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Hey. Minors following me. Internet safety is key!! NEVER include these in your bio/byf:

Medical diagnoses - this is nobody's business but yours. You don't owe anyone an explanation for why you are the way that you are

Trauma - same reason as above

Triggers - people can use these against you! Don't give people tools to hurt you. No one has to know what tags you block. Just block tags to stay safe!

Age - age is okay for adults to include but is iffy when you're a teen. Predators want this information, don't give people more than they need. Just state that you're a minor, that's all that anyone needs to know.

In general: stay safe. If you're not comfortable with every stranger out there having access to this information, you shouldn't post it on the internet.

Play devil's advocate and ask yourself about what would happen if someone searched for your information with intent to hurt you. You do NOT owe anyone an explanation!

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I really like this website because somebody will be like “there’s nothing wrong with darting out from behind a parked car into traffic, bootlicker” and you can be like okay this clearly evolved from a valid point about how the US is too car-centric. But something happened to it.

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Problem with discussions about Tumblr Sexymans is that it was an observation made regarding the trends of the characters Tumblr gets obsessed with and now that we're aware of the concept it's not the same. Way too many people are actively looking for the next Tumblr sexyman or stretching the concept so that their favorites fit into it. The awareness hinders the natural development of new Tumblr sexyman

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I was at a counter-protest and I experienced something strange. I experienced how t*rfs treat trans men first hand.

Being a butch transwoman broke their minds, so they assumed I was transmasc. (We can always tell lmao)

When they did their entire game changed. They went from screaming death threats and insulting every inch of my body to cooing. Trying to get me to ‘come back’, to ‘stop mutilating myself.’ Why was I here? Didn’t I love women? Didn’t I love myself? Didn’t I see that my mind was poisoned and confused? Didn’t I see that these men had made me hate myself and run from my womanhood?

Holy shit y’all I was ready to draw blood. I have never been so condescended to in my life. I have NEVER, even as a child, felt so infantilized. I would have honestly preferred the limp dick sexual predator insults.

Anyway, yeah. My brothers, you have my full support and I’ve gotten a taste of what you have to put up with.

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maybe the "people are using chatgpt for therapy/social connection" conversation should pivot a little less on the "using chatgpt damages your Immortal Soul forever and also makes you a lazy socially inept invalid" discussion point and more on the "nobody has anyone real to talk to who won't either accuse them of 'traumadumping' or charge them $200 an hour and then have them detained and medically abused the first time they express an uncomfortable sentiment" thing

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Why does like every language do things with their R sounds that nobody else understands

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hi trans people in my phone. The life expectancy of trans people is not 35. That is the average age of Brazilian transmisogyny affected murder victims, taken from crime data from the early 2010s. Brazilian trans women also usually live longer than 35 years; this data comes solely from the subset of trans women who are murdered, and does not account for the majority of Brazilian trans women. Murder victim age averages are not a good proxy for overall life expectancy even of the same demographic group. Take a deep breath. You have a future. Start planning for it.

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what the hell is going on

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it's kinda weird and very telling how often sex tourism and racism goes completely unmentioned in discussions about chasers.

like there's a strong idea of what a chaser is to white girls in rich countries but like....you go on literally any given chaser forum and it's guys talking about how much they love visiting south east asia.... or about bringing girls from south east asia over to the US, or targeting girls from south east asia in the US. the racialised element and how it relates to imperialism goes really jarringly unmentioned.

I mean just fucking look at what US soldiers keep fucking doing and getting away with! that's not "less important" because it's happening to girls in the Philippines or Thailand instead of Sydney or New York.

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The girlfriends🌿🌼

Sapphic flag version under cut (I wasn't sure how I felt about it but I still wanted to include it)

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I just don’t get it. How can our society act so goddamned normal about seahorses. How can anybody so casually accept that that’s a fish???

This is one of nature’s most anatomically perverse of all beasts. A FISH, like a carp or a bass or a beta is a fish, but it bent its body straight up only to bend its head permanently back down. It stretched its skull into a pipe. It tapered its tail like a lizard, specifically like a chameleon. It can also move its eyes independently by the way, you know, like a chameleon. Fun fact, it can change color to express its mood, like you know whatever does that. It doesn’t properly swim anymore. It buzzes its few remaining fins like an insect’s wings to float itself around at a snail’s pace. It lives its whole life clinging to coral branches or seaweed, which means it decided to become a “tree dweller” in an environment where gravity didn’t even matter anyway. The males get pregnant. They make noises at each other by rubbing some of their neck bones together. Every day, EVERY DAY a mated pair does a little dance and a little neck bone song so they remember which two seahorses they were. They’re a beautiful precious obscenity. Nothing so adorable ever made such a strong case against a logical creator.

They have as little skin and meat as they could get away with. Their skeleton is almost all they are.

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the statute of limitations is a law that says if something happened a while back you should be over it by now

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there is something so crazy and powerful about having art of your oc that was made by anyone other than yourself. like oh my god you actually exist outside of my own brain that's WILD