yukiqueer

[yukiqueer]

— why the coiner doesn’t support transhateful labels.

DISCLAIMER: this post is made in relation with the yukiqueer term. yukiqueer ≠ radqueer. this blog’s pinned post has more information on the yukiqueer label.

— while yukiqueer is widely supportive of most trans-IDs, including trace and transability, transhateful labels (such as transnazi or transbigot) are not included. this is due to the fact that many transIDs are in relation to parts of the physical vessel that cannot be altered, or in relation to behavior quirks that take time and effort to develop (if they can be developed at all). it’s important to also consider that transIDs do not support harm for real people (without the consent of all parties). transhateful labels — NOT to be confused with transharmful labels, which refer to a range of labels involving abuse or violence — do not fall under the first category of aspects that cannot be altered, as transhateful refers to a specific group of mindsets. mindsets, while difficult to change, can change without any other changes to the vessel. the coiner has tried to see the desire in identifying as transnazi or transbigot (especially with transnazi, as that label is hotly debated), but many blogs that cover these topics openly admit to wanting to appear as hateful people without the consequences of being one. many transnazis talk about wanting to heil or wear nazi uniforms in public without being attacked, and while the coiner believes in self-expression, this is going too far. it makes light of a very serious and traumatic experience for many people, and the coiner cannot support those identifying as nazis or bigots in a world where those forces are so prevalent and in positions of such power. it doesn’t matter if you are a cisnazi or a transnazi, you will be treated as a nazi, and therefore the coiner does not support those identifying with this label. this applies to all transhateful labels — transhomophobe, transracist, and more. you will be treated the way a homophobe or racist would be, and that is why you are not welcome in yukiqueer.

[yukiqueer]

— yukiqueer.

yukiqueer is a blankqueer label that is separate from radqueer, but shares many similar beliefs. yukiqueer focuses on taking complex things by a case-by-case basis, and using intelligence to deduce one’s own support or disdain.

the emoji codes for yukiqueer are 🌨️🌈 / ❄️🌈 / ☃️🌈. it can also be written as snowqueer, ゆきqueer, or 雪queer.

specific beliefs are under the cut.

yukiqueer is in favor of:

— shipping and fiction. all works between fictional characters have a right to exist. an individual who is yukiqueer does not need to identify with the proship label to have this belief. — media literacy & critical thinking. analyze how media treats its taboo topics, and use your intelligence to know whether or not this is trying to change your views. know propaganda when you come across it. — kink, fetish, and other sexual fantasies. as long as all involved parties can and are consenting, any sexual fantasy can be brought to life. — “contradictory” labels. afab transfems, lesboys and gaybians, and all other labels that people say don’t work together should be allowed. — personal definition of labels. only you can define what being bisexual, or pansexual, or anything else is in terms of your own identity. — trans-ID for almost all facets of life. your physical body is just a vessel, and the way you identify is more important than that. — consent for all relationships. you choose what is best for you. — landback for indigenous peoples. indigenous people have a right to ownership of their land, but not to kick all non-natives off of it. — obsessive, grooming, or otherwise abusive relationships with consent from both parties. as long as all involved people have given the okay, what others do in their relationship is up to them and them alone to decide. — selfshipping. this applies to all sharing stances as well — a yumeshipping relationship is as valid as a relationship between non-fictional people, as long as the yumeshipper wants it to be so. — women’s rights. women, both trans and cis, have the right to equality with men. — rights for people of color. racism is backwards and narrow-minded, and has no place in an intelligent society. — full body autonomy. with your own body, you are in full control. abortions, tattoos, hormone therapy, self-harm — all are allowed, and not stigmatized or villainized. — fat and disabled liberation. all people with larger bodies or witn disabilities deserve proper access to the same opportunities and treatment as their thin and/or able-bodied counterparts. — gender non-conformity. no person has to conform to a gender role unless they choose to. a self-identified man, regardless of cis or trans standing, can dress feminine, and the same goes for women and non-binary people.

— otherkin/alterhumanity/IRL/delusional attachment. only we are allowed to choose how we identify, and if the human body you have does not fit you, perhaps another form is better. — romanticization of stigmatized things. you can romanticize or glorify your trauma, or your “bad” habits, or other villainized/taboo things. — proper tags/warnings on all public content. some may not be okay with the same things as you, and it’s important to properly warn people of what your public content contains so those who aren’t okay with it can avoid the upset, and those who are interested can more effectively seek out such content. — informed self-diagnosis. getting a “proper” diagnosis can be extremely difficult, and is out of reach for many. the medical system as it is now is extremely bigoted, and pursuit of diagnosis can be far too expensive even for those with more privilege. as such, intelligent people can recognize and treat a self-diagnosis backed up by information and knowledge as validly as they would an official one. — consanguineous relationships. people who are related can be in a relationship as long as both are consenting and they are informed on the possible risks of having children with one another (with the second rule not applying to couples/polycules unable to have children for whatever reason, or those who are not related by blood but are adopted/transfamily/et cetera). — sex work. sex workers deserve respect and support for what they do, including those who post NSFW content online as their income. inversely, those who pay for sex work should not be shunned either, as long as the relationship between worker and client is not harmful. — medically unrecognized disorders/syndromes. the medical world is not the end-all be-all of neurological knowledge, and if one has found a medically unrecognized term that fits the symptoms they live with, the term is just as valid as any medically recognized one. — all religious beliefs*. *provided these beliefs do not encroach on the rights of others not following said religion. all religions and faiths have a right to exist. an intelligent person can hate a specific religion for any reason, provided their hatred does not manifest publicly and is not used as a shield to treat members of that religion poorly. — sexual education for all ages. all people, regardless of age, should be able to know their body and to know only they have the rights to it. with this in mind, youth should receive sex ed with depth relative to their age — meaning that, for example, high schoolers would receive more in-depth sexual education than middle schoolers.

yukiqueer has a neutral stance on:

— the radqueer label and community. yukiqueer is not inherently supportive of or opposed to those who are radqueer, and in intelligent society it is most sensible to take each individual on a case-by-cade basis. individuals who are yukiqueer may choose to support radqueer, or may be against it. — real person fiction/selfshipping with real people/NSFW fiction of real people. this goes beyond the limits of fictional characters, and as such, is a highly debated one. therefore, individuals who are yukiqueer may choose their own comfort with this concept, as long as they do not try to force their beliefs on others. — anti- and pro-contact stances. individuals who are yukiqueer can choose whether or not they support either of these staunch beliefs in favor of or against contact for the “big 3” paraphilias. — the reclaiming of slurs. yukiqueer individuals can decide if they want to use and reclaim slurs.

yukiqueer has a complex stance on:

— romantic/sexual contact between adults and minors. the relationship is okay if: - it follows romeo and juliet laws (meaning the age gap is 3 or fewer years between parties) - it is a relationship between headmates - both are chronological adults and one is transage OtY - both are chronological minors (following romeo & juliet laws) and one is transage YtO — romantic/sexual contact between humans and animals. the relationship is okay if: - it is a relationship between headmates - both are human and one is transspecies/otherkin/therian — romantic/sexual contact between living beings and corpses. the relationship is okay if: - it is a relationship between headmates - the corpse gave consent prior to death - both are living and one is transdead/transcorpse/anything in that vein.

yukiqueer is opposed to:

— harassment of any kind. if an individual holds beliefs you do not share, an intelligent individual should choose to either ask open-minded, polite questions about the other person’s beliefs, or simply curate their space and remove themselves from contact with the other person. it is never okay to harass someone. — bigotry in any form. racism, queerphobia, sexism, and anything else have no place in an intelligent society. — the creation, distribution, or possession of CSEM/CSAM. no child should be exploited for sexual content. — nazism of any kind, including holocaust denial or inversion. the holocaust was a genocide specifically targeted towards jewish people. while other groups such as queer and romani people were also targeted, one must know that nazis are against jewish people as their main point. a jewish person cannot be a nazi. — misogyny and transmisogyny. women are not inherently lesser than men in any way, and trans women are women. trans women are not a “threat” to cis women. — misandry and transmisandry. men are not inherently lesser than women in any way, and trans men are men. men are not all abusers, and trans men are not “basically women” nor are they “transitioning into privilege.” — transhateful labels, such as transnazi or transbigot. even with no intent to transition, using the transid label in terms of saying you identify with a crueler mindset does not fit with the beliefs of yukiqueer. if you are transbigot or transnazi, you will be treated like a bigot or a nazi and that is not welcome here. — forced recovery. this falls under violation of bodily autonomy — only you can decide if you want to recover from an eating disorder, or an addiction, or anything similar. forcing someone else to recover does not fit the beliefs of yukiqueer. — intersex genital mutilation and forced hrt for intersex individuals. this is a traumatizing violation of bodily autonomy and has no place in intelligent society. no intersex person should be forced to try to appear perisex.

yukiqueer was created for its coiner as it did not agree with all of the beliefs of radqueer, and it wanted to make a label focused on intelligence, open-mindedness, and bodily freedom.

anyone who shares these beliefs can identify with yukiqueer. if you have questions or would like to share your experience with this label or any other blankqueer label, the coiner’s inbox is open.