#cispassability

[marshmellowtea]

wildest subset of people on this website are people who self identify as transfeminists who willfully forget basic principles of misogyny solely so they can hate on and minimize the struggles of transmascs

[booyahhstormz]

another doodle dump but it's ramshackle oc x canon stuff again

OK YEAH SO WHAT IF OLDER PIXIESKIPPS..,.

and yeah that one non canon child they (didn't make but) have

gotta love making random shit with my ocxcanon iknow i'm cringe but i am free

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Gender Passing Pride Flags

Cis-passing Pride Flag

Cis-passing (or simply passing): a transgender person’s ability to be correctly perceived as the gender they identify as and beyond that, to not be perceived as transgender; to be passable as cisgender.

Trans-passing Pride Flag

Trans-passing (or non-passing): a transgender person's ability to be perceived as transgender; or a person who is perceived as trans despite not being one.

The flag format is based on straight-passing flag. Image descriptions pending.

[mouse-romance]

Gonna share some of the stupidest reasons i've got clocked for

(So you dolls feel less insecure about yourselves)

-For living with my father.

-For wearing a choker

-Because "my hands have too many veins"

So girls, some people are fucking wild.

I'm 100% sure they would've "clocked" me even if i was cis, so just an uplifting note: It's not about you or your looks, happens to all of us.

[wolfbane-blooms]

Tldr I feel like im actively putting so much effort into being the perfect easily digestible trans person especially when talkinf to cis ppl and yes it probably helps them or whatever but its so draining and it makes me miserable

[freezerbae]

dysphoria is kicking my ass

[gor3sigil]

When I say that transmasculine people, including, obviously, binary trans men, don't hold power over women, there's always ONE fucker who's like "oh yeah ? But what if it's a whit, able-bodied perisex transhet man who's papers are all changed, who cispasses and is totally stealth AND is a manager ??? What then ???"

And I'm like, you CAN'T be in good faith rn. I'm not saying this particular case doesn't exist but be for real, it must be one in a fucking million. And even in this case, the dude is one outing away from having all his privileges taken away from him, which isn't the case for cis white men.

Stop nitpicking. Transmasculine people don't hold power over women. Period. If you want a punching bag, aim at the people who are truly after your ass.

[comebackid]

Cispassing gets so weird sometimes, cis men get so weird when they think you're "one of them" this guy at a work gig just told me how he would bang one of the girls from th art dpt out of the fucking blue and I was like tf talkin about her pussy and I was like ??????!!!

[fourcroy-chosen-one]

Shout out to all the transmascs that can’t get on t because of health issues.

My doctor told me because of the medication for my chronic illness testosterone may not have any effects on me. I may not have cispassing ever. We deserve to be treated as good as cis men and we aren’t “less trans” just because we don’t medicate. We are valid. Fuck anything else.

[eva-does-their-best]

Going from "I'm not one of those trans people who do x or y" to "I am so one of those and I should have not judged them and I am glad that I got rid of the normative judgemental attitude I used to have".

Going from "I'm just a lesbian so liking trans men is wrong i don't want to deny their manhood" to "My sexuality is weird and that is fine, I like who I like despite the theoretical implications of it and I am not denying anyone's identity because I like them for who they are and respect them no matter what".

Going from "I'm just a regular binary she/her woman" to "I'm a girl and a woman but my dissociation and life experiences also make me feel impersonal so I can use it/its and I'm not weird for it, i wouldn't even be weird if I had no justification either, I can even use doll pronouns because I like them and they make me feel warm and happy and that is what matters".

Going from "Ok so these are all the labels with their very clear definitions and meanings and everything else is internet quirky stuff" to "I literally would not know how to explain what you are and I won't force you to explain it if you don't want, I don't need to understand it to accept you, you are valid and loved. If you instead want to explain it to me I'll do my best to learn and defend it whenever I can".

Going from "I am so sad, frustrated, angry and in pain because I will never be or look cis" to "I actually don't like the cis normative look, I don't want to cispass, I like trans beauty but specifically I like me beauty, the one where I am still myself but a more me version of myself. The world constantly told me what I should aspire to be and look like and like and I was brainwashed for so long but now I've broken free and am free to fully love myself and everyone else in this world who ever thought they were weird or ugly because my eyes find so much beauty in everything and everyone!"

Going from "Ew furries" to "I don't want to make fun of people who deviate from the norm because that is exactly what happens to me and we should all be together or else we are treating ourselves as exceptions and exceptions are easily revoked, I will learn to love everyone against a brain poisoned with conservativism and "normality". I like rats I should make a rat fursona or smth it would be so cute it'd so represent me :3".

Going from "I am useless, lazy, falling behind, a disappointment" to "I am physically and mentally disabled, there have never been accomodations for me in any aspect of my life and the intersectionalities of gender, sexuality, economical situation, etc. have made my life extremely difficult, I forgive myself for both failing and for blaming myself, I will seek help and advocate for myself to the best of my abilities and I will respect my limits in this world that was not made for people like me".

Learning is hard, changing is scary, but it's mostly just your brain being a conservative for the sake of commodity, safety and self-preservation, sometimes you need to fight your brain in a war of attrition but when you finally win you'll be so much happier.

I am so much happier now, my world is bigger and brighter and I see everyone and everything with a new, beautiful light. I look back on how I was and how I thought and how the world works and it all looks so much worse and grey, I am not going back there, this new mind is my home now.

And the best part is that I know I will keep learning more and changing more and the world and this life will keep getting better and better🥰.

[unionizedwizard]

this has been said numerous times, better, and by more qualified people than me before, but it truly is wonderful that spending enough time with trans people in any capacity ends up completely rerouting your inner gender recognition patterns. like, right wingers are obsessed with saying that we're trying to destroy gender, and it is true in a way, because i really can't see, say, a closeted/pretransition trans woman as anything else than a woman. like it just doesnt compute. it's not like, an effort i have to actively make, it's just as easy as with a cis woman. nowadays <- important addition because it does come from experience, but then once the new pattern starts to set, you can't go back, it's sort of like learning to read

like, brain plasticity is real (hurray for brain plasticity!) and there's no evidence more supportive of the fact that gender is a social game that is deciphered through a complex set of rules and symbols and patterns, regardless of the kind of physical attributes exhibited by individuals, than being genuinely unable to read a trans person as anything else than their actual gender no matter what their cispassing actually is like

[scumbyug]

Transandrophobia is funny to me because it sounds so stupid but people are outright saying it with their full chest. Guys, you know men aren't inherently dangerous right? You also know that transmen who were previously assigned afab have to deal with a lot of misogyny and struggle right?

Pre medically transitioning men have to deal with all the same things a woman does in life because that's what they're viewed as. Women. Just girls who want to mutilate themselves. A lot of trans men deal with medical abuse in the system because they might end up as a "lesser" woman.

Trans women have struggles as well, I'm not downplaying or denying that, but we can't sit here and pretend that trans men are so perfectly fine and benefit from a system that only sees them as broken women.

I see "passing as cis" be brought up a lot, and I have to point out that trans women pre medically transitioning also pass as cis men. Does that mean you benefit from the privilege you hate trans men for apparently having? And to point out the "white able-bodied cispassing (hetallo)" trans man is still a trans man. Just because he's white doesn't change that. Just because he's able bodied doesn't change that. Just because he's cispassing doesn't change that. Even if he's straight and allo, HE'S STILL A TRANS MAN! The second it's revealed he's trans, all that "privilege" he mysteriously has goes away. It doesn't change the years of his life he was abused under the patriarchy as well.

[regretevator-confessions]

much much larger issue on twitter but. why does everyone make poob a buxom big breasted sexually dressed sexual babe when all they are is a roblox noob with a party hat. and why have i never seen them as a masculine nonbinary just feminine ones. the nonbinary people dont owe you androgyny sayers when im a cispassing man thats nonbinary. (squidward shocked meme.)

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[sunsetforestzone]

idk something always rubbed me the wrong way abt very cispassing trans girls and guys going "in the mens/womens bathroom cus thats where i belong" like making fun of conservatives for how ridiculous they are for wanting them there when. guys. guys. they are not talking about you. they will not clock you if you pass that well. stop that

[zamney]

sprunki tunnevin/tunner and jevin headcanons (long post)

tunner -

is in his late 40's, pushing 50, along with jevin. they are born to the same year, but tunner was born sometime between august and october (i havent decided on a set birthday, its based on horny toad hatch times) while jevin was born earlier in the year around spring near easter time.

is a horny toad (horntoad) lizard. i dont have a specific species for him from the genus but he is a horny toad.

because of this he can shoot blood from his eyes, especially unconciously when startled, as well as cry blood when he does cry.

also can puff up his spines and stomach when agitated, another horny toad thing.

has a long tongue, which he uses to catch bugs he sees to eat, another lizard thing, as well as lick jevin from far away because hes a freak.

likes to eat bugs he sees, as mentioned, which kind of annoys jevin because jevin likes bugs but he also finds it endearing in a way that he doesnt really understand even himself.

hibernates at winter, from december to early march, which freaked jevin out when he first did, having thought he died. he goes into his basement and sleeps there for 3 months. again a lizard trait.

sheds skin because lizard. jevin likes to peel it off for him.

is a former outlaw, in a cowboy way. he has changed his ways recently, shortly after meeting jevin, over 2 decades ago. jevin didnt know him as a bad boy for very long but he finds the fact he used to be an outlaw attractive in a sense.

has some form of dissociation disorder from his past and feeling terrible about it. might also have ptsd, i flipflop on if its That bad or just a dissociative disorder from trauma that didnt set in until he stopped.

is a smoker and a drunk, but indulges worse on the alcohol than smoking, which is rarer. has bad dental hygiene due to this. simon doesnt like that fact and will yap at him for it, but otherwise likes him, finding him cool.

can play guitar. likes to play songs for jevin.

likes to make jevin wear his hat because he thinks its cute when he does.

likes to sleep ontop of jevin when they sleep, like a lizard on a log. though they also spoon cuddle with him as the little spoon.

likes to cook for jevin, especially pancakes, which he refers to as flapjacks. after he dies jevin never eats pancakes again.

is the more irresponsible guardian of sky. he is much more lenient on things she does as well as wants to be liked by her so he tries to be the Fun guardian.

is more visibly expressive than jevin. by a longshot. also talks more in the amount of sentences said, but jevin talks more in the fact he uses more verbose phrasing. he fakes being stoic and that he isnt expressive like jevin but he really is very expressive.

is a gay man, and also trans, but very much cispassing because hes been fully transitioned for multiple decades, beyond still taking testosterone as you have to.

his death isnt due to being shot, he couldve survived that based on where the bullet is, its the fact he has a stroke when is he shot. nothing could be done to save him beyond praying he slowly gets better, which he didnt. he dies slowly at jevins side, muttering mindlessly and unconciously about how he is in pain and how he is tired.

jevin -

has a flat affect to his face and voice. this is caused by his autism and also trauma. but mostly the autism hes always had a flat affect. the most he can smile is a weird smirk naturally. if he was told to smile for a photo he would grin creepily because he doesnt know how to smile properally.

the only one who can read the little to no emotion he expresses is tunner, due to being around him enough.

isnt any sort of animal, unlike some of the other sprunkis, hes just a people. also hes bald. no hair ever.

wears a Lot of clothes because he hates being perceived by others, besides tunner. hes always wearing his cloak when outside or around others, even in the summer. under it he wears a full set of pants and shirt and also underwear.

is the primary guardian of sky. they arent biologically related at all, she just latched onto him after she was orphaned. she likes to hang out at his house as well as when she is being bothered at school to have him pick her up because everyone but her and tunner (and clukr and garnold) find jevin intimidating.

is a nihilist in a way, but in the way that he tries to push anything he cant directly control to the back of his mind and not dwell on it.

is NOT a catholic. formerally worshipped black, but left the cult shortly before meeting tunner for the first time. he isnt from the same place as the rest of the sprunkis, wenda also is foreign too.

has/had internalized homophobia of the religious variety, because as a form of Control black instilled homophobia in his followers.

gets feelings for tunner first, but he doesnt speak nor act on it until tunner feels mutually for him and tries to confess to him when he sheepishly and quietly says I feel the same.

likes to read books a lot. always can be seen reading a book. oftentimes tunner will be laying on him under a tree sleeping or resting, while he reads a book.

doesnt smoke, but does drink. not as frequently as tunner, but he does indulge sometimes. before they were dating they used to be drinking buddies. i can potentially see them confessing while drunk too but im not sure on that.

is a gay trans man, again cispassing due to being full op and transitioned for multiple decades.

hates the smell of smoke due to a combination of black being made of smoke as well as tunner being a smoker. it used to be "reclaimed" in a comforting way when tunner smoked, growing to be okay with it, but after tunners death he detests it again

after tunners death he not only blames himself for not being able to save him, but also becomes passively suicidal and wishes every day that he would just die of something so he would be with him again.

after tunners death, he never forgives wenda. he is constantly furious with wenda, but he never acts upon it or lets it show. he actually starts being angry with her after sky is killed, but he becomes livid when wenda kills tunner.

[drdemonprince]

uh oh, sisters! my red blood cell count & etc is insanely high again. time to be cispassing straightacting at the blood donation facility