#divorced without ever having even dated smh

[crescentpaws]

“surely crescentpaws’s sims version of fintante can’t get any worse right?” WRONG!

they’ve just started straight up refusing each other’s romantic interactions now 💀 can’t even kiss a guy anymore without him shoving you away from him smh. guys you are literally married come on

sigh. divorce arc is happing too soon

- their relationship bar got so low they’re not even friends anymore 😭

this screenshot is funny. WDYM ACQUAINTANCES. YOU’RE LITERALLY MARRIED 😭😭 (and they definitely are foes now… this is what the strained romance dynamic does to a couple i guess…)

- i had them go on a date (in their own house this time so they wouldn’t get mad at random outside forces) that was specifically designed to help fix bad relationships but… it didn’t really work at all

- they got into a physical fight 😭 guys stop it with the domestic violence come on now you’re better than this (no they’re not)

(fintan won. if you even care. he wins most of his fights these days (other than the grim reaper one lmfao))

- full red bars for both friendship and romance ❤️ yay ❤️ i’m so happy for them (someone needs to divorce them immediately)

- so that was probably the worst date ever.

- was curious to know if bronte was still attracted to fintan after all of this and he acted like it was a crazy thing to ask….

hm. do i need to bring up the “you’re married” thing again

- they literally do NOT care…. guys come on i am trying to help you… they’re too proud to try to work out their issues 💀

- sending them to couple’s therapy ❤️

- it worked a tiny bit??? it changed their relationship dynamic from strained to steamy which at least makes them more willing to be physically intimate… tbh i think this was my saving grace actually.

(bronte did not like it though.)

- basically then i just kept having them flirt & kiss over and over again until they didn’t hate each other as much 💀 at one point their romance bar was almost completely filled at the same time they were still in the red friendship zone which i thought was funny

okay ❤️ yay ❤️

(tune in next week where there is a 90% chance that this will happen all over again. (probably going to send them to couple’s therapy again just to be safe LMAO) i love when the game is canonically accurate <3)

[jackalopc]

J, M, and T for the fandom asks! :D

fandom alphabet asks - open!

J - a fandom you didn’t think about until you saw it all over tumblr

oh man, most lmao. but overall truly I think RPF of any kind... I would have never known it was a thing without tumblr way back in ye olden days. still think it's weird, just like back then ngl lol

M - name a character that you’d like to have for a friend

oh from my current fandoms easily ironhead, from triple frontier. though i'm not sure how much he'd like me lmao and well he is admittedly the kind of vet that i always stress about ever meeting because of how my service went and just feeling deeply judged about it so yk (: though i suppose less so than the others... actually you know what lets just forget about the whole thing

T - do you have any hard and fast headcanons that you will die defending? 

so, so many... the only one i can think of is probably demisexual!ironhead which is 100% @reggiesfilthylittlesecret fault fr. he lives rent free in my brain. hell i'd even say demiromantic too. also starting to just live in the camp of, even if they didn't actually date there was clearly something between ironhead and pope those two act too much like-- not like an old married couple, but old divorced couple who still get alone but there is still baggage there, yk? there is literally an "i told you so" moment like babes get a room and get the sexual tension out of the way so y'all can be functional again smh

a lot though that i'd actually be in that position tho aren't even headcanons its shit like 'hey i think redfly is actually an amazing character and doesn't deserve the hate' so not even headcanons lmao most others would be like, stuff most others typically agree on. usually where i differ is reasoning and/or methodologies n shit. hopefully that makes sense.

[ofswannsx]

what if for the ship meme,,,, u did all of them for casllie 👀👀👀 or dealer's choice if u don't wanna do them all askjfak

you know I have to do ALL of them because Caspian wants me to let everyone know how much he loves Hallie. nasty. anyway, read more bc this shit long lmfao !!

1) did your muse fall in love with mine quickly, or was it a long process?

bro when i tell you caspian fell hard for hallie i mean he fell HARD. like the first time he met them he was head over heels. he just KNEW that he was going to fall for them. he tried to deny it and stop it he really did but we all know how that turned out.

2) have they ever asked my muse to dance? do they even dance with my muse at all?

yes in the kitchen playing sunflower vol. 6. if it’s in front of people they act like goofs turning fast songs then towards the end they go for one slow dance and be that mushy couple on the dance floor

3) are they the type to steal food from my muse’s plate?

yes and he’s earned a stab with a fork for it

4) does your muse ever cook for mine? if so, is it good – or does it suck ass?

yes all the time. he better good at cooking fran & Elizabeth didn’t spend time with him cooking for him not to be good at it smh

5) what’s something they do when my muse is down?

he takes her to the beach. he’d make a nice picnic for hallie and just sit by the shore until the stars came out and di whatever he could to make them smile. whether that’s telling dumb jokes or go exploring

6) what’s a topic they’re scared of talking about with my muse?

i think for the longest time Will was a topic that caspian didn’t like to talk about with hallie because it was just so heavy and he didn’t know how to process it. there was underlying guilt he felt with it because he had his dad. yeah will was still a father figure to him but he’s biologically lightning’s and by that extent he also had fran and his sisters were without a dad for years.  Athena didn’t even know her dad so the fact he had so much compared to his sisters he never wanted to talk about the unknown that came with Will’s return and the fact he was the key to Will returning also makes him guilty. Marriage also is something that’s scary. They’ve probably danced around the topic of it but seeing as though his own parents are divorced (he doesn’t blame them by any means and knew that they were meant for other people later on in life) and seeing what his mom went through it scares him. He knows he wants to be with Hallie forever though he just hopes their forever doesn’t get interrupted. 

7) are they the type who’s affectionate? if so - how do they show their affection? if not, is there a reason they’re not affectionate?

yes caspian is very affectionate. he shows affections through hallie’s love language. he’s also big on hugs. if he’s not hugging hallie from behind while standing/talking to someone something is wrong. they ARE that couple to make out a lot pour one out to their siblings who witness this foolery

8) are they the type to go on dates? if so, to where?

def a more laid back type. ‘dates’ are more at home unless it’s like a BIG special moment like their anniversaiy which caspian has to think hard about when is since he didn’t know they were dating for a while because he’s a himbo

9) would they stay in bed with mine all day? if so, doing what?

yes. cuddling, talking about their future together, planning new adventures, watching movies, roasting each other and sleeping

10) what’s a typical night between our muses look like?

they make dinner together and make a mess while they’re at it. maybe caspian put flour on hallie’s nose and they retaliate with a whole egg on his head. during dinner, they talk about how their day went and just take time to catch up and really just focus on one another. they def watch some mindless tv for a while before going to bed. in between expect a lot of headassary like arm punches, affectionate name-calling and sometimes some light-hearted pranks depending on the day and mood.

11) do they read together? if so, what?

yes !!! whatever book hallie is reading at that time. Caspian likes to put a comic book into their rotation from time to time

12) who washes the other’s hair in the shower?

they take turns. caspian does have to bend down, like REALLY bend down, to let hallie wash his hair but he’ll strain his back for them any day. he complains about soap in his eye the entire time tho

13) who is the driver? or do they switch places? or do none of them drive?

hallie is the driver. caspian literally crashed a ship on his dad’s yard. do u all really trust him to drive ???

14) who likes to smack who’s ass for no reason other than laughs? or are they both well-behaved?

caspian was raised by a southern gentleman to be a southern gentleman pirate that being said THEY SMACK EACH OTHER’S ASSES. hallie more so bc they’ve probably like throw caspian over their shoulder a few times for doing. so he doesn’t give surprise ass taps anymore 

15) do they like movies? if so what movies would they watch with mine?

yes he loves movies. honestly, they watch a lot of action/sci-fi movies or whatever movies hallie likes caspian will watch. he also asks at least once a week they watch the classic will ferral movie Talladega Nights: The Ballad of Ricky Bobby that raised him

16) do they communicate their problems or are they the type to hold everything in until someone becomes upset?

they’re very good with communication when it comes to things that aren’t too soul-crushing. there’s a lot of trust and mutual respect between them. i think what helps is not only are they partners but best friends and if something bothers them they’re going to be upfront about it and work it out. they do bicker like an old married couple tho i will admit if they have an ‘argument’ it’s probably bc caspian did something dumb like leave the freeze open and let all their ice cream melt

17) do you see them as the marrying type?

lmfaoooooooooooo yes. ya’ll see whom he was raised by. yes, he’s the marriage type. 

18) if they had kids, who would be the fun parent?

IF THEY DO WE LITERALLY PLANNED KIDS ALREADY, anyway it’s caspian. literally, he’s so goofy and a push over he is for sure good cop in the good cop/bad cop scenrio. he’d be like ‘oh come on, babe, we were wielding dangerous weapons when we were their age it’s fine!!!’

19) do they get along with my muse’s parents?

he’s terrified of them. he’s terrfieid of all the santuccis (and by an extent kathleen and Penelope). he respects them and gets along with them. he tries not to say some head ass shit. 

[eldritchsurveys]

599.

Questions based off episodes in the Brit TV show Misfits. (Episode 1) 1. Have you ever been on probation or had to do community service for a crime you committed? >> I was put on probation when I was thirteen. I didn’t actually commit a crime, though. It was really just an incredibly fucked up situation. (Sometimes I have to remind myself that considering some of the shit I had to deal with during the most formative years of my existence, I really could have turned out a lot worse. Smh) 2. What would you do if you were in a situation where nobody believed you and it was critical they did? Or if you have been in this type of situation before, what happened? >> I think about that a lot because that’s a pretty common plot device in media. I have no idea what I would do, but one thing I do know is... you can’t make other people see what you see. Sometimes you just gotta do as much as you can yourself and let everyone else do whatever they do. 3. Have you ever been stuck in some sort of severe weather? Were you injured or did you get out fine? >> Not to my recollection. I’ve seen some pretty bad storms, but nothing that directly affected me and my safety. 4. Would you go back in time if it allowed you to save even one person? >> I can’t take time travel hypotheticals with any sort of seriousness, sorry. 5. Have you ever been mistreated by someone in a position of authority? >> Sure.

6. What would you do if your parents kicked you out of your house, saying that you couldn’t return unless you improved yourself? Would you try to get on their good side again, or would you figure it isn’t worth the time? >> I was kicked out of the house, but there was no conditions on it. It was pretty final. I’ve tried to have an adult relationship with my father, but it’s impossible because he apparently just... doesn’t like me as a person. *shrug* (Episode 2) 1. Have you ever done volunteer work in an elderly home? Do you like being around around the elderly, or do you find it repulsive? >> I have not. The way I feel about the elderly is the way I feel about every other variety of human -- I like some, I don’t like some, but they’re all just people, either way. 2. If your parents are separated/widowed/divorced, have they ever dated anyone else? Do you mind that they date other people, or does it bother you? Have they ever dated someone you really disliked but they didn’t listen to your opinion? >> --- 3. Would you ever date someone significantly older than you? Or have you ever been attracted to something significantly older than you in the past? How did it end up? How significantly older? >> I have been in relationships with people significantly older than me (15+ years). Obviously, I’m not still in those relationships, so it ended up... nowhere? 4. Who would you turn to if you unexpectedly found yourself homeless? Or would you try to deal with the situation on your own? >> I’ve been homeless many times and there was no one to turn to. I just dealt with it myself. 5. Would you want to ability to read peoples’ minds if you had no control over who’s mind you read and when you read it? >> Absolutely fucking not. Haven’t you seen True Blood? 6. Have you ever flirted with someone over the internet with no idea of what kind of person they were? >> I mean, probably? (Episode 3) 1. If you were in a hypothetical situation where you had to dispose of a body, do you think you’d succeed or get caught? >> How would I know? I can’t even imagine that kind of situation, aside from in some kind of lurid, unrealistic Movie Magic sort of way -- since I’ve only ever encountered that kind of situation in fiction. 2. If you had the power to influence any boy/girl into liking you, do you think you’d enjoy it or hate it knowing that all their feelings are superficial? >> Why the fuck would I even want to do that to another individual. 3. Have you ever lied about who you were over the internet? Did you have a specific reason for doing so, or was it just for fun? >> Nah. I’ve affected confidence or authority, and I’ve exaggerated aspects of myself for various purposes (usually comedic ones), but I don’t recall flat-out lying about anything. I’ve considered doing it just to see what it felt like, but honestly, it just doesn’t seem like an interesting thing to do. 4. Have you ever used a credit card or money that wasn’t yours to buy something without permission to do so? >> No. 5. If you were in a situation where you wanted to date someone, but you knew you could never touch them, how would you handle it? Would you even try to make it work? >> This kind of situation doesn’t bother me because I’m already touch-sensitive/touch-averse. It would actually take a lot of pressure off me. 6. Have you ever known someone who went missing without explanation? Were they ever found, or did they ever come back? >> No. (Episode 4) 1. If your boyfriend/girlfriend/best friend were in jail, would you go back in time to keep them out of it? >> What the hell... (See, I did watch this show once -- the first couple of seasons, anyway, before I forgot about it and never picked it back up -- but I don’t remember any of it anymore. I didn’t know time travel featured that heavily, lol.) 2. Have you ever been caught in possession of illegal drugs? >> No. 3. Have you ever damaged something in a public place? Did you get away with it or were you forced to pay for the damages? >> No. 4. Do you ever take “samples” from bulk candy or food bins? >> No. 5. Have you ever had two relationships at once? Was it on purpose? How did you work things out? >> Yeah. It was on purpose, yes. There was nothing to work out, when it came to that -- both parties knew and one of them was okay with it (the other said they were okay with it but then wasn’t later). 6. If you go to clubs or party, do you ever use drugs to “enhance” the experience? >> Not for that specifically. When I was doing drugs, I just did them... all the time. Party or no party. Now, I just drink. (Episode 5) 1. Have you ever been romantically involved with an authority figure? Could you ever see yourself in this kind of situation, or would you avoid something like this completely? >> No. I can’t imagine being in that situation, no. 2. Would you ever fake affection for someone in order to get information from them, or maybe to make someone else feel jealous? >> No. 3. Have you ever been in a situation where you felt too guilty to break up with someone? How long did it go on like that? >> More like I felt like I had made a decision and I should stick by it. Sunk-cost fallacy, too, kind of. But, you know, sometimes you just make dumb decisions. It’s all right to admit that and stop the snowball before it gets too far down the mountain... 4. If you found a boy/girl you REALLY liked, but knew they had a baby or a young child, would you still try to pursue something with them, knowing the burden that it could entail? Or would you try to find someone else? >> None of this is even applicable to me. 5. How far would you go to protect your closest friends? >> *shrug* 6. Have you ever accidentally found an embarrassing or extremely personal picture or video on someone else’s phone? >> No. (Episode 6) 1. Have you ever had any kind of interaction with a cult? What kind of interaction was it? Or have you ever been involved with a cult? What made you decide to leave? >> I mean, the Church of Scientology had them e-meter tables set up all over Manhattan, they were pretty impossible to avoid. I’m pretty good at evading people who want to take my money, though. 2. If someone were to start brainwashing people into refraining from drinking, smoking, doing drugs, having sex, and to dress more modestly, would you approve or disapprove? >> I would not approve. 3. Do you think it’s better to do a lot of wild things, such as taking drugs, partying heavily, having sex, etc., or do you think it’s better if people try to be a little more modest? >> I think it’s best if people get to live their lives without having to deal with my -- anyone’s -- unsolicited judgement of it. 4. What would you do if your friends started going through drastic personality changes into people they were completely unlike before? Would you confront them about it? How about if the changes were good changes? >> I have no idea what I would do. I might point it out a couple of times, in case they’re just unaware of some spiral they’re on or something, but after that I don’t know what else I’m supposed to do. Ultimately, it’s not up to me what they do, and if I still consider them my friend, I guess I’d just continue to be that until I don’t want to anymore. 5. What would you do if someone close to you, (it could be a friend, significant other or relative), had died but suddenly came back from the dead? How would you handle something like that? >> Well, obviously I’d freak the fuck out because nothing about this reality has suggested that that was even possible until that very moment. So I’m completely unprepared, for one, and for another, what is the nature of the resurrection? Is it more Night of the Living Dead or more New Testament? Is this person going to be able to reassume their previously-vacated place in the world, or is shit gonna get real fucking complicated from now on? Too many variables, man. 6. Have you ever jumped or fallen off a roof? Were you injured? >> No.

[ebthecelebrity]

#BlackMenInTherapy

#BlackMenDontCheat

#BlackMenArePowerful

#BlackKings

#SexyBlackMen

#BlackMenwithBeards

#AlphaBlackMale

#BlackMenMatter

#BlackFathersMatter

#BlackExcellence

#BlackMenAreBeautiful

If you are on social media and you’re a black man or a lover of a black man, you have had to stumble across one of these hashtags.  They are some of the most popular hashtags to search a black man.  Now while I believe all of these are very true, there’s still that big ass elephant in the room that many black people don’t seem to want to address…….

#BlackMenInTherapy

As a black woman, I haven’t ever talked to a psychologist, EVER. Sad.  Here I am, a 36 year old black woman who has survived multiple schools in one year due to the US Army moving our family around; struggled to make friends, toxic friendships, self esteem issues, a divorce, post partum depression, single parenting, a child with behavioral problems, continuously being underpaid at work, many failed relationships, anxiety, being qualified for a job but not able to pass though HR because my name is “Ebony”, etc etc. ETC!  Seriously racial discrimination, sexual discrimination, and having to work twice as harder as my white male counterparts has been a struggle throughout my adult life so much. I hardly talk about it because it just feels normal now.  The list goes on and on for my black ass, but, can you believe I have never sat and talked to someone?!  I sit back and I truly can’t believe it either. One session of therapy could have seriously helped me.

Another reason I never went to therapy is because I was never introduced to it as a child.  I love my parents to death and I have no complaints about my childhood whatsoever.  They made sure me and my brother never wanted for anything.  I had a passport a few months after of my birth by being born overseas and traveled and lived many places. I am very cultured!  The sad news is, I believe they never thought I needed counseling and maybe I did.  Growing up as a military brat had its perks but it also had its stressors.   This surely cultivated into me ignoring my issues and pushing through without talking to anyone about them.  Not even my really close friends. I swept that shit under the rug and kept going.   I think this is an issue with many black households. Lets face it, counseling is not cheap, but it can be affordable. I witness too many black parents raise their children with the nicest shoes, name brand clothing, and extravagant birthday parties. No one ever invests in counseling though.  Some of these kids are a product of abuse, neglect, and just witnessing their parents at their worst.  Jordans on their feet, but pain in their heart.   What about over 400 years of oppression? Doesn’t that account for anything? Is the crab in the barrel mentality and cold blooded killings of our fellow brothers and sisters account for this?  Possibly.  SMH The cycle continues….

I met a handsome man at CIAA last year. He was swaggy. NY Hat, Polo on his body, Yves Saint Laurent on his neck and a bottle of champagne in his hand.  He was polite but with just the right amount of aggressiveness that made me want to converse with him.  Instead of the routine, “May I buy you a drink?”, he insisted with “What are you drinking on?”  Upon answering his question, he demanded for the bartender to get me right.  I was impressed.  His New York accent was also a turn on.  A city boy.  He was different.

The entire night he made sure my drink was never empty, but he kept his distance. Ladies, you know how men in the club stalk you after they buy you a drink? LOL I WON’T HAVING THAT! He never did but he kept his eye on me though. After a couple glasses of champagne and dancing to rapper, Fabulous, all night, I was coherent enough to give him my phone number.  Days after our initial meeting, I just thought it would turn out like the rest of them. You know, the first date out to eat with some chicken wings and maybe I’d continue getting to know him and have sex with him if he kept my attention.  Hookup Hell.  I didn’t really think nothing much about it.  He was pleasant. He was charming.  He definitely wasn’t cheap. It took about 6 weeks of me playing cat and mouse, but it finally happened….I agreed to meet him for our first date.

Sitting down to meet him at TGIFs, he complimented me and it was different.  It was really genuine.  He even had an edible arrangement for me. I was impressed. I hadn’t had a first date like this in so long….I couldn’t remember the last time a man was so attentive. After the first drink, he let everything out the bag.  From being shot twice, being a young father, and serving Fed Time….he laid it out on the table for me.  It was refreshing.  From that moment on, I was never judgmental and I opened up to him too. Hell, I was far from perfect.  I continued to see him and learn more and more about the strength he had everyday. He was dealing with many things and he kept me in the loop. One day on the phone I mentioned that I wanted to see him and to my surprise he responded, “I’ll call you after my therapy session.” Therapy? I had no idea.  This man was in therapy!  

He discussed how he would meet his therapist once a week.  He would talk to her about any and everything. Nothing was off limits.  You see the scars of his past; he was now determined to not let them hinder his present. I had never dated a man who was currently in therapy.  The shit was very foreign to me. Sometimes you just assume that the strength of a black man is just getting through that trauma and making it over to the other side of the storm, towards that rainbow.  What we don’t understand is that even Noah needed to build an ark to get through the greatest storm in history.  Therapy = Building.  Building that safe haven to get through the storm is necessary!  It is said that it took Noah 120 years to build that ark, this is contingent to a Black Man needing therapy for a lifetime.

Black Men, put down the extravagant lifestyle until you get your mental in the right.  The strippers, the Gucci, the fancy homes, the flashy cars…..put it all down.  You can’t take that shit to the grave with you.  So many Black Men dealing with abuse: mental and physical.  Many have been abused by men. Many are confused on their sexuality and touched inappropriately in church.  So many Black Transgender Men being brutally killed and too many over sexualized Black Men using sex for healing. Too many Black Men hating their skin, claiming they are too dark or even too light for society. Self hatred and insecurities flood the Black Man’s mental everyday as he wakes up each morning to look in the mirror and feel he’s not enough.  Too many Black Men scarred by their mamas who they witness have multiple kids by many men and who have said “You’re just like your no good daddy.” Too many Black Men without fathers and have no idea what he looks like or where he resides.  Too many Black Men mentally abused by Black Women who feel the need to continuously use them for their money, their dick and to call them a “bitch nigga” every 5 minutes.  So many Black Men dealing with the loss of a friend or family member who has been gunned down senselessly by another Black Man going through these same issues.  Too many Black Kings forgetting their Kings.

Therapy.

My Brooklyn born and raised Man called me one day and bragged about how his therapy session that day consisted of me.  To think of a man to discuss me in therapy was probably the highlight of my dating life. I didn’t ask for details.  I just knew that from that moment on, I never wanted to leave his side.  All the things in the past I insisted I wanted in a man:  a gorgeous smile, a cut up body, and gorgeous eyes were now all a distant memory.  A Black Man in therapy was the sexiest thing I had ever seen.  

[midcing]

why do people do things that be bad for them? say we done with these things, then we ask for them

&. BASICS

FULL NAME: michael nathaniel roosevelt

NICKNAMES: mike, mikey

FACE CLAIM: jeffrey dean morgan

AGE: 51 years old

SEXUALITY: bisexual ( leans more towards women )

DATE OF BIRTH: may 2nd

GENDER/PRONOUNS: cis male & he/him

RELATIONSHIP STATUS: separated

OCCUPATION: bar & nighclub owner

FOR MORE INFORMATION ON MICHAEL CLICK ANYWHERE IN THIS SENTENCE

&. PERSONALITY

USUAL HANG OUTS: bars, nightclubs, his house

HOBBIES: dancing, singing, playing baseball.

FIVE POSITIVE TRAITS: enthusiastic, caring, resilient, patient, realistic

FIVE NEGATIVE TRAITS: shallow, stubborn, self-centered, self-indulgent, argumentative

DRINKS, SMOKES, & DRUGS: yes, yes, & yes.

&. VERSES

main. 

&. WANTED CONNECTIONS

ROMANTIC. 

( honestly just a lowkey warning i can’t really imagine him dating anyone younger than like 35. because if anyone younger than that tried to flirt with him he’d just be like ‘that is cute. you are child. go sit in the corner and think about your life.’ so idk keep that in mind ? ) 

the ex wife — okay i keep meaning to send this to the main ( and i’ll at some point in the future ) but if you want to fill up this connection hmu !! like in my mind they were married for many years and they were in love for a long ass time. they had two kids and they were cute af but at the end things were just super rocky. they would fight all the time and they were too focused on work. maybe she had an affair and he had a revenge affair and things were just !! not great !! i picture the divorce being pretty terrible and bitter and like them fighting about everything they had ever owned even though seeing that might be harmful to their kids bc they just too intertwined in their drama. and he is like i’ll fight you for everything but i’ll also not sign the divorce bc you have to understand !! we hate each other but we love each !! ( idk this man honestly smh ). cut to scene a few months later and he is living alone in his big ass house alone without her or the kids and he just like ‘can’t function without her !!’ and michael is still highkey hang up on her bc he says she is the love of his life and all that. you can have your character react to mikey in whatever way you want. she can hate him. love him still. be conflicted. it’s honestly your choice ! but like he would be highkey still in love !! and like trying to get her back despite the fact that he might not deserve her at all or they might not work together in anyway shape or form !!  ( yo i named her Stephanie so i wouldn’t have to awkwardly dance around the name whenever he mentioned his Ex-Wife but if you wanna fill this connection you can name her whatever you want. i’ll just change the info in his page. )

the affair — honestly just wow ??  picture the drama for a second. like the woman he cheated on his wife with... that tore his marriage apart. ... it is completely his fault since he was the married one but picture the misplaced guilt . them maybe actually liking each other but they somehow always end up fighting bc of all the baggage ?? maybe she is married too or she was at some point and he is a shitty but Fun remainder of her shitty husband ?? honestly i’m trash for drama

flirting goes too far — honestly he is always flirting with people and also Not flirting? like he is 100% joking but if you are down he is down. and like imagine just they are friends and they are close and he is flirting bc he does that and your char is just 1000% Done with his bullshit and maybe they kiss or they sleep with each other and for a night things are perfect. but in true michael fashion he does something without thinking of the consequences and regrets it the next day ? and now it is super awkward bc he trying to pretend nothing happened but it obviously did .. . ? ? 

FAMILY.

his son and daughter — i keep meaning to send this to the main too and i’ll at some point but like if you wanna fill it hmu !! i just imagine michael’s divorce with their mother tearing their relationship apart. and mikey feeling super guilty and trying to connect but like ‘how ???’ picture like him taking them to their favorite ice cream shop from when they are five and he is all proud of himself like ‘choose whatever you want!!’ and it’s like ‘That’s nice that you remembered but also i’m not twelve anymore pls do better’ and just wow ?? relationship on the rocks ? trying to be the best possible dad even when he is not the best man ?? dropping Literally Everything bc one of his kid texted ‘dad can you help with something?’ and like ‘yES!! !! yes anything’

PLATONIC.

the good influence — someone that tells him to Sit The Fuck Down and Chill and actually gets him to breath for a second ?? this dude honestly has no chill so i would love someone that is like ‘michael you are gonna sit down and watch this movie and then eat dinner’ and then they actually have fun ?? doing something lowkey chill and he is like ‘i don’t understand what is happening but i like it ngl’

the perfect match — someone who is also 0 Chill and must be doing something at all times ? you know that friendship in movies where they start with small dares like ‘i dare you to take a picture with that random person’ and ‘i dare you to dance in public’ and then a short montage of quickly escalating dares later, they are both in las vegas like ‘imma fucking do it. imma marry you. we are gonna be bounded for life’ and the other one is like ‘bitch you don’t have the balls.’ and they end up doing super dumb stupid shit just to make the other laugh ?? i would give you the sun for it

the parental figure — maybe they work at his bar or his nightclub and they opened up to michael at some point and he was like ‘wow your parents suck !!’ or like your char grew up alone idk up to you honestly ! and like michael was just ‘okay so i’m your Dad now’ and he just takes care of them ?? and even if they work for him like when they come in to the bar he is like ‘have you eaten already ? what do you mean no? Breakfast Is The Most Important Meal Of The Day’

ENEMIES.

the business rival — someone that has another club around kola ? ? and they are like always competing to see who gets the most Hype !? maybe there is some sexual tension  ??  maybe they ar e highkey competing but also somewhat pushing each other ?? like frenemies idk dude

i’m bad at thinking about enemy connections but if you have any ideas hmu

HONESTLY THOSE ARE JUST A FEW IDEAS ! IF READING ABOUT MICHAEL BRINGS ANYTHING TO MIND, JUST HMU. I’M OPEN TO EVERYTHING.

&. FILLED CONNECTIONS

ROMANTIC.

the crush —  michael keeps taking her to places and doing dumb stuff with her // taken by simone baxter @paradcxes

PLATONIC.

father figure — dorky father figure trying to pass as a badass // taken by baxley carrington @ofadorations

ENEMIES.

n/a

[rogerrachel1995]

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[michaelcmunis]

let's be honest

1) name: michael

2) age: 15

3) three fears: attractive people, blushing, and being forgotten

4) three things i love: being on the phone having an amusing conversation even if the topic is stupid, i love eyes and their colors, and listening/watching a thunderstorm.

5) four turn ons: biting my bottom lip, having the person on my lap grinding, heavy breathing, SOMETIMES sexting.

6) four turn offs: talking too much about your ex, talking shit about your ex, bad breath, poor hygiene.

7) my best friend: i have like… three.

8) sexual orientation: pansexual

9) best first date: going to the movies

10) my height: five foot four inches

11) what do i miss: wendy’s

12) what time was i born: idk how ik this but i was born at 4:12 pm

13) favorite color: blue or black

14) do i have a crush: yes

15) favorite quote: “i don’t need a piece of paper saying i succeeded, i just need food.” ~ shane dawson

16) favorite place: my bed

17) favorite food: ramen

18) do i use sarcasm: EVERY CHANCE I GET

19) what am i listening to right now: certain things by james arthur

20) first things i notice in a person: eyes

21) shoe size: 8 men

22) eye color: hazel

23) hair color: brown but it gets lighter in the summer

24) favorite style of clothing: grunge clothing can be cool, but i also like basic clothes, idk i’m boring

25) ever done a prank call: yes, that was my childhood

26) meaning behind my url: it’s literally my first name, middle initial, then last name

27) favorite movie: mr. nobody, it doesn’t make any sense until the very end

28) favorite song: can i be him by james arthur

29) favorite band: maroon 5

30) how i feel right now: kind of lonely, excited but upset that i have to leave soon

31) someone i love: all three of my best friends

32) my current relationship status: taken

33) my relationship with my parents: i have a pretty good life with my mom and stepdad, my bio dad kind of gave up on me because i’m trans and my stepdad took his place

34) favorite holiday: christmas

35) tattoos and piercings i have: none atm

36) tattoos and piercings i want: i kind of want sleeves, i want some of my dad’s tattoos, and for piercings… i’m not really a huge fan, i kind of want a tongue piercing and maybe an industrial bar.

37) reason i joined tumblr: oh boy… i stan ryan stalvey so i decided i wanted to see what tumblr’s about, and i got sucked in, i’m on this more than all of my other apps.

38) do me and my last ex hate each other: oh god no, we’re on great terms

39: do i ever get good morning or good night texts: yes

40) have i ever kissed the last person i texted: almost

41) when did i last hold hands: i have no fucking clue

42) how long does it take me to get ready in the morning: like fifteen minutes, because i skip breakfast

43) have i shaved my legs within the last three days: lmao i haven’t shaved my legs in like a year

44) where am i right now: in my room

45) if i were drunk and can’t stand, who’d help me: my dd

46) do i like my music loud or at a reasonable level: i used to blast my music in my headphones but i started to lose hearing so i like it at a reasonable level

47) do i live with my mom AND dad: no, my parents divorced when i was barely two, i live with my mom

48) am i excited for anything: well i’m waiting on my sixteenth birthday so that i can start taking testosterone

49) do i have someone of the opposite sex/gender i can tell everything to: yes

50) how often do i wear a fake smile: i don’t even attempt to fake a smile, i have a plain expression most of the time

51) when was the last time i hugged someone: last friday, the 23rd??

52) what if the last person i kissed were to kiss someone else in front of me: they’re dead to me, i’d never talk to him again

53) is there anyone i trust even though I shouldn’t: i have trust issues so i either believe you or don’t

54) what is something i disliked about today: coming inside sweating my ass off because i mowed the lawn

55) if i could meet anyone on this earth, who would it be: the new dog my dad got but eeeee

56) what do i think about the most: food

57) what’s my strangest talent: i once picked up a quarter with my toes

58) do i have any strange phobias: if i blush and someone comments on it i get very defensive and embarrassed, and i’m also afraid of talking to people i find attractive, i either stutter a lot or have way too much confidence.

59) do i prefer to be behind or in front of the camera: behind!

60) what was the last lie i told: i’m almost done with my summer projects

61) do i prefer talking on the phone or video chatting online: i like facetime even though i’m on pause a lot of the time

62) do i believe in ghosts/aliens: not ghosts, but i do believe in aliens

63) do i believe in magic: no because i know how it works

64) do i believe in luck: not really

65) what’s the weather like right now: hot as fuck

66) what was the last book i’ve read: history of the world in six glasses

67) do i like the smell of gasoline: not really

68) do i have any nicknames: mike, mikey, meekle (i hate that one), and monkey but only my mom can call me that

69) what was the worst injury i’ve ever had: i’ve been stabbed, i have the scar on my stomach and i have no idea how i lived

70) do i save money or spend it: depends on how much i have

71) can i touch my nose with my tongue: no

72) is there anything pink within ten feet of me: no

73) favorite animal: cat

74) what was i doing last night at 12 am: playing mario bros on the wii

75) what do i think satan’s last name is: what kind of question is this… idfk

76) what’s a song that always makes me happy when i hear it: every song puts me in my feelings, not really happy feelings, but idk

77) how can you win my heart: buy me food

78) what would i want written on my tombstone: game over in pixelated letters

79) what’s my favorite word: fuck

80) my top five blogs on tumblr: ryan stalvey, his boyfriend, my friend’s blog, my boyfriend’s blog, and ryan’s nsfw blog

81) if the whole world were listening to me right now what would i say: get your shit together

82) do i have any relatives in jail: not that i know of

83) what super power would i chose: teleportation so i don’t have to worry about getting rides or paying for gas in the future

84) what would be a question i’d be afraid to tell the truth on: when i’m in the doctor’s office and they ask if i’m a virgin or if i’m sexually active and my mom’s in the room, i lie every single time

85) what’s my current desktop picture: i don’t have a computer but my phone’s screensaver is a grid of crystals

86) had sex: yup

87) bought condoms: yup

88) gotten pregnant: nope

89) failed a class: nope

90) kissed a boy: yes

91) kissed a girl: yes

92) have i ever kissed someone in the rain: not sure on that one

93) had a job: NO, I’M TRYING TO GET ONE BUT THE PLACE IS BEING DIFFICULT AS FUCK

94) left the house without my wallet: yeah

95) bullied someone on the internet: no, i’m not that shallow

96) had sex in public: oh god no

97) played on a sports team: yes

98) smoked weed: yup

99) did drugs: yeah?

100) smoked cigarettes: never have never will

101) drank alcohol: yes

102) am i a vegetarian or a vegan: HELL no

103) been overweight: practically my whole life

104) been underweight: nope

105) been to a wedding: yes

106) been on the computer for five hours straight: yeah

107) watched tv for five hours straight: yeah

108) been outside my home country: yes

109) gotten my heart broken: smh yeah but i did it to myself

110) been to a professional sports game: yes

111) broken a bone: no

112) cut myself: djfkwmdtkwo

113) been to prom: 8th grade prom

114) been on an airplane: yes

115) been in a helicopter: no

116) what concerts have i been two: p!nk the truth about love

117) had a crush on someone of the same sex: yes

118) learned/learning a new language: yes, spanish

119) wore make up: unfortunately

120) lost my virginity before i was eighteen: unfortunately

121) had/given oral sex: yes

122) dyed my hair: yes

123) voted in a presidential election: nah because all the candidates are trash now, but i was too young to vote for obama both terms

124) rode in an ambulance: yeah

125) had a surgery: not yet

126) met someone famous: yes

127) stalked someone on social media: yup

128) peed outside: yup

129) been fishing: yes

130) helped with charity: yeah but i hated it because the people were old and rude

131) been rejected by a crush: ohhh yeahhh it sucked

132) broken a mirror: no

133) what i want for my birthday: to start cross hormone therapy

[myvelouri]

So she uh, said she had a deep thought and went through a lot

Suddenly she's going to step back from me, thinks it's all too fast. Smh I told her it was the whole time

So now she won't message me first throughout the day with cute messages or memes or care

Won't tell me she wants to come see me during her lunch break JUST cause she wants to see me

Won't want to video chat do badly Because she wants to see my face and cause she missed me

She won't make sexual innuendos and jokes anymore, flirting as much anymore

She was wanting sex and was upset I didn't take her to the hotel to fuck so I planned it for a few days from now but ever since this epiphany she had, she no longer wants to go to the hotel

Later says she is done with sex now. Even though I'm so used to her being really horny for me, like really frequent sexual jokes and such. In fact she said she's been just doing things impulsively without thinking and now I'm pretty sure her askin to suck that guy friend's dick was for real

Like, we talked forever but she seemed to freak out when I went out and ran into my old crush

I'm sad at how bad this is going

Hm. Maybe should have just tried to fuck my old crush, she got a divorce and everything. She's a ten man, I wish I was equally as hot as her, I'd be so gorgeous, I remember when we used to be closer, everyone thought we were dating and said we look like each other's type and stuff. I think I wasn't hot enough for her, I was 25, she was 23 and I have such a thing for her. she lost most of her accent and her English is insanely good now like wow holy fuck. Wonder why she's breaking up with Rich old husband, lmaoooo I always thought she'd be a gold digger but idk. I'm serious when I say she's a 10/10, body, face, and ugh I'm just never going to be good enough for that even though I had all the girls this night

I'm just getting uglier while she's gotten hotter. My friend told me just "sex" as in, just fuck her. Did she really have to become single right when I'm not? And she at the bar I go to? Apparently she used to go here a lot and knows the bartender lmao.

Grr

I'm confused

I don't cheat

But my GF is being so damn confusing

[lux-scriptum]

Barry finding out Cadoc considers him one of his exes he’d have messy one night stands with: …? We never dated?