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Our Top 3 Goals

Onika’s

Daily Prayers

Daily Mood Log journal

Eat fruits and drink tea after each meal

Hadiqa’s

Do not procrastinate when it come to assignment and studying 

Becoming a better Muslim; a) work on Haqooq ul Allah as in praying on time reciting Quran making duas, b) work on haqooq ul ibad as in be compassionate, kind, don’t be judge-mental, and learn to forgive others 

 Work on my health; eat healthy, don’t skip meals, and keep healthy snacks. As well as cook my own food

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Introducing: The 12 Week Project

Salam,

I’m Onika, and my friend’s name is Hadiqa. Together we have started this blog to keep track of our 12 week project. The 12 Week Project is a nudge for us to ease in to the things that we have been telling each other we will do, but never make time for.

I’m 22, a housewife at the moment, newlywed to my amazing husband, Mr. M. I have 6 months before I resume my sophomore year of college. I also moved to a new State from NY to VA. 

My 12 week project is to invest in my chosen identity with one habit at a time. I have tried setting outcome based goals, and have achieved a few as well but they never felt enough. After reading Digital minimalism, Atomic Habits, 100 Days of No Goals (The Minimalist), and the Four Tendency, I have come to realize for my personality, it’s better suited for me to go for habits as a way of voting towards who I want to become.

As for Hadiqa, 

“I’m hadiqa with Onika. Let me introduce you to who I’m before jumping into my reasoning behind this blog. I’m a Finance and accounting student; you guessed it, I love numbers. However I love art as well, I have done drawing, painting, even attended makeup school to explore the artist in me. Unfortunately, being a full-time student and having a part-time job makes it difficult to practice art. 

 And the reason for starting this blog to turn my dreams into goals and goals into reality. I have been wanting to learn stock trading for the past two years or so and work on my health, Onika would second that, but not able to make progress. I just end up procrastinating. With this blog, we both will be able to achieve our goals because we’ll be held accountable. And give each other the push we might when needed.”

Count-Down Starts: 09/10/2019-12/10/2019

  Woohoo!

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