dailyguidancefromyourangels #angelswisdom #angelicwisdom #stepout #comfortzone #beassertive #nohesitation #movingforward #knowing #aheadofyou #necessarytools #exceed #excel (at Fort Lauderdale, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/B8Mmm9Un-8z/?igshid=md88qmy8mw7a

[twistedcatmeow]

Far too often, we teach children that sitting still is the definition of being good. This translates, in our adult lives, into not interfering when interference is called for. If someone is doing something wrong, immoral, hurtful, or downright evil, it is the duty of every enlightened person to speak out and call attention to the action. People who act poorly will continue to do so until someone calls them on their behavior.

This does not mean that you are to be the policemen of the world. It simply means that you are not to sit idly by while all around you people act unkindly, unthinkingly, or improperly. But who is to judge the actions of another? And how does one call attention to such a thing without drawing unwanted negativity upon themselves?

Remove emotion and personal information from the assessment. If you are having an emotion about the action, you are taking it personally, and any assessment you make and any information you impart will be emotionally charged.

Is the action directly harmful to another?

Does the risk of harm outweigh the benefits of the action?

Accept that you may not be an expert on the issue at hand, and remain open to additional information. There are always factors in play of which you might not be aware.

Speak from your heart, from a place of love. While you might judge the action, avoid judging the person.

You may find that, as you go through your assessment and let go of any personal issues you might be having with the action, there is no longer any need to speak to the person. This happens when you have been triggered, and the assessment releases the trigger (at least for that time), and what you originally saw as an injustice no longer is.

The thing to watch out for here is using this technique as an excuse to not focus on yourself. The only things you have control over are your actions and reactions; therefore, those are of primary importance. Act well yourself, keep your negative ego in check, and make sure your actions and motivations are clean above all else. The more you do this, the more positive energy you will attract into your life, and the more positive your experiences will be.

#quote #action #activity #discipline #DoSomething #DoNotSitIdlyBy #SpeakUp #SpeakOut #BeAssertive #DoThis #SpeakOutAgainstInjustice #PracticalSpirituality #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement #DailyMessage #Ayamanatara #365DaysToEnlightenment #SanDiegoZoo #Animals #Wildlife

[amylynnmilstein]

Daily Mantra ✨. #beassertive #notaggressive #positivevibes #inspire #healthnut #wanderer #networking #dnadiva #genehealth (at East Fishkill, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/B0s0_3sAQD0/?igshid=1ctjpufsuigpv

[gaiatarot13-blog]

Today’s daily tarot card is the Three of Cups, reversed. You may be feeling pressured today. Don’t let yourself be talked into doing anything you don’t want to do. You never have to please or pacify others. If they won’t take “no“ for an answer, call them out on it. #Tarot #Daily #Reading #Pressure #DontAllowIt #SayNo #NoExplanations #BeAssertive www.GaiaTarot13.com for personal readings https://www.instagram.com/p/BoG5JivHsCt/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=cniuf6608dfl

[siriuslyitsnothing]

BE ASSERTIVE

Learn to say your feelings... But how when you don't want them to be hurt or sad...

[austen-summers]

Be Assertive ☑︎ No one wants a little b*tch. ☑︎ Being passive comes off as weak, uncaring, low value. ☑︎ Being aggressive comes off as reactive, mentally unstable, crazy. ☑︎ Assertiveness is that sweet spot between passivity and aggression where you demonstrate your confidence. ☑︎ It shows that you confidently have the ability to stand up for yourself and others while being tactful and empathetic. ☑︎ Stop justifying yourself and rationalizing instantly when someone questions you. Stick to your guns calmly and assertively. ☑︎ Go for what you want with the positive assumption that you will get it, but don’t be brash or give up too easily. Something worth having is worth pursuing. ☑︎ #beassertive #assertive #assertiveness #romanwarrior #passive #aggressive #2girls1guy #standupforyourself #dontbealittlebitch #confidenceiskey ☑︎ Tag a roman warrior @goldlyfe (at Royal Ontario Museum)

[dimple-21]

To the jealous bitch that report the picture guess what I’m putting it back up and I’ll say it again man learned to touch a woman spiritually stop raping and neglecting her body the one with her protect her heart protector mine protect us. Pray to God get in touch with your inner chakra meditate #pray #meditation #healing #beherheaven #beherhealing #beherstrength #powerful #morethansex #beherunion#beherpeace #mindbodysoul #stophurtingeachother #stopneglecting #stopviolenceagainstwomen #beassertive #beconsistent #connections #love #prayer #strength #glory #protectherheart #yoni #protectheryoni Okay haters. It’s ok your jealous