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stop liking and rbing this its 2021 now yall have had time to figure this shit out and can go on does the dog die. this rlly should b a dead post. it was warning ppl bc of how the movie was advertised before coming out in august of *2018* yall still interacting is fucking weird. 

the miseducation of cameron post

hey guys in case you havent heard already this movie is coming out in august. and the main character is a lesbian. which is great and i read this book as a kid and it was pretty good but i definitely shouldnt have read it when i did. please please please make sure that you are mentally prepared before going to watch this movie. the movie is about a girl whos sent to conversion therapy and its not happy. if they follow the books plot there is not an actual happy ending theres a kinda bittersweet ending but its definitely not happy. this movie is going to be depressing and dark and sad and it is going to be a hard movie to watch and i want to make sure ppl are prepared for it. there are a lot of blogs posting about it and going “go see this movie!! it has lesbian representation!!” which is true but kinda dangerous? my best friend and i read the book when we were like 14 and both of us have agreed that the movie will be too much for us to watch even as 19 year olds. if youre looking for a fun gay movie with a lesbian character its not this.

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I will not tell u what u can or cannot do it's not my place. But it's aave. Calling a random stranger sis in a "sassy" way is aave. I'm amazed that ur on Tumblr and yet had to look up what aave meant. Please get outside of ur all white facist friendly circles sometimes and maybe ull learn something. Anyway I'm not gonna explain shit to u uve proven far to brainwashed for me to know how to help u. Have a fun meme though.

cis opinions on who is or isnt trans are irrelevant because cis people will never be able to actually understand what trans people go through.

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yeah ur right yknow doctors *are* right when they tell black ppl theyre faking. or tell women that theyre overreacting. or tell trans women who wore a pair of pants to one appointment that theyre not really trans and dont need hormones or surgery. sorry. my bad. they were super right when the doctor who saw my boyfriend who literally almost fucking died of chlorine poisoning said that he was completely fine. 

in mean. at this point yknow. cops are always right too. they never shoot innocent civilians. the united states justice system works and rehabilitates ppl instead of just using prisons as a new form of slavery. we dont have facists in our government. climate change is fake. capitalism is good and saving the planet. 

doctors are bigoted and often wrong. im not gonna google it for u and give u links to it bc thats a waste of my time since u obviously dont have the fucking reading comprehension to understand them in the first place. literally like?? if u havent heard of doctors being wrong incredibly fucking often i dont know where uve been living. go talk to a trans woman once or something. make friends who arent white. 

cis opinions on who is or isnt trans are irrelevant because cis people will never be able to actually understand what trans people go through.

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im so tired of everything being infantilized like i fucking Get It but also ur a part of the fucking problem.

like its in. everything. i have high emotions bc im mentally ill and thats me being a child. bc yknow. emotions are only for those silly kids. i stim bc im nd and thats me being a child bc everyone magically stops having autism and adhd at 18. i use neopronouns and dont actually mind the term enby or datemate or joyfriend and thats me being a child bc if u havent had the soul crushed out of u till u were complacent and only used “okay” aka already existent (as if neopronouns havent existed for decades) words u must be a child. if u like pink. or have nostalgia for things from ur childhood. or like cartoons. or ect ect ect u have to be a fucking kid bc how dare u enjoy things as an adult dont u know were supposed to all be completely apathetic. 

im so sick of it!!! just leave ppl the fuck alone!! mind ur own fucking business if its not harming anyone. if its someone bringing something inherently tied to children into sexual settings then u get to draw the line. but when were not. maybe fuck off thanks xoxo

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@imnotsuspiciousshh gatekeeping. in the medical community. is terrible. trans ppl die every year bc they cannot access the resources they need to transition bc of gatekeeping. trans women specifically. talk about being turned down for hormones and surgery bc they dont wear a dress or makeup to a single appointment. so no. cis ppl dont know shit they just like to play god. 

the old trans ppl will tell u that one but theyll have much more emotions in it bc those are their trans siblings. their friends. who died. 

doctors in general? are bigoted as fuck and often wrong. u kinda have to figure shit out for urself in order to get proper help. dont fucking talk to me about this shit im tired of it u can see me say the same thing to many other ppl in the notes. doctors. are fatphobic. and racist. and sexist. and ableist. and cruel. my boyfriend nearly died this year bc a doctor looked at him while he had fucking chlorine poisoning and told him he was fine and to go home. 

yknow what does help trans ppl though? informed consent. then they are actually the ppl in control of their own bodies. wow. 

cis opinions on who is or isnt trans are irrelevant because cis people will never be able to actually understand what trans people go through.

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then make a different post. make a post talking specifically about the infantilization of nonbinary ppl and dont just fucking talk about oh words like joyfriend as that word is only going around bc a minor on twitter was honestly asking if ppl had heard of it bc they were enjoying it.

words that nonbinary ppl make up for themselves are not why were being infantilized. viewing new words that have nothing to do with children as inherently infantilizing adds to it and does not help in any fucking way. im sorry ur 34 and no longer feel joy around ur partner but the word joy is in no way more infantilizing than boy or girl. 

im so fucking tired of every time a nonbinary person creates a new word to use for their specific experience everyone has to jump on it and be like this is infantilizing this is bad this is awful. just because somethings cute doesnt make it inherently infantilizing like god ppl call their partners baby and babe all the time and no one says thats inherently infantilizing. no one has a problem with honey and sugar and sweetie and bear and love and darling and dear and ect ect ect. those are cute. 

if u wanna talk about the infantilization of the nonbinary community which is an issue. i will admit to that. i have dealt with it myself. do it by making a fucking post about *that* and dont throw words made by nonbinary people for nonbinary people under the fucking bus while doing it. 

im 20. i can do fun things like go to the doctor and pay rent and have a job and oh my fucking god have sex. and i can do all of those while still being referred to as a joyfriend or a datemate. or using neopronouns. or being called an enby instead of an nb bc nb also stands for nonblack. or whatever the fuck is inherently infantilizing next week for no reason other than some fucking person online decided it was an everyone went with it. 

the only reason words like that arent viewed as inherently infanitlizing are bc ppl like u say so. and u get so offended by the idea that these words could be a nonbinary thing. im 20 and i pay for things and i fuck and im nonbinary and i use neopronouns and i like terms like joyfriend and datemate. and none of those things are contradictory. there shouldnt be any connotations around those words bc theyre new they have existed before we get to form what they mean but yall on here wont leave nonbinary ppl who like them be. 

tldr: theres nothing inherently infantilizing about joyfriend im sorry that u all are too bitter and unhappy to look at that word and go oh its a play off of boyfriend and joy is a feeling that my partner gives me so the word makes sense. i dont like it but theres nothing wrong with it. 

and yes i realize im yelling a lot here and this is not all your fault and your intentions werent to do all of that. but u are included in a lot of it and u decided to put that ur 34 so im gonna hold u to that and say u should know better. and no this post doesnt make a ton of sense. its not coherent and its not nice. bc im not a politician. im someone whos exhausted and just wants to be allowed to exist in peace. 

everyone be like how can i infantilize nonbinary people today

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you can but i can tell you to fuck off and that ur an idiot who didnt read my original post properly and therefore missed the entire fucking point all while trying to act smarter than me. i also can fucking block you bud i just wanted to give u a chance to realize u were fucking wrong and to shut the fuck up first.

cis opinions on who is or isnt trans are irrelevant because cis people will never be able to actually understand what trans people go through.

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god ur sooo smart. you really got me there. no one else had brought up that idea in the 4k notes this post had. /s

its not like doctors are ever wrong. its not like theres an epidemic of doctors gatekeeping things from trans ppl and being wrong. its not like doctors have a tendency to refuse to treat u like a human being if ur a minority. /s

im a system bud no ones ever gonna let me have hormones or surgery or anything. its nearly impossible for a system to get that shit bc guess what. doctors are bigoted and wrong all the fucking time.

cis opinions on who is or isnt trans are irrelevant because cis people will never be able to actually understand what trans people go through.

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sure. they can have them. im not gonna fucking climb in someones brain to figure out what theyre thinking. thats obviously not what this post is about. but they sure as fuck should keep them to themselves and not try to act like they get to decide whos a valid trans person or not.

cis opinions on who is or isnt trans are irrelevant because cis people will never be able to actually understand what trans people go through.

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cis opinions on who is or isnt trans are irrelevant......

thats what my post says. so sure. i cant tell a cis person theyre not cis and that i know them better than they know themself. if u can point me to a whole movement of trans ppl telling cis ppl that they cannot be cis and telling them theyre terrible for faking being cis and such thatd be great. otherwise dont comment on my fucking post.

cis opinions on who is or isnt trans are irrelevant because cis people will never be able to actually understand what trans people go through.

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@chiquitadave ty so much!!! that was exactly who i was looking for

hey quick q anyone remember an exclu named ray im trying to find his blog but i just cant seem to remember his url?

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hey quick q anyone remember an exclu named ray im trying to find his blog but i just cant seem to remember his url?

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trans people don’t have to earn being gendered correctly thanks

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yeah he said in a later interview that saying that he was bi was "the biggest mistake (he) ever made" and that he was straight.

‪Just saw a tweet reffering to David Bowie and Freddie Mercury as gay… ‬

‪They were both Bi. Bisexual. Not Gay. They were Bi. ‬

‪And they both said so multiple times. ‬

Stop erasing Bisexuality. Pretty sure we’re real.

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Male and female brains aren’t wired differently

New research, published in October in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, concluded that despite size discrepancy, there’s no functional difference between men’s and women’s brains. “Male” brains and “female” brains simply don’t exist. In fact, there’s significant overlap.

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associating lesbians solidly and solely with transmisogynist radfems is exactly what said transmisogynist radfems want what are yall fuckin doing