validasexuals

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They added gray hearts!! Now you can make an ace flag!!

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Aros and aces please remember that you are the actual coolest people ever okay thank you

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the ideas that “libido and attraction can be separate and for many aces they are”, “aces who have and enjoy sex are still ace” and “aces who do not have sex and don’t want to shouldn’t be pressured” and “you should accept aces regardless of their sexual behavior” can and should coexist

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Aros and aces please remember that you are the actual coolest people ever okay thank you

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I really wish that "asexuals don't have to want sex but lot of them will still have it with their partner!" wasn't centered in like every asexuality acceptance post. I think it's genuinely damaging to asexuals and their relationships. A lot of us don't want sex. A lot of us are sex repulsed. A lot of us don't even wanna talk or hear about sex. A lot of us don't enjoy porn or wanna "hand out drinks at the orgy". Some of us have sexual-related trauma. Some of us are sex repulsed, not 💖✨sex repulsed but actually really cool about it✨💖

Allos are out here getting into relationships with aces and then pull a pikachu-surprise-face when their partner doesn't wanna have sex with them bc everyone constantly emphasises says how we totally will do it for them. Some of us won't. That's okay. That doesn't constantly need to be followed up with "but a lot of aces will so don't worry!!!!!" We don't have to make every post about us in a way that makes allos comfortable. It's not necessary to reassure allos at every turn that we're not all that asexual and they don't have to worry about us being different in a way they might notice. Allos need to accept and internalise that some people aren't gonna want to have sex. No terms and conditions. No "unless" "but" or "except". Just none.

[validasexuals]

kinky or high libido asexuals are valid!

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Asexuality and aromanticism may not be common, but they are not abnormal. Nothing about asexuality or aromanticism is inherently unhealthy or deviant. They have not yet been widespread normalized, but they are normal and benign human traits.

Asexual and aromantic people are just as capable of love and compassion as anyone else. They are no better or worse than those of other orientations.

Asexuality and aromanticism are human.

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asexuals who use neopronouns are valid!

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asexuals who are in romantic relationships are valid!

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asexuals who don't want a relationship are valid!

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latino asexuals are valid!

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asian asexuals are valid!

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virgin asexuals are valid!

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asexuals of colour are valid!

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panromantic asexuals are valid!

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sexually promiscuous asexuals are valid!

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asexuals with eating disorders are valid!