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(9/02/2023) studied for Discrete Mathematics.

#studying

#notes

#examweek

[aerishyo]

love hides in questions, you cannot ask a thing without giving yourself away. how was your day? (i hope it was good) when can i see you again? (i pray it's soon) do you feel safe with me? (i feel safe with you) what is your favorite color? (i wish to enrobe you in all that makes you smile)

[aerishyo]

I want letters filled with poetry and art, I want letters filled with love and kindness, I want letters filled with your favorite words, and books, and music. And I want letter finished with a wax seal, a kiss, and pressed flowers. I want a little piece of you to have always.

[aerishyo]

people need people. No matter what you say about it, no matter how you complain, you need people. To seek comfort, to seek advices and help. You need to socialise.

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30 things that you can add to your habit tracker if you are a student

The end of the month is for many of us the perfect time to take out our planners and bullet journals to plan the upcoming month.

Today I want to provide you with ideas for every student’s habit tracker.

You don’t have a habit tracker yet? I highly recommend this productivity tool for you. It can help you to track your current habits and it will help you to establish new habits more easily. Just check Tumblr, Pinterest or Google for some inspiration.

HABIT TRACKER IDEAS FOR STUDENTS

Do homework

Go to library

Digital detox during study session and lecture

Successful Pomodoro study session

Write essay

Accomplish reading assignment

Do research

Go to class

Arrived in class on time

Number of questions asked in a lecture (easier: participation at class y/n)

Review notes after class

Rewrite notes

Prepare a presentation

Prepare presentation speech

Organize folders/binders

Write a paragraph for essay

Write a summary

Write flashcards

Save written assignments on external memory/USB/cloud

Meetings with study buddy or study group

Learn something new

Declutter desk space

Study to-do list accomplished

Do some exercises to test new study material

Prepare backpack/bag the night before

Number of study breaks taken

8 hours of sleep

Go to bed by a certain time

Water intake

Exercise/sport

Happy planning everyone :)

[aerishyo]

aesthetic & wholesome korean yt channels to help you relax & learn korean 

corona virus has got me overwhelmed and i know some of you–in one way or another–are, too. so i’m sharing some of my favorite channels that help me calm down, be more present, and see the beauty in everyday things. 

features: asmr, home cooking, travel vlogs, furry friends, being productive at home (studying, painting, and cleaning vlogs) +  english subs too so they help me with studying korean!

 nyangsoop

documents the life of a korean girl who lives on a little house in the forest with her cat

sueddu

a freelancer documents her life with her poodle named bebe. her travel vlogs are bomb!

zin.t

vlogs by a college student who loves studying at home or in cozy cafes

haegreendal

vlogs by a mom who shares her journey as a mom and as a creator

bonus: smyang piano

music channel that features lofi and piano covers of bts, red velvet, other kpop artists, and studio ghibli songs.

what are your favorite yt channels? 

pls send me some recommendations. ✨

[aerishyo]

some cottagecore things to do during social distancing 

bake some cookies or bread

tend to your plants (or garden if you have one)

knit/quilt

write some letters

decorate your space for spring

watercolor/sketch

take a walk (things are blooming!! look at them!!)

take pictures outside as spring rolls in

pick up an old favorite book

throw a tea party, even if it’s just for yourself

take a drive through the countryside (if you can)

cut some flowers to put around the house

turn the lights off and light some candles

write some poetry!! it’s a bit of an emotional time for everyone

go through keepsakes

PLAY MINECRAFT

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5 Ways to Achieve Your Dreams

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5 Habits of Highly Successful People

5 Effective Ways You Can Self-Actualize

7 Signs You May Be Self-Actualized

7 Habits to Nurture a Positive Mindset

5 Things to Give Up to Live the Life You Want

7 Ways You Can Start Over

8 Ways to Counteract Negative Self-Talk

Make Yourself Happy

8 Ways to Take Care of Your Mental Health

7 Signs You May Be a People Pleaser

7 Ways to Stop Being a People Pleaser

10 Ways to Spot a Toxic Person in Your Life

10 Ways to Deal with Toxic People

7 Habits of Highly Successful Introverts

5 Ways Mindfulness Can Improve Your Life

5 Ways to Stop Apologizing for Everything that You Do

10 Steps for Overcoming the Need for Approval

10 Ways to Build Your Emotional Resilience

Love Yourself: Recognizing When It’s Time to Give Up

6 Ways to Deal with Inferiority Complex

5 Helpful Self Care Tips for Empaths

Healing from Repressed Anger

How Channeling Your Pain Leads to Happiness

11 Tips To Cope With Negative Thoughts

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Tips on Flirting

1. Make eye contact. Throw small glances and catch the eye of the person you’re interested in. Hold their gaze briefly, then smile and look away.

2. Smile at the person. To be most effective, smile slowly (rather than grinning widely), and crinkle your eyes. That kind of smile is more genuine and appealing.

3. Talk to them. You don’t have to commit to a full conversation but at least say “hello” and acknowledge their existence!

4. Initiate a conversation with them (one step on from point 3). Think of easy ways to get a conversation going. In many ways the topic isn’t so significant. You just want to talk to them, and try and pique their interest. General guidelines are … ask a neutral question; try and find some areas of common interest; gauge their response before showing more interest; and keep things light and impersonal.

5. Make use of body language. Non-verbal cues can say a lot more than the actual words you speak. Some pointers to remember include: maintain an open stance (don’t cross your arms or legs); turn your body toward them; casually touch them (for example, hold their hand to help you balance when you’re getting up from your seat.)

6. Compliment them (but don’t get too personal yet).

7. Keep your interactions brief. Scarcity creates demand. If you’re not always available it makes you more mysterious and more desirable.

[aerishyo]

my quick tips for working / studying from home

- get dressed and style your hair as if you’re going to school/work - even use the same perfume/ cologne as you normally do  (trick your mind into being motivated)

- plan things out - everything (plan out your week, day, meal, etc. you can make these as specific as you’d like. this will help you stay on top of your work as well as stay healthy, especially if you live alone.)

- make studying/ working the first thing you do each day - best if you can start in the morning (minimize the tendency to procrastinate)

- just start - don’t worry too much about perfecting or finishing anything yet (if you don’t start then there’s nothing for you to perfect or get done. and it will never get done)

- listen to old and simple (aka non-distracting) podcasts, Youtube videos, or café/ chattering white-noise, etc. simply leave them as background noise to create an illusion of being outside your room (bring the presence of people to you. my favorites lately have been slam poems from 2016, Mae Martin’s stages, and Awsten Knight’s crackhead podcasts)

- set timers, for both study sessions and breaks (so that you don’t overwork, burn out, or procrastinate. the Pomodoro technique works great here)

- take advantage of the comfort of your own home (light a candle, have crunchy snacks, play loud music, review notes out loud while pacing around, wrap yourself in a blanket burrito, study on your bed if you can focus there like me, etc. basically anything you can’t do in a classroom, office, or the library)

- if you miss your friends, call/ text/ facetime them, make a study group chat with them, etc. (that is what technology is for)

- choose recreational activities/ self-care for your breaks instead of going on social media (go on walks, make small art, play an instrument, stretch, take a nap, etc. I usually reach for my guitar, brainstorm writing ideas, or sketch very simple line art.)

- if you want to go on social media, do it during meal times - or the 15 minutes after your meals that you can’t work just yet (it also doesn’t make you feel like you’re wasting time)

- study in different rooms for a change of scenery (dining room, living room, the patio, etc. I have an armchair next to the window that I study in whenever I need some sunlight and don’t have to write anything down. however, if you need a designated place to focus on your work, you can also use these alternative spaces as designated “relax” or “creative” place for your breaks)

- use this as an opportunity to take care of yourself (get enough sleep, drink water, exercise, talk to your family, take your meds, be mindful of your mental health, etc.)

Feel free to add your tips. The current situation sure is unpleasant but it is unavoidable. All we can really do now is take care of ourselves, others, and try to make the best out of this.

Good luck to everyone and stay safe! My heart is with you all 💕

[aerishyo]

Studying from home, a new lifestyle during #Covid19 plague

Every library is closed, so are universities and you may be desperate because the library was the only place where you were able to focus.. I totally get you! But as someone who’ve spent most of its school years studying at home.. I can assure you that it’s totally fine! You just need a few techniques and organization skills and you’ll see that everything will be ok ! So here we go : 

Clean and declutter your study space. Store the books you don’t need anymore and only keep the essentials on your desk. I’ll share with you an old article I wrote on Tumblr about how to upgrade your workspace!

Block distractions : give your phone to your mom, use the Forest app, the Flipd app or just put it in airplane mode !

Cut the outside noise : a good playlist (my Lofi playlist for example :P), earplugs and the door shut can help you be in the « library » mood…

Make a study plan and try to stick to a routine.. It’s easy to lose track of time when you spend all of your days at home! This is why keeping a healthy routine and set hours for meals and breaks is really important!

Since it’s easier to get distracted at home, make sure to take more breaks than the usual (for example a 45min study session and a 10 min break).

If you have online lectures and a #studybuddy that you trust, why not split the work (for example you follow half of the lectures and your colleague the other half) and then sharing your notes? Also, why not creating a Google Drive with your colleagues so everyone shares their notes? The quarantine will be long so a little support from each other is more than welcomed!!

You can also have skype sessions with your colleagues to debate about a subject, or quiz each other so you don’t feel too alone and you keep track of your progress :)

You can also take the time to go deeper into the subjects you have to study and not only scratching the surface like you may be used to do ! This is also a great way to discover if you’re more interested in some subjects than others and who knows, maybe you’ll find a new passion !

If you feel like you can’t focus anymore then.. stop. It’s totally fine to not being able to study all day, especially when you have nothing else to do and when the deadlines are still far and unsure. So Take this time to enjoy your family, work on yourself, read a book, or start a new hobby.

Studygram

[aerishyo]

Thank you for giving me a lot of content here during this lockdown! @/all accounts here on tumblr

[aerishyo]

You are beautiful when your strength and determination shines as you follow your own path – when you aren’t disheveled by the obstacles along the way. You are unstoppable when you let your mistakes educate you, as your confidence builds from experiences – when you know you can fall down, pick yourself up, and move forward.

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Literature Review: Based on the novel “Whatever happens, promise me you won’t give up"

Everyone has that certain someone they hope to never let go. That no matter how long, how difficult things get, they will always find ways to make that person stay. It may be the most pathetic way or the sweetest way. Just because something is not meant to be, does not mean it is not meant to be tried. We meet new people every day, and surprisingly not one of them manage to outshine that one person. Keep an open mind that someone new might come in and change everything, but how do we do so if our hearts and minds are only focused on one person, and it is her? The question is why. Here is a short story to better understand this situation. Three years ago, you met this one girl. Of course, like any narrow-minded typical guy - you would say that she’s pretty and she might be the one. But as a well-planned gentleman that you are, you set your goals. First, get to know her and get her to know you, or at least, notice you. Even this process takes about 4 to 5 months of unanswered “hello’s” and constantly being ignored. Until that one point where she decided to say “hi” back. That “Hi” was worth more than you could ever think of. It is a platform to something good, a sign of which that girl might say “maybe I should give it a try”. Like any other guy, she was not the only one you were texting or talking to. To your surprise, she was different. She did not mind long texts as she too, replied with an even longer text. Somehow, she knows how to control your emotions and unintentionally made you open up to her, and soon, so did she. Unlike any other girl, she was the one where you can have a serious conversation, light conversation, funny conversation all in one go. Do not get me started on her intelligence. And as humble as she always is, you never felt intimidated talking to her. You were only worried that she might not want to talk to you because of how different your level of intelligence is. Again, she always knows how to control one’s emotions and that is probably why you have never felt so small nor so big talking to her.

Throughout the first two years of knowing her, she was like that person who leaves you hanging and comes back like nothing happened. You never told her how you felt, so you do not have the rights to scold her or even tell her how inappropriate it was. Like I said, as a well-planned gentleman you are, you never push her away or force her to stay in-contact. Fortunately, that was what attracted her to you. That was what that made her feel comfortable talking to you, and soon she called you her “best friend she never had”. One might say you were being friend zoned, but to you, as long as you are not like the other guys who does not appeal well to her, you are fine. Then came that one time, where you finally confessed to her. It was not an easy decision because, you know where you stand, and you were nowhere within her standards. Chances of getting rejected were higher than being accepted, and you were right. However, the way she turned you down was the nicest way anyone could have done it. It was not a reply of rejection rather, a reply of hope that maybe one day, she will have feelings for you too, just not now.

After that confession, you were not treated as before. Again, she became that person who leaves you hanging and comes back God knows when. You did not take it personally because you understand. You are nowhere within her perimeter of the guys she dated or dates. As much as you say you have moved on, there is always this part of you saying there is still hope. God must have delayed this for a reason. You know that you do not jump into relationships easily because who you choose, is the one you aim to marry. Even since the first time you were in a relationship, that was your principle. Hence, you would not confess or be in a relationship where you know you cannot go far with. Thing is, not only for the past three years but also for the years before that three years, you have never met someone so perfect that you do not need to change a thing about her. She’s very kind, giggles a lot, knows just the right words to say, strong inside and out. Basically, that pretty girl who is pretty at everything. You can say that there is a lot more out there which you have yet to meet, but can you be sure that there is someone out there who has all these perfect traits, yet can still look at you and make you feel that you are no different than whoever you are intimidated with? Someone who is so perfect in your eyes that you are blind to even see all the traits other women have. You have been going out with other girls before her, getting to know them, yet none of them are like what she is. Don’t get me wrong, you were never comparing each and every one of them to her every time you went out with them. She was no longer contacting you that time, so you assume that you are just not the one she wants. The people that you have been going out with, they were okay. But you were the one putting effort to enlighten the situation. As much as you love to make people laugh, who will be there when you yourself fell down so low that you cannot even smile? That was when you realized you are not cut out for a relationship with any of these girls. Finally, after few months of not hearing anything from her, she came back and approached you. The people who were there witnessed how happy you were. She commented on your Instagram picture. One thing for sure, even if there were a million likes, and hundreds of comments complimenting your picture (which is impossible), her comment would outshine others. Why? Because the person who you thought would never come back, the person who you thought you have lost came back. Long story short, you both have feelings for each other, and work your way up. She was everything you thought she would be. She was everything you see in the woman you love. To be honest, when she involved her feelings and stay committed, she basically spelled the word Happiness in you. You know you will not go astray with loving someone so much because, at the end of the day, she will say that no matter what, God All Mighty controls and decides everything. She will put in effort but you must understand that if it is not meant to be, it is not. You took it too serious that instead of making the days talking to her count, you count the days you finally get to see her. You did not live in the moment. You took for granted every word she said, you did not listen as to why she was always mad at you. All you know is that, if things go wrong, you will give it your all to make things right. Sounds heroic, but it actually is what douchebags would do. After numerous of fights and quarrels, she gave up and completely changed the way she looks or even talks to you. Sadly, here you are back to three years ago where you were struggling to get a sincere “Hi!” from her. But then again, she is still that person who tells you that no matter what happens, there is still hope. Things might not go so well from now on, but if you hold on to that hope long enough, if you believe that she is worth everything, every effort of yours, InsyaAllah, you might be rebuilding something even better than what you once had. No matter how many events contradict your beliefs, no matter how many opinions say that you should move on, no matter how many extrinsic factors show you that you should give up if you still don’t give up, it shows that whatever happens, you will always have her back. Even if the world turns their back on her, you will be there right next to her. There is always that intrinsic motivation that drives you. What is the intrinsic motivation? It is the true colors of her which she has shown you, the ones you fell in love with. So, whenever you feel like giving up because of how cold she treats you now, look back and contemplate the person she was when she was happy, when she knows you’re there, when you made her feel that no matter how many people hate her, you will always love her. The reason why your heart and mind keep focusing on one person is her. p/s: No, this isn’t the article that I found, it’s the one that I wrote.

- Syahmi Suhardy, 2016

[aerishyo]

your words were expressed,

"I love you."

All of the poems were sent to me,

thinking it was for someone else,

I read them all.

Now that I knew it was for me,

you're making it harder for me to forget about you.

You wanted to lessen this feelings, you told,

thank you for your honesty,

that's what I always loved about you.

Your focus, you want it to be your study,

I understand, cause I too want my focus to be it.

But then, my head was trying

to find the solution not to think of you.

At the end of the day,

I'm doing it wrong.

'Cause the cycle goes and goes and goes to you.

#crush

[aerishyo]

the state of my apartment bedroom in this chaotic season. i hope you guys are staying safe, healthy, and intentional. please adopt the safety measures that work for you.

[aerishyo]

“People tend to forget to tell each other how much they love or miss you or need you, and even if they do remember, sometimes they’re just too shy, too scared, too certain it’s the wrong thing to say or the wrong timing. But it’s not. It never is. Say it before it’s too late. For all we know, it could all be different tomorrow.”

— just say the word before it’s too late / n.j.