#making body-language analysis to try and make Jimin look like the bad guy

[lokisasylum]

Why are some jokers talking shit and putting the blame on Jimin for "not keeping in contact" with JK, but conveniently forgetting that JK didn't want to share the spotlight with ANYONE during both "SEVEN" and "Golden" era to the point that the avoided making dance challenges with the other members?

Oh but sure, Jimin's the asshole for not babying the one guy who was avoiding everyone (are we gonna forget also how he dissed Jimin on one of those vlives where he was getting piss-drunk & making an ass out of himself, which got Jimin dragged FOR MONTHS by jjks, kths and trashkookers alike? You guys have selective memory now?).

Nevermind that Jimin visited and comforted Jhope during Lollapalooza.

Nevermind that he visited Jin during MS, always remembered to write when it was his birthday.

Nevermind that he supported Suga during D DAY, went to his concerts and even accepted to perform Tony Montana.

Nevermind that he visited V during his promos & even participated in Vicnic.

Nevermind that he supported RM & JK's music by posting ss of him streaming for them.

Nevermind that he LITERALLY FLEW ACROSS THE GLOBE TO MEET JK & FILM A FUCKING TRAVEL VLOG WITH HIM--

Oh but he's such a shitty person because he forgot to bring the pacifier & the baby formula for the toddler with a tantrum on aisle 7, boohoo.

[stupendousfoxthing]

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There’s nothing wrong in being concerned for your faves wellbeing but there is an extremely thin line between being concerned and straight up projecting. You act as if Jk was on those trips with Jimin carrying loads of cement on his back building skyscrapers, he wasn’t. He wasn’t doing any strainous physical activity. He was doing activities he found fun, eating, sleeping, resting so how on earth could you have anything to complain about seeing him do this? He took a few days after or before some of his schedules to film a show where we basically see him doing the most mundane things with people he cares about. How on earth is this a bad thing?? If Jk wasn’t working, and decided to take a private trip and you happened to see him doing all those things he did on the trip would you have had the same complaint? You have even complained before that he could have used that time to do stuff for his album or music which makes me wonder if you really were concerned about him being sick or if your issue was that he was doing a show with Jimin.

Look, when you try to read people and then get to find out that you read situations or people wrong, the decent thing to do is let it go and stop trying to double down on your obviously wrong assumptions. Many of you assumed that Jk didn’t want to do the show, some of you said his “annoyance” at Jimin was because he really didn’t want to do the show but Jimin made him (don’t even deny it because there is lots of links I can pull up from taekook blogs saying these things and you liking and agreeing with them) some of you said he wanted other members there, some of you said he had more fun when Tae was there, but with just a single phrase, Jk completely sent all these theories flying through the window. These trips with Jimin for AYS were the best trips he had been on in his entire life!!! Not only did he want to do the show, he also enjoyed it so much that he proposed two more locations they could go to and as if that wasn’t enough, he thinks after all the numerous trips he’s been on in his 26 years on earth (he was 26 then) the best trips were the ones he took with Jimin during one of the busiest periods of his solo career. You can sit from the other side of your screen, watch his interactions with Jimin, try to read his body language and try to interpret his words in whichever way you want but you know that at the end of the day, those feelings are his alone and only Jk knows how Jk feels. You can try to analyze all you want but you would never get a right analysis by cherry picking and refusing to be objective and you were never objective in the first place.

You can feel concern and be worried about Jungkook’s wellbeing, that is not a bad thing. The bad thing is when you try to project your own feelings unto him. The bad thing is when you see him clearly saying he is having fun and having a good time yet you continue to insist that he isn’t. The bad thing is hearing his words and refusing to accept them because these words don’t match with the story you have in your heads. If Jk was too tired or too sick to film a travel show, you wouldn’t be the one to point that out to anybody. He has so many people around him who know him and love him more than you ever will, you will never know him or love him more than Jimin does, so know ur place as a fan and remain in it. You are not Jungkook’s mother or father, or sister, brother or relative, you are not even an aquaintance to him. You are literally nobody to him, he doesn’t know you exist so please don’t ever think that just because these guys have allowed us to see parts of their lives, we know everything about them because you would be shocked at what you don’t know.

Jk says he loved the trips, he had fun, and those trips are the best trips he’s been on in his entire life. Seeing as we are not Jungkook and don’t know what is in his heart, the best thing we can do as fans is LISTEN to him and take what he says as it is without trying to look for grey area. There might be grey area, but what ever made you think you know him enough to understand what that grey area is? Just because you sense that something might be off doesn’t mean you know exactly what is off. Remember this!

You are trying so hard and failing miserably. Chill the fuck out. You guys hear a word, think you know the meaning from seeing it repeated and run with it. Your word is "projection", and you're applying it to my concern for Jungkook's health. When it applies to YOU and what you're doing here. I'm concerned for Jungkook's health because he WAS sick and still had to squeeze other schedules into what was supposed to be his ALREADY LIMITED (just a few days) promotional time for his SOLO DEBUT (finally something just for him). He had to go to the hospital. He got no time to rest. Doing activities in front of a camera to entertain other people is not resting. It doesn't matter how much fun you're having. I go to conventions. They're so much fun, they're technically vacations, and they're FUCKING EXHAUSTING. Even though I'm literally just walking around the whole time. Now you took that and made it this whole essay. YOU'RE PROJECTING. And you're desperate, for multiple reasons related to your ship at this point but that's not my problem. Chill the fuck out. If you want to live in your fantasyland do that, find your happiness there, and stop crying in my inbox. I'm not going to stop being concerned for Jungkook or expressing concern for him when he's sick and being pushed through several work schedules at once, FUCK OFF IF YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT.