#who constantly complains

[marmelade-sky]

"I simply can't communicate my needs-" learn how to.

"I'm bad at communicating my feelings-" learn it then.

"I constantly lose friends because I don't keep up with them-" make an effort.

"I just have terrible emotional regulation-" self-reflect. Get better.

"Sorry I'm always late-" improve your time management strategies.

"Everytime I meet this person they make me feel awful-" don't meet them anymore. I know it's hard, do it anyway.

"My relationship with my partner is suffering because I never talk to them about what I need and want-" they can't read your mind. Learn to talk.

If you are an adult, you can learn how to handle your own feelings. Sit down, write it down, self-reflect, make strategies. Seek change. Better yourself.

Weaponized emotional incompetence, where you expect people around you to handle your issues without ever trying to change, isn't the way to go. You have agency, use it.

Edit: if you're a terf, this post isn't for you and you will be blocked 💖

[polycraftory]

This came to me in a vision at 3 AM and I got out of bed to make it.

- Gabe

[mewrising]

Happy birthday to me...?

[piosplayhouse]

Wwx is the only mxtx main protagonist who would not be a my little pony fan. But he does own a 20% cooler shirt

[doomed-era]

ppl in the tags of posts complaining about how bad zelda canon is always say that fanon is better and I think in the vast majority of cases they're kind of...wrong

[remus-poopin]

Me: idk I don’t think this Harry Potter discourse is just black and white

Well balanced anon: you are the downfall of the American empire

[pain-is-too-tired]

I think i just realized why how Piper's identity is view by the fandom bothers me so much.

Of course outside of the fact her choosing to be unlabeled/no rush labeling herself is either not known or ignored. That kinda can make sense in a way since I know most people skimmed over her scenes talking about it or refuse to read those books at all and learned she had a girlfriend from second hand in fandom.

But think why it's really rubbed me the wrong way(outside of taking away representation that's hardly seen) is i never see her labeled as anything other than Lesbian or Bi in fandom. Not even Pan.

The character with the least restrictive view of her own identity is view restrictivly by most of the fandom.

One the reasons I wish her being unlabeled was represented more by Fandom is because of how much pressure there is to have a label. To be put in a box. And usually if a person(irl or a character) is shown or told to be queer in anyway. Either liking the same gender or not liking/showing interest with the opposite gender, them being Bi or especially gay(as some even erase the chance of a character being Bi as well, though I've also seen some force a bi hc on a canon gay character just for shipping but that's a diffrent topic-) is seen as the default if you're not straight.

So it feels oddly telling that many saw a character who chose not to rush choosing a label for herself and decided that she must be Lesbian or Bi and nothing else pops up in the conversation. It really feels like people are trying to push her into a label just to do so. I'm sure most are just projecting onto her or just having fun with hcs, but her being seen so restrictivly by the fandom makes me feel like it's something else there.

Idk, maybe I'm thinking too hard on it. Just something I noticed recently thought I bring up.

That being said. Shout out to those small few fans out there who write/draw her as queer/unlabeled yall amazing and I love y'all 💛

[itz-pandora]

Thank you guys for dealing with me

[thebeigelunatics]

the hilarity of all the kids in s3 being mystified why anyone would want to kidnap standish meanwhile lamb is sobering up and preparing to go to war because he knows (frankly what they should all know!) — standish is their most valuable asset 😭😭😭

[thatskindarough]

My actual only request and probably unpopular opinion for season 3 is that they tone down the color grading. I think season 1 looked a lot better. Season 2 was way to saturated. Crowley’s skin looked orange.

[thebaldursmouthgazette]

All of you making complaints about “bad writing” in the game that is actually an unreliable narrator/set up for a plot twist/a natural progression over the decades we’ve been in this world/a plot point being explored/something you literally just missed sound exactly like my dad whenever I try to watch anything with him and he complains about plot holes that dont exist and are just him not paying attention or not letting the story play out to the point where it’s explained btw

[danhumphrey]

and if i said fandom on tumblr has become so obsessed with having the Most Correct understanding of a character that it’s honestly sucking the fun out of everything !!! like i get that it’s annoying when All of the fanon content about a character is wildly ooc, but some fanbases are so wide and populated that there’s no way you can’t find accurate depictions of the characters. there’s always going to be headcanons or ships or interpretations that don’t seem quite right to you, but whatttt is the point of constantly complaining about it when you could instead just focus on the content you DO like and feel is accurate. why are you spending so much time getting mad that other people aren’t playing dolls right. it doesn’t matter dude

[animentality]

a beta reader left a comment on my manuscript that was basically:

"this story is a waste of my time."

and it's like....

i have thick skin and all, since i've been working with beta readers for a long time, but...

ouch.

thanks, i guess. helpful.

[epickiya722]

Okay, the one thing that does bother me is that Mt. Lady is the highest ranked female Pro Hero and not Miruko.

[girlshambogames]

sorry for being a hater but derap is so damn insufferable abt duos like just let fans have fun bro, constantly shitting on like havocs or devotions or whatever is so cringe

[dragons-hoard-of-fandoms]

Feel like we need to take more advantage of the fact that J is the only Disassembly Drone who has never had a single on-screen confirmed kill in the entirety of the show.