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Astro Observation 3rd: Synastry Edition beyond of Sibling

The first and second obsevation here: 1 & 2

Note: I wrote this observation during transit of venus and jupiter in cancer in my 1st house that suppose to be contact with my natal moon at there too. I slightly expect something significant of my life (lovelife maybe), but there is nothing…

Lets this mantra together: "I'm single, I'm still alive and I'm happy"

So�� this synastry still based my family not the typical synastry (lovelife) Please enjoy!

NORTH NODE AND SOUTH NODE SYNASTRY:

The Background Story I ever saw a video from one of astrologers that I follow (Britney Taylor in YT). In one of her videos, she said about the NN/SN synastry especially if its contact the planet of other, that also have opposition in their own natal planets. She explained, for people who believe about past life connection.

This contact is kind of indication that the NN/SN person, they are the one who make the other person have opposition in their natal planets. It's so karmic. "Am I explain it correctly?!?"

What I mean is like this… If someone NN/SN contact (especially conjunct) my Venus, so the SN will also conjunct my Moon and vice versa. Why? because in my natal I have Venus oppose Moon.

"So please help me, reassure me if I start to doubting my appreances again! I'm begging you" (TMI).

Based Brit explanation, that NN/SN person is the one who make the planets person (in my case its me) have opposition between my Venus and my Moon. "I hope you understand know!"

So here, the synastry of me and my siblings, coincidentally we have that too:

*My younger brother have Aquarius NN and Leo SN. In synastry his Aquarius SN is conjunct my Aquarius Sun while his Leo SN is conjunct my Leo Mars, because I have natal Aquarius Sun oppose Leo Mars. Familiarity, of course!

*So he is the reason why I have Aquarius Sun opposite my own Leo Mars, the opposition between my ego driven and my action. Wanting to show off (socially accepted) but don't want to see as a selfish person.

"Why??? I meet him (my brother) again in this lifetimes"

*For deepen layers of our synastry, My brother have Leo SN in his 1st conjunct his ASC. Of course, his Aquarius NN in his 7th house. So my Leo Mars overlay in his 1st nearly conjunct his Asc too, while my Aquarius Sun overlay in his 7th.

*It manifest as he always plagiarize my actions, but he don't want to admit it!

"he even plagiarize, my parent too"

*Before I dive into astrology, I just logically (even still) thougt it's only about the youngest that usually copycat his oldest.

*Pssst… Don't tell him, the funny things based me and my sister observation, he usually attracted to kind of girls that look like me (or our mother, she Aquarius Sun too), doesn't mean the look but the quirkiness (Aquarius) .

I'm pity on him (wkwkwk). It happen subconsciously I thought!

In other side, my Taurus SN in my 11th also conjunct (by sign in wider orb) with his Taurus Sun. Familiarity of course, he is my brother!

Somehow I just can easily understand his attitude while other seem to be don't understand. Maybe he is my past life friend back then.

Let's talk about synatry between my sister and mine:

I have Scorpio NN and Taurus SN. In our synastry, my Scorpio NN exact conjunct her Scorpio Moon while my Taurus SN conjunct her Taurus Jupiter.

She have Scorpio Moon oppose Taurus Jupiter. Sadly it manifest as she have a lot (I said a lot!) potential but she also have big insecurity of herself.

"Sadly if the things about the past life is true, So I'm the one who make she have that!"

Even long before I knew about this astrology topic. I promise to myself will be her support system, that always reminder her that she always worth to run for her dream no matter what other said.

"Even it usually manifest as I need to fight with my parent" "This called "Sisterhood" you know?!?!"

The overlay (synastry view from one person planet fall in other person houses), her Scorpio Moon in my 5th house and her Taurus Jupiter in my 11th house.

Unfortunately I'm not yet could specifically find how this aspects manifest. (Maybe just maybe…) If 5th house about creativity, So I need to use my creativity/fun side to help her almost in daily basis (her moon in her 6th) as she is more into the rigid side.

"Once upon a time, her teacher asked students to bring an instant powder milk to school for the next met only for drank it together at school. The teacher gave examples of a vanila instant powder milk. But we usually drinks the chocolate at home, so that was the only flavour that we had. She mad and didn't want to bring any (even didn't want to go to school). She scared for not became a good student in her teacher eyes."

"So I applied my creativity to entertain her(even as I remember it still unsuccesfull too, she is stubborn), So I needed to use my creativity to searched it "the a vanila instant powder milk" around the way we went to school, LOL"

In other side, my sister have Leo NN and Aquarius SN. Of course like my brother, Her NN/SN contact my opposition between my Leo Mars and Aquarius Sun, but with more wider orb and reverse version from my brother NN/SN contact.

Based my observation what subtly can see are my sister tend to copy my dramatic side (her Leo NN contact my Leo Mars) while in my brother, he tend to copy my social things (his Aquarius NN contact my Aquarius Sun).

"Another person from my past life then, that contribute for my opposite Sun and Mars" "These isn't just I'm coincidentally and unfortunately got the lottery for become their older sibling. But in deeper layers, maybe we already signed some kind of contracts to each other. Souls contracts, maybe? Who know?"

The synastry NN/SN contact between my brother and my sister:

Based what I said before, they have opposition signs of their NN/SN, even when conjuntion happen in wider orb but it still significant!

My brother Aquarius NN conjunct my sister Aquarius SN. While my brother Leo SN conjunct my sister Leo NN.

So it explain a lot (especially for me),

They probably more close to each other, but outwardly looks like always crash to each outher easily, due one focus on the head and the other one focus on the tail (vice versa).

"It make me have reflective thought, maybe it's the reason by the rising, I'm (cancer) even I'm the oldest, I'm in between them both. My brother with his leo rising and my sister with her gemini rising"

Check my previous posts : here

In the NEXT POST I will share my observations of fated kind synastry again... Please Stay Tune!

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Astro Observation: Sibling Edition (My 2nd post) :)

The first observation : here Disclaimer: same as before

General info: I'm first, my sister then my brother. We are three siblings (actually four, But the youngest, my baby brother transform to and angel and have been watching us, his older siblings from heaven)

Sun observation house and sign

Despite accidentally having sequential Ascendant signs. We are also have sequential Sun placements. But same as before it not follow the rules of births sequence, here my observation:

My sister have her Sun in 10th house, and as typically 10th Sun she really driven for career oriented. Even since in the school era, she took it so serious, about job (in school, of course your job as student, right?)

Unfortunatelly my sister ever got in school that categorize low rank school in our area. But she focused herself to get rid everything and BOOM she get the first rank school in the next level school even changed here personality in process (or maybe she just show her trueself after that). The reason because she felt her pride being hurt.

Kindly suggestion, please don't play with fire! If you don't want get burn! LOL If you have sibling or family members that have Sun in 10th, they will little bit lack of emotional side, but they really high achiever, have high ego driven and will work hard as it's their pride. Don't make them thought that you an obstacles to their journey or hurt their ego ever, or you will get burn when they already heat their lazer focus and you become an ash. They have combative nature. lol

What do you want? my sister an Aries Sun in 10th.

Even the boss in her workplace lower their tone when speak to her and her former teacher chose to give in when she started an argument about the grade she should have received. (By the way she take it serious because she was right)

My sister isn't bad person, she just know what her priority and lazer focus for her targets.

My brother have his sun in 9th house, guess what? Typical of adventurer with high socialsm. He really easily bored in school, but have highly driven in social things. He curious for new information, new knowledge but that for the things that he interest and need to figure it out alone or search it in the out of school setting. His teacher always praise him for his socials thing (not yet, in academic thing!)

My brother also have curiousity about different culture. Like compare how something work in other contries than our country.

I remember when he in elementary school, in that ages his friend sang songs that popular usually in our native language but my brother already had interest to sang songs in english (English isn't our native). By the way I always laughs when he did that cuz his pronounciation really messy and I regret that now, because I thought it little bit made him insecure nowdays. *My brother always like eating, it like rituals for him because it easily can fix his mood. He also really have interest in foreign foods and always being lucky when chose a foreign foods. He instinctfully know which one was the delicious one even before he ever tasted it.

My brother have Taurus Sun in 9th house. Taurus = eat, food. 9th = adventure, foreign culture. Aren't coincidence right?

Here mine observation of my Sun placement, Sun in 8th. My life really relate to tranformation theme and almost death experiences.

As the oldest, of course I' m the one who experience transformation of my family up and down journey more than other children.

Beside of tranformation, the hidden theme really relate to like you know the hidden secret of your big family. Like easily to attract other to speak their secret to you. OR sometimes got clues that direct to hidden infromation OR if luckly enough sometime the hidden reveal itself.

In school an uni even my best friends says that I' m mysterious. But it not truly true as I can be open but not for everyone or for the random. Of course, I'm would not tell you any if you also don't ask. Why I need to spent your precious time, right?

I'm not yet know how Aquarius Sun work, but in my observation its work like Uranus "Sudden, Unexpected". Like my far away aunt just chatted me about the in heritances of my family (father side) even when I didn't ask any. Or out of the blue my uncle told me about my mother generational trauma pattern, when he never told to any of his younger before despite me.

When everything seem to become static, that when I need to worry because it usually the time that transformation happen.

Someday my life is good even seem clear path for the future, then suddenly I was hit by a car that ran a red light. (transformed me to become a prisoner of hospital and home within a period of time)

Not yet found any positive effects on it beside it make other curious about you. But in same time they also tend to build their own story/scenario/expectation about you that really doesn't even close to real you.

After this explanation the difference between sun placement from me and my siblings in real life perspective, make me get an insight! It probably because each of us have different focus in life, that make it relate to our sun placements. 10th Sun career focus (my sister), 9th Sun foreign things and socialsm (my brother) and 8th tranformation and hidden things (mine). OR it is just how the Sun placements play out, driven each of us focus. (which is the first chicken or egg?)

I thought that's for my second posts. Hope someone who read it can enjoy it! I do like know your stories if you have same placement as mine and my siblings! see ya ---

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Astro Observation: Sibling Edition (My 1st post) :)

Disclaimer: Everything I share here comes from my own observations and what I’ve learned from different astrology sources that make sense in my real-life experiences. If I ever mention something very specific from someone else, I’ll gladly give them credit. If I get something wrong or it accidentally offends anyone, feel free to DM me. Since this is based on personal patterns, and placements can mean different things for different people, it’s not really something that can be copied and pasted without context. Thanks!

First of all, I have 2 younger siblings. One younger sister and the youngest is a brother.

Ascendant observation

There is sequence of zodiac sign from Aries-Pisces As the oldest I have Cancer asc, my younger sister (the second child) have Gemini asc, My brother (the last child) have Leo asc. Guess what? Because my sister Gemini that come before Cancer (mine), people usually thought that my sister is the oldest than me.

As a Cancer asc, since I was in school my friends usually call me "mom" or in the group I became such a mother figure at there. It would be more apparent when I was dealing with younger people or juniors.

But there was disadvantages too, When I interacted with friends that slightly older than me they usually saw me as to childish or kind of it.

The duality of Cancer

My sister is a jokester in family, I do believe it because her Gemini asc (mercury ruler). She always found a way to cheer up the entire family with something that actually not really funny but when she who tell it, it can become so hilarious humor.

My brother as Leo asc, he always can make anyone easily attract to him. Like he can bring warm atmosphere to anyone surround him.

But when he in the serious mood, he can become such bring authorative aura. I thought beside of his asc it also becuase his 1st house Saturn.

In my observation, even my brother in other eyes have such a confident and warm aura. He really have such a insecurity problem about how he's look, how he's act, how he dress.

There is usually told that Moon and Sun is compatible. As I'm Cancer asc, so my ruler is Moon and my brother Leo asc, so his ruler Sun. We do good belong each other like even we mad about something that the other did we easily to forgive even forget.

Typical but it's so true as Cancer asc (Moon), my sister who is Gemini asc (Mercury) we do good to be together but less than me with my brother. As my sister always said that I'm to emotional and irrational sometimes. In other side, in my opinion she to rational and logic, sometimes less emphatetic.

By the way, she is Aries Sun and I have Cancer moon and asc. I thought these placements also give some color for the issue above.

The one who always have opinions, my sister (Mercury ruler) also do good belong my brother (Sun ruler). But she also more often complain about how my brother overly care about his looks.

By the way, he is Taurus sun (Venus ruler) with Leo asc (Sun ruler) so almost not suprising that he cares so much about his looks, right?

I thought that's for my first post. Hope someone who read it can enjoy it! I do like know your stories if you have same placement as mine and my siblings!

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🐍 Ashlesha nakshatra: the serpent's gaze.

Welcome to the Clinging Star! (also my nakshatra so, hello my fellow Ashleshas!)

This nakshatra spans from 16°40' to 30°00' Cancer, and it is ruled by Sarpas (serpents, who rule the underworld), and mercury.

🐍 Ashlesha is the serpent energy incarnate: magnetic, intense, watchful, and deeply protective of its territory and loved ones. It moves between shadows, seeing what others miss, reading between lines, and sensing intentions behind words.

The symbol for this nakshatra is a coiled serpent, signifying hidden wisdom, psychological entanglement and deep transformation.

🐍 Their energy is intense, secretive, and difficult to interpret (there is a sense of mysteriousness to them). They have the energy to dive into the deeper end of things, relationships, and people. They don't do surface level. They have a fascination with uncovering secrets.

In Vedic lore, Serpents are the link between the earthly and the underworld realms, guarding hidden wealth, ancestral secrets, and karmic debts passed down through bloodlines.

🐍 Ashlesha, ruled by these mystical serpents, carries the same magnetic pull toward what lies beneath the surface. This nakshatra is drawn to hidden knowledge: astrology, occult sciences, psychology, and deep research—anything that unveils what others fear to see.

🐍 If Ashlesha natives step into business, they often find themselves navigating the shadow realms of money like black money, hidden transactions, or the secrets behind financial systems. They intuitively sense where the real power and resources lie, even if others can’t see it.

🐍They have intense intuition and insight but can be manipulative when threatened. Remember, Mars debilitates here at 28°; debilitated Mars energy is one of using shallow courage, i.e., manipulation! These natives can devise subtle plans and often know when to speak or to stay silent.

Serpents move and survive through sensing the slightest shifts in their environment, and these natives rely, often unconsciously, on their senses to the point that it's very easy for them to become emotionally drained from picking up every little sense from their surroundings, from how someone was looking at them when they were not, to the way a person's breath hitched on a certain topic.

🐍 If the native has a lot of nervous energy in their chart, this can easily slip into hypervigilance: – Overthinking every look, word, silence. – Anticipating threats where there are none. – Struggling to relax because their “serpent senses” are always on guard.

🐍 Just like a serpent, these natives have mesmerizing eyes that draw people in —deep, reflective, and ancient, like they know something you don’t; combine that with their penetrating gaze and their mysterious charm.

If you’re a fellow Ashlesh, especially with your Sun, Moon, or Ascendant here—you know what I’m talking about:

People either can’t hold your gaze for long, their eyes darting away like, “uhh, why do I feel so exposed right now?” or They literally can’t look away, even when you’ve stopped talking, they’re still locked in, nodding slowly, eyes stuck on yours like, “yeah… yeah…” while you’re just standing there like 😐✨.

It always made me feel like I had said something wrong when I was young!

And maybe that’s the thing about Ashlesha’s serpent gaze it sees too much, even when you don’t want to, and it shows too much, even when you’re quiet.

✨ I’ve also noticed this: My fellow Ashleshas cannot look someone in the eyes when they’re lying, full of rage, or carrying negative emotions. It’s like we’re afraid they’ll read our eyes, or maybe…we’re afraid we’ll read theirs.

🐍 They are resourceful and resilient under pressure, emerging stronger after any crisis.

🐍 They are also private and introspective, often keeping their thoughts guarded, revealing them only to a trusted few.

In practice, Ashlesha forms one of the most complex, layered archetypes in the zodiac.

🐍 These natives are intuitive, analytical, and sharply observant—possessing quick wit, vivid memory, and a detail-oriented mind that often surprises others.

They have a magnetic charisma cloaked in mystery, drawing people in while revealing only what they wish to. Emotionally, they feel deeply when they feel secure, forming intense loyalty and fierce protectiveness toward family and those they truly love.

But Ashlesha’s intensity is a double-edged sword. 🐍 When trust is broken or betrayal is felt, their depths can breed jealousy, suspicion, and a tendency to emotionally coil inwards or strike outwardly.

🐍 This nakshatra is one of the heavyweights in Vedic astrology, classified as a Rakshasa (demonic) nakshatra in nature. This doesn’t mean “bad”; rather, it speaks to Ashlesha’s raw power, shadow work potential, and karmic weight.

Ashlesha natives are here to learn mastery over their own venom—to transform inner defensiveness into insight, jealousy into discernment, and fear into power.

Ashlesha is no ordinary star — it is a Rakshasa (demonic) nakshatra, tied to primal forces, shadow work, and karmic knots. It’s also one of the Gandmool nakshatras, sitting at a crossroads where cycles of karma can intensify, repeat, or break completely — depending on the choices the native makes.

Draco Malfoy is the perfect mirror for this. 💚

Born into a legacy heavy with ancestral pride and secrets, he clung to what he was told was power but learned, painfully, that true strength lies not in inherited masks, but in daring to choose differently.

He stumbled through envy, fear, shame, but survived. And in the end, Draco’s greatest redemption was this: he chose love over legacy, family over fear, his own truth over empty loyalty.

If you look closely, the knowledge of what is right was always there beneath all the jealousy and power-seeking: When he lowered his wand in front of Dumbledore. When he refused to acknowledge Harry and the others at Malfoy Manor. When he passed the wand to Harry in the final battle.

🐍 We all know what is right. It’s just that, my fellow Ashleshas, our greatest lesson is to move past our own poison! to transform it into our medicine, our wisdom, our power.

✨ May we learn to unclench, to uncoil, to shed the layers that no longer serve us, and to stand in our truth with quiet, unshakeable dignity. 🖤✨

He looks so cute in here x 💚

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Planets in 7th house.

The mirror of self

Sun in 7th house

🌻The personality with Sun in 7th house wishes to know itself, it's identity through the mirror of others. It deeply searches for its own identity, essence , value in the definitions , thoughts , feelings of others about them.

🌻It finds completion and true fulfillment in the company of its beloved .

🌻Can be very self sacrificing or can have ego issues . Balancing is the key. Do something creative everyday. So that you are more dependent on yourself.

🌻Looks for a radiant, confident , regal , creative partner , why ? Because he is looking for his unconscious part to become conscious in the material life.

Moon in the 7th House

💚Here the personality desires the reflection & experience of an instinctive , beautiful, intuitive , beautiful, feeling , emotionally intelligent, emotionally attuned , nurturing partner .

💚In her , he finds his reflection of his emotional needs , in her , he learns about his emotions , the care , devotion , emotional attunement he wishes to get is the unconscious reflection of his anima.

💚The unconscious childhood enactment with mother is wished for to reach a sense of completion within.

💚A tendency of neediness and codependence can form sometimes.

💚Moodiness and nourishment happen in waves.

💚Developing a consistent spiritual practice will help beautifully balance this placement.

💚Emotionally attuned soulful relationship can happen if the personality learns to focus his attention of himself, his beloved , his spiritual practice & stays loyal.

💚Moon related business will also bhi helpful.

Mercury in 7th house.

⭐The personality with mercury in 7th house desires a friendly beloved . The one who he can chatter with , funny batter , intellectual stimulation, discuss business ideas .

⭐He searches for a childlike , youthful, logical , analytical partner who can reflect his unconscious so that he feels complete fulfilled within & outside.

Mars in 7th house.

☘️Here the personality finds its vigour , assertiveness, competitive spirit becoming active in its close partnerships, within the company of the other.

☘️He looks for a courageous, bold , dynamic , athletic partner who wakes up or reflects his own courageous dynamic qualities . Thus a sense of completion and fulfillment is felt within & without.

☘️Can have some clashes with partners , but these can be resolved with understanding.

☘️Playing active sports with one's partner will also be helpful in making the use of this energy.

Saturn in 7th house.

🤍The personality with Saturn in 7th finds itself in a dilemma , to be close or far away , to open up or not .

🤍Close relationships have been marked away with restrictions and a sense of emotional coldness.

🤍The personality desires close soulful relationships but finds difficult to be vulnerable with its close partners.

🤍The personality in its earlier formative years is forced to grow up , restrict its inner child so as to act mature for the situations it is placed in to face , experience & deal with.

🤍Thus bringing up the courage to open up , be vulnerable , to let your inner child feel nourished & itself again , & to allow others to see yourself for your needs & desires too .

🤍To accept change & to grow together.

🤍Better relationships happen with time .

🤍Spiritual practice is deeply helpful.

🤍A responsible, mature , sensible , fair partner fills the mirror image . ⭐💗

Jupiter in 7th house.

✨Here the personality aspires to find a wise , guiding, spiritual, religious ,teaching presence in one's partnership.

✨A spiritual relationship where both can be themselves , grow & mature into their true selves.

✨Expansive relationships , soulful connections are searched for.

✨Guard against multiple relationships.

Venus in 7th house

💗The personality with Venus in the 7th house desires the romance , loving , sensual, beautiful experience of a true soul connection.

💗Balance , fairness , negotiation, a penchant for beauty & harmony within and also in relationships is desired .

💗Quality time spent , luxury , beauty , sensuality & heart to heart feelings are desired.

Rahu in 7th house.

💫Personality desires the excitement of close relationships, business avenues wealth . Partners of different origin , culture , background, of exotic origin find his attention. Choose your partners wisely.

💫Never let your close partners take advantage of your yielding nature. Do your spiritual practice.

Ketu in 7th house

☘️Personality is self focused this lifetime & is detached from close relationships , business etc.

☘️A spiritual meditative partner can be a good choice .

☘️Having a spiritual base to the relationships , marriage & business will help chanelise the energy towards its best use.

☘️Regular spiritual practice will also be beneficial.

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Hi, by the way I get suggestion from Kiddotarot for following you to learn more about vedic astrology and after scroll up your posts its more like you're kind of spiritual teacher. So I hope my curiosity (question) is still apply in your term!

I just learn and interest in vedic astrology although to be honest most of the time it make me worry 😅. For example: I have D9 Hasta Sun in 7th and Magha Venus conjunct Purva Phalguni Ketu in 6th. After I saw YT like KRS, Gina, Kadamri (that suggested). All of them, informed that I probably will have "Divorce" I had shock (more like depress maybe). When I read the comments its make me more down!

Then I just realize, I don't know yet about the full story and what people said in comments more about their experienced. That I thought they knew the placement mean, after it already happen in their life. So I cannot use it as predictive things of my charts!

The question is how we need to react if some of our placement may known as bad placement, but it not yet happen to us?

By the way, I'm Ardra lagna and moon, Ashlesha Mars (AK), and Dhanista Sun (I thought you will understand my wild thinking habit 😆)

im glad im being recommended and trusted XD 🤭 tysm for trusting me with your question!

to answer your query: look, the thing is that deductions aren't drawn from air. when i say a person with a 3rd house mars will have a bad relation with the males in their life, i say it because that mars indicates this person will have harsh speech and will challenge the egos of the people around them simply due to the way they speak.

similarly, when i say a person with a second house ketu will have poor relationship with the people around them, i say it because such a person's words cut, and they cut deep. nobody wants to get hurt unnecessarily, so they'll avoid such a person.

you have a hasta sun in 7th. you'll have this natural tendency to desire to be on the top or be recognised for even the smaller things you do. people may entertain this for a while, but they'll eventually grow tired or irritated. you get egoistic easily and you want things to go the way you imagined in your head, and when they don't, you get agitated. if your spouse doesn't earn as much as you expected them to, you'll be disappointed.

now think about your spouse. the relationship between a husband and wife is the most sensitive one because you don't have any blood ties here. if you keep criticising your other half for something that is simply not under their control, they'll constantly feel criticised by you. regardless of how much you meant it, it will hurt them all the same and that sense of shame or distaste will make your relationship bitter over time.

as for whether or not you WILL have a divorce, you'll need to see your spouse's nature to be sure but even without that, men usually don't accept being looked down upon in relationships, assuming you prefer a male partner so yes, there are chances of a divorce if such an issue isn't fixed.

so the crux of the matter isn't that you'll have a divorce, it's WHY you'll get a divorce. im making my observation based off a single placement of yours, so it's not whole, but if you'll be honest with yourself, you'll find whats wrong with your demeanor. and once you identify it, the key is to fix it. i'm an ashlesha person, i recognize that my words and mannerisms hurt people, so i limit my expression or use it very carefully so as to avoid hurting others.

so yeah, ill tell you to look inside yourself amd question what's up with the way i act. you'll find answers surprisingly quickly when you're willing to accept criticism and approach the difficult parts of your personality with a tendency to fix them, not to accept them.

and, well, if you don't, then i'm sorry but yeah, nobody likes a partner who constantly looks down upon them yk? your partner wants your love and care, not constant scrutiny.

again, im sorry if anything came off as too harsh but it's pretty much the truth yk? and it's completely alright to have such a flaw, just don't accept it, work towards fixing your attitude in that domain.