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"harassment is bad, but its okay if they-"

nope🚨 wrong 🚨 incorrect buzzer sfx🚨 harassment is Never a good thing

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antishippers in ao3: INCEST SHIPPING FREAKS DO NOT FUCKING INTERACT!!!!!!!!!!!!

the first fics on ao3: incest

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i love being a proshipper i have so much more room for joy and more energy to take care of others when im not exhausting myself over fictional characters and being angry at my self for having thoughts

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I think it's funny (but more annoying) that so many people want proship as a concept to be related to other things that are neither FICTIONAL nor SHIPPING related.

You could say "I'm a proshipper!" And then it's like

"what about radqueers?" That's real life

"what about transid?" That's real life

"what about pro/neu/anti contact paras?" That's real life

"what about shtwt/edtwt?" That's real life

"what about TCC?" THAT'S REAL LIFE???????

Since when do people want to lump FICTIONAL SHIPS with real life, leave me alone

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istg i'll see ppl say shit like "im fine with media depicting abuse/rape/whatever as long as it isnt glorifying/romanticizing it" then turn around and say cannibalism is a metaphor for love and that murder conveys devotion. i hate to inform you but youre romanticizing violence

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HOW is me saying "don't tell ppl, especially MINORS to sh/kts" CONTROVERSIAL?!

Like idgaf if they're a pro/com/dark shipper or radqueer. People don't deserve fucking death threats. KIDS SHOULDN'T BE TOLD THEY DESERVE TO DIE. STOP TELLING KIDS TO HARM THEMSELVES.

Y'all are genuinely so hypocritical and disgusting Lucifer doesn't even know what to do with you. "Mental health Matters!!" Until it comes to a severely traumatized minor in an abusive house they can't escape. Until that child was groomed into thinking that way. Until that child is using any form of escapism to survive. Until that minor doesn't know right from wrong. Until it's not cute and quirky.

You guys encourage sh, sui, and even ræp despite being "mental health advocates"

All about acceptance until we become too mcuh

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”ew kids will see this fanfic and think that abuse is normal” we are not babysitters.

If you expect me to babysit your kid, I expect ample payment.

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proship culture is wondering how the fuck you get put before neo nazis on a dni list

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Antis have this misconception that implies they can spot a groomer if they like xyz media or if they’re a proshipper or if they like taboo fiction and I’m begging them to drop it now because that’s not what grooming is and this is not helping 

Grooming is a specific manipulation tactic which is usually carried out by an adult against a minor, but grooming can happen to anyone at any age, even to adults! 

grooming is not a proshipper/kinkster or anyone else existing on tumblr or social media without bothering anyone, grooming is when an adult befriends a minor very quickly and starts isolating them from their friends and family 

grooming is not someone making their kink fantasies public (with proper tagging), grooming is when an adult talks to a minor about intimate details of their life, their sexual relationships, sends this minor adult content to “warn” them about it, slowly desensitises them to it or if they call this minor “mature for their age” 

Even if we lived in a world where taboos in fiction and people glorifying them didn’t exist, it wouldn’t stop grooming from happening. Abusers will and can use anything to get close to their victim, movies, books, candy, tv shows - or even toys

grooming is always a pattern of specific actions and behavior and it’s important to realize this, to call these things out, stop focusing on the tool someone used because they’re not important, tools are replaceable even 

also, it is never the fault of the victim that they were groomed. It is always the fault of the person who takes or took advantage of them. 

This.

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Someone called me a pedophile and told me to kill myself just because I said that being into fiction doesn't make you a pedophile. Hm. And they say that proshippers are the fucked up ones.

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i love stimboards so much!! ♡

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"So this character is like completely evil, right?"

"Yep. He's killed dozens of people for selfish reasons and is trying to become more and more powerful. But the fandom loves him lol."

"I'm going to write him being evil."

"Wtf is wrong with you?! You're sexualzing and normalizing and gloryfing that illegal and harmful thing!"

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"But what if a child sees your post and thinks that the stuff you depict in it is okay to do irl" is a common argument I see against darkshipping. However, it's still not a valid argument for several reasons.

The first is that if a child has social media, they should already know what is wrong and right to do in real life, especially because they're 13 or older.

"But what if they're under 13 and/or don't know it's bad!" First off, people shouldn't have to censor their content for people who shouldn't even be on this platform.

Now, if you're 13 or older and you don't know that things like incest, pedophilia, ect is wrong to do in real life, your parents failed you. Not teaching your child about these things at an age appropriate level puts them in more danger of being abused because they don't know that what being done is bad so they won't know to report it to an adult.

Okay, that's it. I hope everyone has a pawsome day!

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Your F/O will never leave you!

🩷 Your romantic F/O only has eyes for you! Ever since you two got together, they've always had you on their mind, constantly

🪽 Your smile, your voice, your eyes... Everything about you is perfect to them. They'll never need or want anyone else, because no one else could ever even compare to how perfect you are.

🩷 Your platonic F/O is grateful to be your best friend! The connection and bond you two have is unlike anything else

🪽 They're thankful that you trust them enough to create so many powerful memories together, and they're just as thankful that they can trust you like that too. You're the best friend they could've asked for and they'll do everything in their power to make your life better!

🩷 Your familial F/O is proud to have you as their family! They love and care about you more than they may let on and they'd do anything to keep you safe and happy

🪽 They're glad to have someone they can rely on and who trusts them as much as you do. Life can be hard and lonely sometimes, but they hope you know that they'll always have your back, through thick and thin! Regardless if you're bound by blood or not, you're their family and they'll always hold you close to their heart and soul!

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haiiiiii I want to ask some questions if that's okay!!

I hear too many definitions from proshipping from so many different people I'm genuinely over my head confused and have no idea what it is TwT

so if you don't mind, could you explain it to me? I'm not an anti, just very curious (if you don't want to that's okay!!)

heh ... i love informing people its okay anon .... never apologize for seeking education !!!!!

proship ... get rid of any other ideal in your head tbh . proship is just

! anti-harassment

! anti-censorship

! pro-ship/fiction (as in . ship whatever u want in fiction)

! pro ... scroll if u dont like and use the block button if u get uncomfy at ANYTIME !! this is the internet guys u can just . boop . its gone

so generally .... profic/proship is just fandom culture lol

pro-ship is different from darkship [taboo ships, such as incest, adult and minor, intense power dynamics]

or comships [legal age gap, interspecies] .

darkship and comship is proship but proship is not inherently darkship and comship . thanks