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How do you talk about "proship" stuff without immediately getting bombarded with hate and dismissed as a terrible person?
I'm on your side, but it seems most people are not, and not willing to listen at all.
I wanna make some small things clear lol I am not the spokesperson for this topic. There are far more people who are more articulate and have done more research and I would rather just be drawing lol
I usually state that if you're not a great speaker or can't articulate yourself very well, link to the experts that understand how this stuff works. Like I've said before, a lot of the therapists and articles I have linked have done a better job than I on the topic. Because you might be actually hurting your case when you're trying to explain to someone these things and you are either hung up on the trees over the forest or can't explain something because they catch you on a minute detail.
That being said, the main advice I would give is to not to use these loaded terms themselves, just the dynamic itself. In all honesty, if you use that kind of terminology (proship/anti), it usually turns people's brains off and makes them think you're weird automatically.
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I would just point out that there's a wide range of different types of stories (from tv shows to myths of yore) that have spanned centuries--even some of which featuring taboos. And the ills of society do not have these stories to blame.
I am tired, because when I think we've moved on from these rehashed arguments and stupid discourse about media , I come to find arguments that were settled ten years ago are rearing their heads again. And this time they're coming with threats!
They did this with D&D and rock music. (You would be lured into satanic rituals and be deviants) They did this was violent movies and video games (You would want to commit murders or want murderers to go free) They did with this with rap and music videos (You would be hypnotized into violence by the artist and you would want to be a harlot) They did this with anime (Foreign media that is super weird and turn people into super freaks) They did this was queer media (Gonna turn you gay) They did this with superheroes (Children will think they can fly, they think punching will solve their problems)
Now this type of persecution comes for people that are doing taboo fanworks. I am tired of seeing this shit. Hindsight is free--those who were young for these old campaigns can see this stuff clearly for what it is: veiled right-wing rhetoric that is easily adopted by useful idiots who believe they are "helping". This time, the main push has been from young people in fandom spaces.
This is how it works.
All art communicates worldviews to some extent, but that doesn't make everything propaganda. Artists aren't working to eliminate other worldviews or stifle the existence of other artists--that is actually what propaganda is. It often comes from a perspective that embraces the imperialist or patriarchal status quo.
To someone on the fence who might be reading this: art is subjective. Your need to moralize what you consume is fraught. Consuming "good" media made with "good morals" and not "taboo" doesn't make you live a good life or become a good person. You're going to hit a wall one of these days where something you enjoy will be seen as something gross/repulsive/troubling and when you have been cut off from all those who would have defended you, you will have no one around you. If you feel like you are constantly put under a magnifying glass by said friends over what you ship, what art you enjoy.... Its not healthy! When you can't unfollow or say how you truly feel in a group of people and feel "unsafe" if you were to leave…. THAT'S A CULT. I find that it's always the same people who start shit that will be repeating this behaviour wherever they go. They literally act like HOAs but instead of your halloween ornaments staying up for too long, they are saying you can't enjoy your Greek God incest fics.
One last thing to remember: if you're having this conversation, and a person takes the worst possible light from what you say…they are not trying to have a conversation with you, they are acting against you.
#sea talks#I really want this to die because I want to be as thoughtful about this but really I want to just draw man lol#learn to just block and leave#I had to literally pull up so many dissertation and shit to do this#also be mean and harass people expect it to return it to you as we say in chinese 天打五雷轰
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#this is a reminder for myself to watch TGCF season 2#art#myart#my art#long time no art tumblr nation!!!#i got an ipad finally#life is good#I'll be leaving to college in like. 2 days#aaaaaa#tgcf#just experimenting#tian guan ci fu#heaven official's blessing#i genuinely need to learn the art fundamentals cuz ik i suck lmaoooo#hua cheng#san lang#crimson rain sought flower#i did not flip the canvas im so sorry#I'm so blocked rn#anatomy? facial anatomy? who is she?#me things#loner vociferation
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DNI: BIGOTS (TRANSPHOBES, HOMOPHOBES, RACISTS, ETC.), PEDOPHILES, ZOOPHILES, PROSHIPPERS
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oh so alisaie’s exaggerated bully behavior is 80% fanon. saying this she casually picks up a large rock
#say one thing wrong to me and you will have a wonderful few days with the rock#if angry silly girls have 100 fans etc if they have 0 fans i have died#sorry i saw a YouTube meme i vehemently disliked on principle and got mad at the only child behavior-#kipspeak#she is just short tempered and uses anger to mask other more ‘shameful’ emotions!!! alphy did the same thing with just deciding not#to express them. which is still not good and I think why he breaks and ends up teary so often now#this shortness does not translate to actually being mean to people. she only uses being mean as a shield for herself and being snarky#Is just fun for her. it’s fun for Me. you have to inconsequentually tease people or they’ll never learn to laugh at themselves#the twins and thancred 🫵 do this thing where they have big emotions but they don’t want anyone to SEE they have big weird emotions#so alphy pretends he doesn’t have them under a veneer of dignity and alisaie pretends the emotions are Something Else. thancred is#just so emotionally constipated he has trouble expressing anything. he’s got enough baggage for a flatbed#anyways. alisaie is such a compassionate and kind girl and she learned how to make snarky jokes and went ham. and she hates appearing sad o#weak or vulnerable so she blocks it off with an unapproachable emotion so no one pities her and they maybe get on with the plot#it is in fact also great at getting ppl to move away from the sad or embarrassing topic. even if the tradeoff is being more offputting#she would never (grabs youtube meme) she would never seriously bully her brother. this is sibling ribbing only. Cain instinct#just leave her be she is learning how to snark humor and she loves it she loves being sharp. alphy has wit he just keeps it close#my brother didn’t learn how to tell or receive a joke until he was 14 he took everything so seriously. he can do it now though and he’s#HILARIOUS. Don’t tell him I said that. my man knows exactly where the funny points are even if he hasn’t learned when to stop yet#too many tags. Whatever. jokey snark alisaie who sometimes compliments is happy alisaie grouchy snappy angry alisaie is way too stressed#very easy way to tell between the two. even alphy can tell between the two I believe! He tends to rib back in protest if they’re having fun#and try to stop her if they’re not having fun. case in point ‘what is that supposed to mean?!’ vs ‘alisaie ryne was only trying to help.’#I know they’re twins but that’s such an intensely older sibling thing to do that it reels me#LONG TAGS AND THREE EDITS TO ADD ON SHORT I resent this stereotype taken too far into ooc behavior. it happened with nya#It will happen again and as a postscript let me regale you with Things U Can Notice About Character Motivation and Actions—#I’m not done let me s#she and raha are friends now I decree. ‘haha you like me’ SPUTTERING PROTEST FROM BOTH
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very weird that the rpc wants to do “better” but feels attacked when their “way” of “better” is rightfully criticized
#love when me and my friends get blocked for being right#it just further proves the point that people don’t ACTUALLY want to learn and do better#they just want to FEEL as though they’re doing something#and thats on performative !#if u disagree with my previous post u can leave#it’s not the space i want to cultivate tyyyyy
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this is my favorite author's note/comment from Worm so far it's the first time i've seen Wildbow use an emote at all and i love the placement here
#worm liveblog#<- block that tag if u dont care and dont want to see me continue going crazy about this#its v interesting to see the critiques ppl were leaving circa 2011#i can't tell if i'm just personally biased#but there are so many ppl that dont seem to understand that taylor trying to be a 'good guy' while also being a 'bad guy' is like#the point.#its complex bro. its not black and white. taylor needs to learn that. and so do some of these commenters#personally i would like to see her get worse :)
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I was going to say something but remembered I am 19 and most likely 5-6 years older than most of you so I'm not going to apply adult logic to teenagers still in middle/high school
#💻²🔊#Some people need to learn that not everyone will like you#And if someone makes it clear they don't#You need to move on#You don't need to uhhh.... make a post about someone disliking you??#If you get blocked by someone#Chances are they don't like you#And you need to stop wasting your time on them when you have people that DO like you#Sooner or later you need to gain some self respect and just leave those who don't behind#And I know as a child that's hard to do#Especially since most of you are... mentally ill....#/lh
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CALLOUTS, especially those with evidence, are not calls for harassment. They're not made to "fix" the people they're calling out. They are made for the sake of victims, and for future potential victims.
DO bad callouts exist? Bad cakes exist. Bad video games exist. Bad books exist. Of fucking course bad callouts made to harass people exist. Callouts with no evidence. Callouts over petty shit that very well could've been kept private.
PROVEN abusive behavior? Though? Stalking, block evading, vague blogging, harboring bad people in communities? If you blanketly call all callouts bad, you are letting people who overstep boundaries continue to do so. You let them get of scot-free. They can walk over to another user and do it again.
AND again. And again. And again. Because those users were not informed of that person's public behavior because maybe they deleted those vague blogging posts. Maybe they deleted their account only to come back under a different URL.
YOU cannot claim to hate drama when you engage with callouts in bad faith. You cannot act morally superior when your mindset enables abusers to get more victims at worst and at best letting some asshole who can't handle being blocked so he vague blogs about it every other day continue to exist in your community.
BUT all callouts bad. You cannot namedrop that person who has a pattern of behavior. No. That's harassment, since people will block them instead of giving them a chance. We'll just turn a blind eye to you making everyone around you uncomfortable, we guess.
#LOTS of fucking dumbassery happened the other day we were doing shit like yardwork on a tuesday afternoon#CURIO once again showing true for thee but not for me.#CURIO loves callouts. He loves it when he has an excuse to bitch and moan.#WE have a lot to reblog. Thank you to the other blogs who caught his behavior#THE anonymous messages are fucking pathetic btw#THE post namedropping was made July 31 but just NOW one of the people namedropped is getting anonymous messages about it?#CURIO. Spork. We know you're reading this. We want to say so many things to the both of you#BUT we don't want to give you more casual ammo to victimize yourselves more. Learn to leave people alone you “drama haters”#OUR IM's are still open by the by. Mr 'If you Block me You're Immature' has us blocked but
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spent a little too long on tiktok
HELLO FREAKS
#fandom purity culture is spreading like a damn fire over there my god#we must re learn the art of blocking and scrolling#argue in the comments for a little and then maybe leave it be?#not everything needs to be a thing#this is primarily targeted at arcane tik tok cause i'm not like super deep in that fandom HOWEVER#yall gotta chill#it's okay to love caitvi and understand that they were fucked over in s2#cuase it's just the truth i'm sorry#they are lovely lovely lesbians I LOVE THEM but s2 was rushed and vi's character was trampled for the sake of sesbian lex#also i just got lost in the comments of a video saying that smut yes the entire genre is bad#just inherently bad#harmful i believe was the word they used and again i beg you all to#block and scroll.#because you don't have to read it#you can critique aspects of it but smut is older than you and me so just get out of here please#MIND YOU i don't really read smut unless there's also plot happening (mostly)
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Oh also we got together with some friends and we all hung out n did crafts for an entire afternoon the other day n it was so fun and chill AND

I finished all the pieces for my cardigan!
I’m gonna try n block it a little so the edges dont curl as much but!!! Cardigan!!! Almost wearable!!!
#personal tag#its like. cheap acrylic yarn so idk how nice it’ll be to wea#but i made this specifically so i could have like. a kind of baseline on how long a project like this would take/what issues i would bump in#i have learned that i do not ever want to leave the back panel for last again oh my god.#i cant let myself do that to myself again i can not give myself the longest n biggest piece for last#the sleeves r also different bc i lowkey followed a youtube knitter’s first pattern#but the first sleeve i made felt a little too balloon-y? so i did like one less row of increases on the second sleeve n that feels nicer#so yeah! this was always meant to be a tryout cardigan. to learn n assess n such#AND I FINISHED ALL THE PIECES OF IT!!!#i started it in late November i believe#and now i just gotta. block it. and learn how to sew it together. and do that. and then it’ll be done
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It's 2024 can we please stop saying it's normal to trace or copying an entire drawing and pretending it's 100% your work? Just bc you changed the character or added clothes on a base you found on pinterest it doesn't mean you created original art
Edit: I need to specifying some things, or somebody might misinterpret this post in the future.
Tracing and copying are more than okay to use if you need to exercise or study stuff! Copying might be a bit better because you're actually training your eye and hand on how to make shapes and volumes. My best advice is, if you trace something, keep it for yourself and don't post it online (if you do, ask the original artist if they're okay with it)
Always use references, especially for anatomy stuff! It's not a cheat! Poses are complicated, and there are a lot of photographers posting pose packs FOR FREE TO USE! Or even artists drawing them :)
Remember to read the TERMS OF SERVICE when using a photo/ base you've found online: some people want credits, others are fine without them! But you have to check to know, and please be respectful
YCH (your character here) are NOT free to use bases; please know that. They are artwork from other artist showcasing a type of commission they are doing. And neither are WIPs
do NOT trust stuff you find on Pinterest. A great part of the artworks over there have been uploaded 1) without the artist consent and often 2) with a misleading use. Already happened to find other artist artworks or sketches being given out as "bases".
This post came from the fact some of the images used and traced were actually anatomy studies made by a very famous artist who requested for them not to be traced over (or if used like that, to give credits were it's due).
For the actual bases, they can be found on Twitter, and credits are required as well.
For that one traced artwork. It's actually a work in progress made by an artist, and I suppose it was uploaded on Pinterest, so some people might think of it as a base? Although it has on it "WIP" and the original artist name (if you've been drawing. You know exactly what those 2 things mean). The other things that bothered me it's while for the other there has been an attempt, this one it's traced 1 to 1. Didn't bother to change the character face at all. That's what makes me mad. Taking all the credits for something that you didn't do. That's just being lazy and not giving a fuck about art. Also they traced other artist's illustrations as well with their OCs so. I guess it's not just fandom art 😂
On a side note, this is something that I've seen happen quite a lot. And especially if you're doing commissions for a living, a trace accusation can destoy your carreer. Therefore, I won't tell this person a name or make a callout post. I did block them and moved on, and this was a vent post I had to do for myself.
#wren text tag#tw: vent#like tracing and copying are morally grey. If you want to trace to learn stuff or practice or study it's ok ig#maybe don't post it online or if you have to... don't trace from picture/other people artworks/bases you found online w/o giving credits#unless it's a base an artist made specifically for tracing purposes#I think this depends on where you draw the line bc I'm much more strict abt copying/tracing from art rather than photographs 🤔#with photos you've to do some mental exercise for your muscle memory + simplification studies#tracing feels a bit lazy to me. Are you a copyprinter perhaps? Or maybe that's because I'm not a couch potato idk#This vent needs some lore otherwise this looks so umpromted it's almost confusing 🙄#kinda found out sb who was copying or tracing both from fucking pose references from Pinterest and other people artworks 😅#like poses ref are ok but you should check the Terms of Condition of the original artist first. For the artworks plagiarized. DUDE#surprised no one has found out yet but if I see another copied drawing my netiquette is leaving my body and I'm turning into a HATER#or another comment like “omg your poses looks so dynamic”. I'm flying#btw I blocked them so my dash is free. Sadly we are also in the same disc server so I'm kinda cooked#thinking of leaving it so I don't have to start drama and discussions. I'm not a fan of call-out and stuff and if I can avoid it I will#btw I say copied/traced bc some are traced over while others are hopefully just eyeballed. What bothers me is the amount of plagiarized art#like almost half of those fanarts are copied poses. The other half are character standing on a white bg. I hope those aren't copied as well#it's already bad... but if only was just for the bases. That one traced artwork can almost be damaging to the fanbase reputation 🤦♀️ smh#there are only a few artist in that part of the fandom I don't need an art thief drama. I guess I will shut up and look away 😑#anyway that's the lore which didn't help with my Art Block. Actually it made worse. That's why it took me so long to be back lol 🤣😂😭#pov: you log on tumblr 🥰 and you have an art crisis 😍#Are u telling me I could have done that? Copying and tracing and taking all the credits instead of wasting time learning anatomy?! 🤯#Ok the last tag was sarcastic but wouldn't be funny. I wish I had the balls to be like that#And now that this post is published I can finally rest. I had this thing in drafts since September#To whom is asking about who this person is. I won't tell. I just want to forget what I saw. Ty and bye 💖✨️
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yaknow what. sometimes you can litteraly just unfollow someone if theyre freakin you out. and i think thats beautiful
#i guess i should elaborate more in the tags since this is just abotu a random incedent a while ago#but this post isnt about like. trying to block out world events bc i think thats vastly different#and honestly i dont advocate for that#i suppose i mean more interpersonal things. someone struggling with life events or trauma or bad habits#it sounds very morally wrong to say “just leave” but like#if youre not close with th person. i suppose ive learned its really not my responsibility to look out for everyone around me#again. this really easily crosses over into “have no empathy” and AGAIN i dont agree with that#but. sometimes the problems of internet strangers jsut arent yours to try to fix#my post. thats it
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went to the beach w kp & 4 other indian friends & 3 of us had NEVER surfed before girl WHEW it’s SO fun literally only 20quid to rent a wetsuit & board & i fucking smashed my toes on the sand so much, but also we 1) got the wrong tickets so we got off 1 stop early 2) went to find a bus & the bus that was supposed to be 15 min turned into an HOUR 3) on our way to find a bus back everyone’s phones are dying or dead bc it took us 3hrs longer to get there, cigarettes are out 4) all of the shops in town are closed & the town seems to have ONLY a tesco extra & 1 off license that sells a PACK FOR 15.65 A PACK WHICH IS FUCKING CRIMINAL ITS CHEAPER TO BUY IT FROM TESCO ARE U INSANE 5) the bus back to the other town kept skipping us bc the bus stop wasn’t the ACTUAL bus stop - i had 1 bowl since literally 11a & we got back at fucking 11p 😭😭😭
#diary#i was honestly abt to strangle EVERYBODY#‘do u have a cigarette’ ‘where’s ur vape’ ‘where are we going’ ‘which bus is it’ ‘do u have a ___’ ‘did u bring ___’ girl what am i DORA w#the magic fuckin BACKPACK ??? while ur UP MY ASS dig around & SEE IF SMTHGS IN THERE 😭😭😭😭#i literally broke sobriety again bc i was just#girl i was so agitated & there was 1 TRAIN LEFT BEFORE 11P so we needed to get the 2ND TO LAST BUS OF THE DAY#i deadass was like ‘if we miss that train i will make sure u all go blind’ ‘did u bring a knife’ ‘I DONT NEED 1’#AKSJAKSKAKKSJSKSSJAKJSKAHSKSHDLASKAKDLA#LIKE U BITCHES SMOKED ALL MY CIGARETTES MY VAPES DEAD MY PHONES DYING UR ALL DRUNK IM GOING TO KILL YALL 😭😭😭😭😭#<- me knowing i could never be a parent#tbh if i caught my kid smoking a cig id make em do the ol ‘im going to sit down in front of u w a fresh box of cigarettes & make u finish#the box or pass out’#YES IM STRICT#i think it’s so funny ok unrelated but like they’ll speak hindi & i’ve just#learned it through being around them kind of like i can’t speak it except for some word u know like matachot etc but i’ll Understand the#Context & what’s being Said#ASLKALSKALSKLAKSLAKSLAKSLA like while waiting for the train back 1 of them was talking abt me being a fool to the others - literally they’re#all indian & i had walked away so when i walked back he was still talkin but then i started giggling bc i knew he was talkin abt me & how i#pinched a bit of the kebab to throw to the seagull bc he offered it to me & i needed to bait the seagull w something & i pinched & tossed &#& he looked at me like 😦 bhenchod ! & then the seagull came over & i was like :D hi bestie <3333 but then when i started giggling after i#walked back he was like ‘what the fuck does he just know hindi now’#it makes me laugh so fucking HARD 😭😭😭😭😭 LIKE FUCK U I LIKE TO PARTICPATE IN COVERSATION IDC ABT LANGUAGE#like i’ve been surrounded by yall for the past#girl it’s been like a year i don’t even talk to british ppl or americans#ALSKALSKALSKALKSLAKSLALSLA MESS ! i love to slavsquat & kp hates it bc he’s like ‘we’re in the uk why are u sitting like this’ bc he thinks#it’s ’too indian’ ALSKALSKALSKALJSKAKDLA 😭😭😭😭😭 this hips were made for sitting#we’re definitely going to go back bc it’s SO CLOSE IF WE ACTUALLY USE THE TRANSPORT PROPERLY ITS ONLY LIKE AN HOUR OR SO COMMUTE EACH WAY#bring lunch whatever#i’m exhausted but also socially like bro i had to leave the donner place just to walk around the block for SOME QUIET#i’ve just been sososososo busy LOSING MY MIND
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I cannot express just how deeply disinterested I am in discourse about the cr fandom. Be toxic, I don't care
#critical role#cr spoilers#stg whenever something interesting happens half of what i see is just people talking about other people they saw being dumb#i hate this fandom this is why i want to leave you people are so toxic blah blah blah blah blah#learn to use the block button#talks#ginger ale
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Cavin'
#minecraft#last night I learned that spider jockeys can spawn from spider spawners and blocks of raw iron can spawn naturally!#also I legit got 44 diamonds! deepslate cave systems I love you#I used to hate them because you can't find very much coal on that level so I'd always run out and I'd have to leave to get more a lot#but now when I'm filling out maps I just make sure to mine out any surface coal I see and I bring a lot more coal down to the deepslate lvl#personable#minceraft#WeirdWorldDiaries
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