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Female socialisation is not the good socialisation. Male socialisation is not the good socialisation. There is no good sex-based socialisation.
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Sometimes I'll see people make an argument along the lines of: "It is immoral for women to [femininity behaviour] unless they have to"
and this glosses over the fact that coercion is rarely as straight-forward as literally having no choice whatsoever.
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I want liberation for all women, not just liberation for good, smart, moral, less-desperate or unimpulsive women.
As soon as you accept that some women - who would be less likely to be exploited if they were not women - "deserve it", you have lowered the goal from elimination of the sex-class hierarchy. You are then arguing only for protection for women who "deserve it". Not too unlike the people who think that a good woman deserves a good husband to protect her & that the issue to tackle is the deficit of "good men" and "good women" rather than the power dynamics.
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It’s embarrassing when radblr uses other disadvantaged groups as a cudgel to say “no one would use this rhetoric against them!”. If you value intersectionality think before you use the idea of the Other whose issues are treated appropriately and better than women’s.
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You don’t make abortions more moral by reducing the mother’s ability to make a free and informed choice about continuing or discontinuing her pregnancy.
“Is disability screening eugenics?” is the wrong question. The central question is “does disability screening increase the mother’s ability to make a free and informed choice about continuing or discontinuing her pregnancy?”
The focus should always be on her ability to make a free and informed choice. Not any other social issue or implication. Not whether a child of that pregnancy is likely to have a good quality of life, not whether society is expected to have a net benefit or loss.
Her autonomy should always be the foundation.
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Why do the women I know who didn't go to uni have much less career ambition than the men (uni educated and not) that they are with? Maybe before we freak out about men not enrolling in uni as much we should consider differences in (perceived) access to careers without uni?
Maybe before we condemn the girlboss we should consider how crippling the assumption of stay at home or supplementary worker mum is to career ambition?
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and don’t tell me the solution is for me to just post more about actual theory because I have made so many more posts expressing ideas and/or sharing quotes but the two posts of mine that radblr took up the most were:
“You should read more feminist books from before 1975”
A news article link showing an example of a woman being treated horribly by a man and her family facilitating that
I hardly ever post news articles. A news article is nice and safe though isn’t it? Your beloved mutuals aren’t going to disagree that what happened is bad. You can just read the headline if you want. You can develop theory the most by being exposed (whether it’s agree, disagree or no stance) to what you aren’t already sure of. But if you aren’t sure, maybe you don’t want to risk exposing others to it - and potential judgement.
I don’t have a solution; I just have a winge.
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There are things you should not inflict on people even if they say you can. There are things that you should not want to do in the first place. There are things that you should not encourage yourself to do again, or want to do again, in the future by doing them now.
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I've complained about people on radblr making causal claims about transgender health but reading some of the stuff in the literature...
I started reading https://doi.org/10.1080/26895269.2024.2366881 Very early on came across "Research has consistently shown that gender affirmation promotes positive mental health outcomes for trans people of any age (Olson-Kennedy et al., 2018; Russell et al., 2018)." Ok so let's take a look at those that first one shall we? (post got too long)
Olson-Kennedy et al. https://doi.org/10.1001/jamapediatrics.2017.5440
"Findings In this cohort study, chest dysphoria was significantly higher in the nonsurgical vs postsurgical cohort. Among the nonsurgical cohort, 94% perceived chest surgery as very important; among the postsurgical cohort, serious complications were rare, and 67 of 68 reported an absence of regret."
Hmm ok let's look some more at the results from a convenience sample recruited by The Center for Transyouth Health and Development at Children’s Hospital Los Angeles.
So first of all we aren't doing measures of positive mental health outcomes - who needs to actually measure an improvement in mental health to claim a mental health benefit though am I right? "Main Outcomes and Measures Outcomes were chest dysphoria composite score (range 0-51, with higher scores indicating greater distress) in all participants; desire for chest surgery in patients who had not had surgery; and regret about surgery and complications of surgery in patients who were postsurgical."
Let's look at that result now:
"Chest dysphoria composite score mean (SD) was 29.6 (10.0) for participants who had not undergone chest reconstruction, which was significantly higher than mean (SD) scores in those who had undergone this procedure (3.3 [3.8]; P < .001)"
If you look at the scale it includes things like "I feel like my life hasn't started because of my chest" "I get gendered as female because of my chest". Let's say someone was like "yep I'm a trans man, I want chest surgery" gets the surgery and didn't experience an improvement in mental health, couldn't we still expect her to go from "agree" to "disagree" on this item? If you were still unhappy wouldn't you then have to go "well I guess it wasn't the chest after all" and therefore score lower on the chest dysphoria scale despite not having anything alleviated? Surely statements that attribute not getting what you want in life to your chest are inappropriate here.
"Among the nonsurgical cohort, 64 (94%) perceived chest surgery as very important, and chest dysphoria increased by 0.33 points each month that passed between a youth initiating testosterone therapy and undergoing surgery."
Hang on, so is the implication here that the positive effect on relieving chest dysphoria of surgery is offset by how bad testosterone therapy is?* Almost like the above attribution error discussion could be in play... \* Note: completely offset would take a long time, years. I had earlier misinterpreted a result and had the wrong timeframe provided.
If the citing and original authors are implying that association between surgery and mildly lowered dysphoria shows that surgery improves dysphoria, surely in the interest of consistency you need to say that testosterone without surgery worsens it for this cohort.
Instead we get "This finding should not be construed as an endorsement to withhold or delay testosterone initiation to avoid chest dysphoria intensity." and "Given the numerous complications associated with chest binding, the negative emotional and mental effects of chest dysphoria, and the positive outcome of chest surgery demonstrated in this study, changes in clinical practice and in insurance plans’ requirements for youth with gender dysphoria who are seeking surgery seem essential."
We are however told that "The increasing chest dysphoria after testosterone treatment begins does reflect a common clinical phenomenon: a honeymoon period after testosterone initiation that quickly becomes eclipsed by the greater disparity between a more masculine presentation and a female chest contour. Clinicians should advise patients and families that chest dysphoria may increase over time after starting hormone therapy." I guess increasing chest dysphoria just isn't a very important factor after all? Not important enough to delay testosterone therapy, but important enough to undergo surgery. I will grant that effect sizes are different but we are given no reasoning about what a meaningful effect size would be; I assume because that would be to admit that there could be a low enough dysphoria relieving effect that even if dysphoria is relieved, it's not worth it for most.
"Among the postsurgical cohort, the most common complication of surgery was loss of nipple sensation, whether temporary (59%) or permanent (41%). Serious complications were rare and included postoperative hematoma (10%) and complications of anesthesia (7%). Self-reported regret was near 0."
Most of the sample (58%) btw it had been a year or less since surgery.
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... https://budget.gov.au/content/womens-statement/index.htm
Instead of just saying abuse let's spell out "abuse of power over women and children". Instead of just saying "empower" let's spell out "increase power and autonomy" Then we see what empowering men "to help end abuse" more clearly. Why - according to the Australian government - is part of the solution for men abusing power over women and children to increase men's power and autonomy?
They don't need more power to break the cycles of violence - they need to let go of the attitudes of entitlement that encourage using their power against women and children.
I don't oppose support to recover and heal for boys exposed to family violence. If it's to help them feel better lets say that. If it's to change their attitudes to reduce likelihood of them adopting coercive behaviours against women and children let's say that. Abusers often enough have a victim complex as it is - let's not encourage the idea that they need more power to abuse less.
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While I'm sharing some of the AIHW figures from: https://www.aihw.gov.au/family-domestic-and-sexual-violence/resources/national-plan-outcomes Take a look at this one:
https://www.aihw.gov.au/family-domestic-and-sexual-violence/resources/national-plan-outcomes/women-are-safe-respected-and-equal Never going to convince me that women "making bad choices about partnering" is a bigger factor in women staying in bad and/or coercive relationships than their access to alternatives that don't severely compromise their quality of life. Maybe they aren't "brainwashed" - maybe they'd rather the known quantity of getting hit every now and then with relative financial stability over risking homelessness.
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Obviously this isn't the detail we expect to see later but I think it's interesting to see the focuses and framing here. On the face of it, the "supporting women in their daily lives" section seems a little lazy - women and men both got the income tax reduction. Labor's redirection of more of the benefit to lower income earners (compared to the Lib's policy) probably did benefit women more than men (I'm guessing - due to women's typically lower incomes). The statement "tax cuts for every woman taxpayer" doesn't really tell us much about whether the benefit of these tax cuts favoured women or men more. Maybe that will be addressed in that section. In health, I don't see IVF as something that should be publicly funded so.... & given that in a heterosexual relationship both a man and a woman will be gaining a child but the woman is the one who takes on all the risks of the IVF procedure... is this really to women's benefit? Honestly I could do a whole other post on this and the use of the fertiqol scale to justify this as increasing health related quality of life. Just take a look at one of the questions in it: "Are you and your partner affectionate with each other even though you have fertility problems?" In the gender-based violence section, which uses a stat about women being killed, the rest mentions "women and children" twice, no mention of girls specifically and we're told "Working with men and boys". Women are framed entirely passively. I doubt this was intentional but isn't it telling. I'll see if this changes in that specific section.
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I feel like I’m always disagreeing with how people talk about “cunt” being used in Australia. Because no it’s not like some people posture online where it’s all fine and zero taboo etc.
But also if you’re telling me only the most misogynistic men use it I’m wondering how many people you know who have had manual labour jobs.
#I would 100% object much more to bitch#bitch feels much more gendered#r4l thoughts#for the record I don’t say either
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Why exactly do you think it’s bad to draw parallels between the treatment of women and other groups? For example, liberals rightly criticize the use of “all lives matter” by conservatives but then turn around and say things like “feminism is for everyone” and “people’s march”. Pointing out the hypocrisy on display is a vital component to countering it.
Also, pointing out how many groups are dominated by the voices of men (including liberal feminism), and suggesting that this is why liberals show visible support for them while rejecting other feminist movements is an example of intersectionality not an abandonment.
I assume this is about https://www.tumblr.com/rad4learning/775513690860601344/its-embarrassing-when-radblr-uses-other this?
I’m not against any instance of drawing parallels. I do think that radblr has a repeated pattern of flippantly suggesting that groups advocating against [other form of structural disadvantage] are taken seriously and not subjected to attempts to undermine them. E.g. “people wouldn’t tell antiracist groups they need to include white peoples” “people wouldn’t say homeless people chose their lot” “people wouldn’t say you can’t hate the rich”. We don’t need to assume other movements are treated “fairly” in rhetoric to critique that feminism is often not.
I think downplaying the difficulties faced by other movements to reduce or eliminate systemic disadvantage due to some characteristic is not just unnecessary but also bad. For one thing, most women are multiply disadvantaged and we risk alienating many of these women when we downplay issues they, or those they care about, face. I think it also weakens radblrians’ ability to develop more integrated theory. I do not believe it’s “feminisms’ job” to fix other forms of entrenched disadvantage but that doesn’t give a moral or pragmatic pass for undermining the fights against them.
On that note, another pet peeve of mine is “the top one percent” being implicitly used to mean “the top one percent in wealthy countries” and not “the top one percent globally”. I think there are lots of little assumptions, little positionings, that reflect that although most women are multiply disadvantaged, many of us are also multiply advantaged.
It’s embarrassing to pass around unsupported claims of other disadvantaged groups having their theory treated better so that we look more victimised by comparison. I suspect it often comes from low exposure to the difficulties faced by the group in question. We have well-substantiated evidence we can lean on for women being disadvantaged - we don’t need to build on sand.
#anon#r4l thoughts#also I’m struggling to understand the thought process behind your second paragraph
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Decided to try creating a community for feminist analysis focusing on sex-society interaction. More info in the about. Public now because I didn't know what to pick and I can always change it to private later. There is a list of default assumptions in the about that discussions should assume apply. One of these is about people not being innately more or less moral by dint of what group they were born into. This includes males. "Males tend to be more evil because [discussion about sex-society interaction]" <- suitable for this group. "Males are evil because y chromie" <- not suitable for this group. There should also be deemphasis on direct psychologic explanations in favour of analysing societal structures. For example "women's oppression is perpetuated by wearing makeup because dumb women want to be pretty" is less suited than "women's oppression is perpetuated by wearing makeup, which in term derives from greater pressure to have people like you if you have less power". If you still want to argue that women/feminists have an obligation to go against these norms that's fine btw - just make sure you keep away from an innate psychologism or conformity only framing.
I can't guarantee that I'll do much policing and this may be a disaster or never take off but if you're interested feel free to click for an invite or you can send me a message.
#r4l thoughts#also I'll be camping this weekend so if you don't get a quick response that might be why#I don't guarantee quick responses in general and my blog vast majority runs off a queue
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Sometimes it is grounding to remember that ideas around social change & activism are often coming from and being shared by people who have never so much as attended a public talk or vigil or sat on a committee.
#If this is you you can change that! You don’t have to change the world. You don’t have to sign up for a recurring commitment.#The in-post examples are examples only#r4l thoughts
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