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Wig Stuff

Sometimes (many times) u have to pluck ur parting. Use tweezers.. Using ur hands heightens the chance of ripping the lace

Concealer on ur parting for blending purposes

Razor combs are ur friend for trimming down bulk and “wiggy looks” (unless thats what ur going for). Also, if u want no leave out, u can make baby hair with razor combs with ease

Fabric dye/tint works wonders for dark skinned people who want to blend the lace color with their skin (or scalp if u have leaveout)

Sew an elastic band from ear to ear inside a full lace/lace front to keep the hairline from lifting

Simple, but wash ur wig when u get it in a solution of vinegar and warm water followed by shampoo (ESPECIALLY SYNTHETIC HAIR!!! THE FIBERS ARE COATED IN ALKALINE FLAME RETARDANT MATERIAL THAT IRRITATES THE SCALP. FOLLOW THE SAME PROCEDURE FOR BRAIDING HAIR).

If u want to straighten or curl a synthetic unit, wet it first. The water creates a protective barrier which keeps the fibers from melting

Take care of the hair underneath and try to get a satin cap instead of a nylon one. Nylon is drying (u can make it work with nylon tho.. Just moisturize often)

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Men are visual period!

I don’t care how ugly he is. How far he maybe. If he’s old or his breath stink… Men are visual period and unfortunately we live in a really shallow world…. So I will share some tips that helped improved my sugaring experience significantly.

1. Weight- is a touchy subject I’m a black woman and currently I’m only dealing with black men. Most black men do prefer SOME thickness but there is a fine line. My goal is to be slim enough to attract those who don’t necessarily prefer the thickness while still being thick enough to sustain those who prefer it. It’s a weird medium but it’s important.

2. Hair- invest in yourself, initially it maybe difficult but if you’re working (which I recommend) then save up and buy some premium extensions there’s a difference between Aliexpress extensions and good grade A extensions. Invest in some good bundles now and you’ll be set for a minute. Most men prefer long hair. The Kardashian look, there are some men college educated Barack Obama type that may prefer your natural hair. That’s why I make units so I can be versatile. Some corporate black men may look at the 30 inch extensions as being too much. Those are the guys that prefer a nice wrap. I’m able to be that girl as well. But if you’re just starting I would invest in bundles first because most men want the sex kitten over the witty college educated girl. You should be able to get a feel of what type of man your dealing with.

3. Nails- I don’t wear acrylic nails. Although I’m a little rough around the edges I prefer to wear my natural nails. So I get a manicure with gel polish and pedicure or polish change biweekly. I’ve had Pot’s pay for this to reduce my monthly out of pocket expense. Nail and feet care is very important men are visual they see that shit.

4. Makeup- my taste in makeup has changed I use to do the crazy Eyeshadow colors but now I don’t wear eyeshadow at all or if I do it’s a smokey eye or something. I like the natural look. I wear foundation and conclear to balance out my imperfections and mascara and black liner for bottom lashes a highlight and a nude or pink lip. That’s my everyday natural but still beautiful makeup no makeup look. If I want to jazz it up I’ll do a smokey eye or a bold red lip. I suggest investing in your makeup bc again men are visual get a good foundation I enjoy Mac Matchmaster or Estée Lauder Doublewear, I love Nars concealer and I mix it with Mac Pro longwear concealer. I set my under eyes with Laura Mercier setting powder and the rest of my face with smashbox photo primer. I use Mac giginback lash mascara for my bottom lashes. I go for a natural baby doll look. Ask for Giftcards to help with this expense..

5. Eyelashes- another part of my glow up was to invest in mink individual lashes. I got tired of struggle with those strips and yes they do look good. I found that it was a hit or miss for me. Some nights I could apply them straight and they would look great and other nights I looked as if I had a lazy eye or something. It was too much of a hassle and one thing about men is sometimes they want direct access to you. So you have to be ready. Also I want to wake up looking as pretty as I went to bed. So mink lashes are semi permanent and when he rolls over after a long night you still look somewhat how you did the night before and not bald eye. I honestly feel naked without lashes and investing in Mink lashes has transformed my look completely. They look more natural and again give me a soft black bombshell babydoll look. Mink lashes can be expensive but I do recommend getting a good groupon for your initial set you should be able to get a initial set and a 2 week refill for about $99…..I know that’s expensive for lashes but if you want 10k a month you have to invest in yourself first. You will have to maintain your lashes by getting them filled every 2-3 weeks which can cost $65-$75.

Clothing- men are visual, it’s okay to be sexy but keep it classy. I believe again it depends on the type of man you’re dating. There are some men who wants a woman to flaunt it all and those are typically the ones I steer clear from. Most of the men I date are corporate working men who are educated. So I’ll wear a sexy mini dress but pair it with a nice blazer. I do sometimes dress trendy but it all depends on where we are going. If it’s a nice dinner, I’ll wear a nice midi dress that’s compliments my shape but still appropriate for the environment. If we are going to the movies then I’ll wear a pair of forming fitting jeans and body suit that shows nice cleavage and a short cut jacket. The most important thing to keep in mind is that men are visual. Yes you wanna be sexy but stay classy. That’s my motto and it works for the type of guys I’m looking to attract and the quality of life I’m looking to live.

Your personality- okay you’ve successfully attracted a sugar daddy now here’s the hard part keeping them. I can tell you there’s, no sure proof way to keep a person in your life but I can tell you that are qualities that can help keep a few around. At the end of the day, you are dealing with a human being. You will have to invest yourself into this and show them your vulnerabilities. Not fully but a piece of you just so they know it’s real. Ultimately these men are really smart and they get that they have to pay to play but the difference between you and paying for a escort is you at least give an illusion that you actually like them. That’s it. So act interested listen to how his day went at work. I sometimes use my notepad to keep up with important information like their birthday or kids name. Just so I can keep the conversation going and when I ask how his kids is doing and uses her/his name he’s impressed that I remembered. I recommend taking a few notes especially if you’re juggling quite a few. I find that most men I date also prefer a hint of submissiveness they like to feel like a man but they don’t want a doormat again it’s one of those things that’s a fine line. No when to be aggressive and when he needs something a bit more soft. Men are hunters by nature and most prefer a soft feminine woman. Not a aggressive masculine man. So watch your language and although I am guilty for dropping a few f-bombs every now and again the men I deal with know I’m college educated and just still a tad bit rough around the edges and this is why I use them for practice to polish my craft. I’ve found when I have a nice airy personality witty yet sexy go with the flow no drama no worries fun girl type I’m more than likely to keep them around. Also some people do get bored quick some men prefer routine and what they know and some men you have to keep on there toes. So it’s important that you do things to keep things hot and steamy. This may mean not wearing panties and making sure he knows it to giving him head on the drive home or in a bathroom. Either way get creative spice it up and get him something to look forward to. Bc although men are visual to KEEP him you have to stimulate him mentally.

Practice- I strongly recommend before you pursue the big wigs that you practice now. Those Splenda daddies that always want to take you out. Go! Use them for practice on how you would act if that was actually the guy. Get versed with fine dining and the environment so you’re familiar. Practice with your Splendas on how to seduce them. Once you learn that it’s every mans goal to fuck you. You’ll realize that this is indeed a game and it’s eat or get eaten. I don’t care if he’s a 31 year old virgin don’t be surprise if he suddenly wants to lose his virginity to you because his ultimate goal is to fuck you. And most men will do anything to accomplish that goal. So sometimes I’ll entertain a Splenda for practice. Confidence is key so if you don’t have it get into the practice now by dating. I found the more I dated the more comfortable I was when out on a date. I got better at small talk, and everything that goes into that first meet. From picking the right restaurant to my table etiquette. To seducing a man by glaring into his eyes. Body language speeds volumes and my tip for this is fake it till you make it. Men tell me I’m beautiful all the time. I believe that now so that exudes from me when I’m in a room. I’ll do things like wink at them, constant flirting, maybe I’ll gracefully touch their hand innocently or rub their arm. It always looks innocent and unintentional but I know I’m sending shock waves through their cock. I like to wear a nude glossy lip. I know men hate kissing this so I don’t wear it when I know I’ll be making out but for those first dates and I need my DSL’s on fleet bc my goal is to plant a seed inside his brain on how great these lips with feel on his cock. So I play up the fullness of my lips. I challenge them by looking dead into there eyes and I normally think about sex to be honest. I’m a huge believer or vibes and energies so my aurora is always radiating sex and seduction that’s my main goal. So while we may talk about sports and work and his kids. It’s important that he still finds me sexually attracted bc I don’t want to be placed in the friend zone.

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I married my SD 5.31.18

So much has happened since I’ve posted here, I married my SD he’s since bought me a Benz and a 5 bedroom house. Not to mention he’s bought me numerous gifts , vacations and honestly set me up for life. I’m in a new tax bracket and my confidence has soared through the roof. I’m the smallest size I’ve ever been. However I must say I miss being that seductive woman that would lure men. I’ve somehow became this sloppy, not so seductive or classy mom and I want to change my persona. I want softness, gracefulness, poise, seductiveness. I find myself practicing this while in public- Men are so funny and simple they all think with their penis. From the VP of the company I work for, to my now husbands father and uncle. Their eyes are filled with lust, because a I’m so prettty and feminine it’s instinctual they cannot help it. Sometimes this drives my ego and other times it makes me feel weird. Anyway I’ve decided to use this blog as my diary to release this shit Some shit I can’t tell to anyone but need to express it

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How to Become His Dream Girl, Even if You’re Not (A Spoiled GF Guide)

so recently, within the past 2 months I have successfully become a spoiled gf, this (surprisingly) was a whole lot easier than I thought it would be, but using this technique (that I kind if made up) I broke it down into some simple steps :)

STEP ONE: Pick someone you wont mind spending a considerable amount of time with

- Realize that this isn’t a sugar daddy, this man wants to have a full on relationship with you, therefore you will be spending a large amount of time with him so you WILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH HIM. So just make sure that he is someone you can handle without wanting to strangle after 45 minutes.

STEP TWO: Charm the fuck out of him, then have him open up to you

- You have to make him want you, be alluring and kind. smile at him, laugh at his jokes, compliment him on shit that you might not even care about. Right now you are selling a prophecy, an introduction to a relationship. Make yourself sound as interesting as possible but leave him always wanting more, always have him talk about himself more than you talk about yourself. try to pick up on little things and get a read on his emotional status and how he chooses to react to certain situations, learn about him so you can mold yourself into his dream woman. Once he sees your “genuine” interest in him, he will start opening up to you and THIS is where you’ll really need to pay attention.

STEP THREE: Find out what intimate part of his life is missing

- THIS IS KEY LADIES AND GENTLEMAN!!! You will have to figure out what relationship related snippet is really missing. In my case my sugar boyfriend (ill call him T) was married for 10+ years and never really got what he wanted out of the marriage and was constantly lied to, but ended up staying on behalf of his 4 step kids. after getting divorced he dated a stripper who just used him for his money even though he supposedly had “genuine” feelings for her. After learning about his tragic love history I came to the conclusion that what he really needed out of a relationship was mutual affection and to feel valued. KEEP IN MIND, THIS STEP CAN TAKE A WHILE AND INCLUDES LOTS OF TRIAL AND ERROR. So after coming up with my hypothesis of the lack of value and affection, I decided to put it to the test and did 2 simple things in order to do so. first, while he was at work, I called him to see how his day was going. You would have thought I was god himself calling because he was so happy to hear from me and to hear that I was thinking about him and that I took the time out to call him and let him know that. Second, I cooked him dinner. One day while I was staying at his house I decided to surprise him with a very basic meal (frozen salmon fillets and sautéed bell peppers) and yet again, he was so happy and excited at the fact that I had done that for him. This is when I knew I was on the home stretch

STEP FOUR: Focus on the missing intimate piece, and make it your specialty

- This is what has him keep you around, doing the things that he needed but never got. don’t get me wrong, I’m not cooking this man dinner everyday, instead I switch it up and substitute certain actions. He loves affection, so when we’re sitting on the couch together ill lay my head on his lap, or hold his hand and stroke the side of his face. I’ve learned that simple shit like that makes him incredibly happy, which makes him incredibly generous.

STEP FIVE: Get Spoiled

- Now after giving him a taste of life with you in it, you need to give him a taste of how much your life costs. By now he’s showered you in nice dinners and gifts on the whim, but you’re here for the kill, you want a access to the finances and for him to get you whatever you want. For me, this was by far the easiest step out of all of them, I told him I wanted to go shopping and that I needed some stuff from Lush and Sephora (he had no idea what either of those places were) AND HERE IS WHERE YOU GET HIM. Make sure he sees how expensive it is just to be you, talk to him about your favorite products and what you need and use on the daily (hype them up in price too, like if you need foundation and you usually use L'Oréal, rave about the Gorgio Armani foundation instead) make it seem like your mere existence is expensive, by now this man wants to take care of you and wants to keep you in his life and therefore will do what it takes to keep you near and dear. Once he see’s how “hard” it is to be you, he will make it easier

At this point in my relationship with T, I am nearly moved into his house and have full usage of his ex-wife’s Lexus and his credit card, and tomorrow I get to meet his mother. Once you get on the right path of knowing what a man is missing in this life, you’ll be able to use that to your advantage and have him truly believe that you’re the woman of his dreams, even if you’re just a Faux Heaux :)

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Updates

So I'm practically with Leo SD he offered me a allowance plus trips and gifts of 2k per month. Since we got back from D.C. he bought me a new computer for work and sent me and my daughter to Disney. Last night he wrote me a check for my allowance and paid for my birthday trip. He's so generous, he then proceeded to fuck my mouth for over a hour. I swear he has a sexual appetite of beast. Big Poppa is officially out the picture and I honestly have fallen off. I guess I've fallen for Leo SD honestly.

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