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Edit because I think this is being misinterpreted: The aroace tag is not colored, it's a petition for Tumblr to color it (sorry for the confusion)

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All the porn bots in the asexual tag.....

Do you know where you are?

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honestly the world would be much better if everyone just realized that asexual people can do whatever the fuck they want and still be ace btw

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Asexual and Aromantic Survey

I am currently writing a book about the experiences of those on the asexual and aromantic spectrums! As part of my research, I’m trying to compile as many personal stories as I can to include in the work - to which end, I’ve created a survey.

I’m hoping to put together a personal story of my respondents, exploring the challenges we face, the way our orientations intersect with other aspects of our identity such as disability and race, how we navigate relationships, and so on. How long the survey takes will depend on how much detail you want to go into; you could probably breeze through in a few minutes, though longer and more detailed answers will be a huge help to me.

If you are in any way ace or aro (including grey-ace/aro, demi, etc), it would mean the world to me if you filled in the survey; and if you’re not, please do spread it around! The survey will not collect your details (other than what you choose to share, of course).

Here is the link to the survey.

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Thinking about how during an uni course today we were supposed to give an answer to the question "are you married" in a two people two minute breakout room, and since "No" doesn't cover 2 minutes I extended my answer with "and I never want to be married". Had a moment of panic because I didn't want to open that can of worms when my group partner was confused and asked why, so I just said "I like being on my own". And she loved that answer! even brought it up later during reflection with the entire course, because she had never heard of that perspective.

Sometimes I get tired of repeating these things that seem so simple and obvious to me now (even if they weren't obvious to me while growing up), but it needs to be said again and again. You can say no to something everyone else seems to want. You can say no to something and mean it forever. And, when the situation is right, you can say no loudly so that others can realize it's an option.

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DROPS ASEXUAL HEADCANONS AND LEAVES

also you can use this as pfp and no need to credit me bcuz i just slapped them together lol

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Happy International Asexuality Day btw Reigen is the ace internet sex symbol

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Happy ace day!! Hooray!

Edit: Hi, I am once again emphasizing this isn’t a dig at people who enter relationships for physical attraction! The joke is on the fact this option will likely fly over the heads of people who dont experience sexual attraction and suchs!

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This is how I imagine i look like when people talk to me about romantic/sexual relationships.

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Am I ace? Yes.

Am I a virgin? Also yes.

Have I kissed a person in the last four and a half years? Definitely not.

Am I a massive whore? Absolutely

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[ID: The draw 25 meme. The first panel shows an Uno card that says “stop treating interest in romance as a rite of passage and marker of maturity or draw 25”. The second panel shows a person, labelled “society”, holding many cards in their hand. End ID]

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💚⚪🖤 A very aro-dynamic dragon flying into your week!