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Once you define it to yourself, there is always a way to it. Always.

—Abraham Hicks

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Everything starts from 𝙄𝙢𝙖𝙜𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣, aka everything starts from 𝑾𝒊𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏

When you imagine something and mentally accept it as yours, it becomes YOURS: 🪞

"I can imagine myself as a millionaire"

"I can imagine myself being in a healthy loving and committed relationship"

"I can imagine myself xyz"

"An assumption, though false, if persisted in, will harden into fact." - Neville Goddard

So if you can't believe that it's "possible", ITS OKAY, do this instead:

- Define your desire

- Decide that it's yours

- Accept that the creation is done

- There is no separation

You are not manifesting, you are BEING

Just how my beloved Neville says "when you plant the seed, let it grow" your concern shouldn't be

- "when and how"

bcs when you are satisfied with the root, you will find peace WITHIN

You ARE the UNIVERSE, experiencing itself

'As above, so below, as within, so without, as the universe, so the soul'

Examples:

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incorporating luxury⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🌺

this is a remake from one of my older posts in my newer style, im having a lot of run doing post remakes bcuz its a rly good way for me to display my old work to my newer audience, and add on ofc.

when u think of luxury, oftentimes we tend to think of materialistic things like expensive shopping sprees, expensive trips and brands. and although that is luxury, luxury isnt a solely materialistic thing.

luxury is abundance. luxury can be incorporated thru ur habits, the way that u hold and manage urself etc. u dont have to wait until u reach ur financial goals to live in luxury.

SET STANDARDS FOR URSELF ;

set a high standard for urself and the rest will follow. when u pour into urself the way that should, you'll literally exude luxury. luxury is synonymous with self care. when u care for urself the way that u should, and when u give urself princess treatment everyone else will too. treat urself RIGHT.

if u wanna live in luxury or be a luxurious girlie there are STANDARDS that ur environment should meet, the company that u choose to surround urself with, the thoughts in ur head etc. there is a new standard when u decide to live differently.

DECIDE AND DIRECT ;

once u decide what luxury means to you, direct ur focus towards that thing. for example if luxury to u means convenience and a fresh space, invest in organizational tools that'll make ur life more convenient. invest in candles and cleaning products etc. once u find out what luxury means to you -> direct ur money that way 

the idea behind this basically is whatever makes u feel the most luxurious or whatever adds luxury to ur life, u should identify it and aim to do that thing more often. that way u can familiarize urself with the luxury that u deserve.

BE INTENTIONAL ;

take ur time and slow down. take ur time to rly process and romanticize and enjoy ur life. experience it. give yourself time to sit with ur thoughts and ponder.

be choosy with everything, the people u surround urself with, the foods that u consume, the products that u use etc.

set aside time for urself to breathe and think about things that are interesting to you. also, choose the words that u say with intention, do everything intentionally to truly EXPERIENCE.

ADAPT A MINDSET OF ABUNDANCE ;

think as IF. nothing is too good for u and u only deserve the best that life has to offer so why wouldn't you let urself experience that? change the way that u think and the rest will follow.

MANIFEST things that are favorable to u. dont ever come from a place of lack. so stop saying things like "i can't afford this" instead say, this doesn't serve me right now i can do x,y, and z instead.

DO AFFORDABLE THINGS IN LUXURY PLACES ;

physically place urself in an abundant area. for example, go to a pretty cafe in an affluent area and do some work there, get some tea or coffee. doing so literally puts u in a different space, and around different people.

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My sole purpose is to spend my adult life fulfilling my inner child. Whatever my inner child wants, she gets.

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Womanhood Tip 10?:Never let your elders “little girl” or bully you

Many elders try to intimidate or humiliate you in order to feel better about themselves. Supervisors. Aunts. Mothers.

Respect is earned and some of them are undeserving.

Learn the art of knowing when to stay silent and when to speak up for yourself.

Remember when we talked about Law #9 -Win Through Actions, Not Arguments?

Set a boundary & send a reminder: you are not a child even if you’re somebody’s child. You’re an adult, a woman and would be treated no less than. Carry yourself as such.

Learn how to be “nice nasty” (i.e. a professional read)

Master eye contact

Put some bass in your voice. You sound whiny when arguing with “your man”. Practice deepening, lowering and tweaking your voice to adjust your pitch

Never hesitate to walk away in the middle of someone talking.

This post is specifically for my (darkskinned, non racially ambiguous) black women working in corporate settings with condescending Caucasians. Bullies (or narcs) test their victim’s boundaries before attacking them. They’re looking for signs of weakness.

Show them confidence instead

You need to speak up for yourself. Have that “diva” “serious” “bitch”reputation. You’ve earned respect, not cool points.

Btw, how are you doing? Let’s catch up

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Random Adult Tips

Please use coupons when you can.

When touring places to live in, make sure there’s enough outlets in each room/space (to charge electronics, for the tv, desktop, etc.)

Check your eggs before grabbing them

DO NOT finance your first few phones or cars. Everyone around you will, but do not bite the fruit. Ownership is the best flex.

Learn how to preserve your produce

Invest in a deep freezer, if you can

Have a (living) will in place. You will attend the funeral of your friends and families who did not have their affairs in order prior to their passing. Do not be one of them.

Check Family Dollar/ Dollar General before spending at your local supermarkets. Most likely whatever you’re looking for is there & cheaper (even a few cents)

You never need matches until you need matches. Have a stash of matches.

Learn how to change a tire and start a fire

It is very easy to fall behind on your physical exams as an adult. Do not slack with your dentist appointments or your primary care physician.

It’s most likely “jasmine” rice you’re looking for, if you’re looking for the rice that you likely grew up eating. Not regular white rice (I’ve made this mistake)

Don’t be annoying, but learn how to negotiate. Even your apartment rent can be negotiated (not so much corporate companies). Closed mouths don’t get fed

Our favorites turn out to be assholes, sometimes. Or they go out of business. You never want to be stuck having to try someone completely new, therefore have a rotation of go-to spots (hair, nails, coffee, etc.)

Do not hesitate to utilize free resources in your neighborhood. This can be food drives, legal aid (I needed this when I had landlord issues!) or pet services like vaccines! Always try to save money when you can

The first two things you need before you turn 19 are a safety deposit box and a P.O. Box.

Find time for your faith and/or cultural traditions

Unless you have to, do not stop at big chain supermarkets (ALDIs, Whole Foods, Key Foods, etc.). Try to get your fruit from street vendors (if your city has something like that) and your meat from the butcher/meat market.

Do not bother buying IKEA furniture unless it’s something you plan on using for at least the next ten years (like a mirror, something you can put in a guest bedroom eventually) Go to estate sales and invest in high quality furniture that’ll last you years.

Have a habit of donating your clothes. Keeping your closet clean and easy to get dressed in is very important as an adult.

Learn your rights. As a US citizen. As a worker. As a tenant. Your ignorance can always be used against you

Feel free to add your own. Each one, teach one.

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BE DELUSIONAL.

— It’s a secret key to success. ✨

"Your dreams will often seem crazy to others. But they aren't the ones who need to believe in them, you are. Have faith in your own madness. Dream so big it seems delusional to others. If they're not laughing at your dreams, then they're not big enough."

Every great dream begins with a dreamer, someone ready to reach for the stars and bet on themselves. This is the essence of delusion - a beautiful defiance of what is "realistic" or "expected". Recognize the golden power within you, your unique purpose that the universe has bestowed upon you. Hold it close, and carry it with humility, yet with unshakeable confidence.

Mistakes are not detours but stepping stones. Embrace them, for they are your greatest teachers, molding you into a stronger, wiser version of yourself. Let them be the chisels that carve your path to success.

Surround yourself with go-getters, those who see the invisible and strive for the impossible. Let their energy invigorate you, their ambition inspire you. Let your inner voice be a relentless motivator, a whisper that becomes a roar, pushing you forward, always forward.

Never wait for permission to chase your dreams. You have only one life, don't give the reins to anyone else. And remember, failure is not a dead end, it's just another beginning. If it doesn't work the first time, gather your courage, dust off the disappointment and try again.

Life is not a sprint, it's a marathon. The quality of the journey matters more than the pace. Every experience, every interaction, every moment is a chance to learn and grow. Keep your mind open, your heart willing.

Be delusional. Believe in the seemingly impossible. It's crazy until it happens. And when it does, the world will stand in awe of what you've accomplished. So, dare to dream, dare to believe, dare to be delusional. Because in that delusion, lies the key to your success.

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persistence, repetition and more.

one common misconception that people believe in is that persistence equals repetition. this, however, isn’t true! persistence must not be confused with repetition, but rather persistent acceptance.

persistence.

to persist simply means to continue to "do" something despite difficulty, opposition or, how we would call it, circumstances. what you "do" is keep assuming a new reality for yourself and accepting it to be true no matter what. persistence, or in other words consistence, doesn’t mean repetition. it means ACCEPTANCE.

the purpose of persistence.

persisting doesn’t mean to think about your desire all the time, nor does it mean affirming a certain statement 24/7. you don't have to think of all the things you have manifested (consciously or subconsciously) for them to remain in your reality. they do not cease to exist just because you don't actively acknowledge them. so, why would you force yourself to think of something for it to materialise in your reality?

repetition.

repetition itself or doing a method repeatedly isn’t what manifests. a method cannot manifest, no matter how many times you do it. a method holds no power on its own. you, on the other hand, very much do. you allow a method to be useful and beneficial for you.

the purpose of repetition.

mindlessly repeating affirmations, scripting the same scene a couple of times or just generally doing one method over and over again won’t help you manifest your desire IF you don’t change SELF. if you don’t shift your state of being through methods, if it doesn’t help you believe in a new concept of self, if it doesn’t make you accept your desire as a present fact, then you can do the method as many times as you please — you will remain the same. a method's purpose in combination with how many times you practice it, is to help you ACCEPT.

remembrance.

you will naturally think of your desire. it will naturally pop up in your mind from time to time — especially if it's something you genuinely desire. the more you desire it, the more you will think of it, the more you will naturally remember it.

the purpose of remembrance.

when you think of your desire, when you are reminded of it, you tell yourself that you already have or are it. you go from thinking OF your desire to thinking FROM it. you fulfill yourself by giving your desire to yourself then and there and move on with your day. you don't need to continuously remind yourself of it but continue to persist in your ASSUMPTION. as long as you don't go back and change your mind (wavering), it's all good!

acceptance.

to accept something means to believe or know something to be true, correct or valid. it's a feeling. a feeling that makes you feel if something is real or unreal. our general understanding of feeling is equivalent to accepting, as well as knowing, believing or assuming. they all refer to the same. you accept something to either be true or false, therefore you FEEL it to be so. all of this takes place in imagination. to accept also means to imagine. it means to think.

the purpose of acceptance.

through acceptance, we can change self. acceptance enables us to believe new, desired conceptions about ourselves to be true. through acceptance, you can accept new convictions of self and reality.

whenever you feel desire, try to accept it. accept it as yours. accept it in its fullness. accept it entirely and completely. focus on the state of having your desire. embody your desire, identify with it. become the version of self who has or is your desired thing. know your assumption to be true. fulfill and satisfy self from within. experience the ACCEPTANCE of the wish fulfilled.

with love, ella.

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+*:ꔫ:*﹤ Speak it. Sing it. Shout it. Make your affirmations known. Repeat those affirmations until you can’t remember there was ever an old story. Push those doubts to the side and stand firm in your affirmations. Refuse to back down until you have exactly what you want because we do NOT settle for less. ﹥*:ꔫ:*+ﾟ

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the duality of self.

when neville was referring to us humans as gods of our realities, he meant it. not only was he referring to our abilities — which are god-like — he was also talking about our existence as god.

human in reality.

in this outer world, this physical place, you are human — god in the human body. the reason why you are a human in physical form is the same reason why everything around you is physical as well. it’s because you are CONSCIOUS of it. your consciousness creates… everything. pretty much everything. therefore, the reason why you experience life as a human is because you are CONSCIOUS of being human. we could take a step further and say that the same goes for your entire 3D. it is also a byproduct of your imagination, just like your physical body. perceiving the world with your senses, having these senses in the first place is all possible due to imagination.

god in imagination.

if the five senses — smelling, tasting, touching, hearing, seeing — are your natural human senses, what about god's natural sense? god's sense is IMAGINING. for god, there is only one sense and it’s the ability to create. to have the power to create the world according to your imaginative acts in your own imagination is your most natural sense. it’s in your nature to create. all because IMAGINATION is your true reality, just like GOD is your true self.

the god and human self.

so, when neville calls you the GOD of your reality, he is pointing at your imagination. yourself, in imagination, is god. your imagination is god. your consciousness is god. your awareness of being is god. it’s not your human body in flesh and blood. you don’t need to convince yourself that your human self possesses the same qualities as your god self. your body, if you like it or not, isn’t your true self. it is a creation of you, god in imagination. it’s a conception of the conceiver. and the conceiver is forever greater than its conception.

you are god. and besides you, there is no other.

with love, ella.

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faith in the unseen.

most of the times, we tend to get lost in our physical world. we are overwhelmed by the things we perceive and discern through our five senses. so, how do we build faith in our imagination? how can we trust our mind's ability to create? how do we believe in the unseen?

your imaginative creations.

you can be assured that imagination is real because everything around you is. everything around you — your bed, your books, your house, your town, and so on — is a creation, including your human existence. the things around you exist because of your imaginative acts. imagination creates reality.

limited human perception.

if your mind is capable to create all the things around you, all the things you haven’t even consciously thought of, people you have never seen, places you haven’t been to so far, an entire solar system which is beyond "human understanding", why would you assume that your mind may have a hard time materialising your desires? what's there that is just "too much" to demand? there is no task that is "too difficult" for your mind to master. your desires, in the end, can be imagined and therefore created — just like everything else in your world.

the mind’s power.

just because you don’t know how something looks like or you haven’t seen something or experienced it with your human senses, it does not mean that it doesn’t exist. just because you aren’t consciously thinking of the republic of cuba or able to perceive it, it is not going to suddenly vanish from the face of earth. cuba — just like many other countries — continues to exist because of your ability to IMAGINE. your human senses may be limited, whereas your god sense (IMAGINING) isn’t!

god's limitless perception.

in your mind, you are limitless. you can think of anything, you can visualise anything, you can relive and experience any scenario you'd like. no one can stop nor police nor limit you. you are in full control. you are in complete charge. even when you don’t imagine, you do. you never really stop imagining because you never really stop thinking, even subconsciously! you never stop manifesting so what makes you doubt the power, YOUR power, in imagination?

with love, ella.

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Life is a flower, and love is the honey of the flower.💚