#psuedomems

[emeraldoo]

what if i started tagging asks i answered as fanmail lol

[dirty-graves]

Tbh people need 2 start recognizing tht trauma effects ppl in unpalatable and ugly ways. Victims aren't always going 2 be uwu fragile softkids with only ~holy~ and ~unproblematic~ symptoms.

Im a victim @ the hands of my father. I was four when it first happened and he continued 2 treat me like eyecandy up until I cut him out of my life.

I formed 2 not only hold that trauma but cope w/ it. I was given psuedomems of having a ""healthy"" (in quotes bc inc*st is never healthy lmao) relationship w/ my in source brother bc my brain craved a way 2 feel control over how we were abused. And oh my god, shock and horror, it's something I think fondly of!

But you know what?

Not only did we NOT turn into some consang freak who thinks that inc*st is "ok with consent" -- The moment I (and a handful of other alters w/ similar situations) formed, we started healing. We stopped comparing ourselves to our father. We stopped having nauseating intrusive thoughts abt other family members. We stopped wanting 2 end our life over how dirty we felt. Our trauma couldn't hurt us anymore because our brain had found a way to turn it into something we could grasp and shrink into a miniscule bug.

But people aren't going 2 think of that when they hear this. I can assure u the majority of internet losers entrenched in fakeass "mental health positivity" movements would hear about my experience and assume I'm some paraphilic predator lmao.

Bc it doesnt matter if a victim is healing! All that matters is if they're silent abt their suffering and only coping in ~pure~ and ~acceptable~ ways.

It's a victims job to provide accurate warnings before talking about not only their trauma, but the ways it has shaped them as a person. It is NOT their job to make it palatable for you. It is not their job to conform to what you think is healthy.

It is not YOUR job to play therapist and pretend like u know what is best 4 them. If you had even an inch of the PhD required 2 become a therapist u would understand tht brains r complex and weird. That not everyone is going to heal in the same way, and tht not everyone is going to heal in conventional ways.

♡ And I know the ppl I'm talking abt will come out of the woodworks 2 be nasty, if this actually gains traction. I love attention, so u'll just be fueling me. Thank u and Thx 4 proving my point. ♡

[acemarkey]

being a splitroject sucks you don't like a woman character because of psuedomems and suddenly youre misogynistic

[conarcoin]

omg especially like the memories stuff the way theyll be like ohhh i miss (x) like im so confused the only alter we have with psuedomems is because he's a trauma holder and formed bc smth in a piece of media reminded us of bad shit 😭

i feel so weird as an introject seeing a lot of other introjects online bc they act in a way that is so foreign to me like. i'm sorry i do not care about sourcemates or doubles or whatever why do you guys act like 2016 kinblr. i literally don't understand it

[keyframe-moved]

Whenever someone acknowledges that they think of me as literally just gold pokespe in real life I start rotating like a rotisserie chicken (positive)

[guideharboringwishes]

hello enstars fanDOM. have you ever considered transfem mugi.

(she/they only for mugi on this post pleasE)

[residentevildash-moved]

favorite person of the day is evans ex girlfriend who appeared in a nightmare dimension paralysis thing and tried to put a curse on him/me/us. he’s never dated anyone before btw

[quaz-art]

I really just want a hug rn ngl

[gigolohifumi]

you mention s4m anywhere near me and it ignites my autism thanks

[lucifers-golden-bitch-apparently]

i-

…pegging girl? i have a lot of questions, so yes please?

sksskssk I used to let this girl named Klarrisa peg me for 400k a week, (she paid me) -anarchy

[muzzledcorpse]

The urge to fanfic-ify my psuedomems and share them vs not wanting to be accused of being a proshipper & not wanting anyone anyone who might romanticize or sexualize it to read it

[yomiurinikei]

guys should i work on my midterm paper (due very very soon and very very not done) or should i think about psuedomems. vote now but pls know i will not see ur response as i will be busy thinking abt psudeomems 🧡🤎

[retroactivelover]

now do you wanna share YOUR favoritest favorite pseudomem? it can be from any source ^_^

OMG. WELL. I dont really have a favoritest favorite psuedomem..... but one that Im super super duper fond of is when my bizarre injury briefly wore off (because it does that... sometimes.... idr where canon said it) I ended up dragging myself to owens room and passing out on his bed and he wasnt even mad even though I messed up his sheets... he pet my hair and everything. I didnt even try to kill him for a whole week because I thought it was so cute... hes so cute tbh?

[mooot]

hello friends its been a while

there’s a “draw your fursona in this” psuedomeme floating around the tweetdecks and of course I did it because I’m incorrigible

the source is under the cut because its a touch uh. spicy

[acemarkey]

wait im just realizin how fucked up my psuedomems r compared 2 canon

[keyframe-moved]

and when I say "girl help" I'm referring to arceus btw