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this morning I am thinking about this little gem

and specifically about the feeling I've been turning over in my head for...a while, I think, about the way that there's this ambient assumption on Tumblr (and quite possibly elsewhere, this is just where I am) of...sub/masochist-as-normal-state, or at least sub/masochist-as-fine-but-not-questionable state, and it feels like that, on the flip side, ends up incidentally or purposefully constructing doms/sadists as the deviants, as inherently "sus."

and it lines up to a certain extent with the way that the conversations I see on this website about kink/BDSM often come from a sort of "presumed sub" perspective that leaves very little room for the thoughts and feelings of doms as valuable or important, and thoughts about an essay I read a while back that talked about the comparable societal acceptability of "fantasizing about being hurt" vs. "fantasizing about hurting people," and how "sadist" is a dirty word in a particular way that "masochist" isn't

it feels like sometimes there's this sense that (a) it's normal to have a little bit of sub/masochist tendencies, that's fine but (b) the only acceptable way to be a dom/sadist is if you feel bad about it. the ideal is to feel vaguely guilty, and mostly do it for the sake of somebody else's pleasure rather than your own.

I made a post a while ago that I can't find right now but it was, if I recall, "nails sign to tumblr door that says "doms have feelings too"" and I was joking but also I'm not.

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fellas is it gay to want to give the guy in one of my classes who performed slam poetry as a part of his presentation - and performed it well - so much head he (s)creams?

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what do you mean Just Standing There Ominously doesn’t count as socializing

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making @sinnamon-foxboy (s)cream

but its because of my lack of art technique and doing colour theory by the ‘vibes’ :D

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ARE YOU TAKING MEDICINE LIKE YOU SHOULD BE DOING OR ARE YOU LETTING YOURSELF GET MORE ILL-

I TOOK THE FUCKING MEDICINE ANFD IT TASTWD LIKE SHIT I HOPE YOUR HAPPY

better now tho :D

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puppy

yes hi hello thats me im puppy

kitty

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@luisl4nd

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i want to hit you over the head with my skateboard <3 (affectionate)

S M A S H

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Cock glock: it’s a gun but fires dildos at people

i like this one

smash

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Meowdy, purrdner

i will take away your tumblr ask privileges

smash

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Davy Jones but he’s a cocktopus

i am so close to blocking you, you are lucky ik that even if i do you will just tell me irl

smash

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Opinions on the Cock-Ness-Monster?

thanks, i hate it <3

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If you were a biscuit you’d be whoreos

pot, meet kettle

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I see you lurking

fuck off, kitty

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I love being a pillow prince. I love lying back and just taking what I'm given. Because it feels so good, so right, so natural to just submit to another man. It feels so right to be claimed, to do nothing but be his. To have my brain shut off by how good it feels to belong to and submit to him. Whether he's fucking me fast and rough or slow and tender it doesn't matter. Whether he's kissing my neck and holding my hand or tying my hands behind my back and shoving my head into the pillow. Whether he's marking my neck and chest with hickies or my ass with his hand print. It feels so good to be fucked, and it feels even better to be claimed, to be worthy of being his

It just feels so right to submit to another man

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It’s sooooo embarrassing how my lips part open like automatically whenever you put your fingers near them. I suuuuree hope you don’t take advantage of my oral fixation by like,,, idk, slipping drugs inside my mouth while I’m focused on sucking your fingers. Like wouldn’t it just be sooooo awful if you turned that moment of casual intimacy into an opportunity to drug and rape me? If you turned my trust for you into nothing but a tool to help you shove pills down my throat so you can get me high and pliant? Wouldn’t that just be the wooooorrrrssst???