#endogenics are cool!!!!!!

[dotdot-nine]

Make weird plural headcanons. Make “impossible” plural headcanons. Headcanon characters as plural with “no evidence”. Make confusing plural headcanons. Make contradictory plural headcanons. Make cringe plural headcanons.

Fuck holy gospel “canon”. Make plural headcanons.

[gezesnailbell]

i dont care who you are, system positivity is lit as hell

[divine-headmate-culture-is]

System with divine headmates culture is what do you mean you can summon new headmates. You just pick them out of the ground of your domain??? Like they are carrots??? WHAT DO YOU MEAN THATS HOW OUR MAIN PROTECTOR FORMED??????

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[pluralhottakes]

i’ll say it! there’s a handful of anti endos out there that are probably actually endogenic. that’s my hot take

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[dniendos]

everytime someone interacts with my pro endo post i get a) immense positivity like yes gang pro endo joy !!!! you get it !!!!! b) new pro endo blogs to look through (because im weird and need to make sure id be okay to interact on a communitive level and im bad at talking in general c) reminders to talk to the people i already started a convo with were all winning /j

[cringegenic]

cringe system culture is a long story with background lore but bear with me for a second

theres this kid at school we used to be friends with called zach who for some reason decided he hates ud this year. his table is directly next to mine in 3rd period, which also happens to be the only class my friends are in. theyre mostly systems too.

zach knows abt our system, we told him back when he wasnt an asshole, so ofc hes told his new friends at their table (we call them the plastics) and most likely explained it as roleplay or smth since we’re fictive heavy.

we’re open abt the system in that class since our entire table are also systems (ft. token cishet singlet ally, we live laugh love her) so zach and the plastics ofc overhear us talking abt system stuff.

cringe system culture is getting asked whos fronting and zach giving the NASTIEST side eye when izuku said his name.

the plastics were giggling so hard, theyve pulled wonderland sys references on oliver, etc etc, its so stupid how much of stereotypical bullies they are.

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[the-aquarium-sys]

We’re looking through so many tags and blogs right now and just… wow… the world is so plural and so so beautiful 💛

[sawyer-is-eepy]

MaDD and plurality

okay so we're MaDD, right?? and we're also plural??

NOBODY talks about how freaking hard that makes communicating omg.

constantly i'll be trying to talk to someone and then i drift off and suddenly they are completely drowned out OR they're ALSO daydreaming!! it's so frustrating, because it means that to even semi-effectively communicate, i have to talk out loud. if i have to communicate something important and we're in a public place i just have to focus REALLY hard on internal communication and it sometimes STILL doesnt work.

on top of that, we have ADHD so it's even harder, and talking out loud still doesn't work that well because without another person physically here to snap me back to reality whenever i'm daydreaming, if i start daydreaming, i'm just stuck until i realize, which can be anywhere from within a minute to literally 20+ minutes. usually they're able to get my attention by that time, but it's hard because our communication is not easy for anyone but the host(me, who is ALWAYS fronting) to initiate, so unless i actively open myself to communicate with them, it's hard for them to get my attention. sometimes my daydreams even last hours, but that usually doesn't happen when i'm not actively deciding to daydream. so yeah, it's really difficult because i've already got issues focusing, and adding basically irresistable urges to daydream at random that get triggered way too easily on top of that, inner communication is SO HARD.

anyways, this makes making a tulpa really fucking difficult because forcing is really hard.

but here are my tips, for other MaDD, especially anyone making a headmate/alter/tulpa/parogen/whatever themself -

incorporate your daydreaming into the communicating/forcing. like daydream you and that alter hanging out and then communicate via that. this does not ensure that you won't start daydreaming about anything else, but it lessens the chances. if you try to force yourself to not daydream at ALL the urges are gonna be much harder to ignore, at least for me. if you're ALREADY daydreaming, and it gets interesting enough, minor distractions are gonna catch your attention less and less because you WANNA focus on this one daydream. it becomes much more enjoyable.

this kind of like the last one, but this is more specific to tulpa/parogen forcing. don't really view it as a chore, which i've accidentally been doing more and more. not a chore i dislike, but i've been viewing it like something i have to do every single day for x amount of time other wise it wont work and it'll fail horribly and everything will be ruined, when it shouldn't need to be that. it shouldn't be on a to-do list, unless that really works for you(which if that's the case that's freaking awesome and you should probably ignore this tip). idk about everyone else, but it's much easier for me to daydream if i'm treating something like something i need to do because it's so much more tempting to just go live somewhere else for a minute while i do things i need to do. i often daydream doing chores because it's not interesting enough to keep me grounded. so, to make sure it gets done, i drift off while i'm doing it, so i am doing it in the real world but to me i'm in another world or in one of my stories. but for forcing, to be able to do it, you HAVE to be constantly aware and present. if you view it like you're just having a fun little conversation with them, it becomes like whenever you're bored or lonely just like you would reach out to a friend, but instead you're getting some talking to your head friend in. even if it's not traditional forcing, it works and develops them more, even if it's just a bit here and there. idk about everyone else, but i think partially because of my ADHD and partially because of my MaDD, whenever i have a chore i need to do i kind of put it off if i'm already doing something. i don't really *want* to put it off, but i just can't get my body to move. especially when I'm daydreaming. because, why would i get up and do the boring thing when i can watch my story in my head ? it's so much easier to sit and do nothing. but as we all know, that ADHD paralysis is so so SO stress inducing, the best option is to always get up and try to force yourself to. idk if non-ADHD MaDD will relate at all though, because that paralysis is mostly exclusive to those with ADHD afaik, but for me, my MaDD makes it much worse. anyways, that probably didn't make much sense sorry

write down what everyone is saying. this makes it much easier to keep track of what they are saying and stay present, but it also documents the conversation as well. so even if you weren't that present during the conversation, or you're worried you'll forget something important, you'll have a record to read back on later if you need! and also with created alters/headmates, keeping track of their progress is always incredibly important!!

don't listen to music! this one might be a bit of a given but unless it's like instrumental music that you genuinely won't pay that much attention to but still helps you focus, DON'T listen to it. songs are an easy gateway into a daydream. ESPECIALLY songs with lyrics, even ones that you can't understand because they're in another language, which by the way for literally any other thing you need to focus on, that's a great tip, listening to music in other languages, because you can still focus with interesting music in the background but the lyrics arent grabbing you at all. anyways back to plural-related MaDD tips, yeah, don't listen to music. even if that song usually doesn't catch your attention. for me, if i'm talking, internally or externally, and there's music with lyrics playing, i reallyyy cannot focus on what i'm(or others, again, internally or externally) are saying. idk, might just be some sort of auditory processing issue related to my ADHD but i cannot focus on it, and because it's hard, i just need to pick one, and sometimes my brain picks the song and i just. stop talking. and start daydreaming.

idk what to do if you're not fronting and trying to communicate with whoever is fronting, because i've not switched(like i mentioned before, the host, who is me, has never not been the one fronting), but if anyone has any other tips either related to that or the ones i already have here, please feel free to let me know because i'd love to hear them and i'm sure others do too!! anyways, i hope i helped, idk this might be too specific to me.

[imaginary-bah]

pspspsps everyone on my blog rn or sees this post should go follow @dinonuggets-bah trust me..

[scr33ch1ng]

I dont really understand the traumagenic vs endogenic discourse.maybe it's because I'm older, but I don't see the point. There's a million reasons why I could say it's irrelevant, but in life you're constantly going to see things you don't particularly understand , and you're just gonna have to get that sometimes, it's none of your business. It's none of my business how someone is a system or how many alters/headmates they have or what language they prefer. It's their own lives, not mine. A lot of traumagenics feel caught up in their own misery going "why would you want to be this way????" That's not really the question here.

Back in the truscum days, ppl would say the same thing: why would you want to be/make this character trans, obviously it's a condition that's only perpetuating misery.

Well maybe to you it does, but not to everyone else. Your experiences are not universal, and people will interpret the same exact situation differently based on their experiences.

At the very least, if someone wants to make an embarrassment of themselves, that's no skin off your back.

[your-local-people-eater]

same anon who asked the question about the strawpage today!

i totally understand taking a while to find out that you're traumagenic, parts who gatekeep trauma can be pretty pesky like that 😭😭 you're very valid

we don't have any headmates who keep trauma, it had just been blocked so severely from us 😭 we still barely know lol

[radsplin]

it is my humble opinion that the world needs more fantst fanart, i could have swarm tumblr had more of it but i cant find it so there should be more of it

[toyotamatchstickcollective]

full of happy

are you full of happy?

im full of happy

my headmates make me happy

-Dr. Kel

[rahdoll]

How would people feel if I made a discord server thingy? Mostly for dragon ball ppl (Fictive/Irls/Kins)?

I've gotten use to Discord now, and I'd think it would be super cool! Though if there are already running DB discord up, I would love a link!

It could be like capsule corp themed or like Shinron Themed cause I feel like the dragon needs a little more love these days (And he's fuckin cool)!

[syshop-culture-is]

syshop culture is coming up with Minecraft-style "commands" to help facilitate travel between yourselves and your partner system

Syshop Culture Is

[protectingtulpas]

Hi! 💜🔗 anon here! We just wanted to thank you for your help when we first realized that we’re a system, it really helped and we’ve settled on paragenic as our system origin.

We have a total of 9 headmates now including our newest member & the system little who named flapself after you! She found the name Badeline in our memory and decided on it, flap really loves the name & she’s v excited that I’m writing this ask rn. :)

Holy shi- wait she's a little- shiite, after me?? Dang I'm honored, astounded!! This made my day. Glad you guys were able to figure things out origin wise, and I'm SO PSYCHED Badeline likes the name!! She's awesome all the power to flap 👍👍 have an AWESOME day!!