i can convince myself anyone deserves to be mistreated. i am also unshakable in my belief that i'm pure of heart and objectively a good person <- how you guys sound to me
He communicates consistently and clearly. Replies promptly, doesn't leave you on seen, checks up on you throughout the day/week according to his schedule and in agreement with your needs as well.
He pays attention to your needs and desires and quirks, and makes your life better using said details. Ie. buys your favorite kind of flowers, makes your favorite tea in the morning, remembers your food allergies when having dinner dates, etc.
Disagreements may still appear even in health relationships, and it's ok, as communication is essentual for a healthy dynamic. However, his approach to disagreements is a secure one: each will share their perspective, and if feelings were hurt or mistakes were made, he takes accountability for his side, and makes genuine apologies followed by reparations and direct actions (ie. "I'm sorry I did x, I didn't mean to hurt you. I will be/do y in the future", and then does as he promised).
Promises are kept. His actions are in alignment with his words, and he keeps his words. If he says he'll call you after work, he does. If he says he needs to cool off during an argument and will reopen the conversation in 1h, he does indeed return in 1h to continue the topic.
If you're anxious, he will reassure you and work through it. He doesn't run away or avoid the topic (as an avoidantly attached person would).
If you come forward communicating your needs, or sharing complaints or grievances, he will hear you out and actively seek a way to improve things. He won't freak out, or get angry or run away in response to you having needs or communicating your thoughts; these are normal relationship things you're entitled to, and a securely attached man knows this.
A man that is well-rounded, with a secure attachment style, will have a rich life of his own: hobbies, interests, circles of friends, activities, etc. He will enjoy having his independence and space, and will respect your need for your own. He is not co-dependent, nor gets in the way of you having your own life outside of him. He knows having individually rich lives is important for a healthy relationship. To expand on this, he encourages you to enjoy your selfcare time, your girl's night out, or whatever other activities nourish you.
Utálom ezt a tápos jelzőt. Annyi kisebbrendűség szól belőle... A nyomorultak, a lesajnáltak kivagyisága... Emlékszem, a Főtéren lehetett ezt-azt venni a magyar rendszámú autókból, például gyerektápszert. Sohasem fogja az én generációm megemészteni azt a lesajnálós jóindulatot, ami a magyarországi magyarokból áradt. A vasútállomásra is kijártunk gyerekként a kis lejünkkel kólát venni, melyet a világmindenség legjobb ízű üdítőjének képzeltünk egy olyan országban, ahol nem voltak ízek. Kétórás tévéműsor, hétvégén három. Harmincéves filmek a moziban. Állami halálmatek: ki ölt meg több zsidót, a magyarok vagy a románok? (a magyarok). Áramszünet van, meleg víz nincs. Sorok a benzinkútnál, sorok mindenhol, jegyrendszer, hadikommunizmus, éhezés, személyi kultusz, uszítás a "horthysta-fasiszták" ellen, a félelem általános légköre. Elvisz a Szekuritáté, ha rossz leszel, kisfiam. Kétévente utazás Magyarországra, illegális zokniárusítás a piacon, de figyelj a rendőrökre, mert elkobozzák az árut. Tömött boltok, kevés forint, kegyelemből alhatunk a rokonoknál. Stb., stb., stb. Hát innét ered az éhes nyomorultak dacos öntudata, a legvidámabb barakk lakóinak, a szeretve-gyűlölt, irigyelt, öntelt, kövér magyaroknak a letáposozása.
-Jössz focizni?
-Nem, legfeljebb öt passzt tudok most adni, sietek.
-Öt passz? Hát az semmire se jó! Amúgy tudtad?
-Mit?
-Hogy a hülyék mindig visszakérdeznek. Hol laksz? A C201-ben? Elkérjük a portáról a pótkulcsot és be fogunk törni hozzád.
így csicskított be 18 másodperc alatt a tízéves danika
@odmnd amugy lehet csak annyit kene, hogy meg kene venni a cilineknem.hu domaint, ott arulni a sajat kepeimet, 50% mehet is jotekony celra, es mint Stuart Semple oldalain, mindenhol felpattano ablakok, hogy becsuletszavadat adod, hogy nem vagy Anish Kapoor, lehetne hogy nem vagy Rogan Cili es hozza barmilyen formaban kotheto szemely🤦🏻♀️
just a reminder that "listened to marginalized people about their oppression" means "people know their own experiences better than you do" not "the most oppressed person in the room is always right about everything"
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