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jerzwriter · 10 months ago
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Mono-Poly - Chapter 6 Sneak Peek
Featuring: Tobias x Casey Carrick, Ethan Ramsey, Diana Ellington-Rourke (F!OC)
The gallery was abuzz with activity, and for once, Ethan was actually enjoying himself until the worst occurred. He lifted his drink to his lips, hiding his words from prying eyes. His eyes, now tinged with disdain, locked onto Casey's. "Incoming donors," he grumbled.
Casey discreetly turned to see Dr. and Mr. Boylan heading their way. "Ethan," she said, a wide smile quickly forming on her lips, "they're funding fifty percent of our project, so be nice." She placed her drink on a passing server's tray and grabbed Ethan's hand. "Come on, dear, it's showtime."
Ethan glanced at Tobias, silently pleading for sympathy—or a quick rescue. "Your wife has no idea how much I hate mixing business with pleasure, does she?" he groaned.
But Tobias merely smirked. "You do pleasure? Who knew? You two kids go have fun now," he pat his friend on the back. "I'll be here."
As Tobias turned to examine a nearby painting, Diana noticed he was now alone. With a graceful stride, she crossed the room.
"Tobias," she said, her smile warm and inviting. "I hope you're enjoying yourself."
He returned her smile, every bit as charming.. "Very much so. Your work is incredible. I'm impressed, and I don't impress easily."
A waiter passed by, and Diana handed Tobias a flute of champagne. "That means a lot, coming from you."
"Does it?" he teased with a playful tone. "Then you’ll have to explain how Ethan Ramsey managed to score an invite to this soirée while I'm only here as my wife's plus-one."
Diana's melodic laughter floated above the room's ambient chatter. "Don't blame me. Blame my event planner. But," she paused, tapping a manicured finger thoughtfully against her glass, "how about a behind-the-scenes tour? I could show you the new series I'm working on if you promise to keep the details under wraps. Would that make it up to you?"
Intrigued, Tobias raised an eyebrow and downed the rest of his champagne. "It just might," he grinned. "Lead the way."
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walkawayinsin · 1 year ago
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Question. Isn’t a mono/poly relationship by definition a poly relationship if only one person is mono?
It's at least a form of non-monogamous relationship where two adults have consensually agreed to have this dynamic.
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agiraffesjournal · 1 year ago
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There’s a person, and I know I love her. And she’s my best friend. But I think about her day and night. More than my partner. More than my girlfriend. More than anyone. She can’t find the right guy but I know I could be that guy. But she’s looking for monogamy. And I can’t do that. So I want to hold her and love her and listen but I have to hold back. Because being her friend is all I can do. And it has to be enough.
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polyamorousmood · 7 months ago
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Idk what budding poly person needs to hear this, but if you need to break up with your partner because they're strictly monog, you're not a bad person and it doesn't mean your love for them isn't real
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pupiipawzz · 8 months ago
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respirgender · 10 months ago
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gaybian | gaybian | gaybian turigirl-lesboy gaybian | mspec gay | mspec lesbian pan gay | ply gay | omni gay
free to use, credit is appreciated but not required
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esoteric-apparition · 1 year ago
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Anti mspec mono people know that mspec doesn't always mean "attraction to men and women" right. I mean obviously other queer people understand that labels can be complex and have multiple definitions. RIGHT??
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apostate-in-an-alcove · 10 months ago
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Mono people completely unprompted: "I've never seen an attractive polyamorous person, I hate them, they're so gross, they're just cheaters, why do they all look like that, poly relationships never last, they're ugly and gross, they just want an excuse to cheat, they're emotionally immature, have I mentioned how ugly I think they are?"
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redacted-coiner · 1 year ago
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NOTE: I quite literally don’t care about discourse don’t bring it up or I’m just blocking you.
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Bi Lesbian, Aurora Lesbian, Pan Lesbian
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Poly Lesbian, Lunian, Omni Lesbian
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DNI is listed within my pinned post. Please go read it before interacting with any part of my content. Ask to tag!
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jerzwriter · 11 months ago
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Mono~poly Chapter 5: Beautiful Days
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A Tobias x Casey AU - Information and Notes
AU Premise: What happens when something that was supposed to be just fun turns into something real? When true love enters the equation between two people who view the very concept of love in different ways, can it work? In this alternate universe, we'll follow Casey and Tobias (and some others along the way) on their journey, where a happy ending is what both desire, but (as in life) nothing is guaranteed.
Fandom: Open Heart, Choices** Pairing: Tobias Carrick x Casey MacTavish F!MC Characters: Ethan Ramsey, Jackie Varma and OCs: Vivian Carrick, Jordan Carrick, Rose D'Allesandro, Addie Larkin, David MacTavish, Peter MacTavish, Diana Ellington-Rourke Rating: Teen Words: 5,300
Chapter Summary: The chapter begins with friends and family gathering for Tobias and Casey's big day. There is much revelry to be had, but for some, emotions run high. Later, the couple has settled into a happily married life where the honeymoon never seems to end. But as they prepare to celebrate their third anniversary, Casey receives an offer that is hard to refuse. Will that change things?
A/N: Participating in @choicesaugustchallenge Day 30 - Summer Wedding. A huge thank you to @angelasscribbles for prereading this for me!
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The news spread like wildfire. It only took days for all of Boston to be abuzz over the engagement of Drs. Tobias Carrick and Casey MacTavish; it only took a few more before it was news in their hometowns, too. The announcement was met with a blend of joy and levity. While those who knew him had had a few years to get used to Tobias trading his swinging single life, and most were thrilled about his union with Casey, a dose of good-natured ribbing was bound to take place.
His mother, Vivian, was overjoyed and initiated her plans to deliver an August wedding that would leave people talking for years at once. With two confirmed bachelors as sons, she never thought she’d live to see this day, and she wasn't containing her excitement. When she stopped in to see Casey the morning of the wedding, she informed the young woman that she was erecting an altar for her daughter-in-law-to-be in her backyard, and Casey wasn't sure if she was joking.
In Casey’s corner of the world, her mother, Rose, was equally enthusiastic. Her reaction warmed Casey’s heart despite her fears over the inevitable conversations about how her father, David, would fit into the wedding plans. Those negotiations were fraught with tension and left Casey in tears - that’s the thing about the emotional baggage childhood delivers: it never fully goes away.
But Tobias was having none of it; he was totally serious about eloping if they failed to get their act together, and Casey was completely on board. That ultimatum was all Vivian needed to hear before she put the fear of God into both the D’Allesandro and MacTavish families. She promptly called a meeting, telling Tobias and Casey that she would take care of it all. Within an hour, Vivian emerged from the locked room with a satisfied grin and nary a hair out of place, assuring, “They will behave.”
Now, after months of planning and fuss... the day was finally here. It was time to celebrate the happy couple's love and commitment, and they were on top of the world.
After a chaotic morning, Casey was enjoying a quiet moment alone before the ceremony began. The soft hum of voices and laughter of guests who had gathered outside seeped through the venue’s walls as she adjusted the final touches of her wedding gown, its delicate lace and satin catching the light just so when Ethan entered the room.
His arrival went unnoticed. So, he leaned against the doorframe, allowing himself a few precious moments to take her in. A broad smile tugged at his lips, despite a hint of sadness lingering in his eyes. Clearing his throat to make his presence known, he moved toward her with the ease and familiarity of their long-standing bond.
“It’s not too late to run away,” he said with a playful grin. “Just say the word, and I’ll drive the getaway car.”
Casey turned toward him, her smile bright as her eyes met his. Ethan. Her dear friend, Ethan. While some might balk at a bride having her former lover as one of her bridal attendants, Tobias wholeheartedly supported her choice. He understood the depth of their friendship and was pleased that Casey would have him by her side on this special day. He wanted nothing more than for his bride to have everything her heart desired.
“Come on, Ethan," she teased. "You and Tobias buried the hatchet years ago. Do you really want to hurt him that bad?”
“Of course I don’t," he smiled. "And that would absolutely kill him.” He took a deep breath, his eyes still reflecting the bittersweet emotions in his heart. “You look absolutely stunning, Casey. You’re going to take Tobias’s breath away.”
“Thank you,” she blushed.
“He doesn’t deserve you – you know that, right?”
Casey winked playfully and adjusted the layers of her skirt. “I know!”
The tender moment burst when Jackie rushed into the room, her nervousness palpable. “Hate to bust this party up, but the photographer needs us in 15 minutes, and I have to finish getting the princess camera ready.”
Ethan’s eyes widened in disbelief. “Not ready? She's gorgeous! How can you improve on that?”
Casey chuckled softly. “See, I told you I needed him around to bolster my ego! But I do have some last minute touches to complete.” She shooed Ethan away. “Go - go join the other attendants and have fun. I’ll be down before you know it.”
Jackie clapped her hands the moment Ethan exited the room. “It’s almost showtime! You ready?”
Casey beamed with a joy that radiated from inside. “You better believe I am! I can’t believe it’s already time!”
Jackie looked at her friend in the mirror, her smile faltering just a bit. “I’m so happy for you,” she whispered. “But you do have the prenup in order, right?”
The smile fell from Casey's face. “Jackie! Is that any way to talk to me 30 minutes before my wedding?” She tried to keep the mood light, but there was an unmistakable trace of annoyance in her voice. But it would take more than that to deter Jackie.
“You didn’t answer?”
Casey’s heart sank as she turned to her friend. “His family’s attorneys sent one over last week, but Tobias lost his mind. He insisted he didn’t want one; we’re going to be together forever, so…”
Jackie rolled her eyes, and it didn't go unnoticed. “Jackie, really? You’re my maid of honor! Tell me you’re joking about this! These are supposed to be the happiest moments of my life.”
Jackie’s internal struggle had her light-headed. She loved Casey, and she loved Tobias, too. She couldn’t deny their relationship had proven even the greatest skeptics wrong; they’d be relationship goals personified if not for that one promise. She was the only one who knew Casey had made it three years before, and if Tobias ever called in the offer of dabbling in non-monogamy, she wasn’t confident her friend would be able to handle it; if that happened, she doubted their marriage would survive. Still, Casey was relying on her, so Jackie forced herself back to the present.
“You know I’m an asshole,” she grinned. “I’m joking, girl. I love you, and I love Tobias, too. Come on. Let’s get you ready to marry your man.”
Casey took a deep breath as Jackie delicately placed the veil on her head. She’d have to be a fool to pretend she couldn't read Jackie's thoughts. Yet, at this moment, her heart was overflowing with joy, leaving no room for doubts. She loved Tobias with all her heart, and his love for her ran just as deep. She couldn’t imagine being happier than she was today. Yes, Casey was confident... this was forever.
The ceremony went off without a hitch; a Hollywood director couldn’t have scripted it better. Tobias wiped away tears as Casey walked down the aisle. She had opted to walk alone, and at that moment, he silently promised she’d never be alone again. Casey had struggled to hold back her tears - her make-up was flawless, after all - but her husband’s heartfelt vows diminished her resolve. There wasn’t a dry eye in the house when the officiant pronounced them husband and wife; the joy was unmistakable.
Vivian had meticulously planned the reception to be an elegant affair, but with Tobias & Casey as the bridal couple, there was bound to be some debauchery. Still, the revelry was kept in check, and after a couple of hours of staying glued to each other’s side, they began making the rounds. Tobias was on the dance floor with his friend Addie, who Casey had finally managed to wrangle into a bridesmaid’s dress.
“And they said it couldn’t be done,” Addie grinned.
“Ehh, that was a long time ago. Tell me you haven’t expected this from the moment I met Casey?”
“The moment? No. Absolutely not,” Addie laughed. “A year in... mmmm... maybe. But all I know is I’ve never seen you smile like this. I’m really happy for you, T.”
Tobias’s beamed, his face a picture of pride, joy, and contentment. “Thank you. I’m happy for me, too.” As they continued to dance, Addie leaned in closer, and Tobias returned to the playful banter that marked their friendship.
“Hey, I just realized... you’re here alone tonight. You’re always whining that you only get plus ones on your invites. Casey and I give you a plus two, and who do you bring? No one!”
“Relax!” she chortled. “It wasn’t intentional. My boyfriend is traveling with his band, and my girlfriend was going to come, but her Mom got sick, and she had to fly back to Dallas yesterday.”
“That’s too bad. I was hoping to get to know them better; I swear you’re hiding them from me.”  
“That’s not true,” she insisted. “The three of us are just pretty independent. But on the upside, I’m here stag, so if I run into any cute guests...”
Tobias barked out a laugh, “They won’t have a chance against you!”
Just then, he felt a tap on his shoulder. He turned to find his mother, resplendent in an emerald green satin gown. “Mind if I cut in?” she asked.
Addie raised her hands with a playful smile. “As if I’d argue with you, Vivian.” She gave Tobias a quick kiss on the cheek before hurrying off.
Tobias took his mother in his arms, his heart full of love and gratitude. “Have I mentioned how grateful I am for all you’ve done for us today?”
“A few times,” she nodded. “But please continue. I think I'm entitled to hear it multiple times since you made me wait so damn long for this day."
Tobias chuckled, and then his gaze landed on Casey. “I think it was worth the wait, don’t you?”
Vivian followed his line of sight and nodded with a smile. “Absolutely! Casey is a gem. I love her as if she is my own." She turned back to her son with a sigh. "You did good, Tobias. Now, don’t mess this up!”  
“I promise, Mom. See that smile on her face? I intend to make sure she looks that way every day for the rest of her life."
“That’s what I want to hear,” she smiled as they swayed to the music. “Is she enjoying the day?” taking a half-step back, she changed her tone. “Has her family been behaving?”
Tobias winced slightly, and Vivian knew he was grappling to decide if he should tell her the truth. “Overall, yes... but her Father and one of his relatives were overheard discussing how relieved they are that she ended up marrying a man.”
“Oh, for God’s sake!” Vivian spat. “Do I need to intervene?”
“No,” Tobias laughed. “We don't want bloodshed at the wedding, Ma. Besides, Casey shook it off, and her cousin, Peter, made it very clear that they needed to knock it off. Let’s just say I’m confident there won’t be any more incidents.”
“Well, as long as Casey is all right.”
“She is; she told me nothing is going to spoil today for her... for us.”
“I’m glad,” Vivian smiled. “Because this is a glorious day and if anyone messed it up... no promises on the bloodshed.”
The reception was winding down, but the sounds of laughter, clinking glasses, and soft music still filled the air. Casey was sitting at a table with friends, their spirits high as they recounted funny stories from the past and talked about the day’s events. Casey had her head tilted back in laughter when Tobias slipped up behind her and pulled her into a passionate kiss.
“All right, this has been the best day of my life, baby, but we have a honeymoon in Bali to get to... and honey... do I have plans for you.”
Sienna raised an eyebrow as she put down her drink. “So, what you’re saying is, in a couple of days, this will be demoted to the second or third best day of your life?”
Tobias’s brother Jordan chuckled from the other end of the table. “Well, their honeymoon is 14 days long, so this is going to be his 15th best day real soon.”
Casey rolled her eyes as the group burst into laughter, and then she looked at Jackie and Sienna’s way. “I should go get changed. Jackie, Sienna, mind helping me out of this dress?”
“Hey!” Tobias interjected with a teasing grin. “Isn’t that my job?”
“There will be plenty of time for that on the honeymoon,” Casey winked, giving him a gentle shove before she headed off, leaving Tobias and his friends behind. He ordered a bottle of the restaurant’s finest Scotch to continue the celebration. When it arrived, Ethan took it in hand, visibly approving the choice. He poured a glass for everyone as the toasting began.
“Here’s to Tobias!” Bryce started. “The man who swore he’d never do something as crazy as this, and look at him now... he’s totally whipped.”
“Seriously,” his brother, Jordan, chimed in. “I’m so happy, and not just because you took some family pressure to get hitched off of me! As the now sole confirmed bachelor of the Carrick family, I wish you the very best... Casey is precious - now, don’t screw this up!”
Ethan was the next to go. “To Tobias. You’ve married a wonderful woman. Casey’s very lucky but nowhere near as lucky as you. Remember to appreciate every moment.”
“Salut!”  the friends toasted as Ethan forced a smile. Seated at Tobias’s side, his friend Addie looped her arm in his and raised her glass.
“Hey, I’m not getting left out of this!” she insisted with a grin. “Cheers to my dear friend Tobias—the one person I thought was less likely to settle into monogamy than me. Just look at you proving us all wrong. But I get it... Casey is amazing, and I’m genuinely, truly happy for you.”
“Thank you," he winked. "So, you gonna join me over here on this monogamy train."
“Oh, no fucking chance!” Addie laughed.
There was only one person left, Casey’s cousin Peter. Both were only children, and they grew up closer than most siblings, and all eyes were on him when he raised his glass.
“Tobias, I’ve watched the love between you and Casey grow over the past three years. It’s hard to believe, but every time I see you, it appears to deepen and grow. I couldn't be happier for both of you. Here’s to a future filled with love, laughter, and everything your hearts desire. But remember... be good to her.”
“I wouldn’t dream of treating her any other way," Tobias insisted.
“Good,” Peter laughed, giving Ethan’s shoulder a playful slap on the shoulder. “Then you’ll save the two of us the trouble of having to dispose of your body.”
They all raised their glasses and drank. The warmth of the Scotch reflected the warm feeling in the room. Surrounded by love and well wishes, Tobias and Casey continued their journey. Neither could wait for the life they were about to build.
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The fluorescent lights in the diagnostic team’s office created the illusion of midday, even as dusk approached outside. What had once been a sterile, impersonal space had transformed over the years, thanks to Casey’s loving touch. Shelves that were once filled solely with medical journals and textbooks now showcased lush plants and carefully chosen photos. Ethan had initially approved the more formal shots— the team at award dinners, conferences, and the like—but Casey had managed to slip in some candid moments, too. Memories that highlighted the friendship the members of the team shared. Now, photos of them at local festivals, picking pumpkins in the fall, turning green at amusement parks, and smiling on a sunset cruise dotted the room. She had argued that they spent more time at work than they did at home, so their space should reflect that. Eventually, Ethan relented—with Casey involved, no one was surprised.
That cozy spot was where Casey, Ethan, and Jackie found themselves today as their workdays wound down. The faint hum of hospital activity provided a soothing background noise as their conversations turned to weekend plans. Ethan was attending a philharmonic concert, Jackie wanted nothing more than to catch up on sleep, and Casey couldn’t have been more excited to celebrate her third wedding anniversary.
“Three years already? How is that possible?” Jackie marveled.
“You made it to three years!” Ethan joked. “How is that possible?”
“Meh,” Casey smirked. “We have oodles of kinky sex and great communication – we’re set for life!”  
“Ugh,” Jackie groaned. “Did you have to bring the conversation there, Ethan?”
“Me?!” He protested. “Casey’s the one who turned this conversation.”
“Don’t act all puritanical, Dr. Ramsey!” Casey laughed. “My third wedding anniversary should bring back good memories for you, too.”
“This again?” Ethan moaned. “When are you going to let it go?”
 “As soon as you call her! You convincing Addie to go home with you once after my wedding is not enough to satiate me! You should know that! You two would be so good together.”
“Wait! Is that how he told you it happened!” Jackie jumped in. “I was there, and Addie was the one doing the seducing. Ramsey didn’t stand a chance.”
Ethan took off his glasses and pinched the bridge of his nose. “It was a one-time private thing. You all really have to move on.”
“Fine!” Casey sighed. “I’ll just go on representing the happily married contingent of the diagnostic team for the foreseeable future.”
Just then, Tobias entered the room, his larger-than-life presence immediately commanding attention.
“Is that my beautiful wife talking? If so, you represent that contingency very well, baby.” With effortless charisma, he leaned over Casey’s chair and placed a lingering kiss on her lips.
“Great. Now we’re subjected to these two,” Ethan grumbled as Jackie groaned in agreement.
“What?” Tobias grinned as he poured a cup of coffee. “We’re at work! I know how to contain myself, you know.”
The room went silent as three sets of eyes stared at him incredulously. “All right, all right,” he smirked. “I know how to dial it down... to a degree. But you can’t blame me,” he added, sitting beside Casey. “The honeymoon never ends with this one.”
“Why are you here so early?” Casey asked, politely steering the conversation. “Your shift doesn’t begin for another hour.
“Correct, but yours ends in fifteen minutes. I thought we could grab dinner together in the cafeteria before you head out. You know,” he said, looking pointedly at Ethan. “Because my boss is an asshole who keeps scheduling us on opposite shifts.”
“That’s not true!” Ethan defended. “I go out of my to....”
“Relax! Relax!” Tobias laughed. After all these years, he still knew how to push Ethan’s buttons. “I’m teasing. Honestly, you do a great job making sure Casey and I get time together, and I appreciate it.”
Casey’s expression grew momentarily serious as her eyes met Ethan’s with a knowing look, but if Tobias noticed, he didn’t let on.
“So what do you say, baby? Dinner?” he asked.
Casey looked at her watch and nodded. “I do have errands to run after work. But if we go right now, I can squeeze you in.”
“Oh, honey, you can’t say squeeze me in and....”
“STOP IT!” Jackie yelled, holding her ears, and the happy couple laughed as they walked down the hall.
They settled into a quiet corner of the cafeteria, two chicken potpies—one of the better offerings—steamed between them. Casey smiled warmly at Tobias and reached across the table to gently squeeze his hand. She was so happy to see him, but she knew they had to tell him some news.
“Tobias,” she began, her voice tinged with apprehension. “You know the research Ethan and I have been doing on the inequities in diagnosing women’s health conditions?”
“Of course,” he replied, digging into his food. “You’ve been passionate about it. I really believe that if you keep at it, you could help bridge that gap and make a real difference.”
“Well,” she said, a mix of pride and nervousness in her eyes, “Apparently, you’re not the only one who thinks so. The National Institutes of Health agrees, and they’ve offered us an enormous grant to continue our studies. They want us to create a blueprint and train others nationwide.”
His eyes widened in disbelief as he grabbed her hand. “Honey! That’s incredible! This is huge! I’m so, so proud of you!”
“Thank you, baby,” she said softly. “But... I’m not sure I’m going to participate. I told Ethan I needed some time to think about it.”
He looked at her, both shocked and concerned. “You... you what?”
“Tobias, it’s difficult enough for us to make time to be together now. If I take this on, it’ll be in addition to my regular work. It means long hours and a lot of travel; I don't know if it's a good idea.”  
“Hon, we’ll figure it out,” he said firmly. “This is the opportunity of a lifetime. You can’t turn it down. I won’t let you.”
Casey’s face twisted, her eyes filling with tears. “But we were talking about possibly starting a family soon,” she whispered. “This would put that on hold indefinitely.”
“Possibly,” He replied gently. “We didn't even decide for sure if we wanted kids.”
“But we were leaning that way.”
“And we still can,” he reassured her. “I’m the old one here, you’re not. If we have to delay it, so be it. But baby, you can’t pass this up opportunity.”
“You really wouldn't mind?” she asked, her eyes searching his face for any sign of hesitation.
“Mind? Do you have any idea how much I'm going to brag about this?” he grinned. “I'm going to be incorrigible. What does your wife do? Oh, that’s cute. Let me tell you about my wife.” He slid his chair closer to hers and brushed a stray hair from her face before he gave her a playful kiss. “Not only is my wife gorgeous,” he kissed her again. “Not only is she hot as hell,” another kiss. “She’s brilliant, and she's going to change the world.” He pulled her closer, this time capturing her lips in a lingering kiss, deeper and more intense. “My wife,” he whispered, “is perfect in every way, and I’m so glad she’s mine.”
A lump formed in Casey’s throat as tears filled her eyes. “Have I ever told you how happy I am that I married you?”
“Yes,” he grinned. “But tell me again.”
“Have I told you how...” but Tobias silenced her by gently placing a finger over her lips.
“Not now,” he whispered. “Later, when I get home from work. In bed, naked... tell me then.”
“Hey, if that’s how you want me to tell you, I won’t just tell you... I’ll show you, too!”
“That’s the idea,” he smirked.
Casey hugged him, noticing the time on the clock over his shoulder. “Oh, shoot! I’m sorry, honey, but I have to go.”
“What's so important that you’re cutting our time short?” he asked, holding tight to her hand.
“I have anniversary plans to attend to,” she smiled as she cleared her place.
“But that’s not until Saturday?” He groaned. “Why do you have to go now?”
Casey gave him a knowing look. “I need to make sure my lingerie is in order,” she winked. "You wouldn't want to interfere with that."
“All right,” he sighed dramatically, making a show of dropping her hand. “Then go! Get out of here. Please, go!”
“Fine!” she giggled, picking up her tray.
“And remember,” he called after her, “the traditional gift for the third anniversary is leather. Feel free to add that to the mix.” He wiggled his eyebrows suggestively as she walked away.
Tobias chuckled to himself as a resident glanced over, looking a bit horrified. “What?” Tobias grinned, unbothered. "One more trip to HR won’t kill me.... and she's worth it."
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Casey hustled out of Edenbrook and headed toward the South End neighborhood they called home, with a smile tugging at her lips. The whole “lingerie situation” was already under control —she’d taken care of that weeks ago. But she had another stop to make, the Beacon Gallery.
She’d commissioned a painting by an up-and-coming artist to give to Tobias as an anniversary gift, and he asked for her to stop by and see it before he finished the work. The piece was eclectic, blending hues of their favorite colors and incorporating elements and symbols representing key moments from their time together. The general viewer might not decipher its meaning, but Casey knew Tobias would take one look at it, and his heart would melt.
The way Casey spoke about Tobias and described the deep love they shared moved the artist to name the piece Eternal Love. Casey smiled at the sentiment, believing it perfectly captured their bond.
But the gallery's owner balked at the idea. “That’s tempting fate!” He insisted. “Why do anything to welcome bad luck.”
Casey brushed him off, replying with confidence. “We don't need luck. We make our own own.”
The evening was beautiful, so when she left the gallery, she decided to take the long way home, strolling through the familiar streets she knew and loved so well. She was headed toward their favorite bakery to pick up a few things for dinner, when something unexpected caught her eye—a new gallery, one she was certain they’d never visited before.
She tried to recall if Tobias ever mentioned a new gallery opening. She was certain he had taken her to every existing gallery in Boston and beyond, and she was confident this one was new.
With her curiosity piqued, she crossed the street and gazed into the window. The artwork displayed was stunning—vibrant colors, bold strokes, and intricate details that she knew Tobias would love. The gallery itself looked almost empty, as if it was still being set up, so she decided to step inside.
The scent of fresh paint and varnish greeted her, as did crisp white walls that made the few displayed pieces stand out even more. Several other pieces remained wrapped, leaned against each other and a few sculptures were scattered throughout.
An abstract painting in the back of the gallery caught her eye. Its swirling, contrasting shades of blues, pinks, ombre, white, and gold danced across the canvas, evoking images of the four seasons. There was something both calming and chaotic about it, and it resonated with her. She reached out, almost touching the canvas, when a voice broke the silence.
“Hello,” a woman’s voice echoed.
Casey turned to find a tall, slender woman headed her way. Her sea of dark curls streaked with golden highlights was piled on top of her head, with a few curls cascading down onto her flawless tawny skin. She was beautiful in a way that was almost surreal like a figure in a painting come to life. Her movements were fluid and graceful, and as her warm, dark eyes met Casey’s, she momentarily forgot how to speak.
“Oh!” Casey replied, taking a startled step backward. “I’m so sorry—I didn’t realize! I’ll come back when—”
“No, no, it’s fine,” the woman said with a melodic laugh. “I won’t make any friends in my new neighborhood if I shoo everyone away.” She wiped her hands on the paint-splattered apron tied around her waist and extended a hand. “I’m Diana. I'm an artist - and I own the gallery, too.”
Casey relaxed, taking the woman’s hand. “I’m Casey. It’s a pleasure to meet you. Is all this your work?”
Diana looked around the room with pride. “Most of it is, but not everything.” She nodded toward the painting Casey had been admiring. “Do you like that one? That is mine.”  
“I do,” Casey replied, eyes returning to the painting. “It’s beautiful and captivating. From one angle, it’s so calming, but from another, it feels chaotic. It’s like it symbolizes… life.”
Diana’s smile widened. “That’s exactly what I was going for. Not everyone sees it right away. Are you an artist yourself? Or a collector, perhaps?”
“Me?” Casey laughed, shaking her head. “Oh, no! When it comes to art appreciation, I’m a novice at best. My husband is the connoisseur in the family. He may be a doctor, but art is woven into his DNA. He’s spent the better part of the last six years trying to bring me up to speed, but I'm afraid I still feel like a fish out of water around it.”
“Well, you’ve got a great eye,” Diana smiled. “And I love that you’ve taken an interest in something so important to your husband. That’s very special.”
“Thank you,” Casey smiled. “Actually, I just came from the Beacon Gallery. Our anniversary is Saturday, and I commissioned a painting for him. But I’ve got to admit…” She glanced back at the abstract. “I think he’d like this one even more.”
“Well, I certainly won’t stop you from buying another piece,” Diana winked, and Casey couldn’t help but be charmed.
“So, you’re new to Boston?” Casey asked.
“Yes,” Diana replied. “I have other galleries; my largest is in LA, and I have a smaller one near my home in Colorado. But I’ve wanted to establish an East Coast presence for a long time now. I came to the SoWa Winter Festiva last year and fell in love. Do you know when you can just feel from that start that it's going to be a perfect fit?"
"I do," Casey grinned. "When will you be opening? I can’t wait to see the rest of your work.”
“I officially open in two weeks, but I’m hosting a grand opening party next Saturday. It’s by invitation only, but I’d love for you and your husband to join us.”
Casey’s eyes lit up. “Really? Oh my God, he’ll be thrilled! Our anniversary is this Saturday—that would make the perfect addition to my gift.”
“I love that,” Diana said, clapping her hands together. “How many years are you celebrating?”
“Three."
“Ah, leather,” Diana playfully winked. “I assume you’ve already taken care of the traditional gift?"
Casey burst out laughing. “You knew that too quickly—you must be married yourself.”
“I am, and I have a crystal anniversary coming up. Fifteen years next month.”
“Fifteen?" Casey was stunned. "Wow, what did you do? Get married at ten?”
 “I knew I liked you the moment I laid eyes on you, Casey," Diana chuckled. “But now, you're my best friend! I’m so glad you stopped by—you’re officially my first friend in my new town.”
“I consider that an honor,” Casey said, genuinely touched. Her eyes landed on a stack of brochures on a nearby table. “Mind if I take a few of these? I work at Edenbrook Hospital, and I could hand them out to some of my peers.”
“I've got a beautiful new friend, and she's helping me spread the word? This really is my lucky day,” Diana said, handing her a stack of brochures and two elegant invitations. “I really hope to see you both at the grand opening.”
“I wouldn't miss it!” Casey smiled, tucking the brochures and invitations into her bag. “And don’t be surprised if I stop by before then. I wouldn't mind another sneak peek."
“Please do!” Diana enthused. “I’d love the company, and you can tell me all the good places to go in the neighborhood. If I don't find a good iced matcha latte soon, I might lose my mind."
“Ah! I know just the place! I'll be sure to stop in if I see you here!"
Casey walked home with a sense of contentment. Her day had started with a bright opportunity and now, she felt like she found something special in that gallery... and in Diana. She couldn’t wait to tell Tobias all about it.
When she arrived home, she set the brochures on the kitchen counter, and her fingers brushed over the invitations as she thought about how much Tobias would love this surprise. It really was the perfect addition to her anniversary gift: a new place they could explore together and a night where they could dress up to boot! She already had the perfect dress in mind.
She carefully hid the invitations in a box toward the back of her closet, not far from the lingerie and a few leather items that would be making an appearance on Saturday, as well. The thought made her smile; she couldn’t wait to celebrate! As she glanced at the clock, she realized Tobias would be home in a few hours. She had so much to look forward to. As she stepped into the shower, allowing the steam and warm water to envelop her, she felt a peace that soothed her to her core. It had been a wonderful day filled with new opportunities, new connections, and the promise of even more to come. She was so fortunate, and she couldn’t wait for all that was ahead.
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librarycards · 10 months ago
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non-monogamy - discovering i was ~allowed~ to practice it - has been a realization on par for me w being a lesbian or being trans. it released me from the anxieties concomitant not only with failing at being [normal] but also of being, like, an affront to the normalcy i was trying to fake. the reason monogamy felt like walls closing in (even if they never quite hit me) was not the result of some intrinsic, excessive, offensive part of my sel(ves) that i needed to grit my teeth and hold inside. it was a problem that could be alleviated just by traveling to another room
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sketchy-scribs-n-doods · 2 years ago
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steddyhands has me so ruined for any individual izzy ship bc every time i try reading long stizzy fic where ed disappears i inevitably go 'but where's ed? :('
and whenever i read long edizzy fic where stede never pops up i'm inevitably going 'but where stede?? :('
and even when i read ouizzy or sprizzy or fang/ivan/izzy fics etc where izzy is happy while stede and ed are doing their own thing, i'm always a little sad in the back of my mind like 'ed and stede... they don't know?? they don't know the love of izzy?? no kissing first mate??? :((('
(don't get me started on how difficult straight up stede/ed fics are to dig through sometimes, i love the ship to death truly i do, she's the main girlie, but forget crying over where izzy is in their dynamic, i gotta go Entire Work and CTRL+F search izzy's name throughout the fic just to make sure his character isn't getting massacred disney villain style before i get invested in a 50k+ fic at 2am)
my ideal world is one where stede/ed/izzy have sorted their shit out, izzy and frenchie are music boyfriends, izzy shacks up with lucius and pete sometimes for some kissing bitching and gossiping sessions, and izzy and fang have cuddle sessions on the regular
all this ofc alongside archie/jim/olu/zheng's whole thing, whatever frenchie and wee john have going on, lucius' thing with fang, and jackie's continuing recruitment of new husbands to join the swede
in my heart polycrew is real and thriving, we could have had it all dammit
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junewild · 4 months ago
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finished my bg3 run after jury duty today, so i can stop making heart eyes at halsin (& karlach & astarion) & start making heart eyes at odysseus again. when will they let me romance him i need to seduce another worldweary man with a weakness for me specifically
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polyamorousmood · 3 months ago
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i use tumblr primarily for lurking and scrolling so i'm not familiar with ask blogs and the terms used. so sorry if this is better suited for another blog, but i couldn't find one. :(
poly / non-monogamy.. i've personally felt that at least right now, it's not for me. but stuff that happened in the past nags at me sometimes; i wonder if it could've worked out if i had been better at communicating. i'm trying my best to understand it. it feels like a pretty diverse spectrum so far.
both me and my previous partner are both nonbinary/genderqueer, pan~bi ish, they were my first relationship. they've dated primarily men in the past and i was the first.. afab i suppose. so from that, i agreed to them continuing having sex with other people (casual sex they were having prior to our relationship starting, continued within relationship) i suppose i was worried i wont be enough? that i would lose them if i didn't agree? not sure. when it actually happened, i was not a fan of the feelings and thoughts it caused me, and attempted to find a compromise between our lifestyles.
when asked about it, asking them if we could take a break and try to be closed off for a bit, they told me our relationship is already closed/mono. this confused me because i find a lot of comfort in labels (not sure if this is a bad thing; they aren't a fan of labels) and this didn't feel like being 'closed'.
another mention was that sex with other people was emotionless, that they feel nothing when they have casual sex. sex for me feels like a really big trust barrier to cross, for me to feel safe with someone to do that.
i may not understand it for myself but i still wish someone could explain it to me.. so i can at least try and understand.
While this is nothing against you, asker dear, I don't really see myself as an ask blog? Easy to think that because I take a lot of asks (especially recently)! But I don't see that as The Sole Purpose of this blog, if that distinction matters. Anyway.
I've said it before and I will say it again and again. A relationship can fall through even though you did nothing wrong. You can be fundamentally incompatible in an important way even though neither person is right or wrong. Could better communication have saved this one? idk, maybe? Communication is foundational to any relationship, but easily triply so for poly (or as in this case, otherwise nonmong) ones. But it is not a guarantee. And if I can be real with you, my nameless friend? Its not usually super productive to focus on those what-ifs.
Let that sink in first, and if you still want more opinion, click through
Did you let it sink in? For real? Its both not productive to replay past things AND things can fall apart through no one's fault? You believe both these things? You promise? 🤨
Okay. Since you promised.
Based only on what I have here, it sounds like your ex, if anything, was the asshole here. They clearly meant the relationship was romantically mono/closed, but it was still sexually at least semi-open. So they knew what you meant, and it was kinda a dick move to not just say "I'm not comfortable doing that." And it would have been one thing for them to say "its closed in the way that matters to me, can you explain why the sexual aspect is so important to you?" but you're not making it sound like that's what this person did.
What you've provided is an extremely limited 🤏 view on what happened, but based only on that, I don't think you severely fucked the communication bit. Sure, you probably should have led with "I'm not sure I'm comfortable with it, but I'm willing to try" because yes, it is incredibly frustrating on the nonmonog person's part to try and put the genie back in the bottle 🧞🪔 even though you did the right thing by saying something. And its not clear from what you sent in here how well you explained to them what you were feeling, etc etc. I'm not saying you're a perfect shining star 🌟, but man, trying to insist on something that objectively isn't true is a helluva thing from that other person.
As for explanations, it really is something that's different for everyone, cliche though that may sound. I think this post explains the drive for nonmonogamy pretty well, all things considered, though your ex partner describing it as feeling nothing when its casual might not perfectly fit the metaphor.
[pause here to read that linked post because the rest won't make sense without it]
Okay. So. With that in mind, in the case of your ex, sex is just a thing you can do. You personally, and a lot of cultures, have assigned it greater meaning, but that meaning is not inherent. Objectively, it is an activity, an enjoyable one, and nothing more. To work within the board game metaphor♟️🏁, maybe board games are something I'm only comfortable doing with people I deeply trust. Idk, maybe I have board game related trauma so I need to be absolutely certain a person is safe before I'm willing to try that with them, maybe I just get really heated when playing Monopoly and I don't want to show that side of myself to just anyone, maybe I only ever played board games with my beloved grandfather growing up and now it feels sacred. Whatever the reason, its important to me that I only play with very trusted people. That's totally fine, valid. But it is a "me" thing. Not everyone will view it that way, and some people will enter chess tournaments and play with strangers! Now what happens if I fall in love with a tournament chess player, and it feels like it cheapens the experience for me if they don't view it with the same level of importance that I do? Do they have to give up their hobby? Is it wrong of them to want to play tournament chess still? Maybe I have to live with the sinking feeling that my most important person isn't viewing this deeply important thing to me in a way that's compatible with my worldview?
This is what I mean by saying sometimes people just aren't compatible, but no one is at fault. This is what I mean by saying its incredibly hard to try to "go back" to monogamy when you're not monogamous.
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assmaster-8000 · 7 days ago
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there is no world in which you could pay me to gaf about poly people
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mintoezz · 2 months ago
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Can we include nonamorous people more than just poly when it comes to "non-monogamy" talks?
If you wanna talk abt poly, specify it. Don't say it like "non-monogamy". You're not even including the non-partnering ones.
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