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[ace-big-brother]

Hey!

I'm remaking this account, as those of you who follow my main may know, and I'm in the process of moving blogs!

This blog will still bee up, though, so don't worry! This will remain as an archive of sorts

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It hurts my heart when I see pre-t trans boys hate themselves for being gay because they’re “still girls” I want to hug everyone of them and tell them they are valid and loved. If you are a trans boy you are a boy, it doesn’t matter if you are pre or post t. You are all valid and loved and you will find someone that loves you.

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We really have harmed a whole generation of trans and gnc children by failing to communicate how serious a decision binding actually is, how there’s no ACTUALLY safe way to bind, how it permeneantly damages the body, how it can make top surgery more difficult in the future. I don’t think we should be keeping trans kids from binding (we let kids do all sorts of things they’re really not old enough to understand the potential consequences of) but we owe them the ability to make informed decisions at LEAST

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shout out to ace and aro kids who are constantly bombarded with the opinion that sex and romantic love are directly connected to living a happy life.

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Native/Cherokee lesbian flags (as I’m sure some of you know,I’m of native American ancestry,along with my other family members)

These flags are inclusive of all native/Cherokee lesbians regardless of skin tone,and the first one’s colors do not represent all native skin tones,but are rather a sample of native skin tones.

Non natives can not use this flag for themselves,but can make icons of native/Cherokee characters and reblog for natives to see!

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Some Fun Facts

Trans men are men

Trans women are women

Enbys are real

There's more than 2 genders, and the idea that theres only 2 genders is an entirely western idea

You dont need dysphoria to be trans

Non-dysphoric trans people aren't cis

It's okay to experiment with labels

If it turns out that you're not LGBT+ that's okay! You figured yourself out, and thats perfectly healthy

Pronouns do not equal gender

Gender is a spectrum

Being trans isn't a mental illness

Pedophiles/MAPs aren't welcome in the LGBT+ community

K!nks aren't LGBT+

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Hey guys! Here's someone for the blocklist @/know/that/there/are/only/2/genders (without the slashes). They're just generally transphobic, and thought sending hate mail to a minor would be a fun way to spend their Wesnesday evening

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“Pronouns do not equal gender” =/= “pronouns don’t matter”

You’re entitled to the pronouns you want to be called. You’re allowed to be uncomfortable when someone calls you by the wrong pronouns.

You’re not allowed to police what pronouns other people want to be called. You’re not allowed to misgender someone because you think they’re using the wrong pronouns.

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Respect my existence or expect my resistance.

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@ every person who’s ever made a comment about how ‘that’s called friendship’ when aro people talk about QPRs

shut up and listen for once in your life.

Would you combine your finances with a friend?

Would you adopt (or have) kids with your friend?

Would you plan to live your entire life with your friend?

Would you get pets with your friend?

Would you set up your entire life around spending all your down time with your friend?

Would you spend every night for the rest of your life in the same bed as your friend?

No. You wouldn’t. You would do those things and more with your sexual and romantic partner.

A QPR is not a friendship.

I have a best friend, we’ve known eachother since we were 5 and nobody else will ever be my best friend.

I have a QPP, we met in high school and she’s not my best friend because she’s me QPP and that’s a different kind of relationship.

I would never consider planning the rest of my life around my best friend. If we have to be far away then so be it, it wold suck but we’d keep in touch.

If I had a choice between a job far away and staying with my QPP then it probably wouldn’t be a choice.

I’d never consider asking my best friend to come with me if I moved away for work for good. I’d only move if my QPP was coming with me.

When my best friend and I share a bed on sleepovers we barely touch.

The one night I got to spend with my QPP we cuddled all night.

My QPP and I walked through the mall holding hands. My friend and I wouldn’t do that because that’s not how friends are once you’re more than about 10 years old. Not here at least.

When my best friend comes over we sit on different chairs and talk and share memes and play games.

When I have time with my QPP we’re right next to eachother and only let go if we have to.

When my best friend has to go home it’s a wave and a ‘seeya’ and we’re good.

When my QPP has to go home it’s a five minute hug with foreheads and noses touching and we’ve gone down the driveway together to the car.

My best friend and my QPP are equally important to me because I don’t view any one kind of relationship as being superior to another. They’re different.

Best friends expect eachother to have their own families and their own lives. QPPs hope to be able to share their entire lives.

If, after reading all of that at least twice you still want to invalidate QPRs and say that we’re just friends then I invite you to kindly go fuck yourself.

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I was one of the people interviewed for this.

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Lesbian is such a beautiful word. Never let anyone tell you that you should identify with something less “forceful” or “exclusive”. Take pride in who you are and how you choice to identify. We are beautiful, handsome, and all around stunning!

To my trans/nb lesbians, this post is, of course, for you as well. This community flourishes because you are in it, never let anyone tell you differently.

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Wow. Religious LGBTQ+ are just so wonderful. 

Pagans? They’re stars 

Muslims? They’re the greatest™

Christians? They’re heckin rad

Jews? They deserve ice cream and warm hugs

Sikhs? They raised my GPA and cured my asthma 

Buddhists? They bless this world with their very presence

Hindus? Can’t get better than these guys

Shintoists? They’re A+++ human beings 

Taoists? They’re about as wonderful as kittens

LGBTQ+ who religiously cover their heads (especially trans boys and nb ppl)? It makes me so happy knowing they exist

In conclusion, LGBTQIA+ people who are religious are great and deserving of so many good things. Be kind to them.

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I haven’t seen any terms like stag/doe for aromantics so I decided to come up with a few, and they’re based on flowers!

Poppy aro - aromantic person that presents femininely, regardless of gender

Dietes aro - aromantic person that present androgynously, regardless of gender

Scilla aro - aromantic person that presents as masculine, regardless of gender

I hope everybody like these 💙

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Lesbian flag survey part two!!

Welcome back folks, sorry for leaving you hanging for so long!

Here’s is the link to the second survey

Please choose your favourite out of these five!!

This survey closes on the 20th of this month

That’s 20/9/18 (or 9/20/18)

Please get the word out!!

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Mood board and aesthetic requests are open, every one!!!

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plz reblog if your page is a safe space for all asexual spectrum and trans people!!!!

i need some good ass accounts to follow that are open for my cousin (trans) and i (asexual) :^)