#ive been genderfluid and bigender all to include some type of man-like gender alongside my agenderness | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

peri · 7 months ago

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ive decided to drop the bigender label. originally i used it dual-wielding being a guy and agender at the same time or at fluctuating times coz i wanted to be perceived a certain way ... but ive decided that ultimately i am just agender, one who would prefer to be treated like a guy socially, but in safe spaces can be agender in peace. i like masc terms still, but i am not too fond of being called a man exactly anymore. guy, dude, boy, husband, boyfriend, etc are all good still though.

i am back to where i was like 3-4 years ago: just some agender guy. i had the right idea.

#log date.txt #its so funny tho coz like #as soon as i stopped identifying as agender #i like. missed it. but i just felt like i needed to move in a different direction #as i was processing transitioning and how i want to be seen socially #ive been genderfluid and bigender all to include some type of man-like gender alongside my agenderness #but i think thats just me grappling with dysphoria #i like being agender. it's always felt right for me. and i will deal with how i am perceived as it comes.#i dont like the idea of explaining my identity to everyone all the time so i wont.#if you get it you get it

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