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Long time no see, have this drawing of mine.

-Storm, they/them

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Kelly Bastow, aka Moosekleenex on Etsy

On Tumblr

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Queer Book Recommendation

FELIX EVER AFTER by Kacen Callender

First of all, look at this beautiful cover!

So I just started reading this book and so far I enjoy the storyline and characters a lot. I am not that far in the book (chapter 5) and it's already interesting, what I really enjoy about books. I'm glad that there is no extremely long introduction and explanation. I'll tell you more while I'm reading and/or when I finished the book, but for now I just want to share a line that I feel so much. It seems like the author and protagonist are speaking out of my soul.

(Possible spoiler warning idk)

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Any queer book recommendations for me?

I want to read more stuff!

Preferable:

Coming out of age

Genderqueer character

Being lgbtq and the struggles coming with it are talked about

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Ok, I had a thought.... hear me out!

Denki and Jirou are platonic or romantic soulmates or just friends, idc right now.

Both are nonbinary (demiboy/demigirl) and they share clothes from the early beginning. Like denki wants to wear a dress but is too shy to but one himself.... jirou borrows their dress.

Jirou feels insecure in the tighter tops or typical female cuts, she's wearing a shirt that used to be in Kaminaris closet.

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Anyone else panicking and overthinking every detail while buying a binder so that they procrastinate it over weeks? No? Just me then...

-Storm (they/them)

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By staying one year abroad, I almost forgot, how it's feels in the closet.... not comfortable.🏳️‍🌈

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I am so excited about the fact, that my hair is almost long enough for a ponytail again... at the same time I just want to take the kitchen scissors and chop it all of because it makes me dysphoric.... pretty but not me:(

-Am/Storm (they/them)

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Make noise, please.

Right now, people are being murdered by the police and ESMAD. They are trying to do LIVE transmissions on social media and they're being censored.

MAKE NOISE, PLEASE. Let the world know about this. Reblog, repost, share the news. Talk about this. This needs to be known. People in Colombia are being killed by the government

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Does fluctating dysphoria makes me genderfluid?

This is a question to everyone of the trans and/or genderqueer community, who is willing to answer. I am describing my own experience as a person, who is questioning their gender identity and with genderdysphoria. In order to do so, I am mentioning and talking about certain topics, that might be triggering to some people. Please, be careful. Don’t read this if it might cause any negative feelings or stop reading as soon as you feel overwhelmed etc. 

If my wording is in any way disrespectful, please tell me and I will change it as soon as possible. I am willing to learn and improve.

TW: genderdysphoria, bodydysphoria

I started questioning my own gender identity almost a year ago and I have been using they/them pronouns around a few friends now but are still mostly closeted. And despite of the fact, that I feel quite comfortable with the label nonbinary there is something bothering me. 

There are days I feel very dysphoric, on some of them I wish to be nearer to the opposite sex, on some of them none of the binary identities feels right. (Disclaimer: I have never/ hardly ever experienced bottom dysphoria and I don’t want bottom surgery.) But I also have days, where I don’t feel dysphoric at all. This does not automatically mean that I identify as the gender asigned at birth on these days, but my appearance does not cause any discomfort and I don’t mind the prounouns, that are typically used for my agab. And then there are days, where I feel uncomfortable expressing as the opposite gender. These days can be very stressful to me, because I feel like I am faking it on the other days. 

I still have not thought about calling myself genderfluid because I never feel like I am on the two binary ends of the spectrum, especially not the opposite of my agab. I might find myself nearer to my assigned gender at birth but I don’t think 100 %.

For example the most femme I feel would be demigirl and the most masc demiboy. Most of the time I would be pretty much in the middle. And on really rare days, I could not find me anywhere. Everything felt wrong. This might be also caused by the fact, that there is no passing as nonbinary.

Long story short: everything is very confusing and frustrating. However, my main questions are:

Is it possible, that the intensity of my dysphoria changes despite of my gender identity being stable/non-fluid?

Or does the fact that my dysphoria fluctates make me automatically some kind of genderfluid? 

Like am I actually my assigned gender at birth on a day without dysphoria, on which I actually feel comfortable expressing as agab or is it simply a day without dysphoria? 

And is there a word for someone fluctating between the different nonbinary gender identities (demi, bigender, agender,…) ?

I’d be so grateful for any answer.

-Storm, they/them

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Voted most likely to get married right after graduation

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Hi everyone, Remember All Might says: “It’s dangerous to exercise in a binder, DONT USE ACE WRAPS, Don’t bind for over 8 hours!”

Stay tuned for more because I’m diving straight into this headcanon. (I also don’t read the manga, so I won’t draw ANY MHA SPOILERS. I’m a spoiler free blog!) All Might didn’t realize because Deku uses he/him/boku, Deku passes really well, or All Might forgot binders were a thing. Your pick. :)

Twitter post said: Draw your self insert for your favorite show. I’m Deku. He’s me.

Maybe check out my shop if you like LGBTQ+ And My hero? :) Ok bye!

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reblog this if your blog is a safe space on april fools and won’t have any jumpers, screamers, or anything scary or anxiety inducing

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Imposter syndrome every day myself but I 100% agree

All nonbinary people are valid.

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I don't remember what fanfic is this from and at this point I'm too afraid to ask

Update ~

Fic - "Numb" by Dazeful on ao3