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Why expectations are a net negative thing

When you go through life with expectations, it doesn’t matter whether those are negative or positive expectations. Negative expectations are kinda self-explainatory. But when you place positive experiences on a another person for example, you won’t be as (gladly) surprised when they happen to meet those expectations. And god forbid if they don’t meet those expectations, kinda gives you a out to…

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Expectations but zero encouragement

When someone projects huge expectations onto you but doesn’t give any encouragement to you, it can be very discouraging. It’s as if you should be able to achieve anything and everything with zero help. Just on your own. But every successful person had someone who supported them. And if they had very few or none, they atleast distanced themselves from those people who would only put expectations…

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How easy it's to put people down

How easy it’s to put people down

If you think about it, it only takes few words to minimize or put down even the greatest and most difficult accomplishments people have done. It’s easy. It requires you to just say those few words. The impact those words might be huge on the person you tell them to. Think about what you say to others and what kind of influence you want to have on them. It’s one thing to show “tough love” or “be…

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Toxic relationships

The relationships (or the lack of them) you have in your life make up a big part of your life. You should choose wisely who you let in your life and the people you do have in your life should somehow contribute positively to it. If someones only bringing you down, making you feel inferior, less than, harasses or bullies you or behaves in any other abusive way, they should not have space in your…

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Life's meaning

Life’s meaning

Deep thought, right? For me it’s a daily battle thinking what is life’s meaning. It all doesn’t seem to have any single reason why everything exists. Nobody seems to know for sure. We have all kinds of theories for it all starting with guy called Jesus being a messiah for the message ending to a flying spaghetti monster (probably made as a joke but for some reason there’s actually people who…

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Suicidal thoughts

It’s horrible. You don’t want the thoughts to be there. You start to think what’s wrong with you for even thinking about suicide. You shouldn’t suicide. It’s wrong. You’ll go to hell. It’s selfish. But sometimes it seems like the only way out. Only way out of a life which feels unfulfilling. Broken dreams. A wasted life. Life not worth living. And they say it’s attention seeking if you talk about…

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Flow

First of all, what is flow? Flow is the feeling or state of mind where you lose the sense of yourself, you are feeling an absolute bliss. It’s when you are embodying the very essence of who you truly are, infinite source of energy. You don’t perceive yourself anymore with your ego, you are stepping out of your ego and expanding your comfort zone and consciousness, you are growing. You lose the…

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At the edge of insanity

At the edge of insanity

I’ve felt like I’m going insane for a quite long time now, it’s sometimes truly annoying, irritating, I sometimes don’t feel like I can handle myself and the world. I’ve felt like killing myself. I’ve felt really dark. I’ve felt insane. I’ve felt it’s too much. I don’t wish this upon anyone, not even my greatest enemies (who are only reflections of my inner self). I’m sorry if this is disturbing.…

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Change your thoughts to change your reality

What we think about becomes our reality so start changing your thoughts to change your reality

What you think about and tell yourself becomes your reality. If you are telling yourself daily that you are not good enough, you are fat, ugly etc. then you will only want to hear that from people. You will only look for evidence for that. It’s actually funny how it works. If you instead start telling yourself that you are good enough, you are awesome, funny etc. then you will see evidence for…

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What's my day like

What’s my day like

My day. Now that’s a question I don’t get asked too often. In fact I spend a lot of my days quite isolated. I don’t want to admit it but that just happens to be the case in my current life.

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What I believe in

What I believe in

First of all, who really cares? If someone has a problem with what you believe in, they have a problem with what they believe in. It should be everyone’s own business what they believe in. Some people are so busy that they never even start to think about it, and that’s okey. There’s about 7 billion people in the world and also at the same time about 7 billion different points of view. Everyone…

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Narcissism

Hello. Been a while. I’ve not written anything in this blog for a while and I’m sorry. In actuality I’m not sorry. I’ve not had the best mood lately and I haven’t really felt productive and I’m not claiming the fact that I’m currently in the army is the sole reason for it but it definitely has an atleast slightly negative effect on me. I would be lying if I said I’m not depressed after coming…

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#NowPlaying Ravistettava ennen käyttöä Omistaja: Apulanta

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#NowPlaying Veke Omistaja: Iso H

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New meditation and writing challenge

New meditation and writing challenge

It’s time again.What is time anyway. Manmade concept, illusion. Listening to Imagine Dragon’s – It’s Time right now, how fitting. I’ve been having a break from regular meditation and writing but I feel like now I need to pick them up again. Meditation was what started it all for me. Before I started to meditate about 9 months ago, I was doubting myself, I was not eating well, I wasn’t exercising…

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#NowPlaying Me ei kuolla koskaan Omistaja: Olavi Uusivirta

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A month without drinking

A month without drinking

Finally a month has gone after I decided I’ll take a break from drinking alcohol. I started on 10th of last month and ended 10th of this month (2 days ago). I’m currently in Erasmus exchange in Dornbirn, Austria and it can be easy to drink too much because we do have quite many parties here. Usually the problem isn’t that I drink too much but that I drink too frequently. First of all it’s alot of…