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remember through all of this that it's important to support victims. also remember through all of this that it's important to do outside research if you're skeptical of a claim or a story that seems fabricated. believing things blindly is how things like the situation with kwite and orion happened. it's not disrespectful to research things you're unsure of, not doing so is how misinfo spreads, and with the waycthis misinfo spreading resulting in actual innocent people being harassed? yeah, no. give support where support is due, but critical thinking is important as well.
#hideawaysisposting#this isnt to say you should be skeptical of ALL victims obviously#just if you notice inconsistencies in a story that cant immediately be explained by memory issues from the event or something#giving victims the support they need is so so important and researching things you arent sure of is too#these are two things that can coexist#also obviously not saying you should harass victims you dont believe. thats just a heinous thing to di#*do#why are my thumbs so big </3
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genuinely is my brain erasing itself or is google/tumblr censoring that post about notre dame and old growth forests.
#i know we joke about tumblr's (lack of) search function#but at some point this is surely (less) passive (more) aggressive#(particularly against people with memory issues...is this. is this gaslighting.#am i. am i being GASLIGHTED. by a social media platform who isn't even my PARENT???)#that post is ingrained in my memory but google image is flirting and fwirling its fan 'haha! you're so cute! and Imagining Things. Dear :-)#i have Looked okay! i've looked! and i've looked for a SEVERAL DOZEN POSTS before this after talking To People...and behold!#...this last year or two i *genuinely* can't find posts 4 out of 5 times.#what the COOL GELITAN FUCK is going on#geletan#gel#GELTAIN#GELA--im so scared right now#so tired#GELITAN#what the chilled gelitan fuck is going on#update: i Am being gaslit just not about the spelling of gelly-thing#i'm both stupid AND being gaslit. these things! can! coexist! *sad clapping*
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Fine! Since absolutely no one asked — here’s my take on Sabrina Carpenter’s latest announcement as someone who was neutral about her previously.
TL;DR: it’s satire, it’s punk as fuck, and I love it. Now get ready, because I’m about to sound really fucking intellectual here.

The album is called Man’s Best Friend, a metaphor usually used for dogs. Sabrina Carpenter puts herself into the position of one on this album cover: on all fours on the floor, having her head pet. It’s reminiscent of a sexual activity known as pet play or doggy play. Needless to say, I think this is deliberate. Sex is always a good way to ruffle some feathers.
If you’ve listened to Manchild, her latest single, it’s basically her insinuating that a lot of men are idiots and incapable of keeping their lives together without women.
Sabrina Carpenter likes to play with vintage and Americana aesthetics, both of which are reminiscent of a more sexist, more misogynist time. And by ‘play’ I mean she subverts them. I think this is another instance of her taking something very familiar (and in this case, provocative) and subverting it — but not in the lazy, boring way (which would be ‘consensual kink’ — which, you can still interpret it that way, but I would go a step further).
I think Man’s Best Friend, and its cover, are about how men are incompetent and need women to assist them like service dogs. They know this, and they are so scared of being without a woman to take care of them that they force women into submission, into their ownership, to the point where they make the women believe they are doing this voluntarily. So a man’s best friend is not his dog, it’s women — and men would do good to remember that. The layers you can apply to this are insane, and I FUCKING LOVE IT for that! Edit: But most importantly — it’s a great way to start a conversation about some things that unfortunately still exist in our society and that we should really have some conversations about.
Also. On a meta level, the fact that she is doing that, putting herself into that position? She isn’t catering to men, she is actively taking their expectations, turning them around, and throwing them right back at them. She is owning her sexuality, adding yet another layer to this hell of a power move.
And yeah. Maybe this is me reading too much into everything (which is something I like to do). But honestly? I don’t care. I think this is fun, I think this is the best thing I’ve seen come out of pop since I can’t even tell you, I think it doesn’t matter if I’m right or not ‘cause I’m gonna appreciate this regardless, I think this is complex or can at least be interpreted in a complex way, I think it ultimately doesn’t matter which interpretation is ‘correct’ because it’s powerful either way, and yes, once again, I FUCKING LOVE IT!!
Bonus points because this is so punk that it pissed off the extremist babies on all possible sides, and I’m kinda here for that.
#Music#Sabrina Carpenter#Man’s Best Friend#Manchild#Feminism#Pop Music#Meta#Analysis#Currantlee here#(and yes; I believe the ‘consensual kink’ and ‘incompetent men’ interpretations can coexist)#(two things can be true at the same time)#(again; this is why I love this cover SO FUCKING MUCH; because it allows for such a wide range of interpretations and is provocative)#(even better; IT IS WORKING!!!)
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I don't think you understand how Italian is the "Stai bene? (Are you well?)" from Lawrence and Tedesco answering "Mah, no one is ever well at our age". I'll try to explain, it's like an italian thing, especially if you're from the South. That if somebody pays you a compliment or hints at things going well for you, you downplay it because by complimenting you they're "cursing" you. It's a folkloristic thing, the kind of thing that my grandmother would say to me: beware of people complimenting you and be careful not to share the good things going on with you, because the moment you do people might "curse" you. Very difficult to put this thing into words, but Goffredo Tedesco I see you. I see you a Patriarch of Venice on the road to papacy and still believing in grandmother's (pagan) superstitions because that's how religion, especially for old people, works in Italy. Again, difficult to put into words, but I know in my heart that he is answering Lawrence's question the same way my grandmother would answer it. I see you outrunning malocchio, Cardinal Tedesco. And I respect it.
#It's so difficult to explain this in English ahhhhhh#especially because I personally am not religious or superstitious but I come from a family who's both#and religion and superstition go hand in hand where I come from. They're supposed to be opposite but noooo.#like my grandmother is christian and she also says that her cousin was a certified mage and she says it with pride.#the two things can weirdly coexist#you have to believe me Tedesco was outrunning malocchio when he told Lawrence 'no one ever is at our age :)'#you hace to trust me please I live and breath the contradictions in how people from my country live with christianity please#I know I sound crazy because again I am not religious and I also don't associate with 'pagan rites' and also I apologise#if I am not using the right words to describe this (I am not academically prepared on religions) BUT IT'S A FEEL#I DON'T HAVE THE WORDS BUT I KNOW WHAT I AM SEEING.#Goffredo Tedesco you are so Italian#conclave#fully italian aggiunta qua: grazie a Dio che non ha visto il papa morto che probabilmente Berger non l'avrebbe girata come scena#ma io so nel mio cuore che Tedesco si sarebbe fatto una scaramantica grattata. Tedesco nonno italiano in tutto e per tutto methinks.
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happy pride month from peepaw harkness and the torchwood team 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
#listen. jack was born in the 51st century. he hung out in 1941 and the was stuck living through the entire 20th century.#he’s (at least partially) a part of the great and silent generations. this is a 98 y/o queer war vet in a 28 y/o’s body#he tells stories about the war and he literally had a grandson. he’s earned peepaw status#he was heavily involved in queer culture throughout the decades. he does not know what a bussy is. these two things can coexist <3#despite his body and physicality jack is an elder queer. heavy emphasis on elder#do not let him surf the web unsupervised. if he finds out about twitter or urban dictionary he will be insufferable#torchwood#jack harkness#captain jack harkness#ianto jones#my edit
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This was gonna be a sexy choicale drawing but then the kids took over and now choi han is just barely there
#cale henituse#on tcf#hong tcf#raon miru#choi han#tcf#trash of the counts family#lout of the counts family#just drawing dmm#yes i think hes aroace. yes i think him and choi han are together. these two things can coexist#xD#choicale#lcf
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Ya know what?? Sure why not
I’m still gonna call her Sherry just to separate the two tho but I can’t ignore such a cute design, I just wouldn’t really call her Fanny
#my art#art#drawing#digital art#jai art#oswald the lucky rabbit#fanny cottontail#Sherry ‘Gracie’ Greer#make them sister boom problem solved#I also have a family tree thing set up but I’m gonna re-blog that later#anyway yay more lineless art#can two queens just coexist
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maruca doodles who cheered



zoom ins yippieyippie
#yes i think shes one of the most fashion heavy /dressed up of the group yes i also think shed be on the football team#these two things can coexist#kotlc#keeper of the lost cities#kotlc fandom#kotlc art#kotlc fanart#kotlc maruca#maruca chebota
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i’m literally will byers if you guys didn’t know
#yes i am a girl but i am also a 54 year old man the two can coexist#will byers#byler#stranger things
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Anya Mouthwashing Headcanons
TW FOR MENTIONS OF SA AND MISCARRIAGE
Aroace (not that it matters now)
However, she was still in the closet to most people, as she never really knew how to explain it (some people just don’t get it) or never had a good time to bring it up
21-23 in my head
Likes cute things
Has a really cheesy sense of humor
Also has a bad sense of humor
The dumbest things will make her laugh
Covers her mouth when she laughs
She would unironically enjoy those “hang in there” kitten posters
Sees Daisuke like a brother, and she wishes she had known him before this all happened
Has anxiety, and it just got worse After
Once got so mad at Daisuke during a board game that she considered sabotaging his psych evaluation out of spite
Constantly crashing out during said board games
She gets SO angry
“Anya, please, it’s just a game—” “IT’S NOT JUST A GAME, HE CHEATED”
Feels safest around Swansea
Sorts the medical stock when stressed (both before and after the crash)
Fidgets with the buttons on her jumpsuit
Sings well but too shy to do so in front of other people (unless it’s to do purposefully bad karaoke with Daisuke)
Absolutely drowning in student debt, lord help her
Can’t swim
Doesn’t drink (or, well, she DIDN’T)
Bites her nails down to the quick
Cold hands
Sunburns SO easily
Wanted a pet cat
after the cut are the heavier hcs with the above TW, so proceed with caution!
Aborted by inducing her own miscarriage around three months after the crash. She never intended on having the baby, and even though she held a grudge against the fetus, she wasn’t about to bring a child into the situation on the ship, where it would most certainly suffer and probably die anyway without proper resources.
In similar vein, she never wanted children.
Blockaded her bedroom door with pretty much every piece of movable furniture after It Happened, and she curses herself for not doing that beforehand.
Refused to shower for a good two weeks after It Happened because she didn’t want to see her own body. (And maybe if she’s so disgusting, he won’t touch her again)
She was a bit wary when she first heard that she would be the only woman on the ship, but she rationalized that surely nothing would happen.
For that, she hates herself for being so naive. And she wonders if it’s her fault for letting her guard down.
After the assault, she cried for her mother. Her mom was the only thing she wanted in that moment (because somehow, wanting and getting her skin back seemed less probable than her mother showing up in the ship)
#before anyone says ANYTHING#her being aroace has NOTHING to do with her trauma#i’ve been in a fandom where people got mad at people for hcing an sa victim as aroace#like no#trauma has nothing to do with sexuality#the two things can coexist#and you can be aroace before you know. trauma happens#also i’m aroace and i say so#also also i’m VERY opinionated on anya NOT having that baby#i get so mad when i see content where she has it#i have a LIST of reasons why it wouldn’t work#anyway hello mouthwashing fandom#anya my beloved#i relate to her HEAVILY#so she’s my fave#mouthwashing#mouthwashing headcanon#mouthwashing anya#daisuke mouthwashing#swansea mouthwashing#jimmy mouthwashing#tw miscarriage#tw sa mention
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Do I relate to Viktor's asexual identity in arcane? Yes. Do I appreciate the representation? Absolutely.
Do I also enjoy non asexual/aromantic fan art of jayvik? Yes. Do I want to also see more platonic jayvik fan art? Absolutely.
#arcane#arcane viktor#viktor#viktor league of legends#jayce talis#arcane jayce#jayce x viktor#jayvik#look two opposite things can coexist#i do project my asexual/aromantic identity onto Viktor#and i also enjoy the cute fan art of the two kissing and cuddling#because while Viktor is asexual canonically he is also a fictional character#art is meant to be interpreted by the viewer
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tbh i do think its annoying when people tag poly ships as all the variants of that poly ship (i.e., #ABC #AB #AC #BC). i am not going into the clois tag because i want to see bruce wayne. i am not going into the timkon tag because i want to see bernard dowd. please. if i wanted to see that guy shipped with these guys i'd be in the poly ship tag. get that man out of here
#rimi talks#idk it just feels like ... inaccurate tag etiquette?#bc at least to me poly ship ABC generally is not the same thing as AB AC and BC individually. thats a different dynamic#like i GUESS if you're doing A dating B and B dating C and NOT A and C that fits...#like you can make that argument but in that case idk that that's poly ship ABC that's just AB and BC coexisting?#idk. that's probably splitting hairs. but still#tis a pet peeve of mine. i do not want to see some third guy when i am looking for the two guys#even if its a third guy i generally don't hate to see like hes not what im here for :(#like at least on ao3 i can filter out extra ships but tumblr tags. eugh.#my fault for venturing into them i suppose but ALAS
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Serious Art and humor cannot coexist in fiction without the second cheapening the first is one of those takes that makes me want to put my head through a wall
#“important art must be a joyless slog with zero jokes”#well first off jordan peele would like a word#alongside you know#the rich and robust history of how much those two things can and should be able to coexist
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You think they coexisted at some point? It would have probably been hilarious if they did lol
#dark souls#dark souls 3#abyss watchers#aldrich devourer of gods#hawkwood the deserter#deacons of the deep#archdeacon royce#archdeacon mcdonnell#saint aldrich of the deep#if they did coexist I am sure all the corruption thing (at least the obvious one) would start after they are already out of the picture#otherwise they would have probably destroyed him ahah#but here they can only disagree about the way they do things and can't just declare war on them based on that#also they'd go to war with the entirety of the Way of White. so not worth it#I like adding Hawkwood. and the two Archdeacons (Klimt was busy with Rosaria or something lmao)#val-arts
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While Edwin’s more than a bit stand-offish and definitely not the most tactful, I never did get the sense that he doesn’t like people - in fact, I think his insistence that he’s “not good with people” and his general emotional detachment/disinterest has a lot more to do with his assumption that they don’t or won’t like him.
And while that’s very sad to think about… it’s not as if his belief here is hard to understand, considering his past experiences. But it’s left him quite guarded and lonely, and of course, the more he isolates himself from people other than Charles (and even here, he allows himself little vulnerability), the more he reinforces this fear that people won’t like him, and the less he allows himself to properly sympathize or empathize with others, which is why his friendships with Crystal and Niko and Monty (short-lived as that was) are so important. Once he started to let some of those walls down, to not be so scared of vulnerability and to be around people who allow themselves to feel and want so readily (to live! who allow themselves to live without fear of loving!), he’s really not nearly as bad with people as he seems to think he is - and, in fact, he’s actually quite good at saying or doing the right thing for them when it really counts.
#he really does mean well :’)#he also LOVES being a sassy petty little show off but these two things can and do coexist and in fact. improve the overall vibe lol#honestly Edwin is so funny. I don’t even find him that mean tbh that level of petty has always been hilarious to me.#if id known him in high school I definitely would’ve sat near him in class. don’t know. I feel teenage me would’ve considered him#‘potential friend’ or at least ‘someone to work on group assignments with’#lol but anyways edwin makes me very sad#that boy lives his (after)life in so much fear#storyrambles#dead boy detectives#this is a bit of a mess but I’m just going to post it as is#edwin payne#random thoughts
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Really leaning into the theory that Callum won't use dark magic in s7. Yes, they have set the stakes high and made the perfect set up for dark magic to be used again, BUT, those same stakes still remain if he doesn't succumb to them and instead chooses to not, to find another way which isn't dark magic. Especially since there is a theme in the show of dark magic being the second option, the only option, the creative solution, basically the easy way out.
I want Callum to see that he can do things the hard way. To affirm his beliefs that dark magic isn't necessary. I want him to discover a connection to the Moon Arcanum, (which is tied to illusions and truth ect ect) without using dark magic for a third time. Because he is the 'destiny is a book you write yourself' guy.
#please let callum break free from the cycle come on guys#and yes i'm still a CHET theory thruther#two things can coexist#the dragon prince#giveusthesaga#tdp#rayllum#give us the saga#the dragon prince mystery of aaravos#callum#tdp callum#the dragon prince callum#CHET theory#tdp speculation#the dragon prince speculation#tdp theory#tdp s7#the dragon prince season 7#the dragon prince theory#tdp s7 theory
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