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Not the “slurping sounds”!!!! I’m supposed to be being normal about them damn it!!!

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Not only is S doing an immaculate job as Papa Tony, he’s also the Executive Producer for Pit Babe!! He’s literally the reason we have the show! He’s signing these checks!! Everybody say Thank You S!!!!!

There are people out there who think that this man is as creepy in RL as his villain character in the series... We are not the same....

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Their relationship is one of my favorites!!

Supportive Noeul as usual

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I crave knowledge!!

one thing about me is that I'm looking stuff up. you mentioned something and I don't know it? I am pulling out my phone and googling that shit. an actor? theoretical physics? a world leader? a vocabulary word? I am on the wikipedia page as we speak

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person in fandom: eeeyikes!!! i hope im writing this character in this short little fanfic right >_< eeekkk what if my takes on my meta are all wrong and everyone will Kill me!!

guy in professional comic industry: okay lets mischaracterize every single character that appears in this comic for 50 or so issues

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For the love of everything please tell me someone has sent this to Ethel Cain! Isn’t she on here somewhere??

The submissions from my followers are top notch. Happy Pride Olethra 🏳️‍⚧️

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bring back tumblr ask culture let me. bother you with questions and statements

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If Thame and Po really want to keep their relationship a secret, they should just star in a BL together. Then they can act as gay as they want and everyone will call it fanservice. Living together with an army of cats (EarthMix)? Fanservice. Strolling through the market with your hand around your partner’s waist and a baby strapped to your chest (MosBank)? Fanservice. Filming yourself literally naked in bed together (BillyBabe)? Somehow still fanservice. It’s like a life hack for being gay in a conservative country. You can be as loud as you want but suddenly no one will believe you.

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This makes me think of that “fuck yeah, concrete!” meme lol!

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How does the blood even get there????

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"Kim Hongjoong comes first, of course"

"Kim Hongjoong comes first, of course"

"Kim Hongjoong comes first, of course"

"Kim Hongjoong comes first, of course”

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I haven’t watched KPop Demon Hunters (though I’d like to but I don’t have Netflix) but from all the videos that I’ve seen about it, the most unrealistic thing about it isn’t that one group is made up of demon hunters and another group is made up of demons.

No.

The most unrealistic thing is that there’s a romance plotline between two idols and I haven’t seen anything indicating that the fans tried to call for their deaths cancel them for it.

Somebody who’s watched, let me know if that’s in there!

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Ok, I stopped barking long enough to write down some stuff. Let’s talk about the Ramil/Paytai nc scene. I’m seeing some discourse along the lines of “Ramil realized that he was being abusive with Paytai”, “he realized he was perpetuating the violence that Paytai suffered at the hands of his father” etc. and as someone who is a dom IRL (not as a job but for personal fun time), I wanted to share some thoughts and maybe provide some insights.

First, I can’t stress this enough: bdsm play is not abuse. Dom/sub dynamics (properly negotiated) are not abuse.

Ramil is absolutely not abusive in his intimate life with Paytai. He literally doesn’t move a muscle unless Paytai tells him to. I’m not saying he’s never toxic - he’s obviously very jealous and possessive. Tbh though, I think he’s actually not that controlling outside the figurative bedroom. Many times we see him actually defer to Paytai instead of deciding something by himself and imposing it, which is (ahem) more than can be said about Khanin with Charan.

But engaging in bdsm play is not abuse. Pain/impact play is not abuse, it’s not violence. Violence is about inflicting harm/damage - Ramil never wants to harm Paytai, the show makes that abundantly clear.

I also don’t think flogging (and whatever other pain play they engage in) was introduced by Ramil, based on who he is shown to be and the fact that he never moves a finger until Paytai tells him to. I believe that Paytai is the one who initially asked Ramil to use a flogger on him, because he’s the, let’s say, main sub in the relationship and bdsm play (usually) centers around the sub’s desires. Paytai choosing to integrate flogging into his sex life, when and how he chooses, with a partner he loves and trusts, can be a way to reclaim something that harmed him in a different context and find empowerment in it. It is not the same thing as perpetuating violence. Paytai is not a victim in his sex life.

When we see the brief flashback of the night before the bike ride, Paytai is wearing a collar tied to a chain, which Ramil holds as he fucks him. This is also bdsm, and it’s very clear in the scene that they are both having a great fucking time. No one is being taken advantage of.

Now the end of the lace scene: Ramil not wanting to use the flogger (whip) on Paytai doesn’t mean that he suddenly doesn’t vibe with their dom/sub dynamic or bdsm play. I personally think for Ramil, the pain play was never his thing, really; he did it for Paytai. His thing was always the ownership - the reassurance that Paytai is his and his alone, that he’s not going anywhere. He can realize that he’s not comfortable using a flogger anymore, or maybe in that specific moment, because of the trauma they’ve both experienced but still enjoy tying up Paytai, being tied up by him, having Paytai tell him he belongs to him, etc. It can also be that in that moment, what he (Ramil) needed the most was softness. It doesn’t make any of the other stuff bad.

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During today’s ep of My Stubborn, every single time they talked about Jun being a “kid” or just the fact that he’s younger than Sorn, I couldn’t stop giggling simply because Oat is not only a fully grown 30 year old man, but he’s also older than Boat!

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Ah yes, my old friend, the trope I like to call “Patricide would solve 99% of everyone’s problems, but papa raised a little bitch.”

I am, as usual, asking for these BL boys to

KILL THEIR SHITTY FATHERS!

Please. I beg of you. Stabby stab stab. *Pew pew* and all that jazz. One of you has a black belt and the other is a prince. You have the power and the privilege to get away with it. End them! Do it for the fucking narrative!

Only two BL boys have ever accomplished this goal, and now one is about to go in for a repeat.

If he can do it twice, surely you can do it once, so Mortal Kombat their asses and finish them.

Fuck 'em up, sis!

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Jeff, prolly: the KimChay/JeffBarcode fandom has been kinda quiet lately. Hmm, what can I do about that?

Also Jeff, tossing “Tell Me the Name” into existence like he’s chumming the water: yeah, that oughta do it.

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Me to the me in the mirror: the fuck is wrong with you?

Mirror me: oh right, it’s us.

me to me: you stress me out