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Friends to lovers --> boo, basic, everyone's seen it before

Lovers to best friends with an even stronger bond because they both realized they were aromantic -> new, way cooler, yay, i would pay all i have (2 pennies and a button) to see it

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Happy Ace Week! It’s a week for acknowledging and celebrating the experiences of people on the asexual spectrum. Some people call it “asexual spectrum awareness week.”

On that note, please let me make you aware that my book, “Enigma and Other Aromantic Asexual Love Poems,” is available on both Amazon AND IngramSpark, which means that you can ask your local library or indie bookstore to stock it for you if you don’t like to shop on Amazon :D Enjoy!

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ok i just realized today but why the fuck isn’t agender a rainbow tag? its kinda bothering me ngl. also the aroace one? what’s up with that?

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today hasn’t been good.

But I came out to my parents. They accepted.

I’m officially changing my wattpad status to out of the closet.

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The asexual urge to make constant sex jokes

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Throwback to the time I commented ‘I’m aro/ace’ under a YT video and all the comments on my comment were ‘those pronouns are fake. You damn liberals’ or something like that.

Reblog if your pronouns are also aroace

Edit: To all the people saying ‘I’m not sure if I can reblog this’ feel free to reblog if you support aroace people. You don’t have to be one!

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How do I explain to people that no I do not want a romantic relationship but I do however want a lot of things that come with a romantic relationship. Like I want someone to hold my head in their lap and play with my hair, or someone will hug my without reason just cause they’re happy to see me, and to be able to hold their hand in public. But like all platonically. I want someone who is just a little more than a friend but a lot less than a partner and I don’t know if any of that makes sense.

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QPRs are so fucking awesome are you telling me I get to be someone's lame ass boyfriend without actually having to date them???

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DEREK LUH & LONDON THOR as JORDAN LI

GEN V (2023 - ) 1.06 | "Jumanji"

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the way jordan and marie are only suffering the miscommunication trope because they keep getting their mind fucking wiped 😭😭 otherwise this couple is great at communicating

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I'm a bisexual woman and I need, no, I DEMAND that we get a sex scene with Marie and Jordan were Jordan switches between their feminine and masculine form multiple times.

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i have a burning hatred for relationship hierarchies.

Why is it offensive to want to just be friends? Why is it expected for romantic partners to always take prioritization over friends? Why is it rude to tell someone you aren't friends, just chill with each other? Why are queerplatonic relationships seen as a step down from romantic relationships? Why is it bad to not want to make step ups in romantic relationships?

these labels have different meanings and levels importance to everyone, therefore they have no meaning or importance.

in my world, there are two places you can stand. next to me or the fuck away.

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One of the things that allo society did wrong is using the term "sexual needs". These are not needs. Drinking is a need, sleeping is a need, eating, resting and breathing are needs. If you don't do them, you die. Sex is not a need, it is a want (a valid want, don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with wanting sex) and I'm tired of hearing someone has "their needs". It's a gross thing to say that is often used to excuse not just aphobia but also r*pe (especially domestic), cheating and treating women like properties.

For anyone who thinks sex is a need I want to point out that celibate monks are among the healthiest people in the world. They haven't died out yet

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I'm asexual

'But you can still like have sex right?'

I am fifteen. Why the fuck do you need to know.

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In recent times, while talking about my QPP, my mom has started asking me more questions which also push me to do my best to word out things I've never had to word out before – and sometimes it comes out in unexpected ways but it feels right.

I'm honestly so fortunate for that and I appreciate my family's allyship so much. Been whining a lot lately so I wanted to draw something positive for once TwT