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one of the things that makes autism a disability (and why some of us choose to label it as such rather than an “alternate neurotype”) is the stress. 

part of autism is just being incredibly stressed. overstimulation? stress. holding a conversation? stress. something happening to our schedule? stress. people talk about how often autism is recognized and diagnosed via our stress responses (like meltdowns) because it is just so common to see autistic people stressed because of lack of accommodations to how our brains work.

and this matters because stress kills. stress causes a lot of health issues, or it can trigger pre-existing ones by making certain chronic conditions flare up. i once had a psychiatrist very unhelpfully tell me i “just need to manage my stress” when the stress i was describing was things i could not avoid in neurotypical society and can’t “just get over”. i can do “self care” all i like but i cannot at the very base level change the way my brain inputs information and reacts accordingly.

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you know i didn’t expect that.

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Five Times Rei Protected Kazuki + One Time Kazuki Protected Rei We all know there were more

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Girlboss manwhore couple she’s killing he’s fucking nobody is doing the housework

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OH BOY I CAN'T WAIT FOR THE CRIPPLING ANGST BETWEEN THESE TWO

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"I don't wanna be this way... Not forever."

HELLUVA BOSS: SEASON TWO TRAILER

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dad gojo pt.2 featuring Megumi and shikigami training

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you came back wrong and i am racked with guilt because i cannot bear to see you like this and i should have let you rest. i loved you so much that i defied death itself but i do not think either of us are happy

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yes all my favorite characters are desperate to be loved. no i don’t think that says anything about me

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They killed off Junpei because if Gojo heard ItaJun going "Yuuji!!!" "Junpei!!!" all the time and that Yuuji reached on time and saved Junpei from becoming a curse user by preventing him from mass-killing a bunch of people, he would fucking lose it. That is daily psychological torture for Gojo. The distinctive bangs and dead eyes and emo vibes are NOT helping.

Gojo "I'm so happy for you but that should've been me" Satoru.

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Hello fellow sloppy bisexuals how is not putting away the laundry going

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It is what it is but like. Can it be something else

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so sad that people got sick of "doomed by the narrative" and decided it was cringe, because fate and free will in fiction has been a major interest of mine for like eight years, but alas so it goes. anything that gets popular is destined to become reviled in short order. it's like some sort of unstoppable, uncompassionate, avaricious cycle of rising and falling and rising again. like whatever happens, no matter the intentions, it will always result in the same tragic ending. you could almost say it was d

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Ran into an issue with my vampire smut turned murder mystery esque multi chaptered fic and I need feedback 🙃

I wanted to make Yuuji a reporter but I'm not convinced the golden retriever himbo would ask the hard hitting questions the way I had planned out. No hate, I love him so much, I just don't want it to become a case of "he wouldn't fucking say that" or having him be so OOC that it defeats the whole purpose.

Thoughts?

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the spirit is not willing and the flesh it is not so into the idea either