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Kasautii Flashbacks Aur Promises Kay

Disclaimer: A lengthy frustrated post (2500+ words) on your way. Has lots of grammatical errors and is not proof read. So please read on your own discretion.

After watching 69 episodes of Kasautii Zindagii Kay, I decided that I will quit watching it regularly, but I continued watching it intermittently. I very well knew the implications of signing up for EK’s shows. But still, I wanted to give it a try, and honestly, for the pretty faces of the leads because they screamed chemistry. Look at these pictures launched initially - especially the down section of the picture --

Backstory :

KZK1 was one of those disastrous stuffs ever made for ITV. Pathetic aesthetics, horrible make-ups (that didn’t change for this season as well), lackadaisical writing, multiple assassinations/butchering of characters, having sudden 180 and 270 degree turns and the offscreen dynamics kinda influencing the plot and what not? I used to watch KZK1 because 2001 was when I was residing in Kolkata. My love for Bangla had signed me up for that stupid show which I stopped watching after certain point of time (Waise, there is nothing Bangali except the names in both the seasons, it was just used to make it attractive and avant garde. Bangali people in general don’t wear these Devdas-inspo clothes and jewellery. Every time I see Mohini and Nivi of KZK2, I feel sorry for them because jewellery must be really heavy and wearing them on daily basis is bit uncomfortable even when you are getting paid for it.). The only saving grace of the show were the actors and their performances (which cannot be matched by the new season), otherwise no one was going to watch the show for its stupid story. Except the much popular title song, Shwetha Tiwari’s performance, Moloy-Rajesh’s bromance, there was nothing worthy in KZK1. Anurag and Prerna got united only when they died. Some felt that they were true OTP, and I beg to differ here.  

It is 2019 and everything is so out-of-place with KZK2 since its inception. Ekta’s much ambitious project is a flop show. It was much evident and we all knew that EK is EK and she will take the same S1 way. KZK2 proved itself to be a mere aesthetic-improvised photocopy of KZK1. There are many scenes in the show which are filmed same-to-same. The editing is pathetic and the noticeable bloopers are increasing day by day. These promos and claims of going the different way were just marketing gimmicks. In KZK1, AnuPre getting to know each other, falling in love and getting physically intimate, all happened in just 20-25 episodes. This time they wanted to avoid that and hence went the Naveen way, only to get back to the quintessential track of Anu marrying Komo and Prerna becoming pregnant. Naveen babu and his creepy tactics were much dragged and the writers deliberately elevated Anurag’s character and turned him the great saviour. Even the SitaaraPlus Instagram was full of Anurag’s gun-gaan. I bet that the channels’ PR team are a bunch of fangirls. We see that the so-called smart Anurag Basu is perhaps the dumbest ML of 2018/19 whose all plans were epic fails. I mean come on, Moloy was lot better than him in finding proofs against Komolika. I miss Moloy man, he was such a comic relief (although I must agree that the character has some serious issues like him being okay whenever Nivedita or Mohini badmouths Sharma’s, at least he can knock some sense into them about etiquette if not there, then in private). I keep forgetting that it’s a Hindi TV show and that too a Balaji show. Tellyworld mein itna dimaag kahan kisi ke paas hota hai?  😂

Anurag was given heavy dialogues which were full of promises. Sentence ke aage ek promise and sentence ke peeche ek promise (if possible I would like to go into the TV and smack his head if he daresay that word again 😤) Prerna was shown as that abla majboor naari of 2019 who is so gareeb that she had to resort to marriage to ensure that unke sar par chhat rahe. She was never given the character growth she deserved (why does Hindi TV revolve around shaadi? matlab har problem ka solution either function or shaadi?). It is natural that audiences started feeling that Anurag was the only one who contributed more to this story because we never were shown Prerna’s side of story. During the track, Anurag kept giving Prerna mixed signals (dosti ke liye aaj kal, in 2019 koi bhi itna sab nahi karta like jaan jokhim mein daalna especially when Prerna herself told you initially to back off). Getting engaged to Mishka whom he clearly didn’t love while being so confused about Prerna was the first downfall. Anurag didn’t bother to tell Mishka that he doesn’t want to marry her. On top of it, he promised Prerna of marriage and got physically intimate with her and then asked Veena, her hand for marriage. He publicly insulted Prerna and married Komolika. How ugly is this!!! How do the writers expect people to connect to him, how much ever good or noble his intentions may be? There is no doubt he is selfless and has the best interests of everyone in his heart especially Prerna, but is that enough? He can’t be redeemed after what he did to Prerna, because actions speak louder than words. What makes this sequence worse is the damn FLASHBACKS! AnuPre consummation was shown to a viewer as a FB when a pregnant Prerna recollects this at the hospital. This makes it more weird and gross! Like, how on earth people get busy getting intimate when some gunde are after your lives? I know, that you have confessed your love to each other, but itni urgency kis baat ki? Writers have destroyed that innocence and purity which was there at the time of confession. The editing and song sequence was so terrible. The only thing that is bearable is the actors who are making the characters believable, otherwise the storyline is just chutiyaapa.

Writers, have degraded everything just because you wanted to highlight the much-hyped character Komolika? Hina is a pretty woman who has achieved a lot in her career and deserves the love she gets from her fans. I kinda really liked her makeup (it was inspired by Bipasha Basu) as a Bong Bride but the costume was again meh. But the character portrayed by her was an iconic one and she has been a huge let down. I don’t get any vamp feels from her. She appears more of a comic character who only knows to make faces. And a special mention to her style statement which is just like her role. Costume designers, please, rich people like KoMoNi never dress like that. Those costumes are everything but sophisticated and classy.

Also, I think it’s high time that these fangirls stop idolising Anurag Basu 2.0. A person who cannot clarify things and take a stand for his love and keeps listening to all the accusations and taunts thrown at her by the ladies of his family and later justifies it by saying that it’s all because they were concerned is plain bullshit. He may be a gentleman and loves his family, and Prerna, but he is not worth stanning!!! Is this the same Anurag Basu who warned Naveen Babu that “Agar Prerna pe mera dil aa gaya na, toh aap, aapki sagaai, aapki daleelein koi nahi rok paayega mujhe Prerna ko apna banana se.”? If he is, then why did he fall prey to Komolika’s blackmailing? Naveen was also equally creepy, dangerous and comical (Saajan ji ghar aaye dance was EPIC). See what the writers have done!

Even during Naveen’s track, they desperately wanted to introduce Komolika but couldn’t do it due to Hina’s prior commitments. To venture Komolika they again brought Mishka (who was actually that London wali shaadi-shuda ladki whose name is Sarika 🤣 ). To link Prerna and Komolika, they planned Ronit-Shivani’s angle which is long forgotten (Shivani doesn’t remember that she is pregnant 🤣 ). So many loose ends are conveniently forgotten. Also, what kind of a mother is Mohini?😳  She is so ignorant. Can’t she understand what her son wants and I am bewildered by how she accepted Komolika without any problem when technically Anu was engaged to Mishka? Terrible!

At least after Naveen track, they could have explored AnuPre. I remember that one small snippet in Prerna’s sangeet with Naveen where we get to know that Anurag stopped talking to Prerna because she cheated him in a game in their childhood. We could have been shown many such things instead of that stupid Naveen track. Although the journey of AnuPre in KZK1 was only 20-25 episodes, it was satisfying because there were no other parallel tracks going on and they concentrated on AnuPre bonding.

When the channel dropped the shaadi wala promo (only to get transformed into No-Shaadi-Only-Tika later), it became a rage and people were like happy that it is not going the S1 way only to get disheartened. The confession was subtle and beautifully shot. Yet, I couldn’t feel the depth. Dialogues were always out of place and meaningless in this show. Just fire the dialogue writers man, it’s making everything more confusing because there is no sync between dialogues, story and character progression! Also, I knew that you were gonna bring that pandit to legalise the tika marriage, I mean by-the-virtue-of-air-maang-got-filled-by-sindoor-marriage on an auspicious muhurat after 15 odd years. That was a nice move to legalise the existence of Prem.🤣

The AltBalaji’s synopsis of the show was screaming since eons – “An epic saga of Anurag and Prerna’s soul-stirring romance. The story begins with one unintentional betrayal that spoils Anurag’s relationship with his soul-mate Prerna and is followed by the wicked twists added by Komolika. Their lives go through a whirlwind of emotions, trials, sufferings, twists, and terrible confusions, which destiny plays out for them. Only time will reveal how they are destined to live for each other, but not with each other.”. Coming to this unintentional betrayal, let me clarify that there is NO UNINTENTIONAL BETRAYAL here because Anurag intentionally chose this to save his family and business. When two people are in a relationship, one person has no right to take decisions for both. Prerna asked him, begged him literally but he just slammed his decision on her. I don’t give a damn to this stupid sacrifice “Thorn Bird” kinda love. People feel sad for Anurag being the Thorn Bird here, but he is the one who had landed himself into this worthless sacrifice as Anupam notes.

People are excited to see strong Prerna. I could have been happier if they went ahead with S1 way here instead. She was always initially taunted for being stupid, having small brains and of lower class. Proving her mettle and becoming successful on her own would have been a befitting reply. It is so against your self-respect to land yourselves again amidst of those Basu’s. I am not surprised that you like Shivani have forgotten about your pregnancy and how harmful it could be for your child to survive especially when people like Komolika are living in the same house. And there is nothing new in this track. EK's saalon purana same formula hai - Mix and Match. Apne serials mein hi naye serials ke stories revolve hote rehte hai. In her show, Kya Hua Tera Vaada, the same thing happened. When Vihaan married Anika, Bulbul entered along with Anika and did all the grihpravesh rasams and started living with them. Of course, this new Prerna is a treat to watch (she has shown everyone their place with sass) and it is worth watching for all entertainment. Erica nails such scenes and through this track she is gonna get her due. (I loved her stint in KRPKAB post leap). Also, what is with this Anurag planning to get rid of Komolika by getting closer to her? Like really man!? You appear like a milksop. The lollipops of AnuPre flashbacks or eyelocks which they are inserting in the middle of the 21 minutes of bakwaas is not gonna get them TRPs. For me, they have ruined it. Everything is beyond redemption now.

We all know what happens when a thing is excessively marketed/promoted. It unnecessarily increases the hype and expectations of people, which when not met will lead to utter disappointment. EK has hired SRK to do the honours, which must have costed her a bomb. Heavy social media promotion through various videos & BTS scenes has ignited curiosity and they wanted to play with this and all fell for it. Some wanted to explore it as a new show and some were there to draw comparisions because of nostalgia with a hope that things would be different this time coz it’s 2018/2019.  😂 😂 😂 Be it 2001 or 2019 things have not changed in TV. Film Industries are gradually transforming themselves and are producing films with unconventional concepts. They are churning out good amount of content driven/art films every year. We know that TV actors don’t have many choices. Both Parth & Erica are good actors. Actors get paid irrespective of whatever they portray. Still, I sometimes do feel bad seeing all the potential being wasted. But yeah, the casting is on point. The chemistry is so good. But, what we get in the name of the great KZK 2 is just the same recycled shit. Balaji didn’t need to inaugurate, the statues of love everywhere (like really?). If it were other producers, (well, they won’t be spending mammoth, but let us hypothetically assume) and they are not able to meet the expectations, to continue their stint, they would succumb to ratings based instant-noodle-tracks-twists-turns kinda plots. But EK is EK, whose team loves to cook noodles from Day 1, toh itna fizool karcha kyun karna bhai? She could have been a little prudent and invested some money in hiring better script writers and agar kismat acchi hoti hamari aur actors ki toh, acche story mil jaati. Also, many dynamics could have been explored. Khair, chhodo, main bhi kiske baare mein bol rahi hoon 😂 😂 😂 What else can we expect from a Balaji show? It’s just villains, multiple MUs, separations and sacrifices all over the place. I just wish TRPs teach her a lesson.

P.S: Okay, some people say that Prerna should have understood that Anurag has some majboori like she had while almost marrying Naveen babu. No one in their right state of mind would think about majboori and stuff after getting humiliated publicly and getting mocked for her love. And, agar tellyworld mein itna brains leads ke pass hote toh yeh shaadi mandap tak nahi pahunchti.

P.P.S: I just don’t understand what is the problem with SitaaraPlus. Come on man, why on earth do you love showing all the wrong messages to the society under the tagline “Baat Nayi”? Everyone is aware of your partiality towards Gul and Ekta’s shows. However regressive they might be, you just keep extending them and you simply pulled the plug off for the Dopahar shows which were good content wise and concept wise. Everyone here is to do business and so you are, so stop bluffing people under your stupid tagline. Also, don’t mislead people like you did here. Thank God I didn’t subscribe to Star Value Pack of yours. Bye-Bye.

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*At Tiwari Killa* It was the day of Preeti and Pushkar's wedding. The whole day had been chaotic with everyone running around trying to finish up some last minute preparations. After Sumo had finished helping Preeti get ready, she went to her room to get ready quickly. As Sumo was doing her hair, she couldn't help but remember how she hadn't seen Shravan in three days. To others, three days may seem like no big deal but for these two love-birds three days felt like an eternity. The reason for their lack of meeting was none other than an argument which broke out between the two. It started off as something silly but then things got a little serious when Shravan started throwing his temper tantrum and brought up some things from the past which made Sumo upset and angry. Sumo sighed sadly as she thought about their last fight. She missed Shravan, that much was apparent but neither were willing to let go of their egos to take a step towards reconciliation. After finishing doing her hair and makeup, Sumo put on her lehenga which was a pretty shade of bluish-green. She tried to tie the dori on the back of her blouse but to no avail so she decided to call out to her masi for help. "Masi!" Sumo called out peaking from the frame of the door in her room which was open slightly. Sumo called out a few more times before giving up. "Ghar mein itna shor ho raha hai ki masi ko meri aawaz shaayad nahi sunaayi di. Main khud phir se koshish karti hoon," Sumo muttered to herself, reaching for the dori on her back. Sumo was so engrossed in her task that she had forgotten to lock her door. She didn't even notice the intruder who had entered her room and was now walking towards her. Suddenly, someone took the dori from Sumo's hands. Sumo gasped in surprise and turned around to see none other than her super khadoos best friend standing there looking handsome as usual in a black sherwani. Sumo's heartbeat picked up but she refrained from showing her emotions to Shravan. She was still upset with him. "Tum yahan kya kar rahe ho?" Sumo asked Shravan crossly. "Mujhe kisi ki aawaz sunaayi di toh main dekhne chala aaya. Shaayad kisi ko meri help ki zaroorat hai," Shravan replied with a smug smile forming on his face. "Maine masi ko aawaz di thi, tumhe nahin. Mujhe tumhari help ki koi zaroorat nahi hai. Jao yahan se," Sumo replied in turn, making sure to shoot Shravan one of her meanest looks. Of course, that mean look didn't affect Shravan at all. In fact, he laughed out loud when he saw her glare. "Mujhse se ab tak naaraz ho?" Shravan asked softly as he took Sumo's hands into his and looked at her intently. Sumo looked up and thought sarcastically to herself, "Naaraz na rahoon toh kya karoon, tumhari aarti utaroon?" Sumo bit her tongue and refrained from replying to him out loud. She looked everywhere but at him and this frustrated Shravan to no end. He knew what she was doing. She was making him suffer and he agreed he deserved it after all, he had hurt his Sumo. He had been getting the silent treatment from her for three days. He had called her yesterday to apologize but she hadn't picked up her phone so he had messaged her with a "Sorry." "Sumoooo," Shravan groaned. "Maine tumhe sorry bola toh tha. Tumne apni messages nahi check kari kya? Aur maine tumhe call bhi kiya tha par tumne apna phone nahi uthaya."     Sumo finally looked up at him and replied with irritation apparent in her tone, "Aise kisi ko sorry bolte hai? Ek message ke through who bhi tab jab galti tumhari thi aur jhagda bi tumne shuru kiya tha." "Main maanta hoon galti meri thi and I'm sorry Sumo. I'm really very sorry. Please mujhe maaf kardo. I miss you," Shravan pleaded feigning his signature puppy-dog eyes. "Apology not accepted. Ab jao yahan se. Mujhe tumhari iss jhooti sorry aur help ki koi zaroorat nahi hai," Sumo replied as she turned around facing the mirror. A slight smile graced her face as she pictured the cute look on Shravan's face. She knew he was sorry and she had already forgiven him too, but she wanted him to suffer a bit. "Sumo tu kitni evil hai," Sumo thought to herself and smirked. Suddenly, Sumo felt Shravan grab her waist and jerk her backwards, right into his chest. Sumo's eyes widened at the intimate position Shravan had initiated. She felt his hard chest pressed firmly against her back and she closed her eyes. She could feel the heat radiating from his chest and this was leaving Sumo breathless. Sumo slowly whispered with her eyes still closed, "S-S-Sh-Shravan...tum yeh kya kar rahe ho?" Shravan smirked seeing Sumo's closed eyes and whispered into her ear in a hoarse voice, "Tumhari help kar raha hoon." With that being said, Shravan detached himself from Sumo and proceeded to tie the dori on her blouse. He made sure to lightly trace his hands across Sumo's neck just to get a reaction out of her. He loved how his sheer presence and closeness affected Sumo as he knew no one else made her feel the way he does. All this time while Shravan continued to tease her, Sumo was breathing heavily and she felt herself turning into a puddle of mush. Shravan's closeness left her senseless. She was hyperaware of everything Shravan was doing right now and that included how he ran his hands across her back. Sumo cleared her throat and tried to speak normally, "Shravan, chhodo mujhe. Koi dekh lega humme." "Pehle tum mujhe maaf karo. Uske baad mein tumhe jaane doonga," Shravan replied cheekily pulling Sumo back into him. "Shravan, jao yahan se, please. Mujhe masi aur mamiji ki help bhi karni hai," Sumo pleaded. "Pehle maaf karo. I'm sorry Sumo. Please maaf kardo," Shravan whispered into Sumo's ear as he placed a light kiss on the side of her neck. Sumo's eyes widened in surprised and she pushed Shravan away. "Shravan, main tumhe maaf kar chuki hoon, okay. Ab jao yahan se isse pehle koi humme dekh le." "Theek hai...tum itne pyaar se bol rahi ho toh main chala jaata hoon," Shravan smirked at Sumo and left her room. Sumo sighed in relief. She could still feel Shravan's touch on her body and she instantly blushed a deep red. "Shravan mujhe kisi roz pagal kar ke hi chhodega," Sumo spoke out loud looking at herself in the mirror and letting a smile grace her reddened face as she tried to calm her frantically beating heart. *An Hour Later* Sumo was helping mamiji with some last minute tasks before the bride and groom came out and sat in the mandap. All this time while Sumo was engrossed in her task, someone's eyes were on her and this someone was none other than Aditya. Sumo had noticed him staring at her but she disregarded it and continued with her work. Even then, he didn't leave her alone but kept offering to help her with things. He also refused to leave her side. There was someone else who had seen Aditya's stares and advances towards Sumo and who was now also fuming with anger and burning with jealousy. So when Sumo went to bring the last of the things Mamiji had asked for, she felt someone grab her hands and pull her into the room where all the things for the wedding were put. She was about to scream when she noticed it was just Shravan. (A/N: Aditya isn't all that bad in this version. He's still clingy and annoying but nothing like what he became in EDKV). "Shravan! Main abhi bahot busy hoon. Please jaane do," Sumo pleaded looking at the door. "Nahin. Pehle tum mujhe yeh batao ki tumne notice kiya woh Aditya tumhe kaise ghoor raha tha?" Shravan questioned Sumo. "Woh ghoor nahin raha tha. Woh sirf meri help kar raha tha," Sumo replied carefully so as not to anger Shravan. "Yeh sirf aaj ki baat nahin hai Sumo. Woh hamesha tumhare peeche hi laga rehta hai aur tumse chipak kar sabhi jagah jata hai. Aur aaj toh woh tumhe aise dekh raha tha jaise woh tumhe khaa hi jaayega. Kitna irritating aur clingy banda hai," Shravan said grinding his teeth. "Shravan...mujhe na kahin se jalne ki badhbu aarahi hai. Fire brigade ko bulau?" Sumo laughed. "Sumo, yeh hasne ki baat nahin hai. Tum jaanti ho iska matlab kya hai na? Woh tumhe dost nahin par usse kuch zyada hi manta hai," Shravan replied intensely. "Shravan aisa kuch nahin hai. Hum sirf dost hai. Just calm down okay. Shaadi ka maahol hai. Please gussa mat ho," Sumo said in an attempt to calm him down. "Sumo," Shravan said as he grasped her shoulder gently, "Main chahta hoon ki hum apne baare mein humare families ko sab kuch bata dein woh bhi jaldi se jaldi." "Itni jaldi, kyun?" Suman questioned. "Varna nanaji tumhari shaadi uss Aditya ke saath kar denge," Shravan said with irritation coating his voice. "Shravan, aisa kuch nahi hoga okay. Relax. Main sirf tumse pyaar karti hoon aur kisi aur se shaadi karne ke baare mein toh soch bhi nahi sakti. Hum apni families ko bahot jald sab kuch bata denge, theek hai," Sumo replied softly holding Shravan's hands. Just then Shravan enveloped Sumo into a tight hug. Sumo hugged him back tightly knowing that he feared losing her just like he lost his mom. No words were needed for them to convey their emotions to each other. They both knew each other very well and for them, their eyes and actions did all the talking. Sumo returning his hug tightly reassured Shravan that she would not leave him, ever. After a few more seconds, Sumo pulled away from the hug. "Ab main jaun? Preeti aur Pushkar ki shaadi hone wali hai," Sumo smiled at Shravan lovingly while he just nodded and let her go. *During Preeti and Pushkar's Wedding* It was now time for the pheras and the dulha and dulhann had stood up to complete them. As Preeti and Pushkar were walking around the mandap, everyone else were showering them with flower petals. Sumo soon felt herself being pelted with flower petals and turned around to see Shravan smiling cheekily and continuing to throw the flower petals at her. She tried to make him stop but to no avail. She smiled helplessly and couldn't help but find Shravan's actions cute. Nobody else noticed the love-birds' cute moment except for Aditya. He already had a feeling that something was going on between the two but he didn't want to believe it. Now, he looked on sadly and felt heartbroken because he had finally realized that Suman could never be his; her and Shravan were made Ek Duje Ke Vaaste.

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