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ace frehley and peter criss 90s ✨🌛

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sometimes you jus gotta 🍞🥖🥐🥞🍞🥖🥐🥞🥖🍞🥐🥞🍮🥖🍞🥞🍮🥐🍞🥖🍮🍯🥐🍞🥖🥞🥐🍯🥖🍞🍮🥞🍯🥐🥖

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UNA VERSE

NOVI STARS

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A dump of ms paint trackpad drawings of the jokers bc i love them

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Since the OP made their post unrebloggable (and blocked me. Both actions they are well in with their right to do)

I'm going to make my response it's own post because I think the point is important

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As someone who is autistic and has BPD and CPTSD and loads of trauma yes you sometimes need to change how you interact with others to keep people around

When I was 13 I hit the few friends I had when I was angry

I had to change that in order to keep those friendships

When I was in my early 20s if I was losing an disagreement with my husband I would threaten to kill myself. My husband told me it hurt him and was cruel and manipulative behaviour, because it was.

So I worked hard to change that to keep my relationship

It's easy to say "I shouldn't have to change for others" and that's true to an extent. You shouldn't change your interests or passions or dim your light. And you should have space to be imperfect and flawed and not have to pretend your ugly bits aren't real. But if something you are doing it causing other people harm you kinda need to change that.

That's called "living in a society"

People adapt to each other and make space for each other in their lives. You adapt to them and they adapt to you

You start being more diligent about throwing away the empty toilet roll because it really bothers them. They start warning you before they run the blender because you hate loud noises

I stopped threatening to kill myself because I was mad I was losing an argument and my husband stopped being so vocally judgemental amount media he personally dislikes

There is a certain type of person who heard the phrase "your emotions are valid" and took that to mean "my emotional reactions and my behaviour are always objectively correct because my emotions are valid and if you have an emotional response or react to what I'm doing negatively then you are wrong and you can't be hurt because my emotions are valid"

And that's a recipe for disaster

Your emotions are valid to feel. They are how you feel and there are reasons you feel the way you do

However, your reactions and behaviour are something you can learn to control and can be irrational

We live in a society and we as people change each other as we interact and that isn't necessarily a bad thing

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Just watched Saw for the first time. I thought this was torture porn? This is just regular gay porn wtf

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the circus was in town that day 🤡

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Like I'm sure sex is cool and all but have you ever thought about the relationships between different word classes

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👀 SNEAK PEEK: Webkinz Day 19! 👀

Webkinz Turns 19, on Monday, April 29, so don’t forget to log in to Webkinz Classic and Webkinz Next to get your gift and spin the Super Wheel!

Your gift will be automatically added to your account when you log in to Webkinz Classic on April 29.

Drag your gift into your pet’s room to open it. Here’s a look at this year’s group print, trophy and slice of cake. You’ll also get a special Kiwi Bird Medallion Gift Box that you can open to earn 25 Kiwi Bird Pet Medallions.

You’ll also have the chance to spin the Super Wheel at Today’s Activities for a chance to collect a super special prize!

Don’t forget to log in to Webkinz Next on Webkinz Day too! Your gift will be waiting for you at the Friend Center, and you’ll have the opportunity to spin the first ever Webkinz Next Super Wheel at the Arcade!

Starting on Webkinz Day, Webkinz Classic players will get the chance to enjoy the benefits of Deluxe Membership* for one whole week!

Get a feel for Deluxe with:

-        Deluxe Only Games!

-        The ability to buy Deluxe items in the W-Shop!

-        Access to exclusive areas like Vacation Island, the Magical Forest and Zumwhere!

-        EStore exclusives & discounts!

-        Bonus classes!

-        More jobs!

-        Unlimited Questions at Quizzy’s, Signature Safari and Discovery Zone!

*does not include access to KinzChat PLUS, Trading Rooms, sending items through KinzPost, or adding rooms to the house. Monthly Gift Boxes and eStore points will not be awarded to all non-Deluxe players during the Preview.

If you are already a FULL member, you will continue to enjoy all the benefits of Full Membership PLUS Deluxe Membership during this period!

How long have you been playing Webkinz? 🤔

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getting a badge machine was the best thing i ever did tbh

(these r 4 sale btw ;3 calliopezines on etsy)

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