#stripperproblems
Explore tagged Tumblr posts
Text
I think I need to take a break from work for a while. first tho, let me explain. this job has been so amazing and life changing, I've seen some of the most beautiful and powerful displays of feminine and sensual energy that I probably would never have seen working outside of the club. and I'm so grateful for that. I learned how to speak more clearly and honestly. also I learned how to do my make up and play up my beauty and sensuality. Most importantly, I learned how to hold boundaries in a relatively safe environment (in most clubs, anyway). It was like having training for the most compromising situations that can occur outside of the club but in an environment with an unusually high amount of security personnel. that generally doesn't exist outside of the club. its a weird thing to be grateful for but I do feel like that's an invaluable experience.
but the inequities of the club environment have just become blindingly clear to me in the last few days. I don't think most management realizes that they're acting with any negativity. this is mostly due to the fact that female labor (and increasingly male labor as well) is detrimentally devalued in our culture. to club owners and managers cutting up our wages both as we walk in the door and as we leave (house fees and champagne room/lap dance fees) is just business as usual. both owners and managers of strip clubs are mostly men. most owners and managers in general are men. most service industry positions are held by women. strip clubs aren't outside of the inequities that plague our economies. they are following the culture of unequal compensation that exists everywhere else.
the difference between this and every other fucked up job ive had (ive had a variety), is that this job has stripped away the dressings of polite society to show the nude unjust economic state in which we modern humans find ourselves. in that heedless dance of excess this job also gave me the tools to live without it.
p.s. I'd love to work my aerial and pole skills up to a point where id be excited about feature performing. even if I don't do that officially, it might be fun to still travel dance on a short term basis with long breaks in between. I love stripping and I LOVE STRIPPERS. I will always cherish every group of strippers that allowed me into their dressing room. they allowed me to transform in ways I could have never imagined. my 8 year old self would be proud and my 29 year old self is too. 🩷
I love you all so much. strippers forever.
2 notes
·
View notes
Text
Found this article while browsing dance heels.
Makes me mad all over again about this club i worked at which BANNED stripper heels for the strippers because the owner didn't like them.
They're work shoes designed for a specific occupation 🤦♀️
#thankfully it was a tiny stage at least so not much required#but still losing the secure fit and comfort to wear high street crap ugggggh#dance#stripperproblems
0 notes
Photo

Whenever I retire a pair of shoes I take a picture of it and put it in a folder on my computer called “Chucked Chucks”. Because if I don’t at some point in the future I’ll be going crazy trying to find a pair of shoes I KNEW that I owned and must be here SOMEWHERE. Silver knee-high boots, you served me well in “Up Uranus” but you got ripped apart too many times so I have to retire you. I salute you! #stripperproblems https://www.instagram.com/p/CLYGSNDHYZg/?igshid=oiz2z1za424e
19 notes
·
View notes
Text
Pray the bullshit is minimal and the only rain is the kind that tickles
I’m in no mood for men today.
11 notes
·
View notes
Text
Creepy horny porn blogs really still comment on my posts with shit like 'free spirits its so good to be a hoe lol' .... I didnt ask you and never would lmao.
I swear every time a man has "non judgemental" in his bio he means he wants nudes full stop.
13 notes
·
View notes
Text
This is reminder.. stripping takes as much as it gives so before you burn out take a day off!
5 notes
·
View notes
Text


Travel dancing to my home club 2k nailed and this is what I made I’m glad I have regulars there but the bitches we’re hating that’s so lame grow up and get one then
1 note
·
View note
Text
Oh just having dreams about my old club *again*
Imma have to write something. Never knew what or how but wanted to write something to illustrate that nightlife nymph mood for some time.
#Dreamt bf and mgr met and got along really well#Wat mean#Stripperproblems#Wonder if this tag is still alive over here
1 note
·
View note
Photo

🚨 New #tacotalkshow #podcast episode! This one is all about some of my most uncomfortable moments as a sex worker. Strange fetishes I’ve encountered, etc! • https://soundcloud.com/tacotalkshow/sex-worker-storytime-strange-fetish-requests • Which fetish did I list on this episode that also new to you? • Btw, this l!nk is ALSO in my b*o! 😘 • 📸: @clayman4761 Lingerie: @avidlovelingerie Thigh Stockings: @clubkixies Faux Hair: @bellakurls (Use code *JESSA* for a discount!) • • • #podcastersofinstagram #allwhitelingerieparty #stripperproblems #kinkshaming #kinkshamingismykink #podcastlife #podcasts #podcasting #nylonfetish (at Evansville, Indiana) https://www.instagram.com/p/CEUp7_KlIGQ/?igshid=hed970gzw3kh
#tacotalkshow#podcast#podcastersofinstagram#allwhitelingerieparty#stripperproblems#kinkshaming#kinkshamingismykink#podcastlife#podcasts#podcasting#nylonfetish
9 notes
·
View notes
Text
Need advice from dancers.
My club is kinda crap (not many customers, cheap area, dead except for the weekends) but there's not really many other options. So many days I am only making $20 after house + tipout. Weekends are better and more stable, but still not.... Amazing most of the time.
I know it's unrealistic to be pulling in $1k or more per shift. But I feel like the amount of labor and well being I put into this job is not worth it at this club. Especially after tipout and paying taxes. I don't like wasting 9 hours at the club and sitting there to be making minimum wage or less. Or showing up every day hoping to catch the one good night of the week. Yes the good nights are amazing but I would be happy with $200-300 take home a shift with the occasional horrid night.
It sucks too because I feel like I could be doing so much better. I am good at stacking dances and getting guys into VIP. I feel like it's my area holding me back more than anything. But when I'm not making good $$, I get unmotivated.
Anyway I wanted to ask. Is it just me? I know a lot of dancers are upset lately about the industry not having as much money as it used to. But is it this bad? Would other states/cities have better opportunities? I know it's impossible to guess an average for a dancer. But what's the amount where you'd go find a new club if you were making only $x every day?
Tyia
24 notes
·
View notes
Text
I think it’s rly funny when actual witchcraft blogs follow me like sorry boo I’m a hoe lmao
Who knows maybe now that I’m hanging my heels up I’ll make this a real ~witchblr~
9 notes
·
View notes
Text
Note to self: don't. work. Saturdays. Too many girls, not enough men willing to spend money.
18 notes
·
View notes
Text
I was annoyed when everyone told me how hard it would be to get my life started after being a stripper but... it really has been so challenging trying to figure out how to structure my life after totally abandoning routine-setting and running away to a new city for the weekend when things got overwhelming for the past 8 years. I'm like, "what tf time should I get up at???"
1 note
·
View note
Text

I have been working everyday at this new club and these house girls who are making no money threatened to beat my ass to random customers they don’t even know wtf scary hoes😂 one got booed on stage that’s my week in a nutshell lol
6 notes
·
View notes
Photo

See y’all at #silktheshowclub in #indianapolis tonight! Wish me luck! I’ve never really driven in snow before & I’m a bit anxious about it. More than just a bit, honestly. So comment “thoughts & prayers” to send me that good driving juju! I need your ❤️! Portrait by @clayman4761 taken at #yagerstudios in #morganfield #kentucky! Yeehaw! 😜 #thoughtsandprayers #adverseweather #snowblizzard #blizzardof2019 #firstsnow #featureperformer #travelingshowgirl #freakyfridayz #dancerspose #portraitphotography #indianaphotographer #showgirl #strikeapose #stripperproblems #indy #indiana #indianapolisindiana #thickandlively #thickblonde #thiccy #privatedancer #meetmeinvip #comethru #seeyallsoon #keepmewarm #babyitscoldoutside #snowbunny https://www.instagram.com/p/Bsgy3Ptl2O3/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=uxfxe5tjh0qz
#silktheshowclub#indianapolis#yagerstudios#morganfield#kentucky#thoughtsandprayers#adverseweather#snowblizzard#blizzardof2019#firstsnow#featureperformer#travelingshowgirl#freakyfridayz#dancerspose#portraitphotography#indianaphotographer#showgirl#strikeapose#stripperproblems#indy#indiana#indianapolisindiana#thickandlively#thickblonde#thiccy#privatedancer#meetmeinvip#comethru#seeyallsoon#keepmewarm
11 notes
·
View notes
Text
Ugh what are we gonna do
How are my lovely ladies doing?
So I know I’m not the only one out of work for 4-8 weeks+.
Is everyone doing ok?
49 notes
·
View notes