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Mothers provide a great deal of support to their children, whether it is visible support or subtle encouragement. Mothers not only support their children, but they also frequently hold the entire family structure together. This is not always an easy job. A mother can be upset or hurt as well. Remember that a mother often bears the brunt of the fallout from toddler tantrums and adolescent angst. Regardless, mothers, in general, will love their children no matter what.

In my opinion, an ideal family is one in which all members have a high level of understanding and mutual respect for one another. Every participant would feel heard, validated, and not dismissed. Healthy and distinct lines of respect for each other's privacy and independence. Recognizing each other's ideas, personal goals, and uniqueness is encouraged. The ability to express one's own opinion without fear of being told it is invalid or incorrect. They have no disagreements, spend time together, talk to each other on a daily basis, and always help each other. Finally, you must believe that home is the only place where you can come and feel at ease because you have been given the respect to think as an individual while also having others who are genuinely and authentically invested in your life.

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I used to believe that physical touch was my love language, but after taking the test, I discovered that it is actually quality time. However, I'm not convinced. Perhaps I'm becoming adamant to believe the outcome because I was too attached to the thought of the placement I put myself to. Otherwise, I'm still willing to accept the results because I know they'll help us gain a better understanding of ourselves.

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My take away for today is not just about the whole discourse but also the particular feeling that I felt in the initial stage of the exchange of political dialogue. But I was dormant and reluctant to see rather than to engage in the discussion. I noticed a strong urge to adopt a stand to my political positions. I learned from that experience not to silence on substantive, nurturing disputes because in conversation you will learn something more than just listening.

Concerning today's political issues. I agree that President Duterte has made a difference in comparison to other presidents. He made a significant difference, and I am grateful for his time as President. On the other hand, I am aware that his works are not without flaws. It can't be perfect because people don't know how to work together, and they even destroy and create new problems today. If all of the people's ideas and politics are connected, I believe they can come up with more reasonable answers to the questions they want to ask. Because having a voice as a civilian isn't just for rallying; it's also for speaking to the government.

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TRUE LOVE HAS NO GENDER.

Love is something special between two people. The feeling of love is inexpressible that words can hardly explain the feeling. It is significant to remember that whether you love someone of the opposite sec, someone of the same sex or both, you are appreciated, accepted and loved.

Month of March, 2019

I was just laying in bed scrolling through my phone, checking all my social media when a notification in my messenger popped. It’s this girl who reacted in my story. I was shocked at that time because I think that, that was her first time reacting my story. So I got curious and stalked her. Upon checking her social media account I realized that we attend in the same school. I also noticed her account in twitter. I was a little surprised because I didnt know we follow each other in that social media platform. But then, I let that passed.

Weeks has passed and something happened in twitter wherein there’s an app that you can ask someone anonymously. I asked her there and flood her with questions. Everytime she answers my questions, my curiosity is killing me. I just want to know her more because her answers made me so curious about the girl she likes.

Two days before the end of march, we started chatting. And as we talk I get to know her more. I knew that she likes me but I didn’t say I like her too. Deep down inside me I wanted to tell her that but I dont want to share my feelings that fast. Maybe I’ll pass a few more days.

Months of getting to know each other and we became official. We faced a lot of challenges. There are people who talked behind our backs but we didn’t let it affect our relationship. We are aware that in today’s world, some are still having difficulty in acceptingthat love comes in all forms, that love has no labels. Some are having a hard time in accepting love because of the genders. But I will say that love is love. Love who ever your heart dictate to love, no matter what gender, label and race.

We should normalize and accept same sex relationships. Whoever your friend, family or anyone you know who are part of the LGBT, accept, understand and love them. Normalizing lgbtq identities strengthens the overall equality and alliance among all people through generations.

Whoever you chose to love, never apologize. You are inlove and that will be all matters.

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Most of us wants to be happy. We love the feeling of happiness. For some people they define happiness as having a lot of money, getting a new house or even just by staying at their bed. Happiness can be define differently to different people but people often caught up in things that doesn’t matter. Instead, we should focus on things that only matter to us. This will lead us to happiness. Few of us in the world today feels happiness, we always hear about the bad and hopelessness in the world around us but I try to stay joyful and positive as much as I can, because I believe that happiness can be spread through the littlest things in life.

If someone ask me what makes me happy my answer would be very simple, seeing people happy. I think that showing good gestures to other people will brighten up their day. The closest thing in the meantime is making a reality for someone else. To see them smile, to think it could have warmed their heart at a time when they needed it- it makes me happy too, vicariously. It gives us a sense of accomplishment and purpose. The true wonder of this is that the more we’re able to feel happy for others, the happier we’ll feel to ourselves . It is wonderful to make others happy in a way that it is an extension from my own joy. I have always gone out of my way to help when a situation presents itself.

Throughout everyone's life, happiness is always with everyone. If one possesses true happiness, even the worst day could not take it away from them. It is important for people to realize that they can find purpose in their lives and become the best person they can be. Happiness in life adds and multiples as we divide it with others.

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The human brain is much higher-ranking even to the most powerful computer because it accumulate a great number of informations while we are still continuing to grow. It is not like the other softwares that upgrades or improve every other time. Our mind just accept whatever changes occurs and ravel the mystery of controlling it without so much of attempts.

In the videos that I watched I knew that our brain is divided into two. And each side of the brain has different certain functions. So in the there is a theory that we people are either right-brained or left-brained. I discovered that I am in the dominance in the right hand. The right side of the brain are said that these people loves art, they are creative and are those who are less organizined in the way of thinking. I love listening to music but I don’t havea good voice. I love seeing paintings but I am not really good with painting. But there are areas of art where I am good at.

My takeaway for this day is that our minds are very powerful. We can create and invent things, it has unlimited potential. Our brain might look a dormant jelly but it contains a lot of of power. Acknowledging this power and using it beneficially is what will help us to take the first step toward realizing our goals of lifes that will obtain whatever it is we want to be.

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We all experience stress. But we must know that stress is sometimess good. It is not always bad for us. Which for me is true. For me, I can consider a positive stress depending on how I react on things. For instance, when I get too excited on something. I consider academic responsibilities as positive stress because it motivates me. It challenges me and it makes me feel good about life. But there are days and times wherein some things for me are difficult to accomplish and it is overwhelming that it became impulsive, this is the time that I can say it is negative stress. Mental and physical problems for me is one of the examples of negative stress. Well it is really not good. It is not healthy for us because it hinder us from our ability to communicate to others and it keep us from the ability to not think clearly on everything.

My take away for this day is that we all need to experience stress whether it is positive or negative as some point of our lives. Experiencing these all will help us to grow and to become a better individual. But we should keep in mind of what stress are we experiencing so that we won’t be consumed by it.

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Answering the question to where I am now in my adolescence stage, I think both period of stressed and strengthening my identity is what I am encountering. Life has ups and downs. It has a lot of twists and turns. The reason why at some point we are very stressed. We meet a lot of struggles in which it challenge us, but sometimes it is hard to conquer. But let us all remember that without challenges, our lives may be boring and plain. Even if we will encounter a lot of problems, let us be positive and believe that we can find solution to each one of it. We need to be brave enough to withstand every struggles and risks we will face. We people consistently experiencing situation wherein we find it difficult to handle with but despite of thinking that we will not overcome it, we should put in mind that it will help us grow and it will develop us into a better individual. These challenges will make us a better person. With this, I could say that I am becoming a responsible person.

Way back in my childhood years, I could remember doing the things what I wanted. I could play with my cousins and play outdoor activities with them. Childhood stage for me is the happiest times in my life. Why? because a lot of unforgettable moments happen. We experienced new things and because of it we became wiser with each experience. Everything was just perfect way back then. I can do whatever I want without thinking of any responsibilities. When something is off, we can just sleep all day or sometimes we do our homework compared to where we are now. Everything is just the opposite way. Everything we do, we should think about it deeply. We should think about what will happen next because we all have to take our responsibilities. We have to worry about all our decisions. But through our childhood, it impacts us to where we are now as an adult in many ways. We make mistakes but we grow and learn from them.

My take away for today is that growing is a process and we are still experiencing it. We dont need to hurry everything because there is no race. But we should be able to know our progress to the individual who are becoming.

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Throughout our lives, we will have to forgive people. We should all put in mind that forgiving may be tough but it will free us from anger and bitterness. The song “Forgiveness” by Matthew West made me realized a lot of things. Instead of holding grudges to someone who has a complex character, we should accept them and understand them more. Yes, it is not easy but who will understand them? Instead we should be that someone who will understand their complexity and someone who will always be by there side.

Honestly, I hold grudges to people who had hurt me. Thinking about the things they caused me makes me angry. And it is not easy to forgive someone, specially when that person caused you so much pain. But I realized that holding grudges is not healthy. It will just keep you unhappy and frustrated. We need to feed it into our system to let go so that we do not stay annoyed and offended for long. Our grudges will only affect the relationship with the person and not hurt the other person in any way.

Forgiveness helps us feel light and helps us get rid of hard feelings that occupy our mind and heart and eat away our peace of mind. The ability to forgive gives us a sense of freedom and makes us suffer less and feel lesser misery and pain. In other words, our life will become easier. If we forgive someone then we are at higher place. There will be no damage to our self respect, instead we become more respectable.

My take away for this day is that we people need forgiveness and understanding even if its hard to overcome. Forgiveness is the only thing that can heal us from our pasts and it's a strong area because it will free us from our suffering.

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My personality consists of different characteristics. It helped me being a decent human being. Like believing in my knowledge, having a word of honor and most specially being an honest person. I have also became aware of my strength and weaknesses. Mastering these skills allows me to grow as an individual. As I was young wayback then, I had no idea where I was good at, I am not positive. But as I met new people and explored things, I have been able to gain a better understanding. Thats when I realized, that I should not be carried with my weaknesses in life, because everyone can handle every situations by just believing in ourselves. Another thing to remember is that we are going to be continually changing for the rest of your life. It’s important to always be aware of who we are and who we are becoming.

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