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A dating service where matching is based on people’s search history exists. You’re a serial killer. You go on a date with a writer.

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I saw this on FB today and I wanna try and express something about it. Like, you know the curbcutter effect? Where when curbcuts are put in it benefits everyone (bicyclists, people with baby strollers etc) and not just disabled people?

There is also whatever the opposite of the curbcutter effect is. And this is that.

This isn't just anti-adhd/autism propaganda... this is anti-child propaganda.

Kids have developmentally appropriate ways that they need to move their bodies and express themselves and sitting perfectly still staring straight ahead is not natural or good for ANY CHILD.

Don't get me wrong, I was punished unduly as a kid for being neurodivergent (and other types of kid will ALSO be punished unduly for it... Black kids come to mind) and thus UNABLE to perform this -- but even the kids who ARE able to perform this type of behavior are not SERVED WELL by it. They don't benefit from it.

This is bad for everyone.

The idea that bc some kids may be capable of complying with unfair expectations, those expectations don't hurt them... is a dangerous idea. Compliance isn't thriving. Expectation of compliance isn't fair treatment.

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I’m sorry but I need to ask

Is that The Ruby of the Sea? :D

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Mmmmmhhh love when I find out that thinspo blogs are reblogging mine and SP's content

Low-key trying to stop myself relapsing bc I don't wanna be like that again

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SP makes me so happy I had work early this morning and they accidentally stayed up all night so they woke me up and made me breakfast and cup of tea so I didn't have to rush I love them!!!!!

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I keep looking at places where sp lives bc we wanna move in together and there's so many 2 bed houses and I just keep imagining us having a cute like office space where they can do their mini painting and I can do cosplay stuff and

I just wanna live with them and be like cute and domestic and have a lil vegetable garden with them

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I miss my partner so much and I want to live with them and spend all my time being held and kissed and told that I'm beautiful and it is frankly homophobic that I'm not

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I spent the evening hanging out with sp and it was so nice to just hang out and wander around London and we sat on a bench and talked nonsense for a while and I just missed them soooo much

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I hate my brain!!!!!!!!

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SP keeps offering for me to move in with them and it sounds so good but it scares me to think of committing like that like I love them but I'm also worried that I might hate them if I moved in (even tho that's so dumb bc I stay there all of the time and for like a week usually and I love being with them)

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I like that “morning baby” kinda relationship. The no games, great communication, lots of sex, lots of kissing, lots of cuddling, lots of flirting, lots of being goofy kind of relationship. That makes you want to run 100 miles, read books, clean up your bad habits kind of love.

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Me and SP are heading to Glasgow for a job meeting and we're planning on going to some cool places while we're there and Im so excited and they've said we're on a have some great fanfic sex

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SP said yesterday when I was leaving that they think abt me all of the time and they're so sweet and I love them so much

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i love marisha's announcement voice

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Me and SP did that picrew thing where you design yourself and your partner and the designed me super cozy and comfy and I love them sm