#this isnt like a Serious Concern About Problematic Behaviour
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you know what i've been thinking about... any gay ship that even vaguely hits the sunshine x grumpy trope, like really, really broadening what that means but any ship where one dude is a bit more repressed (or even just shy) or dour or even just has a more muted/darker color palette (darker hair, clothes primarily) while one is more expressive or happy or bright...
typically the "grumpy" is seen as gay and the "sunshine" one is seen as bi. hell, if the sunshine one is vibrant enough, he's now not even bi but pan
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what the fuck is that about
#i always noticed it with the bi vs pan headcanons#whre it's like... lmao how did you did you decide that#you'rer kinda weird#but also........#like#idk#with gay x bi#often times sthe text kinda DOES back it up#where vibrant guy also likes women where quiet dude never has any romance#but sometimes its like well lets pause for a second how did we get here#why can['t it be bi for bi#or two gay people#this isnt like a Serious Concern About Problematic Behaviour#just like#an idle question
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1 through 65 because I want to study you!
1: Do you have a crush at the moment? Yes I always do lol, but maybe one slightly more than crush rn
2:Have you ever been deeply in love? Currently am
3:Longest relationship you've ever been in? 3.5 years
4:Have you ever changed for someone? Bpd mirroring says hi
5:How is your relationship with your ex? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
6: Have you ever been cheated on? Technically no but guilted into open relationship
7:Have you ever cheated? Nope
8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating? Idk maybe depends on factors
9:What's the most important part of a relationship? Trust
10:Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings? I mostly do serious ones lol
11 When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"? idk i never have but i guess it could be helpful
12:How many people have you ever hooked up with? I guess it depends on your definition, it implies casual stuff so I guess 2?
13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship? Something stupid and ridiculous and i hate myself for it.
14:What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex? i have no idea.
15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"? Slightly yes, obvs as long as people are over 18, but older men and younger girls probably problematically hits me as creepy.
16:Do you believe in "love at first sight"? Kinda
17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet? I have totally done this.
18:What do you consider a deal breaker? Racism, transphobia bigotry in general.
19:How do you know it's time to end a relationship? lolsob i never do.
20: Are you currently in a relationship? Yeppers with Em :)
21:Do you think people who have dated can stay friends? if it doesnt end badly.
22:Do you think people should date their friends? Go be poly with your friends everyone
23:How many relationships have you had? 4 irl, 5 online so 9
24:Do you think love can last forever? forever idk a lifetime yes
25:Do you believe love can conquer all things? not abusive partners
26:Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of? nope
27: f you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?You’re a fucking lesbian amy.
28:Do you think long distance relationships can work? it’s hard but yeah it can
29:What do you notice first about another person?Honestly the hair.
30:Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual? lesbian
31:Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?Bother me in a i’m concerned and would try to be mindful of it to help them be happy way? mayb
32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?All irl bar 1, 1 online was too :/
33: Do you want to get married one day? maybe ugh idk bleh this q why
34:What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed? idk i wouldnt really, a meaningful picture or symbol is more meaningful to be, also what if they change theirname :p
35:Could you be in a relationship without sex? Yep
36:Are you still a virgin?Nope
37: What's more important: Looks or personality? personality, but im not gonna lie anf say looks are irrelevant, looks spark that first interest.
38: Do you enjoy love films? sometimes havent seen many tbh
39:Have you ever given anyone/received roses? yes, and got my first one from em
40:Have you ever had a valentine? yes
41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"? I’ve always dreamed of watching a sunset with wine, and then stargazing at night.
42:Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"? yes problematically idealised it for ages
43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends? Both are equally important
44:Would you consider yourself "romantic"? Somewhat
45:Could you imagine to date one of your current friends? heheheheh after tonight i really could :p
46:Have you ever been "friendzoned"? isnt a real thing.
47:Which "famous couple" is your favorite? for a straight couple brie bella and daniel bryan are cute
48:What's your favorite love song? I guess head over feet by alanis if that counts lol
49:Have you ever broken someone's heart? probably
50:If you're single, why do you think you are? I’m not
51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy? neither, but give me a poor nice girl over any horrible girls anyday
52:Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships? i certainly give advice i have no idea how good it is.
53:Are you jealous of couples when you're single? Yeah i can be
54:How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on Facebook)? it’s nice, but FB GET POLY OPTIONS WITHOUT NEEDING CUSTOM CODE.
55:Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"? All of the above lol
56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship? lolfuck maybe idk uhhhhh
57:Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?Honestly? no ? i’m kinda problematic and think people should be allowed to die for whatever reason whenever they want.
58:Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship? Both in different ways
59:ave you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary? Nope
60:What's your opinion on open relationships? isn’t it basically poly?
61:Who's more important: Your partner or your family? partner always, but i have a terrible family lol.
62:How do you define "cheating"? I guess anything with anyone else which is outside of relationship terms and agreed behaviours?
63:Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate? Nope
64:Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated? idk but i like appropriating it gayly
65:Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"? lolyes
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