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I keep it cute. But you keep it active.

Stop that.

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Necessary is a big word for Elmo.

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Dont you think its necessary to mention that you are married in your Bio?

You stand corrected. I’m HAPPILY married. But for what? On a blog i do not post on, do not talk to anyone on. I’m not looking. Don’t be weird. AND everyone knows. Just like you did from reading my page.

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Coming up for air.

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I love love love to cook. It’s my strongest skill and my most valuable asset.

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Where is the start over button and does it take you back to 1990?

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The connection we share(d) - revisits me every so often.

I love it there.

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Aww no you combed your locs out? Love your hair either way 🥰

No. I didn’t.

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And every day you must make peace with the process-

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Serious question. I don't mean to offend or anything. Simply trying to understand and mature. You're obviously very beautiful. There is nothing wrong with taking pictures of course. But how do you handle it? As beautiful as you're every picture attracts a single strong minded man considering you're a high quality woman in my opinion. By that I mean you attract the worst and the best of men. How is that for your hubby and you. Obviously it's not just about you, so tell me both sides if you don't mind queen. 🌹❤️

🤍 good question I wish this was not anonymous so I could answer directly so that I can be way more candid. However, I will give a quick synopsis of the process. Before I met my husband, I worked really hard on my discernment. I absolutely always know the intentions of someone when they reach out to me. I understand myself and I prioritize my boundaries in all of my interactions. Not just with myself, but on my social conduct, on my social perception , and I don’t allow myself to be put into situations that will cheapen really strong and fluid bond my husband and I organically have. I think many people who lack  self-control, can easily forget that just because something looks or even feels good does that mean it is good for you. I truly believe that if any man was worth taking seriously before I met my husband, I would have found him and took him seriously. This is the Internet and once you remove your( not you per se but the collective us) self-worth being indoctrinated in this world of fictional nonfiction… lol it gets easier to separate the fiction from reality and when you choose to live in reality, you really get to understand and value what is right in front of you. So nothing else really doesn’t even matter.

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I’m reporting anyone sending me sexually suggestive messages or dick pictures to this blog. The fact you can’t receive a pretty person without violating them is fucking insane. I’m not a sex blog. I don’t LIKE nor WANT any type of attention or sexual attention from ANYone on tumblr. I am spoken for and you WILL respect me for such.

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Are you single ?

No. I am very happily married actually.

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There's this lifestyle website, if you're not on it then somebody is using your pictures...

Lol say hi. Don’t be shy. Lol.

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Don’t sweat the technique.

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Happy Wife-Life

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Guess who started writing again…

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My birthday was two weeks ago— cheers to 34 years!