#this isn't targeted

[florence-not-italy]

every obsessive spam post tumblr blog needs their desolate posts-once-a-blue-moon tumblr blog mutual

[free-mark-from-reform]

"i love you…I would do ANYTHING for you..🥺" mmm! we've exchanged 15 texts 😊. I will pay you money if you can tell me what my last name is. ❤️

"You're just not like anyone else I've ever met" you don't know how I act when I'm alone. You don't know how I handle conflict

"I've never felt this way before!" ok! …Thats probably indigestion. 👍 you've never felt this way before? Thats embarrassing. 😁

"You understand me so well!" yeah! wish i could say the same but unfortunately I filter myself around people and we are NOTHING alike 😇

[averagemorrowindenjoyer]

"I need more Lenny fics" "I need more Tinky fics" "I need more Laa-Laa fics-" I NEED MORE DIPSY FICS. I NEED MORE GHOST GIRL FICS.

[yes-im-the-god-apollo]

I don't appreciate being called out.

[ravenslikebooks]

you ever ask someone a question and then spend twenty minutes agonizing over "holy hell did they read the subtext of what I was saying and did they do so correctly and am I mentally prepared for that. Do I want to know if they did?" and then by the time you're done you're not even 100% sure what you were freaking out about in the first place? no? just me?

[yokoluvv]

I think we shpuld kiss but idk

[kairithemang0]

you make me sick.

[akingswedding]

Oh!

No, no, no! You look fine! Very... human! It's just...

You looked better when you didn't?

[jaxxxxyyy]

someone give me music recommendations, I'm bored and if I ask my friends I'm just gonna be bombarded with Joost or Stray Kids

[fairytypingg]

something that kinda bothers me is the deification of neurodivergency, because i see it happening again.

autism doesn't make someone better than others. autistic people aren't any more beautiful or thoughtful or wonderful or compassionate or whatever the fuck.

autism is NORMAL. autistic people are NORMAL. im begging neurotypical allies to stop trying to put neurodivergency on a pedestal. you're not helping us by making us the "future of humanity"(something my mother has actually said), you'd be helping us by treating us as NORMAL. making a big deal out of it is still harmful.

[averagemorrowindenjoyer]

"Game is game" This is why your parents don't love you, Jared.

[indigoaster]

I feel like we often bring up the idea of "separate the art from the artist" when we find out an artist has done something bad as part of justifying to ourselves and others that we can still love the art we love.

But I think artists need to realize that "separate the art from the artist" also means that making something good won't save you.

When you create something and share it with the world it is no longer truely yours.

The appreciation you are shown for creating something people love is not the same as them loving you and if you do something that loses the respect of those people don't think you're art will save you.

The art will be separated from the artist; you will be held accountable and your art will be the thing loved.

[osokasstuff]

uhhh okay it's time for angry takes but i hate how society treats vaginal variations that make intercourse difficult or impossible. like the whole talks are always about how to stretch vagina to make intercourse possible/easier and uhh

i know for some people it may be important, even crucial

but like

there is no single word how it's okay to just not have intercourse. how it's possible to do nothing with vagina. (implying that there is some kind of opening that allows menstrual discharge leave the uterus. because if menstrual discharge can't leave the body, it can cause inflammation, endometriosis, pain, and other problems. but there also is the problem that the only suggested solution is "create/stretch the opening" and never "would you like to have menstruations?").

i'm angry. every resourse mentions dilation and pelvic exercises, and most of them never mention that it's ok to just leave it be if you're not interested in intercourse.

maybe i understate the value of intercourse for average person because i'm asexual and was never interested in it and generally don't like when someone interacts with my genitals but like. really? not even mention? not even slightly?

and even in progressive spaces, in feminist resources that are all for non-conformant sexual practices and queerness, the most we can get is one paragraph from a long material that basically says "but you can don't do it if you don't like intercourse!" and i'm glad that they put it there and acknowledge this possibility, but i want more? i want more visibility. i want more talks about how it's ok to have vagina and not use it. how people don't owe their genitals to each other. how there are sexual practices that don't include intercourse. how it's okay to not have sex at all. how it's okay to have sex and not use genitals in it. how lack of intercourse ≠ failed sexual life.

idk maybe it sounds too picky but it feels like the world is extremely entitled to vaginas and can't comprehend that vaginas can exist not for fucking purposes.

[biggest-gaudiest-patronuses]

main take aways from Halloween (1978) rewatch:

michael myers is canonically 21??? this bitch should be at the club

*sees tiddies* ***MURDEROUS RAMPAGE NOISES***

that's it that's the movie

outside of the fact that everyone who has sex is murdered by the narrative, this is a surprisingly chill portrayal of female sexuality? these teen girls are horny and actively enjoying Getting It On with their boytoys. no pushy boyfriends sneaking in through their bedroom windows--these ladies are taking the initiative to sneak out and GET SOME. one of them gets laid and then immediately orders her boyfriend to get her a beer. (yes she gets Slashered soon afterward, but so does the boyfriend so honestly, gender equality.) yes the Final Girl is the only one not having sex, but she's not bullied for that, nor are her friends slut shamed except possibly by being murdered by the narrative

actually the only character who is shown being morally condemned on-screen is michael myers. specifically FOR his violent overreaction to other people's sex lives. (people he is spying on). metaphorically, the villain is American Puritanism sticking its judgy nose into other people's business.

aka Michael Myers Is A Republican

but actually the real villain is the doctor. guy's a judgemental, shaming, pathologizing asshole. and he's been in charge of michael's care since he was SIX YEARS OLD? kid never had a chance. i'd go on a killing spree too

also the parents. where are the parents? it's halloween night and all the teenage girls are home babysitting their younger siblings? come to think of it, michael's first victim was his own older sister, whom he killed while she was babysitting him. teen girls are really shouldering a labour burden here. maybe parentification is the true villain

side note: mike commits his first murder wearing a clown costume...which is never referenced again? his 'iconic' costume is a generic mask and wig and jumpsuit, when we coulda had a Killer Clown Michael Myers??? travesty

i like how the Final Girl and her friend casually smoke weed in her car. yeah she's an honor student and her friend is the sheriff's daughter. yeah they smoke weed. so what it's 1978

(to reiterate, mike is 21 and should be at the club. im not saying he shouldn't be rampaging, im saying it's sad that he broke out, tasted freedom for the first time in his life, and immediately snuck back into his childhood home to go rampaging. let's have a remake where he goes to a nightclub and has a few beers. maybe some slutty dancing. then rampage)

oh no he's hot

[kairithemang0]

hoping you fail and everyone leaves you and you're left alone

[paladinsbrainrot]

WE'RE GETTING AN EL BOOK